Why does a girl that likes me suddenly leave me on read anywhere from an hour to a whole day out of nowhere and carry...

>i know i'm the only person she talks too

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people who aren't complete losers like you and me have things going on in their lives that keep them from responding right away, or maybe the conversation just dried up. unless she's ghosting you completely i wouldn't worry about it.

Don't make that fcking mistake of taking text messages too personally. I ended potential relationships with girls because they would sometimes not respond to my texts and I would assume they weren't interested, when some of them actually were. How they respond over text doesn't mean shit, and don't assume anything from it! It's only how you guys communicate IRL that matters

What effort? You sent a fucking text

Congratulations, you're an emotional tampon. Just be glad you are more than a snapchat streak

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My literal girlfriend does this. Sorry, normalfag I know, but even when you're in an official, committed relationship this shit still happens, and it infuriates me. If I confront her about it, she gets defensive, I back off, and she continues to do it like nothing happened. I can't risk losing her though, she's too attractive and a virgin. This is what relationships have come to; the woman can do whatever she wants because the man is too desperate to put his foot down with her.

>shes a virgin
Oh you dont know do you

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>I ended potential relationships with girls because they would sometimes not respond to my texts and I would assume they weren't interested,
I did this with once as well. She didn't respond for 2 weeks, I let my insecurities get in the way and never responded when she hit me up again. Probably the only time I could have lost my virginity and I let my pride get in the way. This was 4 years and now I'm a sad 28 yo virgin. Still regret it to his day.

Well, SHE knows that if we get to the point where we have sex and she doesn't bleed, she's going to be murdered, so she'd better be.

Same thing is currently happening to me. Just about 3 weeks and 2 texts. I just told her I have a girlfriend the other day and now shes now she randomly asked what I was doing.
Dont knoe if it has a relation but it seems like it does, she gets really jealous

What are you waiting for faggot. Tap that shit now or forever hold your penis. When it's gone its gone

Waiting until marriage. Anything else is degenerate.

massive cope faggot. you know you're not her first

>waiting till marriage
>its degenerate
You're a degenerate so you're really just cucking yourself. And like I said, when it's gone it's gone and I can guarantee you that it won't last till marriage. Even then you're getting married for the sex alone, a doomed marriage from the start.

I bet she also sent nudes to other guys

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The only female virgins left are the fat ugly smelly ones that dont even like themselves

>Literal teenager shit is normal now.
Aye, its fucking annoying.

I do that to people all the time. There's nothing to read into it.

Are you a virgin or something? lmao. People can "ghost" you for 2 weeks and it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Stop expecting a response within minutes everytime you text her.

You're jealous I have a gf at all, troubled as it may be with her. I admit I shouldn't be on r9k, so whatever.

It's very annoying. What happened to the days where you could respond back to a question within 1 minute

I'm not jealous of anything. I'm not the one being led on that the girl I'm dating is a virgin. I know the girl I'm with has been fucked 3 times before me, and I know who fucked her. Welcome to modern times

Also, one hell of a projection

I do this all the time. It's not personal I just hate texting and I'm lazy. Take this guy's advice:

Nah, two weeks might be fair. Depends what your last message was though.

>Hey, what are you doing?
She said she was going on a cruise trip, so I probably fucked up.

>I'm just lazy
Yet you can type out a 20 word post and solve captchas on Yas Forums. Bullshit. You just choose when you want to respond

fuck off zoomer
i know for sure.

its over man

happened to me recently she was basically obsessed with me for like 3 months and then one day just started doing this to me and when i asked why she said she didnt want anything right now whatever

What is wifi. And again, she chose not to respond. Nobody will go 2 weeks without looking at their phone for even one minute. It only takes 7-15 seconds to reply to someone. Its the reality of things, if shes as interested in you as you are in her than she will respond just as fast as you do

Because it literally is no big deal you fucking fanny.
You can't expect them to constantly drop everything just to talk to your faggot ass... people have lives.

i do this to everybody. ive had many people get angry at me for leaving them hanging. even managed to sperg up a potential relationship because of it. i dont mean to be an asshole about it either. dont take it personally, op. be glad youre in it.

Oh, that's a boring message. You absolutely don't have to respond to that. You might've fucked up.

>but she said she loved me
>she loved my "culture" I wasnt like the other guys
>She was going to be my post quarantine gf and gave me all her contacts

lmfao, you're like 13, fuck off you twat.

like what do you mean you ghosted them or something?

Because I don't give a fuck what you think. I'll feel bad if I send a half-assed text to someone that knows me, so it takes more effort. If I don't have something worthwhile to respond with then I often won't respond at all.

It's a combination of anxiety and laziness, I suppose.

Same exact shit here dude. This is a screenshot of my fuck up. She now acts like she wants a relationship, and is obviously thirsty but doesn't want a relationship at the same time. There are multiple guys hitting on her. About 8 in total and she ignores them all but me

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Sounds pretty emotionally satisfying user.

I drop whatever I do to respond to somebody. Its called respect and caring. It could be something urgent or what not. It doesn't matter what it is, everyone has 20 seconds to say I'm busy right now. By the way, I typed "in busy right now" in 2 seconds

Change your ways or burn in hell.

>Nobody will go 2 weeks without looking at their phone for even one minute. It only takes 7-15 seconds to reply to someone
So? Maybe she just didn't feel like replying. Doesn't mean she hates you now. Stop taking it so personally bro

That translates into you choosing not to respond does it not. Can you say that no matter whatever stupid meaningless shut you have to say the guy will respond back with something.
It's called attention

She doesnt like you thats why bro