Is volceldom real or just a cope

its just trying to understand why you type angry words like "faggot"and insulting me over a genuine question

Generally people who call themselves vocels are people who can attract girls but are either too scared, autistic, or oblivious to score. They call themselves vocels after the fact as a way save their self esteem.

Its classic fox and the grapes.

the solution for coping with real problems

>voluntarily avoid women
>ur jus saving ur self esteem!
or maybe my own sanity and well-being you simp faggot

>reeee how dare you not conform to society, how dare you do things other than sex you inkwell loser!!!! you're just supposed to do the penis in hole because society tells you to, LOOOSER!!!!!
kys you simp faggot idiot

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its crazy how angry and defensive these guys get when you even bring up the possibility that they are coping wiht being an incel

>hey bro youre not voluntary celibate are you
>yeah im too busy working on other things to have sex
>WOW SO ANGRY AND DEFENSIVE LOL
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You could argue that Im a volcel, not a virgin but havent had sex in like 2 and a half years. I dont go out of my way for sex, and I wont do it with someone I dont find attractive. My standards, laziness, and fear are what keep me celibate. I may not ever fuck again, and I am more or less okay with that.

weird how you rearrange my text a lot lol

>kys you simp faggot idiot
>or maybe my own sanity and well-being you simp faggot
> you're just a faggot

i learned it by watching you dad :)
can someone translate?

I have highs and lows. For about 2 years I didn't even have to masturbate for months, but now | am screwing everything that moves.

>can someone translate?
you're

>gets called out on his shit
>why are you so defensive!?!??!!?
fucking normalfags

Its irrelevant anyway

stay made copecel

...hundreds? she's not even dating them bro she's just fucking for fun

>oh my god i didn't do peter in hole for two years! what a catastrophe i think im going to die!!!!
lmaoing @ the absolute fucking state of society in 2020

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>oh my god, you don't do THE SEX!!! HOW DARE YOU LOOOOSSSEEERR!! YOU'RE JUST SUPPOSED TO DO THE HECCIN PEEPEE IN VAGINA BECAUSE SOCIETY TELLS YOU TO BRO!
go fuck yourself faggot. i seriously wish corona virus wipes out society.

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> i seriously wish corona virus wipes out society.
XD

personally i have almost no libido so i never pursued sex. there's just nothing to motivate me.

It's real because if I went to school to get a high paying job, figured out how to socialize with people instead of partaking in every one of my hobbies by myself, or with my 1 and only friend, and generally acted like a normal person instead of an extremely excluded introvert i'd be fine. Also i'm a bit of an autist so i'm awkward and girls do not like that.

My entire family is attractive though and that passed onto me so it would make it much easier. I've never had trouble with girls being interested in me due to my looks but i've never gotten past that part, i'm too weird so I creep them out I guess, I dunno. I could probably get laid on tinder since the filthy whores on there don't care about your personality, but I wouldn't want to lose my virginity to some slut who slept with 20 other men that week.

I thought I wanted a relationship until I got into one. Once I did, I immediately started looking for a way out. Realised I just really don't want to be in a relationship.
Then again, to be fair, I'm immensely asocial and unable to really connect to anyone on an emotional level. And I live in a small, rather Catholic and conservative country, so fwb and ons aren't really a thing here. So volcel life for me it is.

>small, rather Catholic and conservative country

Please tell me what country this is so I can live there.

Not all of them, no. She's had casual sex with around 200 people going back to 14, and has had five long-term relationships.

all i can say is yuck. it's good that she dropped out of the dating pool

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Trust me, you don't want to live here. It's a post-socialist wasteland.

Volcel is the only respectable form of not getting laid. Ssdly it's 99 percent incels who took a bitter pill and now say it's voluntarily..

>I use my vagina and mouth to get attention!
>Oh no he only wants to use me for vagina and mouth.
Not a bright star in the family I assume. Most women are emotionally stupid and easy to manipulate and fuck. Your sister got used like that hundreds of times before figuring out. Ouch.

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>everyone she dates turns out to be abusive
more likely explanation is your sister has a personality disorder

Its Yas Forums, faggot, nigger and all kinds of other shit is said like its nothing, faggot.

I'm pretty vocel. I could easily fuck fat ugly bitches, the problem is I can't attract the girls I'd be willing to fuck.

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angry lil guy XD

Armenia. Moldova, or Romania?

She has BPD and CPTSD

>BPD and CPTSD

Sorry to break it to you but your sister is the abusive one.

Are people with CPTSD abusive? I have that, but not Borderline.

It has a broad range of symptoms but it can result in being distrustful or hostile towards people. You're probably fine. Having that and BPD though is not a good combination.

Depends on what you mean by "volcel".

>be me
>sexually assaulted as a kid by a female relative
>have PTSD
>as an adult I have had opportunities to get laid but I have passed them off because sex makes me deeply uncomfortable

I would say that I'm "volcel" in the sense that I could get my penis in a vagina if I wanted, but due to a lot of personal trauma it wouldn't be enjoyable and I'd end up sabotaging whatever relationship I had going on. On the other hand I'm an incel because I want to have normal sex and romantic relationships but my past makes that impossible for me.

Besides myself, I'm sure there are plenty of genuinely asexual people or people who have chosen to remain celibate for personal or religious reasons.

Raggita fraggita raggita fraggita why I oughta

child molestation sucks, did she get in trouble at all fo it?
for whatever it's worth, id say you're a volcel

It is real. I am one, but I'm not really sure, as no one is willing to have sex with me, anyway. Nonetheless, I have a low sex drive, so it isn't hard to resist the urges.

i was volcel until my gf wanted to have sex and im not that so committed to the cause that i was going to turn her down. just lifemax in every way possible, then sex will come. fixating on sex will make you a failure incel/degen.

>i was volcel until my gf wanted to have sex
Can you tell a virgin how this works? I've read a lot that a girl won't tell you she wants to have sex and they just leave stupid hints. I'm autistic i'm terrible at figuring out hints it makes me worry that it would make a girlfriend feel I don't like them.

>trouble
No, but that's a whole complicated affair. I never wanted to press charges. Initially this was because we had this codependent relationship and I genuinely loved spending time with her. I didn't want her to go away. Furthermore, I felt that I was responsible for the abuse.

This is probably going to get a lot of anons shitting on me, but basically I would pimp myself out to her to get the things normal children get for free. She was my guardian after my parents deaths and her and my uncle divorced. She was the only adult in my life. If I wanted normal kid things like to crawl into a grownup's bed after a nightmare I'd have to pay the price by performing a sexual service.

Because I made those choices as a child I always blamed myself and decided that I had no basis to cry rape because "well I was literally asking for it, and I got something in exchange", despite the fact I was a crippled 11 year old orphan and she was a 30 something year old woman with a doctorate.

The other thing is that coming forward means telling people, and I just don't want to do that. I don't remember the details, but I am positive that during some of the rapes she drugged me and took pictures. I don't know what sort of camera she used, but I have always feared pictures of myself appearing online. This is why I abandoned all hope of ever having a career where I'd have some sort of public face (ex. politician, professor, even owning a restaurant or having a news column). I just don't want people to know.

Part of this is that I think people won't take me seriously because I was asking for it. Part of it is that I still love her and don't want to send an old woman to jail - especially since no one else in my family keeps contact with her. Another part is me being too damned tired to want to fucking bother.

Maybe I'm just a coward who doesn't have the guts for a public accusation. Maybe I'm just trying to live myself. I don't know. I'm just exhausted.

>inceldom is real

do you still talk to her at all?

She's dead now. But yes, we kept in contact. She paid for my schooling and while I was attending university she and I had a mother / son relationship. She did have a few 'episodes' where she asked me to move back into her house and return to that unhealthy codependent incest sex thing. Ever see Psycho? I literally broke down sobbing during Norman's "private traps" speech since it resonated so strongly with me. Obviously I turned her down. One time she did show up at my apartment but I managed to put my foot down and said I wouldn't be tolerating any of her mind-games. She still occasionally slipped back into trying to fuck with my head, but it was so mild that it didn't really resonate.

When she and my uncle divorced, he got custody of all the other children - my sister and three cousins. My sister continually pokes her nose in what happened between my aunt and me. She and my male cousin screamed at me incessantly for still talking to her, etc.

Again, it's just so fucking tiresome. My sister is probably right that my continued correspondence with her was unhealthy, but I'm going to feel like shit no matter what I do. Whether I talk to my aunt or visit her in the hospital or ignore her completely, I'm going to fucking hate myself and feel guilty either way. At least by still talking to my aunt I can have an interesting conversation about English Restoration theatre or whatever.

Its a cope unless youre like a schizoid or something

>t. glownigger

>so you could have solved your problem by putting a bit of effort into your appearance, but didn't.
Look, YOU IDIOT. Like I SAID, I COULD NOT PUT ANY EFFORT INTO MY APPEARANCE, BECAUSE I WOULD HAVE BEEN BEATEN UP OR DROWNED BY MY BULLIES AS A PUNISHMENT FOR DOING SO. ARE YOU BLIND? Or not being capable of reading?

I take my words back. I am not going to kidnap and torture ALL FUCKHEADS calling me a roastie for telling my story. I AM GOING TO TORTURE AND KILL every fuckhead who SAYS ANYTHING NEGATIVE about me for telling my story, just because of my gender. YOU DESERVE IT. Not sure how I do it though. Maybe I will infiltrate into your shitty little circles in the dark web and pretend to be one of you.

Now to watch a funny video of a disabled, fat woman who is married. Men probably like her A LOT, and do not react aggressively at all to her expressions of sexual interests, because she is acting like a "dumb child", being less intelligent and child-like by nature. It has always been different with me. Even when I started to take care of my looks in my early 20s, becoming a 7-8/10, men still reacted VERY AGGRESSIVELY to my expressions of interests. That was because I could not act like a "dumb child"/"dumb animal" while doing that. That is what women do, try to signal with their body language and voice that they are less intelligent and child/animal like while they flirt or otherwise express their interest. Because if they do not do it, they are "acting like men", that is the same as an inferior one acting like a superior one, because women are still being seen as inferior to men. AND NO SUPERIOR ONE TOLERATES AN INFERIOR ONE ACTING LIKE HIM AS A SUPERIOR ONE. Because humans are animals.

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There. Needed to put it up in the internet again, to not go mental for seeing a disabled 2/10 being accepted by men while I have never been.

I can relate to Supreme a lot. He was 9.7/10 but girls hated him.

Unless you're rich and have something to lose then it is cope.

k roastie didnt ask