>october 2019
>girl shows interest
>attempt an approach
>she rejects me
>shows interest again a month later
>rejects me again but I'm not mad
>decide I am okay with being just her friend
>write her on facebook that we can be friends
>no answer
>see her in february 2020
>she sees me and changes route to avoid me
>get a little pissed off
>everybody is locked down and I am bored
>today I sent her a message to ask her why she did all of the above
What do you think is she gonna answer?
Get a clue, you fucking creep.
Have sex incel
niggeranime
She won't.
You misread everything after the initial rejection and then proceeded to come off as creepy afterward. She tried to subtly give you the hint, but you didn't take it. The smart move would have just been to ignore her and move on.
Don't feel bad about it. Take it as a learning experience.
Nah, I am no creep, I am almost a cool guy. 6 feet tall, did boxing and I am surprisingly not autistic even if I post here.
I don't know what I did wrong. Then again maybe she is just messing with me
Maximum copeness
Shut up woman.
Origimu
No, you don't get it. First time she saw me she was definitely happy to see me if you know what I mean.
And I did not imagine her staring at me one month later. I just don't know what I did wrong, I also think she might not answer at all, but make no mistake, I might not have moved on but she is the one acting weird here.
op.
you approached and she's not interested.
women are whores which says more about them than about you, but that's the way it is.
Kek, but it's true
>you approached and she's not interested.
Yeah, I realized that, I just want to know why the mixed signals and why she was an asshole later
Girl showing interest like that does not mean she is genuinely interested in you, yes they will fuck with your mind and feelings. If rejected the first time then you cut her off and move on.
They still do it after high school?
To be fair, the first rejection I kinda deserved and we barely knew each other
Yes, I had same thing happen in University. Girl was coming onto me strongly, gave me every signal she liked me. When I asked her she said no and became hostile, I cut her off and she became more desperate. Some girls just enjoy rejecting guys, it gives them a good feeling
>When I asked her she said no and became hostile, I cut her off and she became more desperate.
You just described what she did. Except I was stupid enough to try again.
>she was definitely happy to see me if you know what I mean
What *do* you mean, a bulge popped up in her pants or what!?
>And I did not imagine her staring at me one month later
Maybe you had a booger on your face. Or she was just daydreaming and looking your way. Give us more info, I still think you might have read too much into it at the start
Not going to respond, max you will be left on seen or read. Had the same exact thing happen to me, kind of fucked me up and attracted me to this place. You really remind me of myself, I'm tall too, not terribly autistic, we both had the courage to ask at least, even if it got us nowhere. As other anons said, treat this as a learning experience.
Wait though, she didn't become hostile. We simply feigned(?) indifference
>What *do* you mean, a bulge popped up in her pants or what!?
I was wearing my suit because I had a career day that day. Walked in, I looked at her and she smiled like some women do when I dress like a human being.
>Give us more info
We had a class together and she saw me 3 days a week for 2 hours. I saw her around uni at some point during this time and since she rejected me I actively avoided her. I think she noticed and that's when she started staring at me as if I were going to war next day. I pretended to be indifferent, waited a week and then tried again. Rejected.
We'll see, sorry to hear it happened to you too
stop bothering her you oblivious retard
No, I want to know and I have nothing to do anyway. She could have acted like a human being if she wanted to be left alone.
>I actively avoided her. I think she noticed and that's when she started staring at me as if I were going to war next day
Ok maybe she was like "omg what's wrong with me what have I done" and trying to figure it out, yet still not interested just afraid she did some autistic thing on accident? Usually I'd say forget all about her and go out and mingle (suit-wearing boxer sounds like you have some things going for you), but we're all trapped inside and our minds are messing with us. Everyone is craving some attention from the opposite (or whatever) sex at this point
she rejected you what, two or three times and then avoided you?
i think you legitimately might have autism user these are more than enough social cues (which is what normal human beings give)
she won't answer user
Probably just going to ignore you like my ex.
Sent a completely innocuous friendly message because I was catching up with people in my boredom and she never responded. The moody cunt.
That's true. Women love it when men are in pain. It sexually arouses them to get off at others expenses.
Women have a long history of luring single men into giving them flowers to fuck their boyfriend on top of and other strange games like this. It's a very common thing and it makes them uncontrollably horny.
Why do you even care user, you should be fucking her best friend and then sending her pics not asking her what you did wrong. Simping is a choice, and one you should always reject
>Ok maybe she was like "omg what's wrong with me what have I done" and trying to figure it out, yet still not interested just afraid she did some autistic thing on accident?
I didn't even consider it. After the first attempt we never spoke again in private so there was only one thing that she could have done wrong. She certainly wanted to attract my attention. I don't know, maybe I did misunderstand the situation but I doubt it.
>gives contradicting social cues
>doesn't expect to be asked about it
She could have thought about it before baiting me
Bro you just haven't taken the black pill yet. This is what women like doing to men and they will continue doing it to you until you find a partner or affirm your masculinity by having sex with multiple women. If you just go to the gym a lot and get jacked you'll be able to hook up with tinder thots on a near-nightly basis.
I am stuck at home, and it's been like this for 42 days now for me.
I still cannot teleport away from here, though I would really like it
This happened to me op she rejected me and ignored me for a month. She then got desperate or something and was really flirty like sitting really close to me and shit. I worked with her so ignored it because she was confusing as fuck. See her two years later on tinder and she is a 23 arthoe with no accomplishments and I got a job paying 70k. Op just focus on your shit fuck women.
>text a girl on my course
>she wouldn't reply for days
>see her on campus and she pulls out her phone saying "haha I didn't see your message :p" despite her being online every time I am
>just ghosts me from then
>is one of the first people to send me a happy birthday text, doesn't put it on fb wall like 99% of normies
>try to start convo from that message
>ghosted again
I don't know what to make of it. When we had our first lecture of the year I swear I could feel her burning a hole in the back of my head and I would always catch her staring. It doesn't really matter now anyway but it's something bothers me occasionally.