Gf has gained 40lbs since we started dating

Buddy I can't just force her to eat better

You fucking enabler. Then don't come crying here if you aren't going to do anything about the problem.

Yeah that's what I plan on doing, she wasn't skinny when we met which I was okay with. I knew she had gained weight but I didn't know it was that much and I just can't look at her the same way

See

Seethe more

Congratulations! Hope it's a boy, user

This happened with my last gf

>try to encourage her to eat healthier
>come to the gym with me
>lets go for a run
>no interest in improving herself
>start losing attraction to her
>sex dries up and she starts coming to me for sex now
>turn her down or half ass it and fuck her selfishly
>she starts getting upset a lot about it
>act like shes doing nothing wrong
>tell her how much i love her every day
>0 affection from me, no kisses, cuddles, good morning texts, etc.
>one day she sits me down
>"user... are you cheating on me? Im sorry i can be better for you"
>reassure her there is no cheating, tell her how much i love her
>start being extra romantic and affectionate, little gifts, surprises, "dress up nice and i'll pick you up at 7 for dinner" notes and such
>a few days go by
>bring up her laboured breathing (she just walked up the stairs and was exhausted)
>explain the benefits of healthy eating, cardio and lifting in terms she will appreciate
>no interest in any of it
>"haha user id rather die than exercise xd"
>"i thought you wanted to be better for me?"
>her face drops
>"so you havent wanted to fuck me because IM FAT?"
>absolutely loses it
>pure red mist descends on her
>screaming in my face, spit flying everywhere
>ragging on my looks, how obsessed with fitness i am, i must be gay, blah blah blah
>i sit there, emotionless, no response, no reaction
>30 seconds of silence goes by
>i get up to leave
>turn around at the door
>"I dont want to fuck you because you are a lazy pig"
>leave

It never gets better user. Bring it up now and be prepared for an ending you didnt want.

Or just dont say anything and enjoy having 4 kids with a 400lb woman who you hate.

Congrats on the new black child! What's your bull going to name it?

the fetus can't live without the woman

you should leave her

stop projecting your cuck fantasies

Thanks it is a boy

>tfw I'm black

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I'm surprised you even got to the point she was your gf if she was so vehemently against exercise. It seems you put yourself in that circumstance friend, but you did well getting out.

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You must be ugly, short, and have no options to put up with that behavior. I dumped my 5 year relationship after she gained 20 lbs. I gave her half a year to sort it out, which in hindsight was half a year too long.

6 months of SS+GOMAD I suppose

No, I'm actually in love with her. This isn't some random slag I'm fucking, this is the woman I intend on marrying. But now of course I'm very worried.

When i met her she was so lively and jumped all over the place. Skinny and always on the move. Seemed pretty "naturally athletic" so i assumed things.

Get her to lose the weight then you cuck. Either leave or make her change.

Or continue to sit and whine on a homosexual cantonese rice farming board idc

And what happened then?

What is she

>my fat gf only got fatter I don’t understand

>40lbs
How long did this take? It's a good start. Ice cream is good since it requires little chewing and is extremely calorie dense. Easy to just gorge on it for long periods.

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Shes white

PIERCE, GO 2 BED

My gf was maxed at 210 lbs obese OP but she's the best choice with all the shit I've been through with those past gf's in normal BMI range. I made it clear on the first date that my partner would be healthy, fit and a flat stomach. She's lost 57 lbs since we met last year and still overweight but still making progress, she started fasting 48s a few weeks ago and we also just setup our first home gym last week so no more bullshit commutes and shared equipment. I expect loose skin but she has a job to pay 30k easily for it. That's another thing you want, a GF with a real job and future, not some gold-digging whore. You gotta be up-front and listen carefully. If they have little or no intent to regularly exercise, eat right and drop the wine after you explained things, then you gotta walk asap

I've looked back at social media pictures of many dates and gfs I had in normal BMI range and just a few years later they're all overweight or obese now, it's gross as fuck and puts a smile on my face at the same time

You daft cunt, I also expected to marry the woman I was with for FIVE YEARS. But I have standards, and you clearly don’t. Go roll around in the mud with your fat pig.

Ended it with her, got a nicee gf now

Yikes. 5 years no marriage. What's up with people forever expecting to get married. If you're expecting for 1 year just propose and schedule the wedding when you can

I’ll never get tired of brosnanposters

Its a thread about some dumb fuck's gf, we done care.. stfu
>>Yas Forums

Have sex incel

yes, they are in symbiosis. But it's not the woman's body.

Lmao yes it is. Whose body is it? The baby who cant even think? A baby until its born is no different from the hair on your head. And she can cut her hair anytime she wants

>The baby who cant even think?
Yes, the baby who you trash, it's his body.

>A baby until its born is no different from the hair on your head
See, there you go again conflating a baby as if its the mother's body.

Abortion is murder

>Have sex incel

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If you plan on having children don't bother with the loose skin surgery until after she's had the kids

tell her that you didnt fall in love with a fat dyke. or just tease her, grab her by the waist and call her chonky, chunky . yikes bro

mutts law

this what i did when my gf put on few i would just smack her belly or grab her love handles worked like a charm.

>>ragging on my looks, how obsessed with fitness i am, i must be gay, blah blah blah
Kek

My gf weighed in at 118 after weighing 112 when we left for vacation and called me crying about how the gym is closed and she feels helpless. Shut the fuck about your whale gf. Mine is losing her gains.

unironically do this
leave your computer open with pages like
>"should i dump gf for being fat"
> photos of attractive women (especially if they're within your friend group)
>start pinching her chub, and then sighing or making a comment about her pigging out
>make disgusted faces, react negatively while she eats food
>comment on how "i like how x person i know is so fit" and list positive traits they have
>start avoiding sex with her, and tell her you're not in the mood
>hot wash her clothes. make her clothes too tight.
>call certain foods "fat people foods", especially the one's she's eating.
>make your disdain of hamplanets well known
and if the above doesn't spiral her to starve herself, tell her straight up "i'm dumping you if you don't lose weight. you have 2 weeks to show me that you care enough about me, our relationship to show a modicum of self control."
>ignore her weeping, bitching, moaning.
>offer to help her, but to not relent or accept cheat days, or enablement
if she fails at the 2 week end = dump her. honestly, the fact that she let herself go that much, that quickly is a sign she's pretty much worthless to begin with.

Bail

Except the actual baby only makes up about 25% of the additional weight during pregnancy. The rest is extra blood, fluids, boob, uterus, placenta etc. The 25% is also more at the end, baby is probably more like 10% of it at the start

If she doesn't try now she never will. My gf gained like 60 fucking pounds and went from in shape to fat as shit.

I sat her down, told her I loved her but I wasn't going to waste my life with someone who doesnt love themselves, and that my future children deserved better. She told me to give her a chance so I did. She lost all the weight and has kept it off for over two years. Now she lifts with me

If she respects you she'll listen

Tell that to abortion survivors

You tried bruh, you tried.

your games and indirect approach to the situation are women’s behavior, imo he should just directly cut to the part where he gives her the ultimatum to lose weight

Abortion is murder.

That's why niggers do it in such disproportionate numbers.

call her fat(or words synonymous with fat like cow, pig, whale) until she develops complex and starts starving herself.

Damp it.

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Good for you, and for her.

This is the gayest, most feminized shit I’ve ever heard. You are sounding like a catty bitch. Who would do this
>honesty
Just break up with her OP. Or get a 2nd girlfriend so that your concubines are in constant competition for your favor. Oh you can’t get more than one girl? Well, I see why she’s begun to get fat in the first place, since she knows there’s no reason to work hard, might as well let complacency and mental illness infect