Have you ever actually asked a girl out in person? not through text or online

have you ever actually asked a girl out in person? not through text or online.

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no, that's rape, and her boyfriend will be 2 feet away around the corner ready to spring out to loudly humiliate me

yes I did 7 years ago. she lied and said she had a bf

That is assault.

Yeah. She came on to me. She then lost interest after the first date but dragged things out far longer because she didn't have the guts to tell me to fuck off but felt sorry enough for me not to ghost me.

Fucking dreadful experience.

She said sure and then nothing came out of it, this was about 3 months ago

Kinda, didn't really know her at first but broke the ice by directing the conversation that we should go out on a date. She avoided me for two months. After that got super flirty out of nowhere. Decided its best to cut contact because she was kinda wierd with social interactions. Later found out she is a cam whore with no direction in life and a alcoholic. All you guys complain on here about not having someone but some truth is some girls are losers and will only bring your self improvements down with her.

I never have, because I am not a faggot.

Nope, even if I weren't afraid to talk to girl IRL I've neve rmet one I could picture myself getting along with

When I was 10. There was a girl who honestly was more or less in my league looks wise, her friend group slightly overlapped with mine slightly and I saw her outside of school sometimes and had fun. Didn't speak with her much directly, but I fit with the group.

I don't know what inspired me, but during playtime I just walked up to her as she was sitting with just one other friend so I thought it was safe to ask her out. She said no (fairly diplomatically, iirc). Her friend thought it was hilarious. Everyone was making fun of me about it for a good few weeks. The experience crippled me for many years. I think the effects were temporary, I'm still a mess now but I wouldn't say that single experience was the reason.

My theory at the time was that because she was with her friend, the safe option was to say no instead of risking judgement for accepting my offer. Really though, she probably would have turned me down anyway.

>have you ever actually asked a girl out in person? not through text or online.
why would I do that?

yes, twice. we went on a pity date and never talked again (this was in high school). the other time, she lied and said she had a bf and I never saw her again.

I have asked a girl out 3 times and I am 1/3 in getting a yes. That one yes led to a date where she barely talked and seemed disinterested and made me feel like she only said yes because she didn't know how to say no.

im the type who doesn't get second dates, it's not about the getting the first date.
i either bomb the first date or flake out after. i'm not good at or built for modern dating. i'm more of a court you, then we eventually get married after a couple years.
the thing is, if i'm not trying to court you, that means i don't want to marry you.
every woman i dated wasn't a courtship, it was just random bullshit where she slowly opened up/lied over the course of way too much wasting of my time, in short.
they waste too much time and bullshit around too much, it's immaturity and modern "dating" that just excuses most of their behavior.

No. I'd probably get tazed and shot on sight. Approaching as an ugly male is just asking for trouble

Pretty much when I was in high school only, since online communication was still fairly new.

>First girl I asked out
Laughed in my face
>Second girl I asked out
Told me she wasn't interested
>Third girl I asked out (Second Girl's friend)
Said yes, and we dated for about a year
>Fourth girl
Said yes, dated for a week and broke up
>Fifth girl
Said yes, dated for a few months, broke up.

yes. plenty of times. also had the opposite happen to me. normal shit

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No but my hero is this guy I saw on HBO or something. It was a documentary wish I knew the name! He lived in NYC and would hit on every hottie and have a date every night of the week! He was average as fuck and would run after every pretty girl he saw.

No, Im an ugly weirdo and I dont want to go to jail.

No girls ask me out

Yes, lots of them. All no's.

Yeah, she said sorry and she was seeing someone else, really cool girl. From the tales here I was expecting an ew or getting laughed at.

If you never have, you're alone by choice.

> if you are poor and never tried buying a lambo, you just dont have it because you dont want one

It doesnt take a genious to know when to approach (meaning when you have a chance).
Females give hints when they want you to ask them, if they give you none, its better to save you the pain and just not try at all.

yes in person. they both laughed at me and now i refuse to be open about my emotion in any vulnerable state that would allow me to relive that self esteem crushing moment

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>assault
I honestly can't even tell if these are jokes anymore

dont assault a girl user, stay safe out there

This happened to me as your girl history, but im a boy

Yes but I stopped once I realized how manipulative and disingenuous it was on part of both of our respective positions. Essentially I use to just do it because it's one of those when I say this I mean something else, sort of like when someone is mad at you and angrily tells you not to worry about it or "it's no big deal". I realized what I was saying is "I want to have sex" and she's convenient for that at that time. Then I've found they're doing it on their part for typically multiple reasons that are manipulative, so most if not all girls consider it slutty if a girl has sex with a guy and they don't have a formal relationship. If they have sex with their boyfriend that's okay to them in their thoughts and isn't slutty. Then to add on that I found they were trying to throw in implied obligations from dating without actually discussion of finer details or explinations of what that entails to begin with, you know the small print of a contract. Then I noticed that was typically on purpose because they want to re-negotiate and apply rules arbitrarily because they want to manipulate and use you as a marionette puppet or useful idiot if you will.

My high school girlfriend that I got in my last year. A chinese girl that was blatantly flirting with me at my job, and another girl I thought was flirting with me at my job but was just being nice (turned out she was a lesbian) though the other two said yes.

>I realized what I was saying is "I want to have sex" and she's convenient for that at that time.

This is why I can't approach girls, you're basically just asking for sex in a roundabout way.

These are the two reasons I don't show interest in girls

>None have ever shown any interest in me

>I am the opposite of what women want both in terms of appearance and personality, so asking "Do you want to spend time and possible have sex with me" is retarded