Why doesn't r9k realize that most people with borderline personality disorder aren't abusive...

borderlines tend to be just as delusional as schizos

so what do you take? probably antidepressants

Why do people with bpd always tell everyone that they have it? Like why are you so sensitive that you even care what a bunch of virgin neets on Yas Forums think of you anyway? This is why no one likes people with bpd. I'll take your word that you're not abusing anyone right now (which is more than anyone else on this board would be willing to do for you), but you still sound like an annoying, whiny little bitch for getting offended over this shit. Log off Yas Forums and go work on your dbt skills, the only reason you're here is because you got offended, but won't let yourself log off because you need to feel validated. Go do like Marsha Linehan would teach you and validate yourself.

either that or a mood stabilizer most likely

I take SSRIs and an antipsychotic

Making a PSA is not a sign of being mentally unwell.

Nah, dude, it's not a psa, it's oversharing. People with bpd have a lack of identity and very low boundaries. They overshare with people the second they meet them because they have zero boundaries and as an attempt to try to manufacture intimacy with the other person. You know it's true.

It's not a psa to reveal to the world that you have a personality disorder. No one cares about your mental illness, why do you constantly feel the need to talk about it? Have some self-respect. You could go to therapy and take your psychopharmacology and live a normal life, but instead you're on Yas Forums trying to find someone to show you compassion because you can't show it to yourself. Don't you see? No one that loves and respects themselves constantly regurgitates their baggage. They keep it to themselves and find a healthy way to deal with it.

Answer me honestly, what did you hope to accomplish with this thread?

Thats what an abuser wants me to think

Quiet/High functioning BPDs aren't typically as abusive; as they are usually supressing/repressing their emotions/paranoia as opposed to impulsively acting and lashing them out.

Borderlines in general are abusive; just not out of malicious intent. It's due to interpersonal anxiety/paranoia and using unhealthy ways of preventing percieved fears and attacks from happening.

bpd are extremely manipulative and controlling. They gaslight you as well. They feed off suffering. They want to make everyone around them as miserable as they are. They're emotionally a child. They can't handle their emotions and let them control them.

if you go into a bpd relationship thinking "i'm going to save him/her!" or "I can handle them I know what I"m doing I'll be supportive of them!" You have absolutely no idea what you're getting into and I feel very sorry for you and I hope the worst thing that happens to you is that they just ghost/cheat on you.

bpd's tell you they have bpd so you'll lower your guard and think you will have a "one up" on them. Its an antiscam technique. It also lets them get away with acting like a autistic faggot. "Oh sorry I'm just switching teehee" Could also serve as a sort of thing people may take pity on you for. "Oh I have bpd I was raped by my uncle billybob my life is so tragic" see stuff like that will make most people feel sympathetic towards them. Of course all of that shit could be a complete lie since they just lie about everything. They'll say anything you want to hear.

There is also the possibility they're self diagnosed idiot trying to get sympathy points or use it as an excuse to act like a faggot

Then why do still try get close to people and have romantic pursuits?
If you didn't want to abuse them then you wouldn't get close to begin with.
You willingly continue to emotionally ravage and backstab people who trust you.

And that's why I hate them and won't touch a BPD hole with a ten foot pole. I can deal with the manipulation and mind games but I could never be an abusive Chad.

Good. There's someone for everyone and unless you're sure you want someone who will love you at the price of hating themselves you shouldn't try with someone with bpd.

bpd people literally want to be abused. They will beg you to hit them and shit its funny but kind of sad at the same time because you know the only way they can get off is by imagining their abuse and getting people to reenact it

because you guys are abusive
everytime you guys abuse me

Laypeople fundamentally misunderstand what BPD is.

People who've had interactions with BPD people, such as being in a relationship with someone that has BPD, will likely not have the knowledge in psychology to understand the behavior of their partner and will assume it's due to some kind of malice, when really BPD is just a bunch of different diagnosis that feed into each other and make up the personality disorder we know as BPD.
People with BPD aren't malicious by default, but they do have a higher risk of becoming malicious due to their disorder.

In conclusion, empaths should not date BPD people.

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Because one of my close friends dated a bpd girl and she exhibited every meme shit behavior bpd girls do

what would those meme behaviors be?

>i have bpd and im not abusive
>its everybody else thats the problem!
>how dare they not accept me for being a complete mental case?!
>fucking bastards, that's why i slash their tires and poison their dogs

never heard that they are abusive i thought these are just whiny faggots and depressed in denial

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