Importance of money/income

How important is money/income when you're looking for a partner?
Does him/her being poor factor a lot into them being kinda pointless to trying to get to know closer since they probably have other problems in life too?
Does a decent income with a stable job and good savings make him/her more attractive to you, since that usually points to being not a complete fuckup?

Please answer whether you're male or female and if you're talking about normies or "online people". I'm curious about the differences.

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i would rather have a poor girl to become a stay at home wife, because i am a lazy piece of shit and i hate doing chores. i make decent money anyway

niggerwoman kys

i'm not bothered about a girls income in the slightest, infact, if she grew up with more money then she is more likely to be a bitch and probably only want me for my money.
If you look at the divorce rates in countries where people don't have as much money, its lower and theres a larger sense of family.

Buy a horse from a rich family, and take a wife from a poor family.
t. Old estonian grandmas

Male here.
Wouldn't even consider dating a poor person. Mostly just because I'd want to be able to leech off my partner's money like a lazy fuck. Ideally they'd be rich to the level where neither of us would really need to work.
Sadly, it seems like it's easier and more accepted for women to "marry up" like this than men.

How do I get neetbux in the US? How much can I expect to make? Can I go back to work at any time? Original comment

can't believe robot wouldn't let you post that.
cut you're dick off and we have a deal, mate

I refuse to become a housewife, so it's not imperative to me that he earns more than I do. I care more about whether or not he's doing something that genuinely interests him.

OP here.
Ideally I'd want both of us to have an income and we can pool it together to have great vacations every year, be able to afford a lot of nice stuff and just be financially secure.
I imagine doing chores together is better than doing them alone, so it could be split one person doing X and the other Y. And on weekends we'd both have time for eachother.

>Sadly, it seems like it's easier and more accepted for women to "marry up" like this than men.
Financially that's just how it is thanks to men earning more on average in most countries.
Like, as long as there is a wage gap this will be the case on average.

>Ideally I'd want both of us to have an income and we can pool it together to have great vacations every year, be able to afford a lot of nice stuff and just be financially secure.
>I imagine doing chores together is better than doing them alone, so it could be split one person doing X and the other Y. And on weekends we'd both have time for eachother.
I think our ideal is pretty similar, except more of an emphasis on kid(s). Eventually, anyway. Being a housewife would drive me insane, and I don't like the imbalance that it creates. I've heard way too much about breadwinners lauding the fact that they're the breadwinner over the person who stays at home.

I wouldn't want to have kids, no. I have a niece and nephew that I love, but I don't see myself having kids. At least not in the foreseeable future.

The breadwinner talk might be a cultural thing, I've never heard something like that from anybody I know, at least not in a harmful way. Besides, the gf/wife of my male friends work too at least to some degree.

>breadwinners lauding the fact that they're the breadwinner over the person
The phrase you're looking for is "lording over", not "lauding over".

Not at all important if i am the top id love to date a cute poor neet femboy twink tomboy or ftm
If a guy wants me to stay home and be doing chores then id expect him to have money though but just so we can live and eat and such wealth is not important

>breadwinner
my parents argue probably just as much as any. but not even once did my parents argue about money, even when shit really hit the fan in 2008 and they almost lost their house. they were obviously stressed about the situation, but neither accused the other of not making enough money or spending too much. i'm not sure what i'm trying to say, probably i don't get the breadwinner arguement

>the wage gap meme

lauding over is correct though, you imbecile

Buuhuhuhump

Male, and a girl with money is most a turnoff.
If she was born rich, she has likely never really learned to deal with shortage or not getting her way. If she is high income she is likely career-driven and unfeminine, and I would not want that attitude and competitive bullshit in my relationship. I would have more patience in helping fix a fuck-up out or accepting a NEET girl than dealing with any company culture female.

So you just want a living fleshlight, gotcha.

Gladly, if it can cook and say "fuck me harder Daddy".

I barely make ends meet, work a minimum wage job, and live in a tiny apartment in a rough area. So for me money doesn't really matter too much when looking for a partner. I was homeless before and it humbles you, in a way.
>Please answer whether you're male or female and if you're talking about normies or "online people"
Female, whether they're normies or otherwise my opinion doesn't really change.

If you don't mind saying, how did you end up homeless and how did you manage to work your way into society again?

My mother and her partner kicked me out after I got into a fight with him, though they'd been abusive for as long as I can remember. I was homeless for a while but with some help from a homeless youth group I got placed into this apartment with assistance until I could get work. It's not great but it's better than being on the streets I guess.

Good that you were able to turn your life around.

And fuck your parents for abandoning you.

>they'd been abusive for as long as I can remember
not getting you birth control isn't abuse

I'm better off without them anyway, even on the streets it was preferable. But yeah maybe stuff will start getting better soon, who knows.
No but getting beat senseless regularly is.

Just ignore the worthless incel.

Or she will be full un-bitch because she already grew up in money and feels like life isn't about material things.

Don't believe me? Look at Warren Buffet's grandaughter. She doesn't care.

Only she will care a very noticeable lot if she suddenly can't have everything she wants.
And I would rather not be the one who has to endure the tantrums.

I'm a guy and I dont think I would really care as long as their heart was in the right place...
I feel like if they had no money they might be using me just for my money and not actually love me.