/sig/ - Self Improvement General

Why should I try to improve on perfection?
It is on the fucking women to grow up and recognize it instead of chasing low tier entertainment.

>improving for 3dpd wahmen
You're dumb stupid idiot imbecile.

Cook.
For the last years I lived with my dad and it is only gonna be healthy if I take it on me to cook. So here I go. Wish me luck anons.

No other reason to do any sort of shit for me, enjoy your mental masturbation.

>No other reason to live other than wymen.
This is why you're stuck here user.

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1. This is difficult to do because most people I know are low IQ and interested in vapid shit.

2. I can't smile. Not an open-mouth smile, anyways. The amount to which I can open my mouth/move my lips is only barely enough to see my teeth which aren't very large. That retarded-looking mutt from Stranger Things has a bigger smile than me.

3. This impresses no one. Everyone expects you to do this.

4. I do listen well, but I never know what to say. By the time I think of something, they've moved on. I'm too trapped in my own head to really spit anything back out when someone says something to me, I just think, "Okay, got it."

5. This is basically #1 and #4 combined.

6. I try doing this, but honestly, I fucking hate it when people do it to me. I know exactly how important I am and I feel suspicious of people when they keep telling me I'm so fucking great and I'm the only person they need around and so on. If that were really true, girls would be fucking me. It's not true, you just get the impression I'm feeling down and want to pick me up. Don't. My whole life people have been patting me on the back and giving me these cheap little pick-me-ups. Why don't you ACTUALLY pick me up and find me a girlfriend? Or do something else that'll fix my life? Because you don't actually give a shit, you just look at me feeling bad and it makes you feel bad so you want to stop it, so you tell me, "Hey, don't feel bad," for entirely selfish reasons. Well, fuck you, I don't need my boo-boos kissed, I need a fucking doctor.

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How to develop positive self talk?

So his advice is to pretty much be a cuck?

If you see people as vapid and stupid, why would you care about their opinions about you?

How did Dale Carnegie have a career?
I'm a literal sperg and I figured out that all the shit he says to do works just by talking to people. Do normies just like being told they're doing the right thing by books? Or did they genuinely not know?
>Implying Yas Forums aren't all larpers

Learning for med school acceptance test. This is incredibly hard for many reasons. I'm an "essential" wagecuck so my free time gets spent on studying. I'm always tired and exhausted. And I'm a friend-less gf-less basement-dwelling no-hobby loser too so I have no effective way to cope with all the pent-up stress and neuroticism. I have fallen behind my studies a few times already but I still try because I realized this is the only way out to a possible better place in life. Probably going to fail this year due to being a lazy retard. But there's next year to try and fail too in that case.

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Starting small again. Did 50 pushups, situps, squats 3x yesterday. Took a twenty minute walk today with the dog.

I love people and socializing - in my head. The actual people I meet end up massively disappointing me. I want friends, I want a girlfriend, I want to feel like I belong somewhere, but everywhere I go I just find the people disappointing.

This is partly my fault for becoming a NEET instead of going to college and being with like-minded people. I now work a minimum wage job surrounded by old ladies and brown people. Whenever I say girls don't like me, I'm being a little disingenuous because I haven't actually met a young white woman in like 16 years.

Is there any place you could meet like minded people?

well user this is much better than being a depressed suicidal cunt

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I imagine it's mostly about convincing people that his work has value and they should buy it, instead of his work actually being good.
It is a skill to sell stuff people don't need and he is probably a master of it.

>haha look at this loser incel genuinely trying to improve himself
Please go away.

There are none. Do a minimum wage job and learn how to code in the mean time before doing freelance jobs. If you gotta ask how to make money online with zero skills you're not gonna make anywhere near minimum wage. Your best option is gonna be doing surveys for gift cards.

IM GONNA IMPROOOOOV

You have to cut your negative feedback cycle as early as possible whenever you notice it happening. It is easy to get lost in thought and I recommend cognitive behavioral therapy which is standard with most shrinks to recognize and deal with hurtful thoughts. This shit saved me as an ex psychotic. Then you learn how to use positive thought VS negative thought and make it win, after a while you start doing this automatically. Really helped my confidence.

It's difficult to even know, really. Most people in my IQ range just go to college and get a good career. What kind of fucking retard would become a recluse and ruin their life like I did? People like me kill themselves, I guess, and I just pussied out.

When you are this low in extroversion and this high in neuroticism, going outside just doesn't make sense. You'll feel nothing but bad. Then people tell me, "Just go outside and meet people." Yeah, I'll meet extroverted, emotionally stable me. Not people like me. But even talking to people on the Internet doesn't pan out, because they all think I'm autistic.

And girls, you can just forget about that. There are no female equivalents to me. If a girl's intelligent, she goes to college. It doesn't matter how fucked up she is. And if she's neurotic, she whores herself out. And women are basically all extroverts.

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another day another self improvement cult thread

There are enough incentives and places to meet people with a higher IQ to put it quite coldly. Just a chess club for example, chess could be an interesting skill for anyone.

chess? is this a joke? lmao

Again, chess. You can autist all you want by focusing on just chess knowledge and skill without ever having to be extroverted about your life. Chess players usually are semi social spergs.

I've never had a real hobby or interest. I just get burned out too quickly. Whenever I try talking to anyone about anything, they know so fucking much about the subject it astounds me. I can't even imagine myself being so interested in something that I spend more than an hour a week on it and memorize all these names and dates and terminologies. I'm honestly impressed, but it makes me a bad participant in those discussions. I just don't have the energy to commit myself to things. It just doesn't feel good to me.

hey whats up guys, winner here again, why dont you self improvers just win? you spend too much energy trying, you just need to win