>tfw no clingy, obsessive girlfriend who'd be willing to spend every waking moment with me in exchange for my unlimited love and attention
This is the ideal relationship right here. Having someone to talk to all day every day while also acting affectionate towards each other would be the absolute best thing in the universe. I'd cherish such a person forever.
>inb4 "You don't want this, it's horrible boo hoo"
I'm sick of hearing this. People who say stuff like that have no idea what loneliness is like. I'd give anything for someone to be legitimately obsessed with me. I've got a lot to offer, I just need to find the right person.
Tfw no clingy...
Cameron Jones
Hunter Ramirez
I want this too, but girls are wired to dislike you if you desire that, so this is just not possible.
Austin Powell
There are different models of bonding - typically seperated into tightly bonding and loosely bonding.
The lack of attention during childhood leads to a tightly bonding relationship behavior and vice verca.
You seem to have gotten *very* little attention during your childhood. I would even go as far as to claim that abuse was in the mix.
This leads to you being very needy of love - which is normal for your childhood, but consider that most people don't experience a childhood like you did (thank god).
Your opinion on the ideal relationship is an isolated one. On the bright side you'll be attracted to conventionally unattractive girls which increases your chances of happiness.
Tyler Hernandez
i thought the same until girls were attempting suicide because i was busy, grass is always greener my friend.
David Evans
I want that, give me their contact.
Oliver White
How can you know what you want when you've never had anything?
Daniel Wright
you're just a kid with no experience yet. Obsessive people are annoying on the long run. Since you're still a kid, I'll give you 3 months before you give up.
Charles Nguyen
>I want that, give me their contact.
perfect guy to obsess over right here ladies
Cameron Wood
>girls are wired to dislike you if you desire that, so this is just not possible.
This is the most painful part
>You seem to have gotten *very* little attention during your childhood. I would even go as far as to claim that abuse was in the mix.
You're not far off at all, satan
>On the bright side you'll be attracted to conventionally unattractive girls which increases your chances of happiness
This is also true. Looks don't matter to me at all, I just want my partner to be affectionate.
I wouldn't say all obsessive girls are the same. I'd still like to try it out.
>How can you know what you want when you've never had anything?
All I have are dreams and ambitions
>Obsessive people are annoying on the long
run
That's just your point of view though. Everyone desires different things from a partner.
Andrew Flores
None's perfect, and neither are you, now hand the pussy in the bag.
Connor Sullivan
>All I have are dreams and ambitions
You're looking for a dream. Dreams don't exist in the real world and rarely make a lot of sense. You're just asking to be either perpetually lonely or gravely disappointed.
Jordan Torres
>None's perfect, and neither are you, now hand the pussy in the bag.
no the user your originally replied to lmao.
Easton Phillips
>You're looking for a dream.
Aren't we all?
>You're just asking to be either perpetually lonely or gravely disappointed.
Is wanting a relationship like this really impossible in the current year? I think I'd rather be lonely than having my partner be some distant, emotionless drone
Aiden Butler
i feel you op, i had a very fusional relationship with my best friend plump
i wanted to spend every hour of the day with him but since it was not irl and i was too much of a mess it stopped
to this day i'm still trying to gain contact to him, but i don't even know if he still post (i check archive i think e still does) but even if e did it sure he ignore me
what did i do to deserve such a tragic fate ? he wasn't a bf/gf but if he asked me i could have blown him all day, to make him happy i wanted a friend ...
Bentley Rodriguez
>Is wanting a relationship like this really impossible in the current year?
That's not what I said. You could probably find someone who's obsessed with you. But if you did you would find out why people generally don't like overly clingy people.
>I think I'd rather be lonely than having my partner be some distant, emotionless drone
Why do you immeadiately go to the opposite extreme? The world isn't binary.
Caleb Ortiz
I hope you'll be able to reunite with your friend someday, if not, I hope you're able to meet someone else who'll make you happy. Best wishes to you, user
>But if you did you would find out why people generally don't like overly clingy people.
That's like assuming I also dislike clingy people just because people generally do. I get your point, user, but I'd rather try to find someone like that and see things for myself rather than not doing anything and live a life of regret.
>Why do you immeadiately go to the opposite extreme? The world isn't binary.
Okay, you're right about that. I was just trying to say that someone who loves showing affection would make me feel happier and more fulfilled than someone who doesn't.
Eli Robinson
begging is going to get you nowhere.
besides posting on r9k what have you actively done to get one?
Xavier Taylor
>I was just trying to say that someone who loves showing affection would make me feel happier and more fulfilled than someone who doesn't.
That's totally fine, I do too, but what you're looking for isn't just that. You want someone to always be there, to always talk to and so on. You need to live your own life and let them do the same. It's a meme but I think you should try and see a therapist to work out your emotional issues.
Adam Perry
>besides posting on r9k what have you actively done to get one?
Working towards improving myself as a person. That's all I can do currently during the lockdown unfortunately.
>You need to live your own life and let them do the same. It's a meme but I think you should try and see a therapist to work out your emotional issues.
Maybe I should, user. But I don't know, would a therapist really be able to "cure" my need to love and be loved by someone 24/7? I'll see if I actually have that "obsessive love disorder" condition at least.
Austin Ortiz
>Working towards improving myself as a person. That's all I can do currently during the lockdown unfortunately.
so basically nothing?
you have absolutely nothing to offer but a bag of mental illness and your cock in your hand.
how are you self improving as a person during this lockdown?
Luis Green
thanks for ghosting me and good luck with your search!
Jose Lewis
You admitted to getting very little attention during your childhood and I would bet that expresses itself in more ways than just your need for obsessive love. So I definitely think it's worth a try. Good luck
Cooper Reed
>how are you self improving as a person during this lockdown?
Working out, eating healthier, picked up some good literature, started meditating in order to clear my mind. It may not seem like a lot to you, user, but I am trying.
Thank you, user. I will definitely give it a shot and see if that puts me on the right track.
Kevin Jones
>Working out, eating healthier
so you are out of shape ugly fuck?
>picked up some good literature
take it you are got nothing to offer in lieu of a conversation? so are trying to get a plagiarize a personality?
>started meditating in order to clear my mind
again you slow? retarded?
>It may not seem like a lot to you, user, but I am trying.
it's not about me, it's about the girl you want to impress have obsess over you.
Robert Peterson
I'd like someone like that too, but haven't really had any luck getting anyone interested.
I don't think I'm that bad or boring, people even say I look good. I can't really seem to form that tight of a bond with anyone though.
Not sure how I can fix whatever's wrong and get someone to fall for me that way.
Living in the small town equivalent of a country doesn't help, even if I'm never gonna have to worry about money as a result. That stuff can't buy you love though.
Joshua Bell
tfw clingy to the point of being an obsessed werido so I just creep people out
Eli Brooks
>so you are out of shape ugly fuck?
I used to box but the gym's close at the moment so I can't do that for a while. That's why I'm trying to stay in shape while inside.
>take it you are got nothing to offer in lieu of a conversation? so are trying to get a plagiarize a personality?
It depends. I've got en endless supply of knowledge regarding obscure Japanese media but I'm pretty dumb when it comes to anything else. I usually can carry a conversation well, though
>again you slow? retarded?
Maybe? Just trying to be at peace with myself
>it's not about me, it's about the girl you want to impress have obsess over you.
Fair, although I'm not entirely sure what kind of guys obsessive girls are into
>Living in the small town equivalent of a country doesn't help
I relate to this so much it hurts. Godspeed, fren
You just haven't found the right people yet, user. Don't beat yourself over it.
Julian Ortiz
>I've got en endless supply of knowledge regarding obscure Japanese media
the ladies into that shit son.
>but I'm pretty dumb when it comes to anything else.
not so much into that.
>Maybe? Just trying to be at peace with myself
you should try being yourself instead. How many times does that need to be said?
>Fair, although I'm not entirely sure what kind of guys obsessive girls are into
Not you guys like you.
Colton Martinez
>the ladies into that shit son.
I sure hope so, otherwise who will I show all my favorite 80's OVAs to?
>not so much into that.
I do have surface level knowledge on a large majority of topics, but a lot of them don't interest me enough to explore further.
>you should try being yourself instead. How many times does that need to be said?
That's sound advice. I always stay true to myself because I want someone to like me for who I am, not for some image I've created for myself.
>Not you guys like you.
Guess I'm screwed then, anony
Jace Robinson
So lonely ahh can someone just talk to me for a little bit
Anthony Taylor
pls brothers