I'm a fembot and I'm about to ghost someone. He is a really nice guy and talks to me a lot but he is just boring. I feel horrible ignoring him but I also don't have the guts to tell him I don't wanna chat anymore. I guess this is a general problem, not only for females
what do?
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just ghost him? if you really feel bad about it just tell him you just didn't click or whatever
ghosting feel worse in the long term, just tell the poor fucker
roastie
grow some balls and tell him why you're fucking off
I feel you are probably the boring one.
I'm not a fembot but I ghosted two women last month. Both were into me, both were interesting unique funny individuals. However, long term I felt neither would be compatible with the way I intend to live my life. The first one I actually had a discussion about ghosting in general with -- she told me she saw no fault in it, and I said it was a little cruel. This gave me pause later on after the date to reflect on ghosting. I owe her nothing, she owes me nothing. We had a good time together, and we can forget about each other.
If the man is worth his salt, user, he will move on. If not, you dodged a fucking bullet anyway.
The thing is, he knows a lot about me and has pictures. If he gets mad he could doxx me
if you are going to do it why post about it here? oh right, for attention.
Try talking to a brick wall and see how interesting you can make your conversations. Hard, isn't it? You're the brick wall.
Also, just to say. It's as though people have forgotten that telephone numbers can be called. If someone is really seeking closure as to why they've been ghosted, they could call you. But they don't, and they never will because they already know how it ends. If either of them called me, I'd just be honest about it. I can't be assed to put into exact words for them why I don't want to see them anymore, and I'm certain they are both mature enough to conclude for themselves.