How long should I keep talking to a femanon before giving up on her and letting the conversation die?

>can't sleep without being on the phone with someone
>start talking to some ugly femanon who lets me fall asleep with her
>have to pretend to be interested in her, but only need her to fall asleep
>she starts telling me she loves her and I don't know what to say so I tell her I love her too
>seems to be making sexual advances towards me but I have no attraction to her whatsoever

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Well, I feel bad for you man. I've talked to girls like this and usually tell them to fuck off in about 2-3 days or outright right block them.

whats so ugly about her?

Sound like your plan does work. If someone told me they just wanted friends I would look else where for a partner.

I'm not a great conversationalist so maybe it's partly my fault that I can't keep their interest, but at least I try

I can't bring myself to do that because it's so hard to get in contact with them, and I'm pretty desperate

You are a terrible human being and I hope you make it clear to her ASAP that she is wasting her time on somebody as heartless as you.

The irony is that they're looking for friends but don't even put effort into establishing a friendship

My best friend is a femanon I've known for five years now, we aren't physically attracted to each other and I wouldn't be able to deal with her issues but she's enjoyable to talk to

Same. For the past year every single woman I've talked to on any online dating platform talk like this. It's like an interrogation. Never had this problem talking to girls irl. I'm starting to feel like women just don't understand how conversations work when you have to make an effort.

Unfortunately I can't talk to women IRL, so online is my only option

yeah I would assume they want friends

That sounds cool user. I hope you are and your bestie have good times together.

Again, same. My current schedule leaves me with about one hour of free time a day during the week so I treasure my weekends too much to go out and socialize with complete strangers.

Same happens to me too, glad it's not just me. The weirdest part is I've had some of those same girls get mad if I stop starting conversations with them. If I don't talk to them I'm apparently ignorant or careless, but when they don't it's fine.

Naturally I didn't keep these people around in my life, but it's frustrating because it's happened quite a few times.

Damn son

I have plenty of free time but have a near-pathological fear of talking to women my age in person

I can't even do voice calls online unless I've known a girl forever

I know it's hard to get into contact with them but still it's not worth your time. Heh, oke. mhm. bye. yes. and the most hurtful of them all >k I insta block for k's i'm serious. If somebody doesn't deem you worthy or at least a bit entertaining there is no point for you to be with or talking to them. Just step away and find someone who may appreciate you.

>The weirdest part is I've had some of those same girls get mad if I stop starting conversations with them.
I have had this happen too, not often but a couple of times. I feel like it's almost worse to know they don't even realize what they are doing wrong than have them do it just because they are uninterested.

Based thats how we treat these hoes.

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It's also bad for my self-esteem because I don't know if it's my fault for not being charismatic enough or theirs for being lazy

Currently trying talk to one who's nice but only speaks when spoken to and has a habit of both beginning AND ending sentences with "lol", she also told me right off the bat she only wants friends and she lives on the other side of the Atlantic

>lol hi im ok lol

I sort of wish they would do this to me, just so I'd know my attempts at conversation are appreciated on some level

I can't tell if girls are shy or bored

Why? She's happy and I'm happy. Do you want to ruin both our lives?

She's being led on and it will eventually lead to heartbreak

So why accelerate the process of heartbreak? Why not let us have a few months of happiness? Why not give her the delusion that she's loved and someone cares about her? She's probably not going to get the real thing any time soon, she would just be completely alone.

She's going to look back and feel awful knowing it was all a lie

It's usually because they're already talking to multiple other people at the same time, so you're just an afterthought.
I don't waste my time with this kind of thing anymore and if a woman is putting very little effort into the conversation or never initiating them herself at least some of the time I just block.

I imagine most girls like this they only appreciate it as far as satisfying their ego/self esteem. They don't care about the person they're getting mad at otherwise they'd talk to him themselves, they only get mad because it makes them feel disposable, and people generally don't like to feel like that regardless of who's disposing of them.

These make sense, thanks lads

Any fembots care to weigh in?

For once I feel bad for a fembot.

zero seconds.
either she's actually interested in you - and thus she'll try anything to get your attention, even if you repeatedly reject/ignore her - or you're wasting your time.

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You need SOME time to get to know each other dude, only a batshit girl is going to immediately throw herself at a guy just because he posted his Discord

>tfw no super cIingy gf

Two texts, seriously. No pussy is worth wasting time.

When I ask femanons why they act like this, these are the answers they give:

>I'm depressed / don't have the energy to reply
>I meant to reply but forgot
>I'm afraid of being annoying
>I don't know what to talk about with you

Hobbitposting is the most patrician meme ever to come from this shit website t b h

tfw your pic is literally me and I'm male

I agree completely user.

And what is your thought about each of those responses?

>Depressed:
Fair enough but you should be doing something about it
>Forgot
Bullshit, fuck you
>Annoying
Get over it, note the fact that I always welcome your input
>Don't know
Ask me questions like I ask you

Gonna go out on a limb and say you have trouble keeping friends

at some point I started using pof to troll. another exchange

>Profile: Have my shit together looking for same, proud mother of 1
>me: do you want to be a proud mother of 2?
>insert angry tirade

shoulda saved it

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Any other worthwhile exchanges?

The worst is when they text you first and then you reply but then they never continue the conversation. I dealt with this shit recently and I just said fuck it and cut all ties with this person. I swear they do this shit just to fuck with you

You forgot *ghosts*.

>Girl says she loves me.
>Hehe l-love you too.
>7.5/10 likes me.
>Cya.

Having this problem with a guy. Do i just straight up ask him if he wants to meet up again or not? I'm super autistic so I can't take a hint.

But if he is still interested that'd probably scare him off bc even though guys say they want girls to be up front in my experience they don't.

>Want me to suck your dick tomorrow?
If not he has the gey.

I wish this fucking worked. Here's a convo that i had with a guy. Told him I was interested in him. Never got a reply after that last message. What the fuck is wrong with me?? Why did he say he liked me?? Am I just picking terrible men? It's not how i look.

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he's interested enough to do things with you because he'd be bored otherwise, but he isn't actually interested in YOU

oh okay, i hadn't really thought of that. i guess i'd just never act that way to someone so it didn't occur to me. that's kinda shitty, who does that? makes me feel better that we didn't hang out, thank you annon!

If a guy seems disinterested in you, the answer isnt because hes bored, or busy, or anything else. Its always because he isnt attracted to you. Guys dont give a shit about your personality and will drop pretty much everything to talk with you as long as they are attracted to you.

Damn... is this really true or are you just trolling?

Had this happen to me too, she asks a question, I reply, no answer. I follow up with a question. No answer.
Over time you get used to this, but at first, it just fucks with your mind, no matter if intended.

that's a nice idea and all but i can tell when people are physically attracted to me. this guy definitely is. his best friend has told me as well.
no he's either trolling or a fucked individual. men are better than that

I'm like this but it's because I have AVPD, I still care