ITT worst mistakes you made with the opposite gender

When I think about it every mistake I've ever made has been because of the opposite gender

why would i lack self respect and pride, do you think i accepted getting cheated on?

The amount this person lied to me is statistically unlikely, sociopathic-tier. I know better now but yeah I made a fool of myself. Finally the concerned of pride and self-respect came up and even just moving on out of spite in the future when something similar happens. She's in a fucked situation now, so I guess what comes around goes around though

At the time I thought I did nothing wrong and just gave her what she has been begging me about for a while, I thought (logically) it would bring her closer to me and make the relationship stronger knowing how I tick and boy was I wrong.
Took me years to finally realize and accept the "opening up" meme is a sure way to flip the 'leave or cheat' switch in a woman's brain and a one way ticket to the end of the relationship no matter what.
Avoid at all costs, DO NOT fall for it and no matter what, bottle it up, put a big smile, and change the subject.

>she got me fired from my job, tried to go to her apartment to talk to her, kept texting her to be ignored, freaked out and went to her apartment again and started to have a panic attack, her brother came out and told me to leave

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>you two girls will blow us if us two guys will make out in front of you? fuck yes.
No blowjobs were received that day.

First of all, I'm not ugly, okay? So i was 16 y/o and this girl wanted to bang me and it was the perfect ocasion: we were on a aschool trip to Italy and we were in a hotel and my roomates knew about it so they left us alone in the room. She was trying to make do the first move but I was too scared and also didn't pick up on half of her indirect messages, like: Can you give me a massage?... I was very confused, lost and horny, and just when I was starting to grab some tiddy and ass a teacher knocked on the door saying: I know you're with a girl in there, you know the rules! Open the door now and I won't take action.
You don't even know anons... I UNDID HER BRA, SHE GOT BIG BIG MILKERS AND I FUCKED IT UP

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I could have had that teenage first experience, which would have made these past years easyer and I wouldn't be such a betafag FUUUUUUUUUU I HATE MYSELF SO MUCH!!

I think a lot of girls secretly love seeing a guy bear his misery like a man, there is probably something masculine and attractive about it to them, and the "begging" they do to get you to open up is just them dragging it out to make it more dramatic and emotional for them, like a movie. They are horny for their own emotions, that's why girls love starting shit for no reason in the workplace and with their "friends", they love the emotions and drama.

The worst mistake is talking to them at all

a girl took off her shirt in my room and i...gave her a back massage. i know, yes, i know.

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>picked a flower and brought it to her
>bought her an engraved pen for christmas
>said she is very beautiful
>always be supportive to her
>bought her more flowers for valentines day
>get her coffee
>come up with jokes to make her laugh
She is a coworker who has slept with almost every guy in the place except for me. Yes this is recent.

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I know man I blew it

I was too needy. Wanted her more than she wanted me, and let it show.

Honestly at least you went out with a bang, at leasst you have a story. its pretty funny too.

Bear in mind she repeatedly told me she loved me and asked me to marry her and that I did, "everything I could" under the pretense it was salvageable

Now her employer is likely to go out of business she's unemployed due to Corona and she ended things on the worst possible terms so one of the only people that could or would help her (me), isn't going to

You truly reap what you sow in this life

Why would someone do this with a chick they aren't dating? Explain why please. Curious about your mindset and how you think

95% not it only takes a right specific emotional guy at the right moment

I dated a girl who was below retard IQ level because of oxygen depravity at birth and I felt sorry for her and let my guard down
she played me like a fiddle I swear all those test and tricks are engraved into female DNA they fuck with our minds on subconscious level or hormones whatever the fuck thats wrong with females
never again never going to trust a femoid as long as I breathe

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fucking this.

>16
>love a girl since I was 8
>she becomes my girlfriend
>all we do is kiss and watch tv at her place
>she promises we'll after her 16th birthday
>2 months before it
>paired up with class slut for assignment
>she's sending all the right signals
>16 year old horny brain kicks in
>we make out and I touch her boob
>she offered a handjob but I wanted more and kinda kicked her out
>she tells girlfriend
>I say she came onto me and I kicked her out
>I mention 'letting my guard off' or some bullshit like that and she guilt trips me about it
>her 16th birthday party
>her best friend had a fight with his parents and is staying over
>everyone else left
>3 of us are kinda drunk
>he excuses himself like a bro and goes to the guestroom
>she says she wants us to have sex when we're sober, but we can 'do other things'
>I expect a blowjob
>she suggests tying me to the bed 'cause she wants to feel in control 'cause of her own issues
>I'm fine with it
>as soon as I'm tied up she says it'll be more fun with her friend joining
>I say I don't want it, and he probably won't either
>she says he has a 'mancrush' on me, and that it's her fantasy
>I'm obviously against it
>she says I owe her 'cause of the slut bit
>she also basically says if I don't she won't let me fuck her the next day
>go along with it expecting they'll suck me off together
>she calls him
>he enters the room seeing me tied up and naked asks if everything's ok
>she explains
>he asks me if I'm sure I'm ok with it
>and I reluctantly say I am
>she blindfolds me
>she lies on top of me
>69ing, I eat her out while she sucks me off
>he's awkwardly licking my balls and holding my thighs
>it's a little weird but feels kind of amazing
>she gets up and sits on my face
>it's hot but I can barely breath and I'm lowkey panicking
>he starts rimming me
>everything feels amazing but my dick feels neglected, and I'm so horny I start airhumping uncontrollably

>outofnowhere he puts a finger in my ass and starts sucking my dick at the same time
>I try to express my discontent but suffocated by pussy, it's like she purposefully tightened her thighs around my head
>the fellatio was kind of amazing but the finger sensation wasn't worth it
>I figure I'll just power through it and tomorrow we'll finally start having sex on the daily
>I get close to cumming, in spite of the finger
>like a complete asshole he stops sucking me off just as I'm edging
>takes out the finger
>I'm airhumping like mad
>I don't know how he managed to time and position it but as I'm uncontrollably thrusting I suddenly feel a sharp af pain
>can distinctly feel that he stuck his dick in my ass, like he's sitting under me
>I freak the fuck out
>he doesn't fuck me or anything, just painfully got ballsdeep in me and sat still
>after a solid 2 minutes of me feeling his pulse inside me
>he starts jerking me off, she's still barely letting me breath
>she starts touching herself while on top of me
>I get hard again, in spite of his dick
>she cums
>I'm already edging again just the sounds she's making
>she gets up
>starts whispering in my ear about how thankful she is about this and how much she loves me for doing this
>he starts moving in me
>I freak out
>she whispers to me to let go and go with it and how I'm fulfilling her fantasy and she'll do anything I'll want later
>I double check with her that she means anything and she does
>but then she says, if for tonight you'll really go with it
>I say I already am
>she says her ultimate fantasy is seeing me 'ride' him
>to me it seems just as awful as this, so I agree to it
>she uncuffs me
>I suddenly feel really bad about the situation but go along with it 'cause I'm that desperate
>get on top of him, ride through the pain
>she tells me to talk dirty to him about how much I like it/him/his cock/want his cum in me
>I try to play along
>he plays along too, way too enthusiastically
dumped me that morning

You act like it's a bad thing that that one got away, shouldn't you try to get rid of evil bitches like that in the first place?