Anyone else regret not being forceful enough against their perpetrator of sexual abuse / molestation / assault / rape?
I kind of let it happen
I think it depends whether you were a kid or adult when it happened
and no I wasn't a kid so maybe I just wanted it.
If you didn't kill him/her or at least sued the cunt doing it it wasn't real rape and you're a pushover.
Shouldn't blame someone for your cowardly attitude if you're too much of a pussy to say no
You wanted it because he was attractive. Nothing new here. Go to to the rapefetish reddit and get some orbiters.
I said no and didn't initiate anything. But never pushed him off/away fully just backed away and didn't feel much emotion wise.
>But never pushed him off/away
Yeah.
Doesn't work that way, huh?
If a fucking npc woman was just totally standing still while I was fondling her and just repeatedly say "no, I'm not accepting this, you don't have my consent" but still wouldn't move, I would just ravish her on spot.
Actions are louder than words, ever heard that, retard?
If you truly regret being such a wimp it isn't too late. Find him and slit his throat. Only like that will you take back control.
Well he was with me for a long time, trying to do stuff and I did move a bit, just not enough. I think I just gave up.
> Actions are louder than words
I know... I wasn't forceful enough. Thanks for the (you).
Don't listen to these retards.
You said no, and that should have been enough. What could you possibly have done?
I'm sorry that happened to you.
>What could you possibly have done?
Push him as strong as you can and shout as loud as possible?
Punch him in the balls and run away?
Call the police as soon as possible?
Stop orbiting, faggot.
You're just a spineless cunt aiming for that sweet used up pussy.
I'm sure the rapist was kinda like you.
Thanks user, you're right. It's just I read that thread about that guy assaulting his cousin by forcing her to kiss him. And how she screamed at him and ran away. Now I think about my reaction, it was so abnormal, I should have slapped him or shouted. But I felt nothing emotion wise, not turned on, not extremely upset or angry. Just told him to go away and jerk off in the bathroom if he was that turned on.
Anyway, thanks for listening.
I don't know OP nor will I ever meet OP.
The fact is that men are biologically stronger than women, and it's an understandable psychological response to shut down when faced with that sort of danger. Maybe work on your sense of empathy so that you don't live alone in a basement for the rest of your life.
>Thanks user, you're right.
No he isn't, you raped twat.
>The fact is that men are biologically stronger than women
Yes but it doesn't mean men are invulnerable. If you truly care about your chastity and honor, you would be ready to fight for your life. And it's well known that in life or death situations, adrenaline would be enough for the average woman to wipe out the average man.
>and it's an understandable psychological response to shut down when faced with that sort of danger.
Kek, are humans some retarded deers who just don't move in front of a car?
Because that's why transpired from your post. You never heard about fight or flight response?
It's not because you're too much of a pussy to fight and too much of a lardass to flee that everyone is like you.
>Maybe work on your sense of empathy so that you don't live alone in a basement for the rest of your life.
And the little passive-aggressive ad hominem at the end to finish the job, really typical of the classical neutered soiboy. I'm pretty much successful and have a way more active social life than I would imagine you to have so you. An try coping by imagining me to be a neckbeard, it wouldn't even change the validity of my claims.
>adrenaline
but I had none. I literally felt nothing.
Anyway, don't get angry at that user, it doesn't matter that much.
I did try to fight him but as a 7 year old vs a 30 something years old, my defensive mechanisms werent so effective
I tried to bite, push, hit but he stopped my hands everytime
I'm really sorry that happened to you user. I hope he burns in hell. People can be disgusting.
>I literally felt nothing.
Then what's the point of the thread?
If you didn't feel anything then and don't feel anything now, don't even bother thinking about it.
>Anyway, don't get angry at that user
I'm not angry, I just want him to seethe to pass time.
> Then what's the point
I guess I am angry I didn't fight back enough. And wanted to express my thoughts about it on r9k to see if anyone felt that same if something simlar had happened to them. So now I feel a bit disgusted with myself that I allowed myself to be used in this way and almost not care.
> If you didn't feel anything then
Well at one point I was going to cry but didn't. But that was it.
>I guess I am angry I didn't fight back enough.
Never too late to ruin his life.
But I don't understand why you're so slow about it.
If you truly are angered, just ruin him and if you aren't that angry then find a way to cope.
However if you don't want people to step on you, you'll need to be harsh and vindictive.
nope sorry bud im not gay
> Never too late
True. I just think that if I have better boundaries it wouldn't have happened so I guess I feel slightly responsible for it, in that respect. I should have bitten his pp.
Guess I don't feel angry enough to ruin his life, I'd feel kind of bad to ruin it. I'll have to find a way to cope.
But you are right with
> you'll need to be harsh
>All of these posts
It wasn't your fault, you said no, and don't worry, everyone makes mistakes, I once was in a bus and a fat old woman started touching me, I was so horny I let it happen (I was 19 at the time) when we both reach our destination (her house) she gave me her number to call her to fug because it was late and she lives with her family, the moment I took the bus the return home I felt like a piece of garbage, and felt so ashamed of myself it actually chased me for years, now I'm okay with it because it wasn't exactly my fault, I was honry and lonely, to this day I still have no friends, and to be honest, there were times when I regreted throwing away her phone number because I wanted to fug badly, honestly I felt bad mostly because I didn't wanted my first kiss and my first hand holding and my first sexual relationship from a complete stranger, let alone someone who wasn't cute, that made me stop because to be honest I was and I'm still a romantic, but I kind of get you, we all make mistakes.
Anything else you want to talk or something? If you want we can chat through discord
That really sucks user. Ugh women can be disgusting too, certainly.
I'm not sure if there is anything else I want to talk about. It just sometimes appears in my mind and I obsessively think about why I react like a retard in sexual situations.
If you like, you could post your discord. Or I can. I'm happy to chat with you a little.
I consented to it. I was in 4th grade, he was an older boy. We sucked each others penises, he convinced me to do it. Think I asked for him to pee in my mouth once. Looking back it was fucked up
Sorry user but I'm not sure if it classes as consent of you were a kid and and older boy encouraged/ had to convince you to do it.
Sorry it happened to you too. Must have felt so strange, experiencing that as a kid. Awful.
okay here's my discord > nikop#1005
incase you dont wan to post one. And I feel bad I wrote:
> I'm not sure if there is anything else I want to talk about.
Strangely it didn't really bother me that much as I got older. I cried when I told my mom because I felt ashamed, but never felt weird or anything because of it. Tbh it's far the least traumatic thing I've gone through. Leftists could be to blame for the consent thing though.
I really hope you're not trying to blame yourself user.
I always thought that if someone tried to sexually assault me, I would scream at the top of my lungs. Then it actually happened, and I completely froze up in fear. You can't control how you react in traumatic situations.
> but never felt weird or anything because of it
I'm glad for you user! And yeah desu, same here, I think I'll be okay in the future, just got to not let it happen again.
Yeah I always thought I'd react differently too. Sorry that happened to you, you are right regardig not being able to control how one reacts in these situations. I think I'm just strangely desensitized by things happening to me sometimes.
It's okay, I think mostly because I didn't even feel fear so I'm not sure what it was. Ah well, I'll be fine. thanks user.
1) There's no 'best' or 'good' way to react to a situation like that. All the internet tough guys in this thread claiming they would've maimed the attacker or something have never been in a similar situation and are just talking out of their ass.
2) No one is really prepared to deal with situations like that, they are alien and reactions tend to be impacted by that confusion. So feeling guilty about your reaction is like feeling guilty about your reaction to being hit by a car.
>someone rapes you
>you fight back and get a good hold on them
>they whisper "unff harder mommy"
>you kind of like that so you keep going
awkward =/
Is this some sexual fantasy or is this a story you want to share?
Little from column a little from column b. It wasn't actually rape tho so it probably doesn't count
I guess that makes sense, unusual thing to say though.
thank you based user
true, no one thinks it'll happen to them
believe me you really wouldn't,even with a kink for something like that you wouldn't enjoy it