Feels bar is open guys. Come and share your stories, tell us what's bothering you. Healthy body is important...

Me too user, you could suggest a threesome?

Honestly sounds like you havent met the right girl. I thought the same until i met my current gf. Stimulating political debates, hypothetical survival situations, etc etc.

I filled a 50 gallon tote with a bunch of books and random shit to make it heavy and when I tried doing a close palm bench with it I dropped it on my face.

>be 29 year old gymcel
>simping on every woman that looks at me
>life is a fucking struggle
>go out with the boys one time
>met the most amazing girl, literally a fucking dream a solid 8, while i'm like 4 at best
>best part it is she who latched on me, when i tried to leave she said please don't go, dance with me
>constantly trying to hug and kiss me
>i do not understand what the fuck is going on, thinking she's gonna do bar scamming routine like paying for her drinks and stuff, but she didn't
>I walk her home we kiss and I realize i'm never gonna see her again
>this is the only time i felt attraction from a woman in like 15 years

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You are a scumbag for wanting that, just break up with her if she's not the one, you're wasting both your time
I feel this too, women are boring as shit so I figured there's no point to spending time with them. I just focus on myself now and have trust that eventually some girl will like me enough to talk to me and if they do that they're probably interesting enough to talk back to

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I know I'm gonna sound like a larping faggot but this place has always been my go to so I feel like I should tell you guys here since this board is like an enormous autistic family to me. I proposed to my gf 3 days ago and she said yes. I can't see her now cause of quarantine (yeah I know not living together but proposing sounds dumb but we're working towards it financially) but I'm still so fucking happy and it just does not wear off. We're all gonna make it.

>job interview at a good job lined up after corona crisis is over
>currently working from home getting comfy
>actually keeping up with the social group I have around me nowadays
>live with my parents on the countryside with homegym, gaming pc, homecooked meals from mom, good internet connection and my roadbike for cardio
>spend most of the day learning new skills to advance my career, talking/writing with friends, working and lifting/cardio

doesnt actually feel that bad tbqh

nice

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you know you couldve asked for her number or SOMETHING right ? or tried to fuck her. or do I dont know how many other possible things.

why did you choose to do nothing ?

I'm on a massive diet and I've hit the point where the depression from not eating is almost overtaking the worth of getting into shape.

How do I make it from here

I lost all motivation because my fwb girl dumped me 2 days ago. I actually developed feelings for her and she just lets everything go because she changed her mind and doesnt need any kind of relationship with me.
This was the most perfect 10/10 girl. Im pretty sure no other woman will reach her kind of perfection.
Now all i do is wank and try to not think about her. RIP my gains brothers

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>Got a job interview coming up for a grocery store
>Got asthma, so in corona risk group
Only a few cases of corona in my city, but a part of me really don't want to work in a store being in contact with a buttload of people every day. I feel this corona situation is just getting started.

Am I overreacting?

I already did an interview at a warehouse, I hope I get that job instead.

Had a weirdly upsetting dream last night
>married, financially secure
>wife cheats on me for 60 thousand dollars
>get mad when I figure out that she's a whore, since I thought she had a normal job
>so angry that I want to make her say what she did even though I already knew. Was mad because she was pretending not to be ashamed/ humiliated as well
>start screaming at her "what did you do, WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU DO"
>as soon as she starts crying an army of simps break down the door and run in. I can smell their cologne, their hair gel, their laundered polos
>they pull me away from her, as a bag gets pulled over my head I can see them comforting her and telling her how bad I am
>everything is dark, but the floor drops out from under me like a trapdoor and it suddenly gets darker and I feel like I'm falling
>wake up

very upset about all of this. I'm not even married yet so dreams about being married dont make sense

Telepathy isn't real but you're definitely being spied on.

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She did give me the number herself, but i'm not gonna do anything about it. I'm fucking hideous, boring and like 8 years older, she is too good for me, she's probably regretting her drunk behavior or just forgot about it already.

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My little sister is a major bitch and it makes me sad.l

that's rough. keep improving and someone better will come along

Should I get a heavy bag to ride this quarantine shit out? Shit seems like it'd be a fun addition to your workouts. Plus I can find a cheap bag for like 60 bucks on craigslist.

Besides that, as of tomorrow, my city is cracking down and actually enforcing social distancing for two weeks. I've got enough books, weed and music to keep myself entertained so I don't really mind.

Getting closer with this girl that's just what I need. We've been friends for almost two years now and we ended up fucking twice. Worst part is, she called me while drunk and I might've said too much. She kinda just brushed it off, thankfully I didn't fully fuck this up .

quit wallowing in self pity and give her the dick

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Why are you looking a gift horse in the mouth bro? Call her or text her or something. I don't know what my girl sees in me but I don't have to, take what you're given. Plus, you're on Yas Forums. I don't care if you look aesthetic or not, you're here because you put time and energy into your body regularly to improve it. Results or not, you do things she could never hope to. You think that girl works out? Even if she does she probably does two sets of meme exercises, squats 95 lbs and leaves. You're more than worthy my guy.

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Keep it up, user! I'm happy for you!

retard.

dreams are how our subconscious communicate with us. It's good to write them down if you start to notice a pattern or they become hyper realistic

not that guy but i also needed to hear this

Looking to up my social game, especially in the female department.

What's the best route for someone who is a 23 khhv that's never had a gf? Should I take the tinder dive? I would prefer to meet them through extended friend groups, but I only have two and they're in the same position I am.

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I know how it feels user. Keep it up. 29 and my studies are all messed up from corona chan.

I feel disgusted when I see my face. Literally. I feel like an absolute subhuman.

Glad to hear it man!

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Just keep doing interviews. Get yourself out there man! Money is money

Alright here is my situation:

>A grill in my group of friends who is a solid 8 starts taking interest in me, studies to become an lawyer and all that shit
>She is in a long distance relationship with a beta bf
>Early on when we were out and drinking she went to the bathroom and told me to come with her in a half joking way but I declined because I though she only does that to get attention
>There have been few times where we danced together just for fun
>She asks me for snap
>Adds me on fb and likes my status updates etc
>I don't really initiate conversations on snapchat and don't talk much unless we meet with our friends

I have casually asked her to grab drinks with me two times but she declined so I haven't really been trying too hard. The thing is I've gone through a brutal breakup and have almost completely disregarded women. I am just unsure if I should even try considering that she is in a relationship. Wat do Yas Forums?

I once again managed to delude myself into thinking that a girl might like me. Suddenly got a huge boost of motivation and confidence. Feels good, but at the same time I hate to think that life feels like tis all the time to normies.

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Based khazak milkers poster

My ex txted me yesterday at 00:15 am asking where i was? So i just said home then she asked me if i was tired. So i said no and then she said she had to work on a school deathline that was due that day. So i said succes and then i went to sleep. Shit was lame

Same thing. Please help, I went to the shrink already so save that shit

First things first. Work on yourself before dating. If you're mad at women don't be.
If you're already in the gym, great. If not, start going. I've read models, and checked out the r/seduction. That's kind of a base, and it's helped me tremendously.
Third, you're gonna prolly want to set up a tinder. A large portion of my fwbs have been from tinder.
If you want to meet someone in real life, work on approaching other people. If you have social anxiety, start talking to people everyday.

You made it brah

I automatically think every girl is into me unless proven wrong. Shit works out a lot better that way.

that hits too close to home.
hang in there buddy. let time time do its thing.

I've been this stupid and you'll regret it. I've fucked other broads and so, but she was perfect, a solid 8. We had an instant connection, hell she even refused a dance with a 6'2" german Chad before getting interested in me. This was with my first gains, from skeltal to norman. It's been 3 years and now we just follow each others IGs, she is in London now, we met the night before she left.

Don't be retard, pity is mental masturbation and guess what? Those selfhatred fantasies will never come true...Take action.

I think I'm about to drop out of uni after 3 years, I'm currently at home and I'm supposed to be writing my final thesis and I haven't even started yet, but I just can't stop thinking what a fucking waste those last 3 years were. The only reason I haven't completely gave up on it is because my parents would be very disappointed, plus I have no idea what I'd do after dropping out. Shit sucks man.

>If you're mad at women don't be.
nope. More displeased with myself since I'm in this position, and I know my lack of friends/female companionship is the result of my own cowardice and indecisiveness.

>I've read models, and checked out the r/seduction. That's kind of a base, and it's helped me tremendously.
I've been reading How to Win Friends and Influence People as well, will this help?

>If you're already in the gym, great
Been lifting since I was 17/18. At the point where I've been complimented on my physique by normies. I still feel I can make more progress though.

>If you want to meet someone in real life, work on approaching other people. If you have social anxiety, start talking to people everyday
Yes, I've struggled with rather pronounced social anxiety since adolescence.

>Third, you're gonna prolly want to set up a tinder. A large portion of my fwbs have been from tinder.
Only problem with this is, like I've said, I've struggled with social anxiety issues for a while now. It's very difficult to put myself out there.

schozphrenia. Sorry user

I have asthma too, 1 hospital collapsed and another one en route, starting to feel shortness of breath... Work in the warehouse. I'm a social outcast at uni but there... I made friends since day one, completed that Maslow pyramid bullshit and didn't even care to be working on holidays. Manual labor is truly what moves the world

Had a weird dream about my dad, it felt more like a dream that started in progress. He was visibly upset and asking me why I was single and if I was gay I should just tell him. I'm perfectly straight but socially fucked. Right now my depression really only makes it possible to work and sleep. I've let laundry stack up. My kitchen is a mess, I just can't be bothered to do any of it right now. I can't get in the right headspace to tackle any of my mental health issues and the few social interactions I have at work end up being entirely negative

Thanks brahs

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Been there, just know things can get better,

>lose a 100+ pounds
>realize over the next couple months that my problem with women wasn't my weight it was my personality

Super depressed about it, losing the weight was brutal and I'm just tired. Improving my mental game is just gonna be a lot harder than the physical.

i wish i could do a pullup man, i keep tryong but my upper arm strength isnt there

as someone who dropped out, finish your fucking schooling. thats a regret that will never go away

I went for a bike ride today. normally I just ride during summer time, but it was 8 degrees today and most of the snow has melted away, so I decided to get my ass out of the house, not much else to do in these times. it turned into my longest bike ride yet, took over four hours until I got back home (although I made two stops at shops, and made smaller stops to check the GPS, so it was not continuous biking for 4 hours)

wanted to mention it to someone, but I have no friends or anything to talk to (not because of corona, but because I fucked up my life). so I just wanted to share it here. maybe this can inspire someone else here to do for a nice ride, too.

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wish the army could fuckinf shut down dur8ng this pandemic, nothings opne but god forbid first sarg wants his PT and training done on his hittime

Keep working on the physical.

AAAAAAAAAAA

WHY CANT I MOVE ON FROM MY EX WHY DOES SHE KEEP TEXTING ME WHY DO I KEEP REPLYING WHY IS SHE SO AFFECTIONATE

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Block her, improve your life.

>finally get referral to psychiatrist
>entire medical system is fucked won't be several months until shit is sorted

>couldn't get job before this shit started
>sure as fuck can't get one now

I'm going to fuck a braphog during a pandemic

Yeah I love long bike rides in nature. Currently fixing up my bike and can't wait to get out

Got sort of ghosted by girl I was just starting to date. Saw her, she was still very much interested, then we were only texting back and forth for like a week because of quarantine and she seemed to totally lose interest. I let it go on for a while before I decided to just stop replying.

Not sure why it happened because it seemed pretty promising. It's not very often that I find a girl who I'm interested in a relationship with, so I'm kind of bummed. Guess the only way to move on is to move forward.

Same, I also have the phobia, my advice is to just be confident in who you are, and try to consentrate on the task at hand, it helps when your constantly doing something

mine gets really bad at night, but meditation works pretty well.

And if you feel like someone is messing with you in your mind, just make urself big, its your mind, the imagination is still there.

Chin up, we're all gonna get through this

user is right. Block her. Its better for you in the long run

hell yeah brother

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Here's something that will keep bothering me despite being done with it. Why the hell did people even look at me and think "that dude is my nigga, he's my brother" despite my track record of being a total dumbass shitposter?
I will not get why the fuck did people even like me when looking back at the shit i did over the last 2 years was just being a clown. I was never a nice guy and if i did say something nice to someone, it was on a general sense (e.g. telling someone that i care about them just to add up to other people caring about the guy while he wasn't on a good mental state).

At least now i won't be a burden to those people and vice versa but still, i don't think i'll understand why did people like me in the first place.

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>get into a new career because previous job is shit
>entry level positions pay pretty poorly but next step jumps dramatically
>most of my check goes to student loans, rent, car, etc.
>after a year of being piss fucking poor and living in an empty apartment start applying to the mid range jobs and have a good chance of getting in due to connections
>chy-NA flu hits and everyone stops hiring
>still have my job but not for long if the industry collapses which it’s on course for
>no savings or anything to sell for money

bros...im about to be homeless

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good work bro, what degree will you go for?

>be me 3 years ago
>23yo virgin who never had a gf
>meet girl from other continent on dating app
>shes the first girl in my life that I can actually have fun conversations with
>spend the next 3-4 months texting, calling, videochatting all day every day
>fall desperately in love
>massive dopamine release from even just looking at her pics or getting a text from her, never felt like this before.
>agree to meet up irl
>book a flight and a hotel for 8 days
>finally spend time together irl
>litteraly happiest time of my life
>at one point declare my love for her and ask her to be my gf
>she refuses
wait what
>makes up some bullshit excuse
>fast forward 1 month later
>she explains she has had a boyfriend since before we even started talking
>go insane
>verbaly destroy her, start fight and delete eachother
>massive fucking heartache, hurts more than any physical pain I've ever had

>somehow find a new girl on dating app about 1 month later
>dont have the same feelings for her as the first girl but accepting any female attention at this point
>talk for about a month, meet up, lose virginity, start a relationship
>occasionaly get overwhelmed with craving for first girl, my first true love
>start messaging her again, find out she's now single
>fight a few times over the years, sometimes not speaking for months, but always get drawn to eachother again somehow
>see her get 2 or 3 new boyfriends come and go throughout these years
>am now 3 years into relationship with gf but STILL fucking yearn for my first love

I thought it would go away bros, but it doesn't. Everyone told me it would just take a few months untill I'd be over her. At this point I litteraly do not believe that I will ever be able to feel real love for a girl other than her. It makes me desperate to give up what I have and try it again with her now that she's single, because it feels like it's the only way I'll feel real love again.

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>We're all gonna make it.
yeah well I don't really know about that

Why not brah?

Give me a Corona. Non-tfwnogf post incoming

It's all falling into place bros. Got my own pad, got my own money, I got my own everything (except a gf lol). I did it bros.
But over the past few days I've spiraled into degeneracy. I'm quarantined, I'm bored, and my fucking GOD I'm lonely. But then I thought to myself: this is the default mode. In order to simply survive, I have to do just this. Work for money, get food every now and again, and otherwise just sit on the couch and do whatever, which is exactly what I've been doing
If this is the default, then what the hell do I do now? I can survive just like this. I've been drinking and smoking more to ease the boredom but it's beginning to help less. But this is the easiest it gets! I don't NEED to do shit and I don't really feel like I want to. So I'm here, rotting away

I dunno bros. I realize this is the baseline, default mode of being. Everything else is just extra. And it doesn't make me sad or mad or worried or happy or anything, but I think it makes me a little anxious that things will pass me by if I don't open my eyes.

What do bros? What are your thoughts?

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Congratulations, user!

I personally wouldn't risk taking the job at the grocery store if I were you. From what I understand a preexisting condition like asthma can make coronavirus deadly if you catch it.

I just found out a girl I knew died in a car accident today. We weren't super close or anything, but that really sucked to hear.

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give it a shot at least, dude. it cost you nothing to just send a message.

I'm getting antsy as fuck, the gym has only been shut 5 days and I feel like I've got a hyperactivity disorder or something. Plus it has taken me months and months to finally build a big appetite, I was hating it day to day and I've recently come to enjoy my food again, and now the gym is shut and my appetite is still there. honestly I'm more annoyed about potentially losing my stomach gains than strength gains.
The weights I own are child's play. YouTube? completed it. Every metal album? heard it. I've read over 700 pages since saturday, I'm sick of that. I've literally planted hundreds of plants. I've got no projects to work on. My house is spotless. garden is on point. Facebook is shit crack, telly is shit crack. I've got nee dog, nee cat to play with. I want some drugs. I want some cans. I need me hair cut. My shins are bruised to fuck. My sister and her kids have Corona so I can't visit them. My neighbours are nice and quiet so I can't fight them for disturbing the peace. I'm fucking bored m8

I was scrolling through IG stories and i saw the gym qt posting a salmon dish. I told her that im jealous because before quarantine salmon was my everyday dish and now i can't go out to get more. She said i will go to the supermarket tommorow and i can get you some tell me your phone. For the next 5 days we talk everyday she sends me videos and pics (not sexual related) but her being ecxited talking to me. 5 days go by she gives me a call.

>'Hey user i'm at LIDL what do you want again'
>Salmon,blueberries, eggs, protein bars and 12 bananas.
>Organic eggs or normal ones?
>Whichever your prefer
>'You are a big boy organic are better'

We chat a little bit on the phone and she asked for my location. Five mins later she is here.

Yo,what do i owe you? And she said nothing it's one me... she paid 70 euro food and didn't want my money, after that she left. I called her 5 mins later to ask her how do i disinfect the stuff and we started talking again and she was telling about her boyfriend that he is lazy and he only trains three days a week and that she loves when i send her my brutal athleanx workouts... Before she left i told her ' I wish i could hug you right now femanon' And she said i wish you could too...

Anyway i tried to close by telling her to come workout in 4 days in my home and she was positive about it but she has a fucking boyfriend... Also my gf of 6 years just left for her country to be with her parents for the quarantine and i will not see her for 3 months...

Anyway what stuck me the most is that a stranger comes to my home and brings me all this shit without wanting money, she did clarify that she lives with her bf.. is she just being friendly?

What do? Help a fellow autist

I'm doing good for the most part but I'm in some kind of limbo with smoking like I want to stop and I don't at the same time don't know what to do

Even if i lose the weight, the skin remains

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She ghosted me. She didn't even leave me on read, she just never opened the messages. Last week was going to ask her to he my girlfriend and now I'll never even see her again

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I wish I knew your feel user. Mine has completely forgotten about me in just 2 weeks.

my social life is on the absolute rock bottom and the isolation is killing me, yet I don't know if I have the social ability to actually correct the situation.

That's kind of where I am, I think my social experience started to crash around when I was 15 or 16, surviving off of internet and hobbies that excluded myself from forming relationships. It's like being an outcast separated from society then resurfacing 15+ years later without any experience. I simply don't know how to connect with people. I'm friendly with people, but don't know how to actually have a social circle in my life. I just don't have the basics down.

the last six years I spent in uni has been more or less without social contact except for some occasional word exchanges in the group exercises we have to do. I just don't have any fucking interests, so just sit at home all day. actually I finally started doing some things this year, doing a map and compass run, and trying to fly a glide plane. these are things I feel like I can enjoy enough to continue with, and I was also gonna get into climbing, brought gear and stuff. now I can't tho because of the corona crap.

>I'm not sure if either that level of activity or unwillingness to listen to me is something I want in a partner.
lol nice subtle troll

i imagine student loans will be put on hiatus as well as most of the expenses you have.
don't worry about things you can't change

>neet
>work out
>have nothing else to do.
>bored out of my mind
I can't wait until tomorrow so I can go to the gym.

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Started a new job recently and found out that a girl I kinda liked at work has a bf already

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How can you fall in love with a girl you never fucked?
How do you stay with a girl in a hotel for 8 DAYS and not fuck?

NGMI

>liking a coworker

God damn Im surrounded by idiots

Doubt poisons everything and kills nothing. I have hard time overthinking. My life is literally ruined from this. It sucks my life out and I can't get ahead.

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Keep trying, you could add a resistant band to make it a bit easier. Do more lat pulldowns.

>I'm a social outcast at uni but there... I made friends since day one, completed that Maslow pyramid bullshit and didn't even care to be working on holidays.
Good for you user.
A warehouse job seems a lot safer than a grocery store right now, and I like manual work.

>I personally wouldn't risk taking the job at the grocery store if I were you. From what I understand a preexisting condition like asthma can make coronavirus deadly if you catch it.
That's what's on my mind, I honestly don't think it's worth the risk.

>I just found out a girl I knew died in a car accident today. We weren't super close or anything, but that really sucked to hear.
Sorry to hear that, that's tragic.

>How can you fall in love with a girl you never fucked?
lolwut

>How do you stay with a girl in a hotel for 8 DAYS and not fuck?
She didn't stay in the hotel with me, unfortunately. I found that a bit weird, but I figured it was a religious thing. Later it was obvious that that was a step too far for her considering she had a boyfriend. She probably told herself all of this was fine as long as nothing happened besides kissing.

Also she's a virgin because muslim. I'm not proud of myself, user. But yeah...

Quit being a bitch

>still simping over some girl while in a 3 year gf relationship
imagine being this dude lmao i cant even

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facts. When did Yas Forums become full of bitch ass niggas?

Just shoot her a message offering to hang out. Do a hike or some shit. If she still ghosts then nothing was lost anyways

Her bf is neglecting her so she wants company, or he's a shitty bf and she's scared to break it off. Whatever the case keep it casual with her and there's no need to think about this too much since she has a bf. Plus you have a gf; try to be in touch with her.

I'm not really social media savvy but I have it. I don't post often but being home due to coronavirus has me using it more. A church friend of mine was resharing his friends' photos on his instagram story, and he shared this pic of a beautiful girl, and I impulsively replied to it "wow she's cute" or something like that. He laughed it off and said "all you bro." I went to her profile and followed her.
So how dumb is it to try to approach this girl over instagram? I was just thinking of saying, "Hey, I know this is really weird, but I'm user, 's church friend and I saw you on his instagram story. I thought you were really pretty and want to get to know you," or something like that. Any thoughts?
I'm just stuck at home and I've never met this girl before so I feel like I have absolutely nothing to lose here, except maybe annoying my friend if she whines at him for my actions.

come on bro. you know that shit sounds stupid. just meet her in person like you're not autistic

Fellas i need help. I am a diaperfag. I fucking hate it. I fucking hate my degenerate fetish.I originally liked diapers because of the soft and comfort but now its a sexual turn on. I feel i cant hold normal relationships because of it. Keep in mind im not wearing them 24/7 but i do sleep with them on. I went on a 2 year hiatus from them but finally snapped in October. I thought i learned self discipline through not being a degenerate diaperfag but i just broke. Fuck, i hate myself.
How do i fix this? How do i stop being so disgusting?

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Sounds like a good advice, I will try.
Thank you

>So how dumb is it to try to approach this girl over instagram?
Very dumb
>I thought you were really pretty and want to get to know you
Seems like you're dumb as well

Physically meeting someone is the best way to introduce yourself to them. Ask your friend if he can arrange some sort of an social even with you three. If your friend is not that close to this girl then you're out of luck.

Fuarkkk chief me too. Slept with a girl, it was just casual and I ended up making myself feel shit about. 2nd time it’s happened so stupid

See a therapist

It happens to the best of us King. I hate having something casual with girls. Keep your head up. We're gonna make it brah.

Just the same bullshit everyday, i dont even know how it feels to be happy, how it feels to get loved by another person. Everyday when im laying in my bed i always think how it would be without me
and im feeling like this for almost 10 years now

For the very first time in a long time life is on an upswing. Im saving money like never before, I have time for my hobbies, and my lifts are sky rocketing.
Thing is im lonely. Ive got people I would call friends but we just don't share a lot of common interests or get together that often, even before Corona.
I had a really awesome girlfriend who dumped me in late 2018 and I think im finally over it. I thought she was the one, and she could've been. What's done is done. Small flings after the big break up but nothing felt right. I think im just not ready yet and need to keep working on myself.
I have big things planned and the only person stopping me is me. I just wish I didn't feel so alone

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Dude, the feels bro. The Fuckin feels

we all feel alone sometimes, just keep grinding and you'll make it brother

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>Am I overreacting
No, sounds like you are just being sensible. Can't you get a job where you work from home?

I can’t help but feel as if my younger self doomed my current self. I wasted my early twenties and see my life as already over. I was a fat fuck with no experience with women, and when I’m finally in shape I’ll be a loose skin blob with no experience with women. Is it wrong in assuming my chances for love have passed? I’m fine with being a hermit by myself out in the woods. I doubt I’d ever find a soul mate anyways. Oh well

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Help me bros
>married for 10 years with a kid
>Start texting girl from work, both out of boredom
>shes 9 years younger than me, fit, and an amazon almost as tall as me
>flirt a little because I cant see it going anywhere
>things start getting out of hand and she straight out texts to come over and fuck
>tell her I can't leave my wife and kid
>she replies "I'm not asking you too"
Am I overthinking this and just go with it? Should I go down the path of degeneracy? What is the chance of this blowing up in my face and I end up living in a single bedroom apartment with weekend visitations?

About 3 years ago I made a huge shift in my life. Needed to. Turned down a big offer, went to grad school. Then, I dropped out after a year and joined a startup. Put all my money in it.

2 years later, its officially defunct as of today. Corona was literally the nail in the coffin. Got some money out of it but...not nearly enough.

So now I live in a city Ive only been in for like a month, know nobody really except for some bumble chicks. My dad called me today to say hes been extremely sick the past day, no real fever but no sense of smell, fatigue, bad stuff. Hes 70 this year.

Doing kettlebells from home. Nobody is hiring so Im doing what I can. I miss all of my friends and my ex. I wish I wouldve focused more on relationships than my career, as it all really meant nothing as of now. And now my dad might die thanks to bat soup or the deep state or something.

Ive lost all my gains from traveling on planes the past three months and drinking with clients all the time, so I probably have the disease too. But i have enough food drugs and ammo to go out in style.

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I had a terrible dream about my ex last night. So vivid.

Its been 4 years.

i tried that and they told me to embrace it
fucking worthless advice
"just like embrace it man, let yourself be happy broooooo"

100% you will ruin your life

Why would you betray your wife like that? You disgust me

fuck, it never gets easier, does it?

>should i fuck this random girl and ruin my kids life?
what a piece of shit

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Do not cheat on your wife you stupid fuck.

would like to meet a nice guy, but am in quarantine and don't use tinder

a guy was miring the other day, but was too shy around to say something back

It does user. Just keep dating. But protect your heart :(

please hear my feels
>haven't seen my friends in over 3 months
>live with my mom after graduating with a stem degree
>had a jobinterview today via videochat for a solid position at university. Labwork, tutoring cutie medical students, pretty sweet gig
>could read the interviewers faces that they thought I was a bit odd, they see me as a potential social liability but need my tech skills
>couldnt even show off my gains or 6'6" height because of this beta video interview and not real life interview. Had to sit down like a cuck and stare into a camera. My socal skills are not super honed now after months of being a recluse.
>I need this job to bang cute girls and not be a loser
>perhaps I will make it brahs

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post feet and tits

>beta video interview
>had to sit down like a cuck
Why do you type like this?

feelsbadman

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>tfw slept with 15 girls since her and feel no better

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What did she do to you user :(

Lend me your feels user.

I know you guys are right. It just felt nice to be wanted by someone who's so much younger and hot.
This is what I needed. I haven't done anything yet, but I need to put a stop to this.

Talk more with your wife user, bang her more. Rekindle the spark that made you want to marry her and have kids in the first place.

She fell out of love with me because I was a piece of shit.

I hated myself most of my life and I was just corrosive. We had shit tons of friends in common, went to college together, legendary sex life, same interests. And she just tried to be good to me, and when my life didnt pan out after college I just...kept getting worse. More drugs, more alcohol, emotional abuse.

So she left me and she deserved too. And in spite I made my life better. So I moved for grad school, started the business, etc. She was so intelligent. I miss that.

I havent been in a relationship since. 4 years. I just sleep around with people for a bit until they resent me or I just ghost. And now isolated and alone with the world going to shit, shes the thing I regret the most.

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>tfw got tinder
>tfw went on date with another girl was is super qt and interesting
>made out and was feeling her up
>she ghosts me afterwards

how can anyone spend time interacting with women and not end up hating them?

Because youre getting used and havent been using them. Blame yourself. Adapt.

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Feelya man, startups are fucking tough. I moved halfway across the world for a startup when I was 20, didn't know a single person there except the team I was joining. Beyond work the only social contact I had was with random tinder sloots. Stayed there for about 2 years until we ran out of money and couldn't get new investors. We were on deferred pay for the last few months too so I had no money when I was done.

The thing to keep in mind though, is that if you can go through all that, then you have the grit to pull yourself up again as well. You'll get through this. It might not be comfortable for quite a while, but you'll get through this.

Repent and pray

Sorry bro

true and i'm doing the same to a fatty i fucked last week, so im not much better

but i guess TRP is right regarding women

Thanks guys
Appreciate the support startupbro

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I'm sorry I laughed, I just didn't expect the diaper thing. As the other user said, see a therapist. I believe in you bro.

We're all gonna make it.

Boy do I know that feel

probably going to be laid off soon, EI in canada is apparently a complete catastrophe right now so i cant expect money anytime soon from that. moved into a cheap shithole and have been living thrifty for the last year to save up for a house and basically all of my financial gains will be wiped out.

it all feels like a waste

You should definitely find psychological health user... A lot of people go through traumas in their infancy years, but don't have the cognitive abilities to deal with that shit until they are much older, but have consciously "forgotten" about them....

Maybe it's time to open up to a professional and get your shit straight?

I have people always telling me that my voice is very pleasant to listen to.. I always wanted to get into voice acting or acting in general but currently look like an absolute zombie. Whenever people compare my voice and face they either believe it's a total fit or a completely different person as they imagined...
I find it rather hard and frightening to maybe get myself together and take some pics, buy a 1$ USB with some voice files played on to and send them to the big agencies in Hollywood.. Next to that, If they'd choose me, there's still the problem that I don't live in the U.S. which would make the travel even harder than usual..

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You got it bro. I know what it takes to work in a startup, the pain, the stress, the bullshit. Always feeling like you're barely able to keep your head above water, sustained only by those few, short breaths.

That shit makes a man. A man that encounters an obstacle, and fucking deals with it. A man that can deal with pain and stress levels that most people won't ever experience. A man who's not afraid to take risk, but embraces the opportunities that comes with it. A man that I have no doubt will rise again, fuelled by his past hardships.

You're gonna make it. Don't ever doubt that.

its called having a face for radio. do broadcasting or play by play

Also, any advice on remote jobs is appreciated. I want to live out my days in the woods on a farm

Well user... you did your best and you tried. At least you're not going to be the kind of person that questions themselves about "that decision" when you lay your head on the pillow every night. You can make money back, other opportunities will come in the future and every experiment brings knowledge, specially the failed ones. Just focus on improving yourself right now, that's all any of us can do at this point.

Take the opportunity to get in touch with the people you miss, specially your family. We'll all die one day, we don't know when or how, but it will happen, it's irrational to fear death (for yourself and for others). Talk to your father/family/friends and acknowledge the importance they had in your life, I would definitely had appreciated if some of my old friends that went into workaholic mode got back into contact w each other

I haven't left my apartment in a week because I'm at risks of dying from corona chan. I'm also at risks of transmitting it to my unborn son.
I don't know how my spouse and I will be dealing with the coming economic collapse and sanitary crisis with a baby on the way.
I try not to worry but it's hard to ignore how bad things really are and how worse they're gonna get

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Used to live together with my ex gf, she broke up and had to move back with my parents. I was supposed to move out again to a new shared house but Corona quarantine fucked it up. I honestly don't mind living with my folks but every single person is giving me shit for it.

I need some advice. In the past two days my life has gotten kinda freaky. This girl that I really like and who I'm 95% sure likes me back had her older brother add me on snapchat two days ago. What is strange about this is that the brother is four years older than me, should have no idea that I exist, added me on snapchat by search, and has a snapscore of literally zero. Btw the brother's snapscore is still zero after two days and hasn't added anyone else to my knowledge. Today I went running and stopped to catch my breath. I had my location updated on snapmaps. Literally two minutes after having my location updated she and her friend drove past me. This is all after I haven't talked to her for over two weeks. Should I be worried or thrilled? Do I talk to her? What do I say? Fyi I'm in New York rn so I'm quarantined.

maybe 40 years ago when houses were dirt cheap i could understand giving someone shit, but the cost of living is so high now i think its smart

If they end up not hiring you then it was because they were beta nerds. They did you a favor

Try to find religious girls that are saving themselves for marriage. You'll both have similar amounts of experience

This is actually really good advice
(But you'll have to deal with the religious stuff though, that might or might not be a problem)

It's going to be ok user. We are living in a time of pandemics but civilization has pulled through a lot worse with a lot less. To my knowledge no children under the age of 9 have died until now.

Remember that the midia as a capitalist corporation like any other, and to be profitable they need people to watch them. Journalism is always trying to trigger extremist emotions of anger, fear, compassion etc onto the viewers so they can attain your viewership engagement, and thus, their profit.

Turn the TV off, find a good book or a good TV show. Take the necessary precautions ( use a mask, when you go out in public by no means touch your face, when you return home immediately take all your clothes of and shower) and it will all be ok.

A lot of normies are putting themselves in debt because they are feeling too good to be living with their parents. And roasties will see you as some sort of failure for refusing to participate in that credit rat race, it's very frustrating.

>Can't you get a job where you work from home?
I'll look into it, but I don't have the skillset for that at the moment. Maybe freelance translator, but that will never be enough to pay a decent wage.

Meeting girls on Instagram rarely works. I'm assuming that you're in an area that is practicing social distancing so if you can't meet up with her in the near future then you are doomed to fail

up to you honestly, but sometimes if shit gets that weird you gotta drop her and move on. Theres plenty of fish in the sea and passing on some possible crazy family situation is worth it in the long run

I’m not a religious person myself. Doubt they’d want that or hell even me as a person outside of that

>I want to live out my days in the woods on a farm
Farmer sounds like a viable option. Software dev if you don't want to work manually.

I would not date her unless you are a muslim as well. Your relationship will get too complex.

26 and much closer to uncle ted than Steve Jobs, not sure how much I’d like that

Go on long three hour runs. You'll tire yourself out and not have the need to lift anymore

ahh, an intellectual as well

As long as you have a stable and dependable life you'll draw in some women

Trying to accept my ADHD and learn to live with it (please don't say it's not real), also trying to overcome my addictions, do you have some beautiful list for self improv to keep me motivated?
Being quarantined in an unpleasant family situation does not help with uni (we are having online classes)
Not going to gym is also fucked up so I just lift dumbells
I hope we will make it bros, though I am starting to doubt it

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I have schizophrenia and believe that telepathy is real, you're not alone. I have a black psychiatrist and all i say is 'nigger' around him and he can sense my thoughts and gets physically angry at me while I'm saying nothing out loud.

Thanks for your reassuring words user

I'm just very surprised that a girl is giving me this attention. I would consider her to be leagues above me. Right now I'm just worried about fucking something up and losing her attraction since I probably won't see her for weeks.

I know no-one cares, but I like to vent here.
>Last chance at internship
>Lots of companies pulled their offers since Corona
>Got confirmation yesterday
>I will finally work towards graduation
Happy feels
>Go on walk with gf
>she's happy, energetic
>Asks me why I don't give her a kiss
>It dawns on her
>Walk her home, tell her I want to break up but we can stay friends
She's sweet and lovely, gets excited over pretty flowers and the like, but there were too many things that frustrated me and after giving it endless chances I didn't see it working out longterm anymore. I just feel like shit for making her sad.

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I’m deathly scarred of intimacy because I have zero clue on how love works and will probably scare anyone away if they get close to me

get a clue, loser

>grades 5-8 I was a fat fuck
>kids would bully me in school and make fun of my man boobs in the locker room after gym
>would come home and could tell dad was ashamed of me
>would always look disappointed when I ate anything in front of him
>summer going into high school I walked every day and ate less
>no longer a fat fuck
>dad happy with me for once, I was content, girls started paying me attention
>had a relationship, blew it cause I was socially awkward after years of being bullied
>started eating less
>doctor said I was anorexic, mom told me that if I didn’t start eating she would make me see a therapist
>practically force fed me food, ballooned up and was fat again
>dad starting to be disappointed again
>had a crush on a girl in my science class
>over the summer I asked for her number on Snapchat to play eight ball and shit and she left me on read
>told all of her friends and I was dragged throughout all of her friends
>stopped eating again
>lost weight again and I’m now 6’2 and 133.5 lbs, underweight
>dad compliments me on my appearance for the first time
>at this point I can’t even be outside for more than 5 minutes because I get so fucking cold because of my low body mass
>start eating again, lifting and I’m gaining mass, up to 146 now
>still hate my body and feel worthless
>been on the golf team freshman and sophomore year of his
>get cut this year cause I didn’t practice
>dad severely disappointed, cause he was a top varsity golfer in high school and college
>literally just want a girlfriend and for my dad to be proud of me and I’m pretty sure none of those things will ever fucking happen
>

No matter how much weight I lose I can't get rid of my love handles. I'm 6ft 3in, 170lb and they're still there. I should be at like 12% bf right now, its fucking stupid. Is literally every single last gram of my remaining body fat packed around my waist and stomach? Do I just have extremely wide hips? I'll never have a masculine profile no matter how hard I try. Its driving me insane.

You

Could be worse man I’ve dropped like 100 lbs and none of the fat around my dick has moved so I’m still in aggressive dicklet territory

where you at? I'll take care of her

>RIP my gains
>over a girl
wrong attitude. loneliness gains are the fucking best gains, because you literally can't fight off the depression without constantly improving some aspect of yourself. it's been at least 5 years now since I fucked up the best relationship of my life and the gains train is showing no sign of slowing down.

>Broke as fuck student, been working on a digital product for the last months to try and help the situation
>I think I'm really onto something, this is my 5th "business" (if you can call it that), and I really feel like everything's clicking together, both with the product itself and the market.

I'm nervous and scared and anxious and excited all at once
Feels good?

Pay a butcher to remove them
It sucks bro, I'm in the same boat

How much weight do you have left to lose? My plan is to cut down to 160 before giving up and accepting the fact that I'll have a muffin top for the rest of my life.

just eat consistently and go to the gym, you're in highschool you'll be fine

funny thing is, I know this is how I should think, but I just can't shake my conditioning to think the opposite way, that no girl is into me unless proven wrong. maybe that's why I'm 24 and have only been with 3

how old?

>Improving my mental game is just gonna be a lot harder than the physical.
this is the hardest truth, the physical helps the mental, but the mental will always be the cause of most of your suffering

lol me too, and it really does work.

And why wouldn't you? Worst case, they're not into you, and even then you might turn them around with charm.

Assuming the opposite, however, can lead to ruining quite a few interactions where the girl originally was into you

I feel you. I have a pretty deep voice and get compliments frequently with people telling me to broadcast/sing, but sometimes people say it doesn't fit my face. Like I was working drivethrough and some bitch told me I had a babyface.

when an influx of bitter dudes that don't even lift decided they wanted to "blackpill" everyone on the board

You'll have no problem finding a STEM job

Just treat them as friend

I am 27 and I have no passions for anything. Life seems pointless but I wont kill myself, still thinking if i wait it out something good will happen.

Well assuming that you are in the US the golf season will get cancelled so it's not a huge deal. Don't listen to what your parents say. If you can find happiness in yourself then you will attract girls.

Do your parents also have love handles? I'm pretty sure it is genetic. Unless you do some extreme dieting you will probably never lose them

Welcome to the quarantine bro, basically all of us have to experience what NEETs have been experiencing for years. My optimistic scenario is that people come out of this more accepting of each other, but who knows what's really going to happen.

I dont feel like im progressing at all in life lads. This lock down is gonna most likely make it worse

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>asthma
I know that feel bro, just gonna have to lay low until this shit blows over. Even if we can make it through an infection, I think the permanent lung damage could really fuck people like us up.

>finally get a job after months of searching
>start going to the gym
>feels like I'm starting to get a handle on things and turn my life around
>enter corona
>either going to have get trained on the job from home (how the fuck this is gonna work when I have no experience/ knowledge of the business/industry I have no idea), have my start date delayed by months or withdrawn entirely
>no weights at home so all I can do is pushups
>can't get food for gains since the supermarket shelves are all picked bare

there's at least another year of my life wasted

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you should at least know its normal to feel bad about it, unlike a lot of the LMAO MOGGED sociopaths on this board.

Thank user. I know I'm just human, but breaking up with someone isn't easier than being dumped. I just wish it wouldn't get to me so badly.

>randomly start nutting too quick for no reason
>tried kegels reverse kegels all that shit nothing helps
>no meds, no lifestyle changes, nothing is different just busting in 20 sec randomly
>used to be an absolute god in bed lasting upwards of 30 min easily
>shit eats away at me every day, cant think about anything else
>not willing to use creams rubbers ssris or other shit
Help...

Go to a doctor

>Only person at my job capable of performing all aspects of it without constant hand holding or mistakes. >Literally just got a raise up to the most ive ever made in my life like 2 weeks ago.
>Working a late second shift to avoid child care costs with my wife working a normal 9-5.

>Laid off because of this fucking virus
>People with 1/8th the experience stay at work due mostly to nepotism.

Feels fucking great. I literally don't know how to go back even if this clears up when the dynamics have been laid so bare for all to see. Fuck.

I cant imagine what I would say. I have no recollection of any abuse. I grew up in a wealthy family and had a golden spoon in my mouth until I graduated from university. I had loving parents who took care of me.

18, she's 19. She was my high school sweetheart but I swear it's actually built to last.

It's over for my Bros

Best of luck out there. Have fun while you can

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Hoping for the best for you user, just don't be an idiot and make this girl the center of your life, or pull a self-centered sabotage of your relationship because you're young and stupid. I did both when I was your age, and I still have days where I miss her, five years later.

How to forget a bitch?
Chick led me on and ripped my heart out. Wish I could just tell myself fuck it, but I really liked this girl. Why are women like this Yas Forums?

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>dont live with long term gf quite yet
>havent seen her in over a week
>she was going to come round today
>lockdown begins last night
>can't see her for at least 3 more weeks

I need to coom badly. Also I miss her and I'm sad, no homo.