has anyone ever found a girl on /soc/ to talk to on discord and e-date? How did that go/how did you find them I feel like theres so many guys on there looking for girls as well that I'd never find a girl.
I just want a girl to talk to and spend all my time with and eventually meet and cuddle...
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I'm a femanon but what I've heard from other guys is that it is rare for one to add you because there is so many more guys than girls. That doesn't mean you can't try though, you might just get lucky. Good luck!
That is how I feel as well I still have no idea how people meet women or men and date from soc or r9k, I'm very alone and wish I had someone.
Oldfag here. I dont know how zoomers do it. There was a time, back in the early 2000s, when I made a few friends online but that disappeared fast.
Doesn't seem worth it. Most people are scared off when I tell them how old I am and many seem mentally ill.
never a girl that wasnt just a retarded weeb or druggie but some cute boys yes
my online discord boyfriend visited me for a few a week earlier this month. it was really great we stayed in a hotel and ate chik fil a every day and cuddled and other stuff. i wonder when i'll see him again
I wouldnt mind a "retarded" weeb as you put it. They would more likely be very sweet and nice and caring and i wouldn't mind it at all.
not to sound pretentious but I think I am somewhat cute, so i think i could have a shot then finding a girl.
i said retarded weeb because the ones ive come across it was like their entire personality revolved around pictures of cartoon girls. in many ways worse than normies
I wish I could get an r9k bf but I'd be too anxious to meet irl
Hifumi senpai kawaii
Girls won't even talk to me online, let alone date me.
They can tell I'm a disgusting loser virgin through the internet.
I wish this was real...
we wouldn't have to meet up either. It would just be nice to cuddle someone. but just sharing my dreams and listening to a girls dreams and stuff about her and being able to care for them even if digitally would be nice.
Why are you a loser?
No original.
Never e-dated but have talked to quite a lot. Yes, it's actually insane the amount of friend requests girls will get on there but you just have to be interesting. You might think 30+ guys adding one girl is bad but you gotta realize, most of those guys are just as pathetic as you and likely worse and/or have shitty personalities. They have no chances. It's more realistic to narrow 30 people down to like 3-5 guys that the girl might actually want to talk to for longer than a day, speaking generally here.
Do you think there are ways they can help you feel less anxious about it? I might have a girl willing to meet up but she's too anxious and doesn't feel comfortable enough (which is fair since we haven't known each other for too long) and it makes me sad, not exactly because we can't meet up right away (i'm not too into that so quickly either) but more that I have difficulties getting close to these type of people.
What does his name happenn to start with?
If I were to have that kind of relationship with someone I'd probably only go into it wanting to marry them (and eventually meeting them). I don't think people should have that kind of relationship casually...
Probably just talking awhile. I'd probably be really nervous about meeting up regardless. I've heard so many stories on here about a girl meeting up with a guy from r9k and the dude just fucking her then leaving her. I'm really scared of that because I've never even dated anyone before and if that happened to me I'd just kill myself.
I'm 29 and I post on Yas Forums. Do I really need to elaborate?
it starts wit h the letter z
Yes. Are you employed? Do you have friends? Do you live with your parents?
I was but got my job got Corona'd.
No.
Yeah, I care for my mom.
Hmm. Well yeah. 2 out of 3, looks like you're a loser.
Thank god you were here with your college degree to figure that one out for me Einstein.
How long do you think it would take? How frequently should you talk? I know it's hard to come up with numbers when you've never experienced but idk. I just wish I could figure out a good way to make a girl comfortable with me without it taking 6+ months. I understand it takes time and honestly I wouldn't want to realistically be with a girl who is so willing to meet up quickly but I just feel like the loneliness is crippling me. I want a phsyical and emotionally connection with someone. Over 20+ fucking years without it, my optimism for the future is waning.
Got rant-y there sorry. I do agree tho, meeting up with people from r9k is terrifying and you should take a lot of precautions, especially with some of the much much scarier people out there who can be very manipulative and persuasive
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>If I were to have that kind of relationship with someone I'd probably only go into it wanting to marry them (and eventually meeting them). I don't think people should have that kind of relationship casually...
The point of dating is to find someone that makes you happy though and marry them.
Idk I just feel that if someone who never wanted to meet up in person. that they might eventually want to after they get to know me and continue to date me.
So that's what I would hope for if someone said they would never want to me...thst they'd change their mind, but I would ideally like to date them and meet them.
If I were to meet up with someone I'd probably talk with them frequently (everyday idk). I'd have video chatted with them a lot (to know their face and shit) and just in general trusted them.
Besides that I know how you feel. I'm 19 and I still hug my pillow when I go to sleep at night pretending it's someone else. It really sounds nice to just have someone to be next to you when you fall asleep. My advice is to not give up. I think eventually you'll find someone :D and perhaps so will I. It might be tomorrow or it might be next year!
No job parents are dead
I agree, however I met my closest friend from r9k in 2018 at otakon and it was terrifying but I am glad I took the risk as we are still friends to this day.
>add a girl from here
>she never puts any effort so I'm the only one initiating conversations
>test her by not initiating anymore
>never hear from her again
>remove her
Every single time. Even when they're talking about "boohoo im so lonely I just want somebody to be here to comfort me it's so miserable " they'll still ghost. No, I'm not ugly. No, I'm not bad at talking. There's no reason for it.
The reason is they get added by simps that shower them in gifts, so they don't bother talking to people that aren't constantly buying them Steam Games or shit off their Amazon Wishlist.
i'm going to bed for now so i won't be able to respond anymore snom#3178 here's my discord if you want to talk more about this I'll probably be on my phone for a bit but I doubt this thread will be up after i sleep. goodnight late night anons it's 4:26 am for me
Ah yeah that's probably it, good point. What's odd is they never told me to buy them shit, but I guess for simps it's just second nature to shill for girls. Not saying I'd give them anything if they asked lol.
Ah yeah I didn't think about that, video chatting is a good way though I feel in this case I really have to work my way up and even then I feel like they'd be too shy to do it. Wish I could talk to her every day but it feels like she is either too busy with other activities or sleeping and it sucks! But I can't blame her. I won't give up user, thanks for the kind words.
I don't do it a whole lot since it does make me sad sometimes but I really like falling asleep while dreaming of cuddling with a girl, playing with her hair, holding her hand, wrapping my body around her, etc.
Glad you had a good irl experience. Meeting at a con first is smart
Actually I went to his house and it was very nerve-wracking because there was a lot of gang activity in the area that day I guess or maybe it was just my luck
>video chatting
Girls here will never video chat with you unless you're willing to pay them for it.
Damn, I see. Brave of you then and probably partially lucky.
I don't understand why you make posts like these that are wrong and don't have any real effect. Are you just that desperate for a (you)?
>that are wrong and don't have any real effect
Cope. You'll give up eventually and realize girls here are worthless nervous wrecks who only talk to people who pay them. Just wait. You call me wrong now you're going to look back eventually and see I was right. Or maybe you'll simp forever and die alone, we'll see.
I've been adding girls on this site for 3 years user, yeah most are worthless trash but i've found plenty who are very nice to talk to even if we didn't click. Couple I talked to for quite a long time but just didn't work out in the end.
The only person who ever tried to get me to pay for shit I ended up getting her to willingly give free nudes because she liked me (not in a romantic way)
3 years. Where's your femanon girlfriend then?
I got 2 from this board.
read the rest of my post to find out
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I did. "Just didn't work out" is a shitty cope. See you in 3 years when you cope more retard.
Your words don't really bother me so go ahead and enjoy your false sense of superiority because you told someone they should have no hope .
Yeah, I've had 10+ e-gfs solely from Yas Forums since I started browsing in 2013. I've gotten on a plane 8 times now to get internet coochie. I have never talked romantically to a woman outside of Yas Forums, I simply spam until I get one. Sometimes I'll even spam my face on r9k/soc, eventually I get one. The ideal threads aren't a bad place to find them or in discord threads.
you sound like someone who wants to drag others down because you're such a fucking failure, must be nice looking up from that pit little bitch.
Here's a quick picture I made of 3 of the e-gfs I had, I've had many many more though from all different shapes and sizes. Some have been crackhead BPD girls that have kicked me out of their homes, some are obese schizophrenics, some are pervert stalkers, some are french doctors, many interesting characters out there just gotta look around.
Where's the one on the bottom right from? Looks familiar
Australia, she's probably familiar because I leaked her nudes on r9k while pissed off at her.
Nah, I think I know her then. Talked to a similar looking aussie girl about a year ago but the cunt deleted me because she thought i'd get attached to her because I complained about a recent break up.
We had some cool interests but fuck her anyways. Post nudes if you still got em
"E-dated" a guy from here once but it turns out he had multiple gfs on his alt accounts. I think he must be seriously mentally ill.
There's definitely no connection here
I mean there probably isn't kek. The guy I'm talking about does the same thing but he's too young to have started doing that in 2013.
Lol I quit wasting my time trying to get girls from here and went on Tinder instead which I've been incredibly successful on. You retards think that anybody who tells them the truth is below you, I love to see it.
Here's some nudes user. If it makes you feel any better, I also made fake accounts and harassed her for awhile till she deleted all her social media accounts. Her mom saw her nudes as well, I normally wouldn't have went that far (usually I just ignore my exes) but called me pathetic for being depressed. Dumb bitch.
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No sir, that's not me. I might use an alt to avoid the girl looking up my Discord tag on the archives initially but eventually I tell them my real account, I don't juggle gfs. I might have a backup gf in case things go wrong though and they usually do, because of mine or the girls neuroticism usually both.
Yeah I just meant the situations were similar.
Wew, those last 3 nudes...like a fucking dump truck.
Oh they certainly are similar. It might not be uncommon but the guy I talked to actually seems worse than this user
I wouldnt want this with an e-gf I would just like to see pretty pi tires of her face or her in a field of flowers in a sundress enjoying herself and me...even if virtual.
nor would leak nudes of someone if they ever did send them...
It's a shame lots of girls dont want something wholesome like this.
hot breading material
thx for sharing user
No its gross! Be wholesome >.
this is late but you're a brainlet, the word you were looking for was "presumptuous", pretentious is when you're saying something about your intelligence or something elitist.
I met my ebf of many months on the ideal bf thread on soc. He then found a real girl though and thats why I`m here again. I did get many adds but a lot were either way too insecure or got horny right away. Other than that I try to be respectful and patient with all. If other girls are mean and entitled, just learn to move on.