To men who have had sex on this board

>I think it was her low self esteem that initially got me in. But my personality is definitely the reason we stuck together. When there is chemistry between two people, nothing compares.

You seem like a nice guy. I wouldnt insult you

No. My personality is awful. People only care about what is outside else. If you are thin/average built, then people and dress nice, then people are going to be nicer to you.

First and foremost I'd like to say originally: based.

I'm good looking, have a big dick and know how to be personable and engaging with people. The former give me an inherent confidence and the latter allows me to sincerely connect with people if I'm open to it.

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I can relate to this. Girls absolutely liked me more when I was a major asshole, specially when I bullied men smaller than me.
If that's what it takes for me to get a gf, fuck that shit. I'm dying a virgin. I don't want create a new life in this disgusting world.

Also if you're fun to be around people will be nice to you.

Another day, another Chad on Yas Forums

op here i just played 4d chess with you and you all just admitted it was mostly your looks
hahahha i am a genius

my personality probably played some role but I have no idea to what extent but I am not ugly by any means. I feel like I cannot discuss my own personality without being somewhat biased. I have only slept with 3 girls which is a lot less than some of the people I have met. Have not had sex in 2 years though since I got fucked over hard by a girl I dated for a long time.

I never denied it.
Origgggggg

>be me, virgin 21
>never was a failed normie, just never cared for pursuing normieness
>thought i should give it a go
>hit on some 18 year old at my uni
>shes receptive
>go on a few lunch dates with her
>she tells me all about her boyfriend who cheated on her and has had on and off again stuff with
>he lives in another city, and cheated again while she was off studying
>hang out and talk to her often
>eventually i end up in her bedroom
>i take her panties off from under her skirt
>tell her im not going to have sex with a girl whos not my girlfriend, tell her to break up with her bf now.
>she breaks up with him on the phone right there
>i tell her shes my girlfriend now
>she loves it
>lose my virginity

its really not that hard cunts.

>Girls being receptive
>Being able to keep her attention
>Being able to think of that alpha shit on the spot

>its really not that hard cunts.
Imagine being that good looking that you can take a girl's panties without her saying anything.

I would say the primary factor for me wasn't looks or personality, but was actually my hobbies/interests.

I do a lot of choral singing. Choirs have a tendency to me mostly female. When you meet more people of the preferred sex, you are more likely to form a connection with one.

I think that's actually probably a lot of people's problem with finding gfs- especially on this board. When you interact in very overwhelmingly male spaces, like online video games, internet discussion boards, the number of girls you connect with is severely lower.

Its really not that alpha, if a girl invites you into her room shes already decided shes going to sleep with you. Its just up to you to make the moves once in there.

From what I've seen choruses are just old ladies

Most guys wouldn't be able to think of stuff like that in the moment

>When you interact in very overwhelmingly male spaces, like online video games, internet discussion boards, the number of girls you connect with is severely lower.
I work as a welder and this is true.
A piece of advice, you should pick a non-blue-collar job, people will respect you more and will impress women.

>Be a short (5'4"), chubby, long-haired, unkempt balding man literally living in his mother's basement
>Have a gentle femdom GF who looks like a somewhat-tall Megumin
>Fuck multiple times a day every day we visit
>On our most recent visit, she bought me dinner the first night, and cooked me dinner the second night (in addition to baking cookies for us)

I'll admit that luck played a huge part in how we met, but she met lots of other guys that same way. They were each as 'lucky' as me in that regard, yet she chose me out of all of them.

I won't argue that looks can play a huge part in finding a partner; I graduated college as a virgin despite very much wanting to not be one. I've had multiple women tell me that my lack of height was a deal-breaker. My loneliness and depression has sent me to therapy and suicide hotlines multiple times each.

Still, as long as you aren't a jackass, it IS possible to find a loving partner. You just have to put yourself in situations where it's possible to meet people, while accepting the fact that it may very well be months/years before you find someone who likes you back. Hell, those 'situations' may be browsing "personals" subreddits. The issue is that each time you meet a person is a chance of meeting someone special, so you have to increase those chances if you want to be successful.

>its really not that hard cunts.

the hard part is this user
>shes receptive
girls arent receptive to me seeing hello to them

Fuck no. My personality is shit. I'm shy and awkward. Thank God for my good looks or I'd be a regular on this board.

>I'll admit that luck played a huge part in how we met
yea i'm going to go with that being by far the biggest reason, i don't think you realize just how insanely lucky you got meeting someone like her. girls are just not into gentle femdom, it's barely even a thing on the fucking internet for women.

I am not particularly good looking, I don't think. Have a very native American look, but like chubby cheeked, and a snaggletooth. But I can be very charming, especially if drunk. It is not not at all authentically me but that aspect of me, when turned on, has gotten me laid before

Pretty much, and the fact that I was willing to settle for a fat, mildly crazy chick. Considering I'm like 4/10, overweight, and have a small dick, I assume my personality is a big portion of it.

There are places for them, even if they're STRONGLY in the minority wherever they are.

Luck was a factor, yes, but so was the fact that I'd been checking various sites every couple of days for several months, as well as trying my hand at meeting people IRL. My point is that it's a waste to whine about luck if all you do about it is give up. Some shit in your life is going to be an uphill battle, but whining about its uphill-ness isn't going to make you any more likely to win.

if she ever leaves you you are never going to find another girl like her again that would want to be with you

That's a definite possibility. She's so amazing that it's hard to believe she really exists; I'm madly in love with her.

There are lots of people who are amazing in various ways, though, and a person wouldn't need to be as amazing as she is in order to make me happy. I fully acknowledge that, at least for now, I'm in the good times, and there may very well be bad times in the future.

But fuck, man, I'm extremely happy, and there's no benefit to worrying about those what-ifs.

Don't listen to these crabs. Do what we can't do. He is right though. Nothing lasts forever so you should enjoy her company as much as you can today. it may not be there tomorrow. Godspeed.

>Don't listen to these crabs
fuck off and go back to your support group subreddit

consider the following tbdesu

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yea im a 22 year old virgin but when ever girls show interest in me or get 1 on 1 with them i get all autistic and dont know how to be charming. i just treat every person like there one of the boys.

I used to believe in this blackpill stuff but observable reality doesn't really fully verify all of this. There's another reason for why they are the way they are, let me explain:

Try to think of women as robots trying to blend into society rather than holes that only want special attention from all and getting dicked down. A woman is shaped by her surroundings, but because of the Internet, this makes it a lot harder to understand what is the cause of women being overall such a dogshit gender.

The ultimate goal of a woman is to show others she is like other humans, the guideline she has is her family, but more than that, what others do. So you can raise your daughter to be a perfect princess up until about age 7 or 8. She will most likely watch a cartoon where the female character goes through the struggles of wanting a boyfriend, or a film about a teen getting with the most popular guy in school. Jews have recognised the true nature of women and understood that molding them through something as innocent as TV is the key to influencing all of humanity. So back to what a girl grows up with - TV shows where the main objective of the female character is romance, and its always with a good looking man as the target for her, and she is almost always insignificant to him (this is important, as it makes it something for most women to try and emulate).

In the age of the Internet, Jews created subcultures for women to try and blend into (because they thought these subcultures were a thing through television) and as a result we have women who are obsessed with something like shipping, or fanfics, or whatever dumb shit they like.

Now, why is there variety in how well these women adapt? Intelligence is the reason, and its easier to distinguish how well a woman is at blending with society. Some will spout the most basic words to try and signal they are part of a certain subculture, while others are as effective as chameleons.

1/2

And now onto the topic of why women are hypergamous whores. How they grew up sets the foundations for why they are the way they are. They want an attractive and/or popular man because that's what is shown to them as a child and teenager. Note how I say and/or? If you're not noticeable below average-looking, but also not an 8/10 or higher, you can actually pull this off. In these stories where the insignificant girl ends up with the hot guy, he is also a popular person in school. So if you are popular you ironically get as good a chance as the average Chad (at least, until school ends and your popularity fades). This is why observable reality breaks the blackpill - someone with only status but no looks or money shouldn't be popular with so many women but some can attest to this being the case in their teen years. Romance films about women choosing between different men is another thing that may influence a woman. Shows like Sex and the City which is just women being whores is another.

The worst part is men will believe the stuff shown on screen is real. They too will want to blend in, but not for society, but to the women he chases. And so what we're left with is an eternal loop where man and woman adopt retarded customs that have now become the norm, as a way to impress women or society as a whole.

Why is this something not as many people realise? The Internet is why. Just like I said, a woman is shaped by her surroundings, but because of the Internet, this makes it a lot harder to understand what is the cause of women being overall such a dogshit gender. Now we have a wider variety of ways for a woman to turn to shit. Whether it be tiktok or whatever new dumb trend is out, its made women into the most mold-able things in existence. Control women and you now control how men behave - and from there the rest is easy.

2/2

im ugly as fuck and fucked several girls, all being better looking than me

so what was it then op?

I dont do hookups and maybe even if my appearance helped me with finding gfs my personality is what got me into the relationships. If I was an insufferable cunt or autist they'd have backed off once they noticed

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Tinder isn't a proper life gauge. Tinder is used for hook ups and nothing more. Yeah you are too ugly for random sex with pozza eating hot chip buying thots,so what?

>do you really think it was your personality that got you laid?
No. I don't even really treat women like people. I don't view them as people. The only women I view as people are my immediate family and my wife.
I've had more sexual partners than I can remember, and I don't even remember their names, lol.

I do.
I'm not.
I won't.

Internet dating unequals real dating.

I wish I could be more like this

>tfw scared to talk to women because ai care too much what they think of me

how tall are you? originally31

>I wish I could be more like this

You're talking to a larper user

how the fuck can you reasonably determine someone's personality just from a dating profile anyway? of course physical appearance is going to be the factor that distinguishes people in that context.
anyway even if you were right and that looks were everything, that's not an excuse for being a virgin. you could at least get with 'looksmatched' girls. the reason you can't is because you're an autist in denial.

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185cm
but according to incels face is everything, but my face is 3/10

your face doesn't matter if you're above 6'

Well the first time was a whore who wanted to fuck anything that gave her the time of day and the second time was a niggress who probably just through white dudes were hot. So the first was personality and the second was looks

>to men who have had sex on this board
You could arguably call me that.
>do you really think it was your personality that got you laid?
Yes, he chatted up a woman on the internet via text only.
> if your personality is so great, why are you getting angry over the subject of this thread and why are you going to insult me?
I'm not.

it's rather simple:
looks open the door. without looks you definitely don't get sex with a half-way attractive woman.
HOWEVER, you then still need a personality because that's what allows you to walk through the open door.

neither looks nor personality: most incels
personality without looks: what most incels tell themselves
looks without personality: only get laid with aggressive whales who do the work for you
looks and personality: only way to have sex with a woman worth fucking

36 year old single dad here. I am 5'6", 235 lbs, shave my head because my hair is thinning. I have had a double chin and gut since I was 17 and weighed 125 lbs. I am also a diagnosed autistic with some savantism.

I have had approximately 40 sexual partners....I have lost count, to be honest. It is surprising to me that people claim to have so much trouble getting laid. Hell, I was married for a decade and I even have full custody of my 10 year old. I am not a Chad...I am a nerdy dude who can be super awkward. But everyone describes me as nice and friendly, so maybe that has something to do with it. I learned at an early age that if you smile at someone, they usually smile back.

No anger here. But looks do not always correlate. Anecdotal and general don't really mix. Just smile at people, my friends. And wish me a speedy recovery...just dozed off after drinking some of this at my son's bus stop. The flu sucks.

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> incels believe women hate them because of looks when the're nice guys

is actually the other way around
sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/11/071129145852.htm

the better personality you have the more attractive you look

People tends to be unconsciously nicer to better looking person, which leads them to be nicer themselves. The nicest guys I knew were all at least chads lites

The first girl that wanted to have sex with me told me that she loved me because i was so different and kind and thats why she couldnt get me out of her head, but we knew each other for only a few weeks so i am pretty sure that she just wanted a good excuse to fuck me. I declined in having sex with her because back then i still believed in this true love and sex should be something special shit. The first girl that actually fucked me told me that she was interested in me for some months and when we met at a party she just wanted to fuck me really bad. I didnt know it at that point, but it turned out that she was a massive hoe and thats why i stopped meeting with her after the second time we had sex. I am pretty sure that she wasnt interested in me because of my personality, but back then my face was swollen because of medication so i wasnt good looking either.

Damn and you're modest.