>work at a grocery store
>working a morning shift
>female coworker teasing me and other male co workers
>tease her back in a more mean way
>gets defensive
>we start being passive aggressive torwards each other
>I tell her to take her lunch at the same time so I can speak to her
>I tell her how rude she is being and tell her to knock it off
>she gets angry and starts stating how rude I am to her
>she gives an excuse to leave
>I make a mistake and follow her
>I convince her to go outside and finish talking
>I tell her how she behaves is not okay, that the way she acts (flirting and teasing) is a huge distraction and can lead men on and possibly ruin there lives
>she takes that as me slut shaming her
>she states that she has a boyfriend of two years
>then I say "that's the problem"
>she walks away
>I follow her
>I tell her to keep this private
>she says don't fucking talk to me
>she goes upstairs
>I go upstairs
>I wait till my lunch is over
>I go to clock in
>hr calls me up
>and there she is crying and I look like the bad guy
>I fucked up and when I got home I sent a couple of texts saying I'm sorry and that I feel like shit
>now we straight up ignore each other
Also this isn't the first time I made her tear up.
Made a female coworker cry
You blew it the moment you engaged in her bullshit. Now you may get fired for it.
A woman tried to lecture me because i cut in front of her and i just started calling her ugly and stuff and I wanted to fucking beat the shit out of her and i got a rush and left the place before they ruined my life and posted about it on reddit incels before it got deleted by normies
I didn't realize it's mostly conservative males who are the problem even empowering these women to treat me like this because of their status caste system, there is no real society and people should wake up but idc at least i did.
I think she is in the wrong and proved it when you asked her not to, she said she is doing it to get back at you not "oh silly it's innocent". it's hot that you made her cry over it though
Also on the same day she started talking about one of the male coworkers who is borderline autistic and I say "oh yeah I warned him about you" what I meant was that since he is autistic, he isn't going to get a long with her, she took that as me talking shit behind her back. Also on the same day i joke with another co worker and I say "god why does she hate me so much" I mentioned that to her and she immediately got angry, now she is constantly flirting with that guy in front of me, and I mean hard core flirting.
Lol op you are a fucking idiot
This happened two weeks ago, we since cleared things up.
Honestly I think she liked me, I wasn't yelling at her, just calling out her bullshit, I don't know why she would have that strong of a reaction if she didn't care for me.
That's good.
General advice though: never follow a woman anywhere under any circumstances ever.
They should follow you.
>gets defensive
All you had to do was ignore her after this point. Every single greentext after this is just you turning a mild inconvenience into a disaster, you retard.
Oh yeah I certainly learned my lesson.
I know, I'm a fucking moron. But I learned my lesson. I'm ignoring women the best I can from now on.
and she said "your mom should have raised you better" and her daughter asked if i was on drugs, i fucking hate people so much
Cool. I know it sounds very dick masterson cringey, but nothing good ever comes from following a girl around, or trying to explain stuff or anything like that.
Ignoring them takes away most of their power over you.
The thing is I knew this but couldn't help myself, the trick is to focus on yourself and remain a mystery. But I'm still young and dumb.
>when I got home I sent a couple of texts saying I'm sorry
That's where you really fucked up, bitch boy. You never say sorry to a hole.
>Dick Masterson cringy
What? Everything Dick Masterson says is correct.
Also she blocked my number and is always teasing me about it. and her boyfriend came in one day and she told me that he asked "who's the guy" also her mom came in to visit her during work and she said her mom knows all about you with a smile on her face. I ignored her mom and after she left she pointed out that she loves how I ignored her mom. After that the whole day she was acting giddy around me.
>plebbit
You're a normalfag. Fuck off forever. You aren't funny and neither are your fake stories.
I know. I'm a fucking pansy. Never again.
You learned from it and didn't get fucked over. in that sense it's a win
Pretty much, I'm very thankful I didn't lose my job and that other co workers had my back.
no bounds
>>I tell her how she behaves is not okay, that the way she acts (flirting and teasing) is a huge distraction and can lead men on and possibly ruin there lives
Please, tell me this part is pure larping and you didnt say that.
youre an idiot in the most pure and original sense of the word
I did. I'm an autistic retard.
Yup. Live and learn.
yeah i cant stand when people say there instead of their either
if a bitch wants space it is best just to give them room space then then discuss things when shit has cooled down. You following her around is what made hr come after you. I know it is hard in the moment most of the time I just want to ring a whores neck for doing shit like that but sometimes it really is best just to take a breath and walk away because engaging with whores when things are heated is a great way for the cunt to lie about you and fuck you over. Never give a woman that type of power over you.
Nah, you are a good person and had good intentions.
But by saying that you sounded kinda like a virgin simp.
A solid man will never chase no bitches, he only cares about his queen. An insecure beta will cheat first chance he gets. Its kinda pity that many 'men' are such a fuckbois.
is that really true tho, because i recall reading the part where you said youve made her tear up before
I realized this. I've given her space after this. A week later we both apologized, but after that I made a joke and said "I feel bad for your boyfriend, I can't imagine being with that" she went silent mode and for days she acted like I didn't exist, I did the same, now we are ok kind of.
your an autist kek stop teasing the sensitive bitch she sounds too fragile to deal with I would just ignore her from now on.
Well the first time she was having a really bad day (mean costumers) and I started playfully teasing her and she wasn't in the mood and got teary eyed and we both just left each other alone for the rest of the day. I genuinely think I might be retarded.
Oh yeah, I am never speaking to her unless I have to.
dont be so hard on yourself. we all make mistakes. all you can do is let the dust settle and perhaps talk to her about it at a later point when its not so raw.
Hopefully. But before this all happened we had a personal talk on the phone and I found out some red flags about her, so I think I'm going to stay away, plus she has a bf.
>>I make a mistake and follow her
>she walks away
>I follow her
>she goes upstairs
>I go upstairs
Just fuck off her back, holy fucking shit. This is why you retards are called creeps.
>frienly teasesing turns mean vis your gression
>its her fault reeee
you escalated by your own admission. if you wanted to keep things professional you would never have engaged and then told to her to keep quiet about your argument. all big no-nos in the hr world. if you aren't her supervisor you should have let your department lead do the chastising. not your place. you can say "i don't want you to tease anymore." and then more on with your day. thats it. you just gave your hr department a tally mark under you name to fire you the next time you pull something like this.
The funny thing is there was a guy who worked at the seafood department who was super short and in his early 30s who would constantly follow her around and make comments about her body, she gave him his phone number, and the dude invited her to his van, also he hugged her once and she went up to me and started saying gross does he even shower, I told her that if she doesn't like what he is doing then don't act like you're ok with it. And I would always say stuff like "ohhh the seafood guy is here"
I know, I fucked up royally.
youre the new seafood guy now, are you happy? lol
fuck no, like I said I'm completely ignoring her now. And she is noticing that.
>talking to anyone at work
>not being the mostly silent autist appreciated by everyone because you aren't just another one of the useless drama whores who acts like they're still a teenager at school
>at a fucking supermarket job of all things
you're a fucking retard honestly mate
all the girls at your work know about this now and will probably mention it to any newbies that come in just fyi.
Duh, but fuck it dood.
I honestly fucking hate myself, before she started working there I was the most silent and probably the hardest working guy and I was respected, but once a hot chick comes along, it brings the autism out of me.
Also made a femoid at work cry once
>work in a callcenter
>my flatmate works in same callcenter
>sitting together with a Stacy next to us
>she has a bf she lives with, but an affair with my flatmate at the same time (which I didn't know at the time)
>she starts talking about a former coworker
>I jokingly say "the one that dressed like she was about to play at some black metal gig?"
>she goes all like "oh that's so rude, how can you assume what kind of music someone listens to by just looking how they dress like?"
>ask her if she knew what music the former coworker listened to
>"uh I don't remember but it was good music"
>ask her how she can't remember what she listened to but still know that it was good
>"uh user, it's not easy to know such stuff about others. Or can you tell me what kinda music I listen to?"
>I answered "a mix of generic pop that currently floats around on the radio, whatever runs in the living room (she visits quiet often, mostly to smoke weed and to get her hole stuffed I guess) and whatever shitty psrtysong you pick up at some parties."
>at this point still thinking it's all banter and jokes
>suddenly she goes all "user.. How can you say something like that?"
>starts sobbing and runs off to the toilet
Imagine crying over such petty shit, femoids truly are dumb. My flatmate was pissed off and told me how rude I was, but whatever.
Females are fucking weird, Jesus Christ.
I'm the same fucking way lmao. Every time a hot chick shows interest in me at work it turns into a fucking nightmare. Every peice of advice in this thread is something I've painfully learned myself as well.
And after all this time I still don't get it. I know how to act, but deep down I'm still confused as shit. Why the hell do they all flirt at work when they have a boyfriend?
>My flatmate was pissed off and told me how rude I was, but whatever.
Meanwhile the dude is cucking her boyfriend. This level of cognitive dissonance is honestly hilarious.
>talking to females
>talking to coworkers outside of mandatory meetings.
You are just dumb
It fucking sucks ass. But it's nice to know I'm not alone.
Most likely a girl who has a bf and flirts with other guys is because her bf is not giving her attention so she needs an ego boost. I fucking hate women.
This, there's a saying in Spanish: Donde tengas la olla no metas la polla (It means something like: Don't stick your dick where you work)
Are things women practise like this to get power over men?
>user is mean to a girl, says some weird incel stuff, and then posts on Yas Forums
Don't follow.
Ignore the bitch.
You can't win an argument with a woman. Certainly not with logic.
Ignore them.
Can someone explain to an autist what flirting at work looks like?
This. When people get defensive they tend to mess up or come off as petty or stupid, and everyone around can see it. If you just block them out theyll slip over themselves or move on, win win as opposed to the shit storm you brewed up, OP
>work IT at a small company
>one of the stacy receptionists keep calling me to fix really mundane shit
>while im working she keeps talking to me and asking me weird questions
>one day she asked if i shave my pubes unironically
>report her to HR
>she got fired
She goes out of her way to talk to you more so than anyone else, even if you typically don't say much to her (if she sees you as a friend this can be a false flag). She puts herself close to you in general and physically teases you. Shit like poking you. The way you confirm this kind of flirting is you start pushing her back and see how she responds. She'll be really happy about it if she was flirting with you and you can just tell by the look on her face. She'll laugh at literally every attempt at humor you make. Smiles and eye contact that are excessive. It's a lot of nuance because most of this shit happens between friends as well, but the context and the mood seriously differentiate flirting from friendly behavior.