Is dating a NEET a bad idea? Do any other fembots have experience dating one...

>i can't tell if he's just using me
he is, whether he's doing it on purpose or not

Nope. You dont need to exercise and lift weights to have an attractive face, decent body, and be tall.

Having a decent body just requires not over-eating or having a functional metabolism. You dont need to lift to have a decent body.

Thats the thing with Chads, they're BORN, not MADE. There are 15 year old Chads who are taller and more manly than 30 year old average men without touching a weight.

Because that's what NEETs do. They procrastinate. They make false promises. They don't do anything in general.

I've been a NEET since 2004 (I'm )

I have NEVER made a false promise in my life. False promises isn't a NEET trait.

lol at thinking you can be chad-tier without working out.

"Decent body" on a guy needs working out. A sedentary dude will either end up auschwitz mode or skinnyfat and neither of those body types qualifies one to be a chad.

I understand that thinking chads are born is an effective cope but they do actually have to work to look hot.

A tall guy with a decent body and nice face is just a higher tier of normie. No girl is getting wet for some soft skinnyfat bod.

if he's not intentionally manipulating my feelings for his own benefit then i don't mind buying him things. i'm just not sure. we were both neets when we met

It isn't really up to me yet and she's basically adopting me. She doesn't need any providing either and wants to support me completely instead.
If a good chance arises then I will take it since I want to contribute but there's no reason for me to wageslave since she's well-off and doesn't want me to

why is he still and neet and your not now? are you a bit bitter you have to work and he does not?

>manipulating my feelings for his own benefit
He's may not be manipulating your feelings but he's not considering them either. No good person would be happy allowing someone to work all day to provide for them while never wanting to return the favor, that's selfish.