How do you cope with the fact that you dont even know how to hug or kiss a girl Yas Forums and you are above 21 years...

I had never kissed a girl until 25, 2 years later and I'm still with her

You literally just have to try

I know 2 people that got married pretty late, like in their 30s. They are both mentally challenged, he doesnt even know how to read/write and she is dumb as a brick, actually retarded, can barely speak properly. They were both virgins and they still managed to fuck just fine and now they have kids. You're gonna be fine OP, when the time comes, your natural instincts will kick in.

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>Im 26 and never kissed a girl.
>proceeds to give advice on how to get laid
Sounds about right

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It's pretty normal these days, user. I wouldn't worry about it.

Your sex life won't pick up until you've got your own place. A few people get started earlier for whatever reason and a decent chunk have at least a handful of experiences before this landmark but it's really not the norm and never has been. It doesn't really get going until you've also got your own money.

This is happening later and later nowadays because of more education and a shittier economy, so the "start having sex" date is being pushed back with it, but all the newly sexless youth tend to be just as sex-having as their parents were in a few years time.

I don't think you're "late" until the mid-20s these days.

Nobody is having as much sex as you think they are.

>taking advice from a guy who has only ever kissed one girl and is now in a relationship because he knows it probably won’t ever happen again

Is the goal to kiss a lot of girls, or is the goal to be in a happy long-term relationship?

Your answer to this question will affect who you should take advice from.

So many losers in this thread coping wtf.

I was a khv until I was 19 but some user on here made me realize that there’s a very real way to go out and make social gains and get laid. I’ve been with over 200 girls up to this point and I thank that user for changing my life forever.

We have a Discord channel with guys working on coming up and forever putting their r9k incel personality behind them; if you want to join I’ll personally help you build your social life so that you can finally see what it’s like to be desired by women irl and online.

discord.gg/9xMMhf

The goal is to figure out what makes you happy and you can’t do that properly if you’ve only ever experienced one thing.

>The goal is to figure out what makes you happy
Chances are, you already know.

I cope by being 19
I still have a chance to make it and be accepted by normies, bros
also I actually cope with deadlifts. :(
just get HER drunk

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>Your sex life won't pick up until you've got your own place
Haha, yeah dude... totally...

By being depressed and suicidal. Also I'm 25

just talk to more girls. its literally a numbers game. the more girls you talk to. the more likely you are to get laid.

Well, that's what the studies suggest and it was true for me.

Obviously some people are fucked (or not fucked, as the case may be), but there's no point worrying about not making it if you're not yet even at the point where normalfags make it.

>I don't know... I was really into user until I found out he's never even had a girlfriend... and like? there must be a reason?
>Whaaaaat?
>Yeah I know... kinda worried he's going to be one of those incel guys
>Lol you know what would be funny? Make him think you're about to fuck him... then send him pictures of you & Chad and just block him
>My ex? He's kinda a douchebag but he's got a great dick... yeah I should haha

discord.gg/9xMMhf

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>chances are you already know which ice cream is your favourite without having tried any of the other flavours

You know what you think you like, but you have no idea because you’ve never actually done anything else. Experience is literally the only way to know which experiences you enjoy and which you don’t. Anything else is cope.

I () live with my mom

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Your life is not a flavour of ice cream.

There's some merit to what you're saying, but it's only because the random assortment of words that your sub-moron brain has generated has by chance aligned into a sentence that's not totally retarded. It misses the larger point, which is that enjoyment is not the goal. Enjoyment comes from discernible progress towards achieving the goal.

There's no need for you to reply to my posts anymore.

>A man can do what he wants, but not want what he wants.
Arthur Schopenhauer

I kiss fucking great my dude, i hug great too

Schopenhauer has better quotes.

>The brain may be regarded as a kind of parasite of the organism, a pensioner, as it were, who dwells with the body: and leisure, that is, the time one has for the free enjoyment of one’s consciousness or individuality, is the fruit or produce of the rest of existence, which is in general only labor and effort. But what does most people’s leisure yield?—boredom and dullness; except, of course, when it is occupied with sensual pleasure or folly. How little such leisure is worth may be seen in the way in which it is spent: and, as Ariosto observes, how miserable are the idle hours of ignorant men!—ozio lungo d’uomini ignoranti. Ordinary people think merely how they shall spend their time; a man of any talent tries to use it. The reason why people of limited intellect are apt to be bored is that their intellect is absolutely nothing more than the means by which the motive power of the will is put into force: and whenever there is nothing particular to set the will in motion, it rests, and their intellect takes a holiday, because, equally with the will, it requires something external to bring it into play. The result is an awful stagnation of whatever power a man has—in a word, boredom. To counteract this miserable feeling, men run to trivialities which please for the moment they are taken up, hoping thus to engage the will in order to rouse it to action, and so set the intellect in motion; for it is the latter which has to give effect to these motives of the will. Compared with real and natural motives, these are but as paper money to coin; for their value is only arbitrary—card games and the like, which have been invented for this very purpose. And if there is nothing else to be done, a man will twirl his thumbs or beat the devil’s tattoo; or a cigar may be a welcome substitute for exercising his brains.

Just go out, if you aren't clapped you can pull

You can cope all you want, but at the end of the day your friends and the women in your life still laugh at you

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I told you not to reply to my posts.

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>inflamed, pedantic quote
I think you'll find it well the genius in simplicity.
here I am careful. I don't disparage him, though I hold no man as a god, I disparage you.
Thus with nothing more needing to be said I'll repeat.
>A man can do what he wants, but not want what he wants.
Arthur Schopenhauer

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Go back to your slampig gf and tell her that the boys online were being mean to you

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>is a discord namefag who thinks that because he has a bunch of e-"friends" who circlejerk him he's a "somebody"
>tells others to go back
This website has gone to fucking shit.

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when has being drunk ever not worked for anything ever? pretty hard to give bad advice about getting drunk.

girls are retarded whores. just look at the dumb fucking astrology shit they talk about. what are their skills? wearing clothes that are too tight and drinking sugary coffee? watching tv? fucking garbage is what they are.

do you never leave the house? there are massive quantities of people of all ages that drink to excess and do stupid shit.

Whatever dude

The very thought of being emotionally involved with a girl makes me sick to the stomach. I broke up with my gf because I felt nothing toward her, even a little disgust. Cuddling, kissing, talking about emotional stuff, etc., pure fucking cringe. I just want to fuck sluts nothing else. And even that is quite disgusting once I coom.
I wish I had 0 sexual desire but good health. It has only brought me trouble

rename yourself to prancing lala homo man and I'll consider joining.

I hugged countless girls, kissed four and had sex with one. I'm only 27. You can call me chad.

Nigga I am an 18 year old strongfat manlet balding retard and I’ve made out with three girls in my lifetime. Please stop being autistic. Work on your personality and not being such a shy cunt and maybe someone will fucking like you. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Being an incel is a mentality rather than a state of being. There are disabled people and midgets and fatasses and deformed people that have girlfriends. Just shut the fuck up. Also yes, coffee is good for you.

I feel the same way, user. Sex is so fucking primitive and disgusting.

>and now they have kids
no civilized society should allow this

>This website has gone to fucking shit.
not him but you have pretty high expectations.
and when things do not go your way you seethe in the nostalgia.
yet really it's you that's choosing to seethe.
You let some guy with no understanding of asceticism crawl under your skin.
a guy who has
>been with over 200 girls up to this point
upholds his entire human value on a number.
We should aspire to be men, user.
That means being able to control ourselves, to understand ourselves, to create ourselves, and to even destroy ourselves.

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Not only sex, romance too
I just want to be alone
I love being alone

gay ass post my nigga delete it
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That's true, but somebody needs to make sure these morons know that they're not welcome.

Besides, it's fun.

I don't find romance disgusting but I do find it pathetic. It infuriates me how much of life revolves around reproduction. I want to be better than that.

we wouldn't exist if our life didn't revolve around reproduction.

I'm married. Planning to work on a kid this year

marriage is the new word for cuckold

Extremely based

Is that so bad?

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kek

Whatever helps you sleep at night, best goy.

haha yes, everyone who is against marriage is also a jew! you caught me. I'll try harder next time

>caring about girls

lmao

absolutely based

>The very thought of being emotionally involved with a girl makes me sick to the stomach. I broke up with my gf because I felt nothing toward her, even a little disgust. Cuddling, kissing, talking about emotional stuff, etc., pure fucking cringe
based
>I just want to fuck sluts nothing else
cringe
these are basal desires and define us as animals.
this
Based
I often detest society, but these rebellious thoughts are actions of a child.
men concentrate and move beyond emotion.
>I love being alone
I often say men are solitary creatures.
You resemble the alpha chimp, in my alpha chimp hypothesis.
I do too.
men that seek relationships with women in someways are women themselves.
almost NO people can intellectually stimulate me.
I used to go to therapy when I was a kid because my mother demanded it, and that was when I realized even my family lacks the ability to think like me, they thought I thought incorrectly, and that I needed to be fixed.
pathetic people.
I'd say they are the people I hate the most, because I know them the most.
They waste my time the most.
They bother me the most.
Even the therapist was an utter retard. I could tell by they way they didn't understand anything I said. It's like most people can't fathom anything beyond themselves.
So?
I care every little about existing.
Even in room full of people, say thanksgiving, surrounded by "family" I am still alone.
humans are often repeating and uninteresting.

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