how do I avoid creating platonic relationships with girls. how to create sexual relationships instead?
How do I avoid creating platonic relationships with girls. how to create sexual relationships instead?
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I'm still trying to figure out how to make friends.
Get married
once you've broken the ice make it completely obvious you arent interested in talking or seeing them in a platonic setting.
I’m not sure
My plan is always to joke a little more sexually every time but make it seem normal not creepy
Be attractive. The black pill isnt just for incels...
You be upfront about what kind of relationship you want with them.
And, pay attention because this is where simps fail, once it's clear they aren't sexually interested, you limit contact and effort and move on to another girl.
have sex
START BY NOT POSTING Yas Forums SHIT ON THE FUCKING FITNESS BOARD
Before you get into platonic relationship
Say "want to have sex"
Not even a question, a statement
what the fuck does that have to do with fitness peabrain?
not him but: sexual health, self improvement, confidence etc
>based virgin advice posters
how do you befriend a girl? whenever I try to befriend a girl it feels like trying to fuck her where I have to put in most if not all the effort
How do I know if women are actually flirting with me?
I'm really really socially awkward, but I'm 6'2 and work retail. Two of the hottest women I've ever had at my kiosk flirted with me for like 15 minutes straight while trying to find a pair of sunglasses but I get like 5 matches on tinder a week so I don't know what to believe. One was an absolute 10/10 Latina and another was a black girl with the most symmetrical and aesthetic face I've seen on a black female.
I'm usually pretty respected by men whenever they visit my kiosk even though I'm skinny.
Am I being flirted with without realizing or what?
Also, I haven't been flirted with very frequently. The 2 absolute hottest women I've ever seen just happened to flirt with me, and being the autist I am I couldn't flirt back properly
the more she flirts the better your chances are but you never know until you try, the girl who rubbed her ass against you might just be messing around, or the girl who barely looks at you might be secretly obsessed with you, it's best not to overthink it
do every step you would when trying to get a gf but never, ever fucking commit. also no lovey dovey shit like fucking goodnight texts. goodmorning texts are fine, dont ask me why, it just be like that.
This.
Be really touchy feely and make sure your hygenine is good
this advice is going to get you denied 9/10 times
>"I want a strictly sexual relationship"
>howaboutno.jpg
girls don't want to be "used" for sex, no matter how many balding manlets tell you they do. if you're a fucking Chad, yeah, they'll want to be your sex toy, but nobody here (except me) is fucking Chad.
you gotta play the game, girls are retarded, they like to be wined and dined and the chase and all that gay shit. if you want to continue fucking you're gonna have to play the game but never ever commit.
the D.E.N.N.I.S method is honestly based
pls post advice oh great and powerful internet chad
There's a YouTube channel called Honest Signalz, it has the answer to LITERALLY every single thing you want.
I've gotten laid 50+ times in the last 2 years from it.
have a good looking face.
why would you want to be friends with a girl
trust your gut. if you think the girl is into you, most of the time you're right
to hhave some new friends?
but why a girl? do you enjoy endless conversations about nothing where any kind of debate is treated as a personal attack against her?
GAAAAYYYY
treat them like you only want to be friends and be emotionally distant and they're retarded attention whore brains will make them want your validation and they'll turn into literal whores for you
the ones who do not do dumb shit like this are relationship material
>treat them like you only want to be friends
Don't do this.
I did this"treat females like your friends" gimmick all my life and because of it I never learned how to flirt or show sexual interest towards a girl so every female I ever met or talked to remains as a mere "friend" and more than often just an acquaintance. It's an absolute meme non advice
yeah that's my problem too
i'm incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them. it feels beyond cringy
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Bump
FWIW, It's the only non-cringe YouTube channel on picking up women I've ever found
sounds like a personal issue. you have to be attractive to them for them to be attracted to you. personality wise not just body.
worst case you get a friend/someone to use for networking, best case you get someone that wants to date or at least fuck and they also usually admire your confidence and not being desperate to sleep with them or that you actually care about them as a person
>you have to be attractive
wow thanks for the golden advice riveting insight
If they don't want to fuck, you don't want to be friends.
Depending on the rating of the girl this will spark jealousy and want
>Women only want what they cannot or do not deserve to have
Value your own time, you do not need a female friend and if you do, just make sure it is a down ass, 1 in a million bitch that will actually sing your praises.
There are 3 billion+ women out there, so ~1 billion in your acceptable age range.
>Read The Rational Male
This should be an engrained basic, like How To Win Friends... but a reminder is usually helpful.
Bully them, not even memeing. You gotta now how though, you don't want to be annoying. But I've made women fall over me the best by bullying them
you must have chosen to ignore the part where i said "personality wise not just body" too right?
boring personality = "wow this person is boring i don't want to spend my time with them as their friend or otherwise" is the reaction most people are going to give you. other dudes on the internet who lift will want to talk to you (about lifting) though
>dude just be both mentally and physically attractive lmao
I just watched for the first time and this guy has no clue that these women have no interest in him. They give up their numbers out of pity
you ask them out to drinks early on
if theyre interested things will work out, if theyre not move to the next woman, abundance mindset
I am 25 years old and I never even kissed a girl
and this is difficult how? if you put some effort into having a better life and being confident people will come to notice and there, a social circle. you can then do things like, gee i don't know, participate in any kind of conversation or enjoyable activity with said social circle and through those people (or people you meet through the first group of people) you find women interested in you. this is not rocket surgery
>endless conversations about nothing where any kind of debate is treated as a personal attack against her
this is a painfully accurate summary of women
Use dating apps you absolute fucking morons. If you meet someone on Bumble or Hinge or Tinder, it's obvious from the get-go that you're looking for more than just a platonic relationship.
yeah but you got dubs
i was 29 before i was ever intimate with a woman
Don't pretend you want to be friends just to get close - unsurprisingly, that makes women think you want to be just friends.
Wrong, every single video I've ever seen of him is insane. Better than literally every single pua out there, gets girls hooked like fish on a worm
I love clueless normalfags
Don't you need atleast an instagram account or whatever in order for girls to check on that first on those dating sites?
I don't have a single picture of myself from the past 6-7 years that isn't a family photo
Try not to live too much in you're head ie living in the moment. Intuition is better for social situations. Confidence comes from experience and the self assuredness from experience so if you're uncomfortable it just means you have to work on it more.
I'm 29 and still a khv despite having lots of $$$, enough that I didn't need to work forever. No girl ever flirted with me or found be attractive. I live in my condo alone, only gym and biking give me relief from no female partner. I however BB row 180 5x8
maybe they're paid actresses
>t. Attitudelet
do you own a phone with a camera? this is literally the lowest barrier to entry ever and you're still incapable? if you lived when men had to court women, meet their parents, get chaperoned and dress nicely/clean shaven/hair done just to be able to peck a girl on the cheek you would die a virgin.
This. Let it be known what you want. Women are just as good at reading signals etc if not far more adapt due to competing with other women for Chad's. If she isn't giving you anything back then just let the relationship hang don't out in the effort, look for other options. This will likely allow the relationship to die or if the chick is insecure you might get somewhere with her. But bear in mind if you do you have to drop out completely after that. Simps who played the long game fail there and end up becoming beta providers.
>Just go up and talk to her bro
If your here it's because you probably do live in your head all the time. Let's be real. Normalfags don't reflect they just act. If your here on a very off topic thread on a board for fitness you absolutely can not turn off your personality learn to live with it.
Make flirtatious jokes, and jokingly say shit like, "[insert name] give me a kiss" or "send me pics of your tits." Eventually they'll see you as a person worthy of reproduction and you can swoop in for the kill.
I am not so sure a profile of nothing but bathroom mirror selfies would do good
been here since 2010 retard, some of us don't want to be socially stunted and actually want to improve and put in effort to be happier in life, but cope harder and dilate. have fun with your shitty attitude like said im sure it'll get you very far toward accomplishing your goals
love you too
I have the opposite problem. Eventually every girl I have as a friend ends up sexual. It's tiring since I have a gf.
Thanks for implying I won't die as a virgin in the current timeline I appreciate it.
Just shave it, bro. If you have hair she might be dealing with a boy. But a bald guy is a man. You don't gossip and sip box wine with a bald guy.
It wouldn't. Use the timer and multiple shots etc. to make it look like someone else took your pics. It feels stupid but worked for me.
they're all jealous of your gf but they'd get bored of you after fucking a few times so don't fall for their trickery and keep being a good bf
>a bald guy is a man
>asking a Yas Forums board "dude i hate having female friends I WANNA JUST FUCK EVERYONE HOW DO I DO DAT"
amazing
np bro. srsly tho give it a shot, if it's not for you just move on.
bald guys who lift and eat properly are men, yeah
soilent cvcks are not
there is no such thing as male and female friends
>this advice is going to get you denied 9/10 times
Yeah but basically you still win. When you're up front and the girl denies you: she still respects that you had the balls to try. She doesn't hate you or call the cops or anything. Women EXPECT romantic advances from men and would become mentally ill if they stopped getting them.
The other part of you winning is that being friends with women isn't really worth it.
Do you know what a platonic friendship with a girl really is?
You're role-playing as her husband in the ways her boyfriend can't/won't do it with her.
That's why after one person married so many opposite sex friendships dry up. They were marriage roleplays. (Which can be helpful for teaching one to deal with the opposite sex.)
Don't take interest in things they like, or even pretend to for the sake of eventually fucking her. Lead her on, she'll crack before you do.
Yeah I know. I'm a psychiatric nurse in our ward and all the other female nurses orbit around me. Every time we go for drinks I end up making out with one of them. I haven't gone further than that though. And I feel like shit because I'm like that when I'm drunk. Women are my weakness but I'm doing my best. Also folks it's the personality that matters, I'm bear mode on the chubby side, 26y/m. It's easy to make most of the women like you. Just show charisma, humour and presence.
>cheating
you should probably stop drinking too
Where and how do I get charisma, humour or presence?
Yeah, I should.
from confidence found in being happy with oneself
pretend like you want to fuck them
reroll ur stats till u get them.
do u get nervous around chicks you like? i do and it leads to me getting weird and tense. if i don't really like them that much i act more naturally. now if you don't naturally have charisma then i can't help you.