> Went through a period of poor mental health and social isolation from about 17-20 > Get over my depression and anxiety around 21 and start getting my life together > Lift, dress better, get on accutane, start tanning, and improve my social skills > Now I'm at a point where I could probably lose my virginity quite easily as girls do respond positively to me > However, because I have virtually no sex experience, I am apprehensive as fuck to escalate things with girls that I talk to > I really just want to get that first time out of the way so that I can overcome the psychological barrier > I'm debating whether to just hire a hot escort for an hour, or whether I will regret it and should instead try to get a 'legit' smash by banging some girl when she's semi-drunk and can barely remember how awkward I was in bed
Thoughts? Have any of you lost your virginity to an escort? Did you regret it, or did it provide you with the confidence to get laid for real?
Love how her armed is positioned to hide her protruding gut and rolls. She’s still a knockout and id smash but fuck is this tiring and a joke about a joke about a joke at this point.
Gabriel Diaz
be a muscle wizard, user.
Easton Morales
I'm your age and lost mine to one a few months ago, just did it to know what it was like to have sex at least once in my youth but it hasn't had a huge effect on me. I've got some mental issues too, but I doubt I'll ever get over them myself so YMMV. Nice experience at the time, though
Cameron Reed
Just get it over with I lost it at age 22 as well You should probably get a hotel though, don't let shady people know where you live
Liam Murphy
just fuck an escort. you'll feel much better getting it off your chest and it's really not that bad, they're usually professional and very clean.
Usually they'll ask you to take a shower, if they make you brush your teeth and gargle it's because they'll be kissing you.
Dylan Scott
The reason I say I might 'regret it' is because our culture sort of hypes up the idea of our first time, even for guys. Is it really that big a deal, or is it completely underwhelming for most people? People seem to talk about their first time getting laid as if it always stays with them...
Aaron Morris
No it doesn't ONLY YOU keep the pussy on the pedestal
Josiah White
Was the experience actually good, though? I've heard some guys say that the escorts seem completely disinterested (even disgusted), and basically just let you have your way with them. I'm not expecting it to be a 'genuine' experience by any means, but I don't want to end up turning up at some grubby flat to find a foreign girl who doesn't speak a word of English and looks nothing like her pictures, lmao.
Luke Mitchell
it stays with most people because it's fucking awful or awkward. I'm not gonna sugar coat this, you're 22 and you haven't had sex yet, most people manage this in Highschool or early College. You keep this up you're gonna be hitting 35 with nothing to show for it. Get an escort, have sex with her, and you'll realise that sex is nice, but it isn't something to get hung up on
Logan Nelson
go on an escort website, look for ones with verified photos. If it seems to good to be true it won't be. Look for ones that say they enjoy the job, at the very least they won't dead fish you.
Ethan Cook
Yeah, you're probably right. How many lays do you think it takes before you start feeling comfortable in bed and sex feels routine, rather than being nervous af..
Nicholas Morales
>sex is nice >but nothing to get hung up on >so fuck a whore and have to live with that
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Mason Adams
This. Sex is... I don't want to say that's it's overrated - it's pretty damn good and enjoyable, but your time with an escort is going to feel like an intense masturbation session. If you have the money, for your first time, go for the 2-hour thing, where you actually have a date with her too, to max out the social gains and learn the "date-to-sex" combo.
Jacob King
A couple months with a girlfriend will have you fucking enough to feel comfortable Ass slapping and hairpulling always seems to work for me
Michael Howard
True. I need to discard these romantic ideas of losing it with my high-school sweetheart; I'm past that stage and have some catching up to do. There's this girl who escorts in my town who used to work for Babestation (this adult TV channel for glamour models). She is around my age and seems into it from her online profiles; I am probably going to go to her to get it over and done with. And if it's good, I might go another few times for the 'experience', then start working on getting laid for real.
Luis Rodriguez
Get an escort and just tell her. It's just sex man get it out the way.
If you can't get a drunk slut some time after go ahead and get another escort to keep you thinking more clearly and not stopped up with 22 yrs worth of cum clouding your judgement.
Get on tinder. They're all looking for the same thing you are
Josiah Turner
Sex with the emotional connection > paid sex
but if you have to nut, you gotta nut
Ian Thomas
It was nice, just be prepared to do your research and pay a good price for a nice one. Mine was a Russian on tour and a former gymnast. A little older than in her pictures but still under 25 I think. She feigned interest well enough for me, but like I hinted at, this was a purely lustful experience for me. That's all you should really expect.
Evan Turner
I usually just lift myself man Yas Forums is so diverse
Matthew Collins
I lost my virginity this year at 31 with a 22 year old virgin. Don't give up.
Cameron Martinez
I think I'm gonna do it. Although it would feel weird af for me to be on a 'date' with an escort before smashing knowing that I was paying for her time. Would rather just get down to the act..
Connor Lopez
Only meaningful sex I ever had has been when there’s an emotional connection. Loveless sex is pretty bad.
Evan Martinez
I'm sure she'll be down for that too just let her know. Dont get all hung up on being akward or anything , we all are the first time. She's used to gross old fucks with all kinds of stupid fetishes so get out of your head as much as you can and just go with it. She doesn't know you and you don't know her, there's nothing to feel weird about after.
Easton White
It's not so much that I'm incapable of getting laid. I've had several girls be very touchy-feely with my on nights on, and I do fairly well on Tinder. But the fact I have zero experience stops me from escalating things; I am a very self-aware person, which is a negative when it comes to getting laid.
Your situation is ideal, though. Did you ever consider escorts?
Liam Taylor
Nah bro, Fuck the hooker.
My first time I had sex I spilled my spaghetti with this older qt I worked with, I talked a big game and came in like 7 seconds. She literally laughed at me then I had to see her again because I worked with her at the time. If I hooker laughed at me It wouldn't have mattered at all to me.
Your first time won't mean shit emotionally unless it's a bad experience. Plus you'll probably fuck up because you'll be nervous the first few times.
Fuck the hooker for sure, It's good practice. But don't kiss her
Cooper Turner
Stop comparing yourself to porn. You're not a professional and you're not going to jackhammer someone in each position for 30 minutes. Find someone and really understand each other and your dick will know what to do.
Jose James
t. literally 0 ng/dL actually vagina-having emotional pussy bitch boy
Jackson Sanders
Do you think you're going to know how to throw your fuck after one hooker? She's going to do all the work and you'll bust in 5 minutes. You'll probably forget where the fucking pussy is after you fuck her. Hint: that shit is WAY lower than you think.
Christian Myers
My best friend did it at about 22 or 23. He was in colombia on some work trip and he just decided to get it over with, i think he had girlfriends and shit since then but we fell out because I was a loser and he was only kind of a loser.
Carson Young
Wait a second... i remember this thread...
Grayson Lewis
OP, legit don't do it. It's fine if your first time doesn't go perfectly. They rarely do. Missy girls that aren't shallow whore will NOT care. I fucked an ugly chick cause I was 19 and scared I was getting too old. I was getting good attention, but she just threw herself at me so I said fuck it. I felt disgusted with myself for letting her get the pleasure of being with me just cause she has a willing hole. Sex is great, but sex is usually best with someone you actually like. Inb4 all the nihilists say girls always care its ur first/all women are whores/just get it out of the way. Just let it come naturally with someone you like and it'll probably be awkward but I always wish I would have lost it that way
Sebastian Turner
Do not lose your virginity to a fucking hooker. Find someone you like that isnt a huge whore and they wont know what they are doing either. Sex is literally the easiest thing in the world, just do what feels good.
Bentley Adams
This
Jaxon Campbell
ignore these retards. Ask a girl out, if you're clearly gonna sleep together, bring it up, usually they'll be understanding.
Jeremiah Harris
For fucks sake user, don't do it with a hooker. It should be with a woman you love, it's going to hollow you out since sex without love is crushing.
Angel Green
tfw 28 khv
Isaiah Morris
No faggot.
I've never had a problem getting pussy. This is mostly because I just really don't give a fuck and usually just ask girls straight up. I've been told to fuck off many times, but I've been given the same energy back even more times.
Seriously get on Tinder or something and just ask. Take things quickly, girls are hornier than you may think they are.
Leo Watson
I lost my virginity when i was 13 to my then 15 yo ex. She was molested by her grandpa and sex was over the top. She imposed it on me btw i was just a 13 yo nerd trying to play wc 3 tft. From there ive banged a couple of hot chicks but nothing makes me blow a load like degrading sex w/ an escort. Just totally face fucking the shit out of them and blowing a load on their face w/ no regret is over the top
Aaron King
Nah, man. First times are not something special but paying for it is a mistake. You need to put yourself out there more and find a girl. You did all of this work on yourself just to pay for an hour of pussy?
Lost my v plates to a hooker at 15 in the red light district in Soho london.....best redpill ever. I remember her wiping her cunt with a washcloth and beckoning to me I was next. It was an eye opening experience. Do it user.
Nicholas Edwards
Fuck yeah. Dude the amount of "morality" of these nerds is astonishing.
Leo Johnson
There are plenty of 9s and 10s on eros.com. They go for 500 or more an hour, but worth it.
Pornstars go for 1k-1,500 an hour theluxurycompanion.com/
Mason Allen
This. I lost it while I was drunk at 19. (Absolutely s-0y but I don't drink or do drugs any more) and I just did whatever I thought would be fun. At one point I got tired and lost my erection for the alc and just went to sleep. Woke up later and woke her up to keep going. Blew a load on her cooter and then hit it for round two. (She was on birth control but I still would NOT recommend). And afterwards she told her friends I fucked like a pornstar. Just do whatever and they'll usually like the alpha vibes
Lincoln Cook
Lost my v card at 17 to a hooker with track marks. She bled all over me when she was riding. Didn't say she was on her period. Sucked me off without a condom. I'm pretty sure I got aids guys. Haven't been with anyone since. Tfw 31yrs old
Ayden Reyes
damn bro she told all her friends you fuck like a porn star even though you were a virgin huh, and ill bet they all then wanted to fuck you and you had an orgy huh?
Joseph Reed
I bought a woman for my first time when I was 20. Thrice prior to that I had opportunities to lose my V but couldn't get it up out of nervous anxiety and placing massive importance on losing it. After that hooker it was clear sailing. I don't regret it but I do regret placing so much importance on sex and virginity. I blame jewish media like American Pie and shit. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin.
William Thomas
Paying for sex is gross and pathetic and doesn't count as losing your virginity any more than wanking does. That said, it might not be a bad idea at your age to demystify sex and maybe boost your confidence. Just don't make a habit of it.
Juan Price
Considering that within the next ~2 months you'll probably be dead from coronavirus, you may as well while you have a chance.
Isaac Allen
user... you will never see a hooker that looks anything like that, not even 1/5th as attractive as that. Think about the slags out there in the 21st century who want to sell their bodies but can't make it as a camgirl or insta thot.
Liam Barnes
Jesús Christ dude, you’re hopping from one extreme to the other. Just get some girl friends, and let it escalate naturally.
Jayden Green
You're still going to have to fuck non-hookers eventually, user.
I say you just try and get laid as normal with a "regular" woman. There is a very high likelihood that she'll find your virginity endearing and show you a good time.
OR, do the same thing but with an older woman. It doesn't even need to be a mom or someone in their 40s. A woman in their 30s will show you a mind blowing time.
Parker Reed
Guys I'm 30 yrs old and I'm ugly asf. No luck on tinder and none of my friends have any available single female friends. I suck bad, should I just go to escorts?
Grayson Ward
I forget the name of the company, but it's the one that Emily Bloom works for.
Regardless, you can sign up for a super sensual tantric massage session with their trained professional. It's pretty wild. Expensive, but the experience is unbelievable. There was an user here that has done it a few times.