My boyfriend cheated on me with an escort...

My boyfriend cheated on me with an escort. His excuse: he needed his sexual needs met since I haven't been giving him sex regularly (we still have sex once every two weeks) and since he's paying for her and there's no emotional attachment involved it's not necessarily cheating and that I shouldn't feel betrayed. I am. I do feel betrayed and I can't stop crying right now because he crossed boundaries and he doesn't care enough about my feelings to understand how this affects me, instead he's justifying it and seeing that he did no wrong.

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That is cheating
He's trying to manipulate you
Break up with him

Break up with him retard

>we still have sex once every two weeks
That is laughable and I would break up within a month getting that little sex.
But yeah cheating is cheating, break up time.

Go to reddit and post your shit there. Oh wait, this board is worse then reddit already...

What this user said.
He's pulling the wool over your eyes. You need to seriously prioritize yourself in this situation.

yikes. you have 3 options here really: break up with him because hes a cheating nigger, continue being his gf and let him fuck escorts, or continue being his gf and just fuck him more often.

Why are the anons of today so vulnerable to obvious bait threads?

It would be fair if he had talked to you about it first.
He had a valid stance before he did it in secret but being in a committed relationship requires more than just self-indulgence.
He's not necessarily a terrible person in theory but there isn't much in your post that seems to redeem him. Seeing as he's gone and prioritized his needs over yours, you can't be blamed for prioritizing your own need to leave over his need to try and repent or some shit.
Why did I explain this to a larping guy.

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He's right though, why did you give him sex only once every two weeks, do you not like him or something ? Don't act surprised when masturbation don't make it anymore for him, what do you want, frustrate him for life ?

You're being cheated on and you're being gaslighted.

Until you overcome your own insecurities or doubts about yourself, you'll forever cling to the idea that you're the one at fault (because your boyfriend had plenty of time to resolve the lack of sex if they wanted to raise the issue with you) because you think that you somehow are the source of issues in a two person relationship.

It is cheating and he should've broken up with you instead, but you can't criticize him for not understanding how it affects you when you're not understanding how the lack of sex affects him.

LOL leave him no future now.
Trust me leave it will be better for you

Your boyfriend is scum for just cheating and not talking with you and working out the issue first, but once every two weeks is pretty shitty to be honest. Overall, I say drop him, but in your next relationship either find someone with a low sex drive or put out more, because most guys will not be satisfied with your current output

>once every two weeks
Jesus fucking Christ that poor man, I don't blame him for hiring an escort. Maybe he should've broken up with you before doing so but still, he had needs that you very obviously weren't fulfilling. I'd say it was within his rights to have sex with someone else.
Nice simping guys, try a little harder and maybe she'll send you some feet pics
Based

>once every two weeks
unless you have a newly developing medical condition that prevents you from having sex or makes it otherwise very painful FUCK off

fuck me, that'll show him

I know this is bait but I'll contribute
my gf didnt sleep with me for 3 months before I started visiting escorts shortly after that I broke up with her whiny ass and blamed everything on her
simply because who the fuck does she think she is I am not someone who you can say no to without consequences

kys niggerwoman

good. he's gonna do it again. he stopped caring how it affects u cus u stopped caring how withholding sex affects him.

>we still have sex once every two weeks
That isn't often, but he also has no right to demand sex from you.
You absolutely betrayed and cheated on you since you two clearly didn't talk about this before for some sort of arrangment.

Your opinion isn't relevant or interesting for anybody, incel.

I think you're lost buddy, this is Yas Forums. You're looking for reddit.com/r/relationshipadvice.

user, most people like fucking multiple times per day, not once every 14

So break up with him
You shouldn't need a thread on Yas Forums to give you relationship advice as simple as "don't date a cheater", especially when he isn't even sorry for fucks sake

Try being a good girlfriend and maybe he won't have to go elsewhere. What did you expect? You're an expensive room mate if you are fucking him so infrequently.

This. We're robots not monsters and we do practice what we preach as best we can. Dump the cheating cunt

Kill yourself you fucking useless walking fleshlight

> two weeks

He is a dick, but any man with a even a little of self respect would have left that relationship.

Kekkin, doesn't feel so good, does it foid?

funny how you can always tell which user is an incel
it runs so deep in their mind

Men need sex to manifest ambition.

>withholding sex
yikes user, yikes