If I were in a relationship I wouldn't let my boyfriend have female friends. Almost every time I've heard of someone cheating it was with a friend they had. And why else would he need friends of the opposite sex when he has me to begin with? Any other fembots agree?
If I were in a relationship I wouldn't let my boyfriend have female friends...
Then I'm perfect then because I don't have female friends...or any friends.
kill me
I don't even have any female friends so it works out
I know this is bait but not allowing him to have female friends won't stop him from cheating. He either is going to cheat or be loyal. All these rules and surveillance will do is make him be more sneaky.
Instead of placing restrictions on him maybe you should focus your energy on picking non-cheaters and then a great gf so he won't stay. You bitch whore.
God damnit. Pick non-cheaters and then BE a great gf so he won't STRAY.
You're ignoring the fact that people are animals, especially men. They're weak, they get urges and they cheat. And they do it with those close to them, their so-called "friends"
Often with "friends" it can start out as emotional cheating. After even a small disagreement, it's not rare for someone to go their friend of the opposite sex and talk badly about their partner, and look for validation and attention from that friend because they can't get it from their partner at the moment.
Luckily haven't had to deal with it much, because his only female friends are through a discord server and they don't even talk often. I do feel a tinge of jealousy when he talks with a woman more attractive than me though. I just try to hide it and if he ever gets a female friend I'm not sure how I would handle it, but I think I would just let it be unless it got weird. I don't think it's fair to just disallow female friends with no reason for it. I am also in a male dominated major in college so most people I interact with are male, which makes me feel like a hypocrite for feeling jealous when he talks to women. Although none of them are my friends because I have no fucking clue how to be friends with guys
I don't see why he'd want to.
That won't stop him from cheating lmao, no evidence to back it up but he's probably less likely to cheat on you if he can actually hold a stable platonic relationship with a female.
So I agree with you there. And a woman can use that to nudge her way in. I do believe the gf needs to work hard to be understanding and just not a bitch. But I do believe it's better for guys to be best friends with other guys and confide in other guys about relationships.
Let me be clear though. It's not because of some old fashioned reason or to prevent cheating. It's because women are retarded and cannot give men real advice.
>confide in other guys about relationships.
I don't get it. Why would you need to confide in anyone other than your partner about your relationship? That sort of thing should remain between the two of you.
That's fair. Both men and women succumb to it so if you're in a relationship you have to drop your opposite sex friends.
Isolation is a tactic of abuse. You should have a relationship where you encourage your partner to confide in a very few select trustworthy people. If you are doing things that you don't want them telling others about maybe you should reevaluate how you treat them. Of course there are exceptions and a good person wouldn't gossip or tell innocuous private things but you get the gist.
You shouldnt let him have any friends, you should be enough to satisfy that need. What purpose would other people serve?
Yeah if I caught my partner confiding in a woman for comfort from a fight, that's not okay. I would confront him about it. If he had a female friend that he did not do that with I would be fine with it though.
You can't just rule out half of the population for friendship material just because of insecurity
Why would a guy who has a gf want any other female friends? I sure wouldn't.
I'd be sad you didn't trust me and I'd do everything I could to make you realise you don't have to worry about things like that.
You'd be the only one for me.
Good men don't stray, period. They tell you they are no longer interested and leave you, then they heal and find someone else at the very worst.
However, there are very few good men left.
literally just keep the urge fucked out of me
I would only ever want to cheat if my gf didn't put out enough
if the sex keeps coming then not even a 10/10 would tempt me
The guys are out there, the current hetero social climate is not accommodating for them to approach women however.
99% of women aren't going to give you regular sex after the first few months
yeah I know I learned that one the hard way feels bad man
I genuinely makes me sad to imagine having a gf who is worried I would cheat on her.
I'd feel bad for not making her feel loved enough that she'd never doubt I'd be faithful to her forever.
You misunderstand. I don't want them telling others about the nice things I do. That shit is embarrassing.
>if I was in a relationship I would abuse my partner
Yeah okay then.
I mean it's fair that there might be certain individual females you want him to avoid because they're obviously bad news, but saying you won't let him have female friends at all is abuse.
I cheat all the time and there is fuck all you can do about it femalons. I'm not going to pass up pussy because I'm in a relationship. And you'll never know so why care.
What's the point of being in a relationship then?
I just get along better with girls, my only close friends I've had were all female
never had a gf though
Having a main pussy to fall back on and doing the lovey dovey shit. I can still be in love with someone and cheat, difference between sex for the hell of it or out of love.
No you can't. You can be in love with someone and fantasize about meaningless sex with other, but the moment you betray them by acting on those fantasies proves you don't love them.
Sounds fair, the last thing I would want is to make you feel bad in the relationship. I would gladly stop talking with other women if that's what you want.
I guess I have a different standard for love. Must be because I'm a filthy disgusting man femalol. (: