Femanon here. How do I lower my standards? Men are told to do this all the time. Well, how?
I keep going after mega giga Chads who have way better options and always leave me. How do I force myself to become attracted to the ugly nice guy types that I usually friendzoned? Those types always tell me they will love me forever but I can't get wet for them or want to fuck them.
So how do men do it?
(It kinda feels like I'm trying to rape myself when I try to fuck an ugly guy.)
>(It kinda feels like I'm trying to rape myself when I try to fuck an ugly guy.)
LARP or a complete retard.
>anyone who isn't mega giga Chad is ugly
>It kinda feels like I'm trying to rape myself
That is enough to get you wet if you believe it deeply enough, so what should be the hang-up?
The more sexual partners a person, especially a woman, has the less capacity to pair-bond. So fucking a lot of people is well fucking over you future happiness.
Don't drop your standards.
You shouldn't lie to yourself.
Dying alone's fine.
>this thread again
neck yourself
>How do I force myself to become attracted to the ugly nice guy types that I usually friendzoned?
You cannot force yourself to be attracted to someone, just like you cannot force yourself to believe in something that you don't. Your brain either reaches this state through a change that has no specific recipe for happening (might be self-reflection, might be experience) or you'll just continue being the way you are.
Faggy larp, faggy op, faggy bai
Sage
Femanon here. I managed to do it. Yes I like men who look like they are from a Hollister ad but I realized its not realistic for me as a chubby 26 year old.
I have a chubby boyfriend I met at a dnd tournament and he makes me laugh but I'm not physically attracted to him. What I do is tell him I'm into kinky sexy and have him blind fold me and fuck me doggy(doggy so I dont have to feel how fat his body is) and I just imagine fucking someone else.
It works! We enjoy each others time cooking and playing video games but during sex I just think if better looking men.
Don't. Keep going after Chads, and leave Betas alone.
That guy is ugly. I think Yung blood is hot. Most white guys are trash though.
Bump. I don't have a good enough imagination to think of someone else during sex. Also there's the smell...
You're a disgusting manipulative bitch and you don't deserve anyone's love.
I hope that poor guy you're exploiting dumps your disgusting ass
>Most white guys are trash though.
>this cope
stay mad non-white
Find an attractive guy with social anxiety and low self-esteem.
Well I think that love is not what happens in the movies. You can't expect to go on these boring dinner dates where you tell faux jokes and talk about banal stuff during the day; it's not how it works.
True love is born of experiences together. It's not that being a beta nice guy is bad, it's that if you're friendly you'll make friends, if you're passionate you'll have others share passion with you
SIMPle
I'm a white girl myself. I just like tall build masculine men not short chubby guys.
Girls want good looking guys too user. The only way I could stand fucking an ugly guy is to just imagine someone else. It's the best advice anyone has given so far. I just personally don't have the best imagination. But if I could do it I would.
nice bait, bruh.
you fell for the meme "high standards = Chads".
nope.
high standards = "a man who got goals, isnt full of himselfs, asks u out at 12pm not 12am &talks about his feelings"
Well we all pursue an ideal, no? Maybe you two can hit the gym together, take up a dance lesson; anything if looks are the only thing that you'd change about the guy, maybe he agrees.
He's going into the relationship in good faith, you're not. He's loving you fully, good parts and bad, you're not. You are taking advantage of him by not being honest about how you feel.
You're only in a relationship with him until you can find some one better. You will stop having sex with him. You will cheat on him. You will destroy the relationship because you don't actually care about it or him. You're only in it now to feed your ego
fuck you you piece of absolute shit. I pray the poor guy who you are in the process of destroying can pull out before it's too late for him.
The best thing that could possibly happen for him is you getting hit by a bus, so your treachery would die with you and he could only remember the lie of who he thought you were
That's a great idea desu. I want a work out partner. But every time I fantasized about having one I imagined a guy who was much more for than me and would guide and teach me. Now that I'm thinking about it like we can do it together it seems cooler. In a different way. Thanks for this.
I've never cheated before. I want to know how to actually get horny for an ugly guy. Since they always say they will be there for me. Of course Chad isn't there for me cos he's got better things to do.
that is how woman view it tho
the PoF data says that men see woman from 1-10, women see men as 0-1
I don't know how to solve your fucking problems, I'm saying you're garbage for destroying a good man for now reason other than your own ego. Typical fucking woman
you have to be forced. this is why we had patriarchy and religion. this is why the divorce rate is so high. this is why we are below replacement levels of births and the nuclear family is basically dead.
female hypergamy just doesnt work with modern civilization. you are not programmed to date down from what you want, so you will never want to do it.
Men are mad now that they cant get away with being ugly anymore
who wouldnt be mad about that?
It's ok 2-3 generations and problem will fix itself.
You don't. Women are designed to be single moms.
On the other hand, women will always get away with being "ugly".
Also, most of the guys you call "ugly" are probably only ugly in your warped female brain - they're probably at your genetic level or above, but they were unfortunate enough to be born in the bottom 80% lel
On the contrary, it's never been easier for men to get laid today.
getting laid isnt that hard user. were talking about getting a woman to commit to you while not being the top 20%.
You don't have to be in a relationship retard just stay single forever.
a million times this. Rather die alone and cold than with some random 5/10 roastie.
t. lizzo
Lower your standards, when it's told to men, does not mean make yourself attracted to people you aren't currently attracted to. It means date people you aren't attracted to, or are even repulsed by.
Well somewhere around 80% of men are in that top 20% so not that hard.
You posted this yesterday in another thread. What a cuck.
You can't do this, you're just trying to lie to yourself. It will never work and you will end up resenting him for not being the man you want.
You need to work on yourself enough to become desirable and you need to really think about what's important. Is it only looks that drive you? Or are you going after rich and popular frat boy types that only want hookups with Stacey? You can get a handsome, fit man who isn't like this. In fact you should want that much more than an immature Chad drowning in pussy.
You're already ruining your chances is you keep trying to go after men you aren't seriously into. Stop having sex with men you're not in love with. Wait until you find the one. He's out there and worth waiting for. In the meantime work on yourself. Learn how to dress to flatter your figure, fix your diet, incorporate light exercise into your routine. Get a good skin care routine and learn how to style your hair, learn to cook, learn how to apply light makeup and even try to make friends and get better at socializing if you're awkward and shy.
You sound pretty young and immature and probably have some growing up to do anyway. As you get older you will hopefully start valuing other traits in men that make them seem like good husbands and fathers and more than just good looks.
have you tried something other than being a set of holes?
telling better stories?
learning to play an instrument?
learning how to cook?
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DO NOT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS
Lots of guys that look good as most chads but not as popular. Like theres this guy sits beside me and I can tell his body is FINE and he has real long blond hair (I ask if I can touch it a lot) and rides a motorcycle and doesn't say much but when he offers a quip he is FUNNY AS HELL. He is also the smartest in class by a lot but he doesn't act like it. I'm gonna do him if it kills me.
You cant. If you are superficial, its best for everyone to keep pursuing the men that feel you criteria, while being honest with those that dont.
what the cinamon toast fuk
Okay, more like 99%.
it's big brain energy, don't try to understand it
What are you talking about? I want to know how to get turned on by betas instead of alphas so I can find a guy who will stay with me.
I only have sex with men I'm in love with. But I go after guys way hotter than me so while I'm in love with him he's not in love with me. He usually has a better girl that he's chasing.
>the ugly nice guy types
>nice
This is so obviously an incel who thinks he understand women despite having never even talked to one.
In your original post you said "when I try to fuck an ugly guy" so it made it seem like you were trying to fuck men you weren't completely into. Don't give yourself away to him if he's not in love with you either. That's sad.
I can't ever really know how someone else feels about me?
Nope. I'm a real female and I can prove it. All the ugly short fat guys are always really 'nice' and desperate acting. The hot guys are mean and distant because they have so many other options.
You went way, way overboard there with incel memes. Stop larping already, nobody believes you.
I can showy pussy with a timestamp. I'm not worried about being a male incel here.
>(It kinda feels like I'm trying to rape myself when I try to fuck an ugly guy.)
Now you know how guys feel about fucking ugly girls.
Well do so then. Post it on /soc/ on the appropriate thread, probably the hairy girls thread. Timestamped. Make it say both /soc/ and Yas Forums.
Okay one sec. I am hairy rn strangely enough. But not that hairy. Idk how you even knew.
i think its hilarious you actually think that isnt reality. go take a course on evolutionary biology
the only real way is to be forced into it
with divorce courts favoring women, its easy to get out of something that should lock you in place to a good man (note not chad - chad never cared about you)
with infidelity and cheating culture rampant its no surprise you can't help yourself from just growing your pussy lips
there's the multiple partner spiral too. women who've fucked many men are incapable of bonding with any long term partner. the more dicks, the less likely you can ever care about another guy beyond sex. your loss really.
>Femanon here. How do I lower my standards?
Realize that you're not much of a catch, yourself.
The problem is that you narcissistic twats believe you "deserve" better than what you can realistically get. You think you can have it all: hot guy, with all those traits.
Hot guys -- hot people -- generally don't have to work as hard on a likable personality, hobbies, academics, or anything else substantial to compensate for the eventually fading looks.
And truth be told, you have even less time since you're a woman. Ah, when you hit 28-30, the guys you're treating like second-rate people are going to lose interest in you and then you'll have to go even lower.
You need to stop aiming for the birds in the bush and just appreciate the one in your hand, instead of being a greedy, entitled snot.