Feels bar is open guys. Come and share your stories, tell us what's bothering you. Healthy body is important...

Me too user, you could suggest a threesome?

Honestly sounds like you havent met the right girl. I thought the same until i met my current gf. Stimulating political debates, hypothetical survival situations, etc etc.

I filled a 50 gallon tote with a bunch of books and random shit to make it heavy and when I tried doing a close palm bench with it I dropped it on my face.

>be 29 year old gymcel
>simping on every woman that looks at me
>life is a fucking struggle
>go out with the boys one time
>met the most amazing girl, literally a fucking dream a solid 8, while i'm like 4 at best
>best part it is she who latched on me, when i tried to leave she said please don't go, dance with me
>constantly trying to hug and kiss me
>i do not understand what the fuck is going on, thinking she's gonna do bar scamming routine like paying for her drinks and stuff, but she didn't
>I walk her home we kiss and I realize i'm never gonna see her again
>this is the only time i felt attraction from a woman in like 15 years

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You are a scumbag for wanting that, just break up with her if she's not the one, you're wasting both your time
I feel this too, women are boring as shit so I figured there's no point to spending time with them. I just focus on myself now and have trust that eventually some girl will like me enough to talk to me and if they do that they're probably interesting enough to talk back to

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I know I'm gonna sound like a larping faggot but this place has always been my go to so I feel like I should tell you guys here since this board is like an enormous autistic family to me. I proposed to my gf 3 days ago and she said yes. I can't see her now cause of quarantine (yeah I know not living together but proposing sounds dumb but we're working towards it financially) but I'm still so fucking happy and it just does not wear off. We're all gonna make it.

>job interview at a good job lined up after corona crisis is over
>currently working from home getting comfy
>actually keeping up with the social group I have around me nowadays
>live with my parents on the countryside with homegym, gaming pc, homecooked meals from mom, good internet connection and my roadbike for cardio
>spend most of the day learning new skills to advance my career, talking/writing with friends, working and lifting/cardio

doesnt actually feel that bad tbqh

nice

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you know you couldve asked for her number or SOMETHING right ? or tried to fuck her. or do I dont know how many other possible things.

why did you choose to do nothing ?

I'm on a massive diet and I've hit the point where the depression from not eating is almost overtaking the worth of getting into shape.

How do I make it from here

I lost all motivation because my fwb girl dumped me 2 days ago. I actually developed feelings for her and she just lets everything go because she changed her mind and doesnt need any kind of relationship with me.
This was the most perfect 10/10 girl. Im pretty sure no other woman will reach her kind of perfection.
Now all i do is wank and try to not think about her. RIP my gains brothers

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>Got a job interview coming up for a grocery store
>Got asthma, so in corona risk group
Only a few cases of corona in my city, but a part of me really don't want to work in a store being in contact with a buttload of people every day. I feel this corona situation is just getting started.

Am I overreacting?

I already did an interview at a warehouse, I hope I get that job instead.

Had a weirdly upsetting dream last night
>married, financially secure
>wife cheats on me for 60 thousand dollars
>get mad when I figure out that she's a whore, since I thought she had a normal job
>so angry that I want to make her say what she did even though I already knew. Was mad because she was pretending not to be ashamed/ humiliated as well
>start screaming at her "what did you do, WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU DO"
>as soon as she starts crying an army of simps break down the door and run in. I can smell their cologne, their hair gel, their laundered polos
>they pull me away from her, as a bag gets pulled over my head I can see them comforting her and telling her how bad I am
>everything is dark, but the floor drops out from under me like a trapdoor and it suddenly gets darker and I feel like I'm falling
>wake up

very upset about all of this. I'm not even married yet so dreams about being married dont make sense

Telepathy isn't real but you're definitely being spied on.

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She did give me the number herself, but i'm not gonna do anything about it. I'm fucking hideous, boring and like 8 years older, she is too good for me, she's probably regretting her drunk behavior or just forgot about it already.

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My little sister is a major bitch and it makes me sad.l

that's rough. keep improving and someone better will come along

Should I get a heavy bag to ride this quarantine shit out? Shit seems like it'd be a fun addition to your workouts. Plus I can find a cheap bag for like 60 bucks on craigslist.

Besides that, as of tomorrow, my city is cracking down and actually enforcing social distancing for two weeks. I've got enough books, weed and music to keep myself entertained so I don't really mind.

Getting closer with this girl that's just what I need. We've been friends for almost two years now and we ended up fucking twice. Worst part is, she called me while drunk and I might've said too much. She kinda just brushed it off, thankfully I didn't fully fuck this up .

quit wallowing in self pity and give her the dick

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Why are you looking a gift horse in the mouth bro? Call her or text her or something. I don't know what my girl sees in me but I don't have to, take what you're given. Plus, you're on Yas Forums. I don't care if you look aesthetic or not, you're here because you put time and energy into your body regularly to improve it. Results or not, you do things she could never hope to. You think that girl works out? Even if she does she probably does two sets of meme exercises, squats 95 lbs and leaves. You're more than worthy my guy.

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Keep it up, user! I'm happy for you!

retard.

dreams are how our subconscious communicate with us. It's good to write them down if you start to notice a pattern or they become hyper realistic

not that guy but i also needed to hear this

Looking to up my social game, especially in the female department.

What's the best route for someone who is a 23 khhv that's never had a gf? Should I take the tinder dive? I would prefer to meet them through extended friend groups, but I only have two and they're in the same position I am.

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I know how it feels user. Keep it up. 29 and my studies are all messed up from corona chan.

I feel disgusted when I see my face. Literally. I feel like an absolute subhuman.

Glad to hear it man!

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Just keep doing interviews. Get yourself out there man! Money is money

Alright here is my situation:

>A grill in my group of friends who is a solid 8 starts taking interest in me, studies to become an lawyer and all that shit
>She is in a long distance relationship with a beta bf
>Early on when we were out and drinking she went to the bathroom and told me to come with her in a half joking way but I declined because I though she only does that to get attention
>There have been few times where we danced together just for fun
>She asks me for snap
>Adds me on fb and likes my status updates etc
>I don't really initiate conversations on snapchat and don't talk much unless we meet with our friends

I have casually asked her to grab drinks with me two times but she declined so I haven't really been trying too hard. The thing is I've gone through a brutal breakup and have almost completely disregarded women. I am just unsure if I should even try considering that she is in a relationship. Wat do Yas Forums?

I once again managed to delude myself into thinking that a girl might like me. Suddenly got a huge boost of motivation and confidence. Feels good, but at the same time I hate to think that life feels like tis all the time to normies.

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Based khazak milkers poster

My ex txted me yesterday at 00:15 am asking where i was? So i just said home then she asked me if i was tired. So i said no and then she said she had to work on a school deathline that was due that day. So i said succes and then i went to sleep. Shit was lame

Same thing. Please help, I went to the shrink already so save that shit

First things first. Work on yourself before dating. If you're mad at women don't be.
If you're already in the gym, great. If not, start going. I've read models, and checked out the r/seduction. That's kind of a base, and it's helped me tremendously.
Third, you're gonna prolly want to set up a tinder. A large portion of my fwbs have been from tinder.
If you want to meet someone in real life, work on approaching other people. If you have social anxiety, start talking to people everyday.

You made it brah

I automatically think every girl is into me unless proven wrong. Shit works out a lot better that way.

that hits too close to home.
hang in there buddy. let time time do its thing.

I've been this stupid and you'll regret it. I've fucked other broads and so, but she was perfect, a solid 8. We had an instant connection, hell she even refused a dance with a 6'2" german Chad before getting interested in me. This was with my first gains, from skeltal to norman. It's been 3 years and now we just follow each others IGs, she is in London now, we met the night before she left.

Don't be retard, pity is mental masturbation and guess what? Those selfhatred fantasies will never come true...Take action.

I think I'm about to drop out of uni after 3 years, I'm currently at home and I'm supposed to be writing my final thesis and I haven't even started yet, but I just can't stop thinking what a fucking waste those last 3 years were. The only reason I haven't completely gave up on it is because my parents would be very disappointed, plus I have no idea what I'd do after dropping out. Shit sucks man.

>If you're mad at women don't be.
nope. More displeased with myself since I'm in this position, and I know my lack of friends/female companionship is the result of my own cowardice and indecisiveness.

>I've read models, and checked out the r/seduction. That's kind of a base, and it's helped me tremendously.
I've been reading How to Win Friends and Influence People as well, will this help?

>If you're already in the gym, great
Been lifting since I was 17/18. At the point where I've been complimented on my physique by normies. I still feel I can make more progress though.

>If you want to meet someone in real life, work on approaching other people. If you have social anxiety, start talking to people everyday
Yes, I've struggled with rather pronounced social anxiety since adolescence.

>Third, you're gonna prolly want to set up a tinder. A large portion of my fwbs have been from tinder.
Only problem with this is, like I've said, I've struggled with social anxiety issues for a while now. It's very difficult to put myself out there.

schozphrenia. Sorry user

I have asthma too, 1 hospital collapsed and another one en route, starting to feel shortness of breath... Work in the warehouse. I'm a social outcast at uni but there... I made friends since day one, completed that Maslow pyramid bullshit and didn't even care to be working on holidays. Manual labor is truly what moves the world

Had a weird dream about my dad, it felt more like a dream that started in progress. He was visibly upset and asking me why I was single and if I was gay I should just tell him. I'm perfectly straight but socially fucked. Right now my depression really only makes it possible to work and sleep. I've let laundry stack up. My kitchen is a mess, I just can't be bothered to do any of it right now. I can't get in the right headspace to tackle any of my mental health issues and the few social interactions I have at work end up being entirely negative

Thanks brahs

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Been there, just know things can get better,

>lose a 100+ pounds
>realize over the next couple months that my problem with women wasn't my weight it was my personality

Super depressed about it, losing the weight was brutal and I'm just tired. Improving my mental game is just gonna be a lot harder than the physical.

i wish i could do a pullup man, i keep tryong but my upper arm strength isnt there

as someone who dropped out, finish your fucking schooling. thats a regret that will never go away

I went for a bike ride today. normally I just ride during summer time, but it was 8 degrees today and most of the snow has melted away, so I decided to get my ass out of the house, not much else to do in these times. it turned into my longest bike ride yet, took over four hours until I got back home (although I made two stops at shops, and made smaller stops to check the GPS, so it was not continuous biking for 4 hours)

wanted to mention it to someone, but I have no friends or anything to talk to (not because of corona, but because I fucked up my life). so I just wanted to share it here. maybe this can inspire someone else here to do for a nice ride, too.

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wish the army could fuckinf shut down dur8ng this pandemic, nothings opne but god forbid first sarg wants his PT and training done on his hittime

Keep working on the physical.

AAAAAAAAAAA

WHY CANT I MOVE ON FROM MY EX WHY DOES SHE KEEP TEXTING ME WHY DO I KEEP REPLYING WHY IS SHE SO AFFECTIONATE

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Block her, improve your life.

>finally get referral to psychiatrist
>entire medical system is fucked won't be several months until shit is sorted

>couldn't get job before this shit started
>sure as fuck can't get one now

I'm going to fuck a braphog during a pandemic

Yeah I love long bike rides in nature. Currently fixing up my bike and can't wait to get out

Got sort of ghosted by girl I was just starting to date. Saw her, she was still very much interested, then we were only texting back and forth for like a week because of quarantine and she seemed to totally lose interest. I let it go on for a while before I decided to just stop replying.

Not sure why it happened because it seemed pretty promising. It's not very often that I find a girl who I'm interested in a relationship with, so I'm kind of bummed. Guess the only way to move on is to move forward.