Apology letters thread

Have you ever wanted to apologise to someone but never had the chance or courage?

Write your feelings away.

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fuck no I don't have anyone to apologise to. I got a lot of people who owe me one, tell them to write some shit up and kiss my pinky toe.

dear op, sorry i called you a fag the other day.
user

Sorry we didn't work out before. I feel like your downwards spiral into mental illness, narcissism, and manipulation of girls is all my fault. You used to be so kind and loving back then. I won't apologize for it all though, as I never cheated on you and I felt like you rushing the relationship was definitely reasonable for me to break it off. You're recent actions are vile and irredeemable, however I am sorry that I wasn't better for you before. I should have stuck around and made sure you were okay before leaving altogether. Maybe then you wouldn't be as bad as you are now. If you read this (you probably won't), know that I want to make up for all of my wrongdoings. I want to help you. Please contact me.

Myself: "Sorry for not having the guts to kill myself 5 years ago. It would have been a better ending and less suffering"

Dear D

I'm very sorry for all the time I gave you unnecessary shit because of my bad temper and insecurities. I'm sorry for not trusting you. I'm sorry for being apathetic sometimes. I'm sorry for being a hypocrite. I'm sorry for all the emotional outburst. I'm sorry for kinda stalking you. I'm sorry for being so obsessive and needy. I'm sorry for talking too much about things you don't care about. I'm sorry I'm so sensitive and cry over nothing. I'm sorry for being sickly jealous. and the biggest sorry is for finding it so hard too change all this. I hope I will become a better person for you before it's too late.

S

G,
I'm sorry I gloated about your hardships and financial instability. I felt like you were flaunting something in from of me -- and maybe you were -- but I usually try not to go there under any circumstance, and I feel disgusting. I don't wish cruelty on cruel people; I wish only that they would stop being cruel.
- S/Y/T/M/whatever

I hope you never do it user

A
I'm sorry I slept with someone else after you confessed your feelings. It was among the worst decisions I've ever made, for multiple reasons.
It doesn't justify the ways you paid me back, but I will regret it for the rest of my life regardless.
J

A,
I said something mean I didn't mean about you recently, no one but anonymous people saw it so it can't be traced to you. Still I am sorry for thinking like that, even for a brief moment. You mean the world to me, and you are the only person I have been able to get close to in a long time. You were a true friend. I am just extremely hurt by what you are doing right now, I keep trying to reach out but you don't want me around anymore. I would give anything for things to be like they used to be, but I can understand why you hate me now.

L, N, M (don't know your real name), C (don't know your real name),
I am sorry I haven't been around, I know N and M (somewhat) are concerned about me. I haven't done anything but get drunk and sleep, over and over. I am sorry to say but I can not open up to you guys fully about my problems, so until something happens to make me feel better I can't be around.

Mother,
I know the only reason I was born was so you could care for another person to deal with your own feelings of abuse and neglect. You were always kind to me, even if you never are around anymore. I am sorry I inherited a lot of the family problems. Raising a mentally ill loser must be hard on you.

Father,
You were never around, and from time to time you tried to reach out. I am sorry I never fully reached out in kind and you gave up on me, I was too focused on trying to make a life for myself. Sadly I failed. Thank you for teaching me to be worldly and for inspiring me to always keep learning new things. I wish we could've traveled to south America like you wanted. Sorry you raised a disappointment.

Me,
Sorry I failed you many years ago, it would've been better for everyone if you didn't exist. I am sorry you botched all those suicide attempts over the years.

R

I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry I trusted you, bitch. Every time I look at the coronavirus map, I check your city and see that the infection is spreading more and more. It's an epicenter now. I hope you get it, you fucking cunt. Die.

J

Dear OP,
I'm sorry that you're a massive faggot, I'm sorry that you're a loser and that you love to have many big cocks rammed inside your ass repeatedly. I'm so, so sorry.
No love,
user

t***i,
im sorry. im at my end goodbye.
j

Not that R, but you got me scared for a second there, user.

I should add, I view it as the original sin that destroyed my life.

We will never see each other again. Sorry, not sorry.

A

Sorry I fucked your sister, I didn't mean it I promise. If you read this you'll know who I am, please text or call me. I miss you.

J

>not sorry
But this is an apology thread, what did they do out of curiosity?

Dear Ben,
I owe you an apology. I used to take advantage of you at work and bullied you out of the good equipment. I'd muscle the zeor-turn mower away from you and leave you to weed-eat like a slave while I rode in luxury. I took the good work from you and left you with you the bullshit. I would also put my work off on you while I went to go sleep somewhere in the bushes. I only did so because you were so weak, and I was in a position of relative strength. I had spent YEARS becoming more assertive and strong. My will was forged in the fires of the most masculine institution imaginable, a literal prison. Whenever I looked at you, I would be reminded of how I used to be, when I used to be weak and pathetic. I would remember how I used to let people walk all over me like you did. When I looked at you, I would see the old me, the me that I hated, and I would despise you for it. I hated how weak and timid I used to be, and when I saw it in you... I should have been more caring and understanding. I should have been a friend. I knew how it made you feel and yet I didn't do anything because I put my own selfish interests above your feelings. I'm ashamed to admit that I wasn't able to be a good person to you. You were a good person, far better than I. I fucking miss you, too. I hope you're in a good place now and your music is still going strong.

I am sorry for being an uncaring piece of shit.

Kris

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Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
oranges

>Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
Then isn't cutting them off extremely harsh?

J
Sorry about all the things I didn't tell you.
M

No, harshness is subjective.

The sky is a sea of darkness, when there is no sun to light the way. There is no day, there's only darkness, eternal sea of darkness.

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Sorry T;

I couldn't tell you why, but you really did mean the world to me.
Maybe if I was a better person, I could've meant something to you too.
Hope you're doing better now, at least.

S.

Not really. Certain actions are universally accepted to be harmful to others. Many mental health professionals class 'ghosting' or other forms of cutting people off without saying anything as a form of passive-aggressive emotional abuse. I can understand cutting off someone causing harm, but cutting off people who have done nothing wrong is malicious for the sake of being malicious. You don't punch random people in the face either.

Maybe them doing nothing when they should have been doing something is what caused it. You talk pretty big for not knowing anything about the situation

You would do well to remind yourself that there are still two as of yet unspilled cups. You just have to look. That's the lesson. No matter how dark it gets you can still find some light if you seek it out. Don't dwell on the sadness because doing so only serves to close yourself off to other things.

Maybe the situation is irrelevant given the information you have already provided, I happen to agree with the guidelines psychologists recommend. Were the situations where it is permissible are:
>You have not known them long
>They have committed a major form of abuse
>They have caused a violated a major boundary that causes you to fear for your safety.
>They have committed a major form of manipulation or tricked you into believing a major lie that undermines the entire framework of your relationship.

Anything outside of that you should talk to them about your problems instead of placing expectations on them. You'll probably get better results.

>tfw the person I want to apologize to definitely browses this board
now i'm too scared they'll recognize the situation...

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isnt that the point of this?

Stop playing armchair psychologist for situations you don't know about, that type ruins these threads

I asked if you wanted to be my friend and you didn't say yes so I took that as a no. I never messaged you after that, partly out of spite, partly out of cowardice but also because I didn't want to bother you or appear to be some beta cuck.

For all I know you could have a new partner, why would you need me to ask if you were okay?

I was very surprised to see your message and it made my heart rate sky rocket but again you did the same 2 hour response thing that you did before.

I really don't know if you browse here and write me messages, I think some in these posts could be from you but idk.

We will probably never see each other again and I won't be messaging you for the reasons above. I'm trying to get over you but it's hard...

it might be. either way i'm too pussy to do it

Stop being a complete shitter. He's offering good advice. You should tell them that you're cutting ties with them at the very least. Otherwise you're just a weak, passive aggressive little shit.

You're right, I don't understand the situation. But saying "sorry, not sorry" combined with what you have already said raises major red flags that you are trying to justify being a dick to another human being.

I wasn't the one getting advice, but we don't know if it was good advice because we don't know the context of the situation. He could be putting that user in a dangerous situation by suggesting they contact someone again.
These aren't meant to be unwarranted advice threads.

>in a dangerous situation by suggesting they contact someone again.
I literally gave reasons where most professionals say it is reasonable, being put in a dangerous situation was on that list.

You're being too reasonable and logical. These people don't want reason. They want to wallow in misery and blame all of their problems on other people. I know it's tempting to try to uplift them, but you have to realize that these are eternally damned souls who are beyond uplifting.

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Make an advice thread if you want to give people bad advice. There's even a whole board dedicated to it, this is a thread for writing letters

I was there for you when you were dying but I could have done more. Looking back I really could have checked you into rehab or I could have stayed with you and made sure you were not smoking too much or I could have told your other friends and had an intervention. I could have done anything and now we will never hear your laugh or see your smile or feel your affection again. I am so, so sorry Nick. I hope wherever you are you understand that I was trying to help the whole time. Even if I could have done more.

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What exactly about his advice was bad? He was laying out a basic structure that can be generally applied to a lot of different situations irrespective of their contexts. People whining about "you're missing the context" are failing to grasp the points being made, the general rules that may be helpful for a person to consider.

And if someone doesn't want "unsolicited advice", they probably shouldn't be posting on Yas Forums. Like, just ignore it if it's unwanted. Besides, what kind of person wants to close themselves off to advice anyways? Or wants to remain stuck viewing something from their own biased, emotionally compromised perspective? That really says a lot about a person.

That person was just trying to help.

hey maddy.

sorry you're knocked up. wish things could have worked out better. love you sweet pea.

, they objected, as though it were a real letter directed at a concrete person.

Thank you! I appreciate the support.

Did your mental health professionals cover the topic of projection? I never mentioned ghosting...

This isn't /adv. Advicefags can fuck off

Hey you guys know what would be really benevolent -- something highly intelligent ascended altruists/angelic entities might do, because they hold themselves to higher?
See if you can find ways to make schizos *think* they've been ghosted en masse!

Why would you want to do that to schizos?

t. schizo

Because you're literally an angel irl!

Oh look its the sunposter again!

Um, thanks I guess. [You made me blush ffs/spoiler]

Hello AL, im back! I know we didn't leave off nicely in the past in fact we left terribly, but i just wanna let you know how much i hate you, you blocked me on all social media just because i hung around with V, you're just jealous, a true friend is never jealous of my relationship, i want you to apologize to V, i know i possibly messed up by not presenting her to you but V is innocent, she didn't even know you back then. I don't know what has gotten into you lately but ever since early 2019 you've been an ass sore. Stop interfering with my life, i love you as a friend, I'm never going to be with you, either accept it or leave me alone.

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i don't understand it cause you won't say yes
but you don't say no
you say you know we shouldn't, you keep holding out
but you don't let go

i'm giving up on trying
to sell you things that you ain't buying

it's your move, i've made up my mind
time is running out, make a move
oh, we can go on, do you understand?
it's all in your hands, it's your move

On the off-chance I'm unintentionally doing to you what someone is intentionally doing to me:
No, there's pretty much no way that's for me.

i dont know what you're saying, user

Ain't nobody worried about me "holding out" on a damn thing, as (unnecessarily) disappointing as that's been to learn.

i don't know, maybe this is for you

hello? is this the based department?
i'd like to make a compliment

I guess you're just so smitten that you assume whoever I might impose on, as a result of your troll-baiting, will simply enjoy it.
Well that is false.

im too tired to understand whats going on here

I wrote a few to my mother after she died because I blamed my self for her death.

Well FYI if it's about me (it's not though, remember) that's bad news because I have no clue what "move" is to be made or what anyone should be doing different.
-- for which I apologize!