I found out this week I'm sterile. I don't know how to break the news to my fiance, because we planned to have children after we get married. This fucking hurts. It so unfair.
I found out this week I'm sterile. I don't know how to break the news to my fiance...
she's going to break up with you
That's what's lingering in the back of my head.
How could having kids within the next year or two even be a concern?
Survive until the vaccine and then worry about this petty shit
>fiance
>planned to have children
Lol, get fucked normie.
>fiance
>its so unfair
Get the fuck out
>I found out this week I'm sterile
good
>I don't know how to break the news to my fiance
fiance, pp is kill
>we planned to have children after we get married
you still can
oh man, im so sorry for you. Get ready for the worst case scenario.Maybe if you tell your fiance as soon as posible, the less damage you will do to eachother, trust me in this one, mate.
Provided this is not just bait, any person worth being married to is not going to up and leave over this. It might lead to some difficult conversations, maybe even feelings but if they actually left you I'd personally doubt if they were worth being with in the first place.
Just me, though. Yas Forums and r9k is probably not the place you should consult about this first, it's going to stir delusion and restlessness in you. It is not healthy and I think you're setting yourself up for failure. I hope things turn out well fren.
>I found out this week I'm sterile.
howd you find out?
At least I self improved instead bitching like a fucking nigger
Don't worry she can just have a nigger impregnate her with his superior genes for you.
At least I won't have to look my wife in her eyes and tell her that I've failed as a man.
big words for a sterile "man"
Dumb as shit bro. Having kids is a big deal for some people and if someone is unable to do that, it can be a big deal breaker.
I'm sorry man. This is something I fear as well, even though I'll likely never be married.
I think it's important you tell her, as hard as it will be.
Lmfaonot him but you guys are some real bitter ass niggers. Holy fuck. I'm realizing robots are just like niggers. Constantly pulling each other down, calling anyone trying to do better a normie (blacks call any black doing better acting white) etc baka baka
It's alright your wife can still have a kid, it won't be yours though. You'll be cucked by a turkey baster
maybe youre the nigger here perhaps?
If you still wanna have kids you can adopt op
at least then you know you will be saving a kid from the shit hole that is foster homes
You got it tho op
I hope it goes good for you
Sterility can be remedied by supporting the people you like or adopting kids. You dont directly pass on your genes but you indirectly pass on genes through the community
just adopt
duh
1) acquire jizz from relative
2) sneak it into her somehow
3) PROFIT
>we planned to have children after we get married
Sorry to break it to you OP, but you'd be the ULTIMATE piece of shit by forcing her to marry you. And Im not even being hyperbolic.
At its base, biological beings want to breed. To pass on their genes. To have children and raise them, preferably with the persons who biologically sired them.
This cuck over here is trying to make you cope. "any person worth being married to" lol nigga fertility is one of the very few things that SHOULD be taken for granted when pursuing romantic relationships, unless you're one of those retarded anti-natalists or psychopathic people who hate children, the expectation when getting into a heterosexual relationship is that the two people will have sex, get creampied, and birth children to raise.
By telling a woman who expects to have kids that you're fertile and hoping that she stays out of "love" is manipulative. You're basically forcing the ultimate compromise, the culling of not one, but two bloodlines. You were genetically castrated, and you're asking her to voluntarily sterilize.
No matter how much love, no matter how "understanding" she is, that seed of pure biological resentment at being forced to forgo her biological imperative will be planted. Even if she never shows or tells you, its definitely, 100% there at the bottom of her heart.
If you had any morality, you'd break up with her and wish her the best, or if you were really determined, you'd spend 10s of thousands on fertility treatments for ANY miniscule chance of getting your sperm back.
Good luck
Damn bro that is fucked I am sorry to hear that. I do not really see much of a point of life other then to not pass on your genes. I am really sorry to say that but you need to tell her. You can not hide it from her she has a right to know. I hope she does not break your heart I hope she has a good soul and can accept it. I guess you can always adopt or have her go to a sperm bank but that is going to be very hard for you to deal with I am sure. Fuck bro this bums me out for you. You should get a second opinion but you do need to tell her user.
he went to the doctor i presume
is it forever, user? cheer up
What kind of condition do you have? There are medical procedures that would help you make a child.
>comes to board known for its lonely losers
>talks about having a loved one
>expects sympathy here
enjoy raising someone elses child
having children is literally the entire purpose of marriage so who knows
Fuck man, oh my god. I can't imagine what you're feeling right now...
Whatever you say, sterile loser. It was all for nothing, and this was all preventable.
Don't marry anyways, you dodged a bullet. Use the money you would've on a kid, and eventual divorce rape and buy yourself something nice. Fuck, you don't even need to pay for a vasectomy now, so you can nut guilt free in any girl you want.
But yeah, let's just cry over the fact you can't be a slave anymore instead.