>do you keep nudes that you have gotten? (either from e-thots, as a catfish, from past gf's, etc)
Yeah.
>if so, why do you keep them?
They were sent with the explicit purpose of turning me on. I suppose it's an ego thing.
>what would you do if someone close to you found out you keep them all?
Pretty sure everyone who's sent them to me knows I kept them.
R9k, why do guys save nudes?
Deal with it bitch. Men aren't changing because it makes you uncomfortable. Think about how robots bitch about women in the same manner and do some introspection.
>think about how robots bitch about women in the same manner
Exactly. And yet...you don't see anyone commenting
>deal with it bitch
The seethe here is insane, I'm laughing so hard right now. Thanks user, I needed that one
Yes he's playing you. He'll do the same thing after you break up and keep your nudes. The last guy who said something like that to me ended up being a cheater, I'd delete these contacts for you if you asked uwu, but then I said no because I didn't want to be controlling. My mistake, he should have deleted them. Your bf still looks at those pics, if he respected you he'd delete them on his own instead of placing you as his mommy telling him yes or no. If you tell him yes he'll throw it in your face later. If you tell him no then you'll know he still looks at his naked ex-gfs. Shit situation.
I fucking hate nudes.
Only two women have sent me nudes and it made me loathe both of them.
Like bitch, if I wanted to see some pixelated tits I could find ones better than yours online, fuck off.
a girl has never sent me nudes, but if that did happen i would definitely save them. it's some type of conquest "yea, i did that" thing. i would only delete them if i got a girlfriend, i wouldn't want her to stumble upon something like that and think i'm cheating on her or that i'm reminiscing about old times, that's just a shitty thing to do and i would expect her to delete shit like that too.
i can really relate to your feelings of being uncomfortable and disgusted
it's made me feel a bit horrible
> my boyfriend says my thinking isn't trustworthy because i have an irrational and crazy view of his ex. this is why he doesnt respect my wishes for him to throw away the pictures.
though i think it is a normal request from a partner.
(i have directed a lot of negative feelings towards her because she cheated on him, stole his personality, ignored him at a hard point in his life and then went on to cheat on a bunch more people from Yas Forums despite being quite fat)
unlike your issue, i have become quite insecure that she is considerably less attractive than me because i dont want to be in the same league of women.
if she was more attractive or a better person, i think i would respect his past choices more. but i still wouldnt like him keeping photos
if he got rid of the photos it would just put my mind at ease.
i dont have any pictures from any of my exes and im glad that way.
just tell him in a non-hysterical way that you are not comfortable with him saving lewds of his past gfs. just straight up tell him "would you feel comfortable if you saw all the dick pics from my ex-bfs?"
if he doesn't understand then he doesn't care about you
Exactly, I've always deleted everything, even normal photos (like selfies) with my exes, whether it ended badly or not, because that chapter of my life is over. Not that i'll never remember it, i always will because every relationship is important to me, but needing a visual reminder of that, let alone a naked picture, is so sketchy to me.
That sounds like an even worse situation than mine, I'm sorry you're going through/went through that, user. If he's truly into girls like that, or was in the past, that's obviously a big red flag, as I'm sure you already know.
I have done exactly that, said exactly the same thing haha. Me and my boyfriend have had this conversation several times throughout our 2-year relationship. And every time he says that he understands where I'm coming from, that he absolutely would hate it if I had saved nudes/dick pics in my phone. And yet, he still hits me with the "I will delete them if you want me to" even though I've told him I am obviously creeped out and uncomfortable by it, he still puts me in the shitty situation of commanding him to delete them. He still has them all to this day.