How do you deal with passive aggressive behaviour now that you’re lifting and making gains?
Passive Aggressive behaviour
Christopher Wilson
Jayden Gomez
Every dude I’ve ever met, even with my own brother, there is always some alpha male shit that I just can’t be bothered with. I’m pretty tall (6’2) and lift and I feel like that might be why I’m tested? I feel like II get challenged everywhere, in the work place often, had this skinny manlet one time tell me “you want a real workout? Try holding a ladder sturdy for 4 hours while a big dude rattles around on the top of it”. Like I could hammer back and tell him to load up 315lbs on his back and squat down with it 8 times but I just don’t feel the need to go there.I had this manlet newbie lifter at work do this passive aggressive shit when the coworkers and I would be standing in a circle communicating about the job and he’d slowly position himself to stand in front of me with his back facing me, like full on blocking me. He’d do it everyday throughout the day then i called him out on it and he acted like he was doing nothing wrong and pretended like he didn’t even notice it was happening. I noticed he never did it to anymore else. He’d act all buddy buddy to me when it was just me and him and then when he was around other guys he’d be a completely different person to me. He wouldnt even look at me or talk to me he’d talk about me thru his buddies as they stood right in front of me. I have many more stories, I guess I just haven’t found good people or something, idk. I just wanna be cool and talk about fun shit, I don’t wanna judge you or try to one up you. But idk. I just dont know man.
Benjamin Bell
My passive aggressiveness? I just stare until I get what I want
Someone else being passive aggressive towards me? I just stare until they go away.
Ian Lee
I was skinny (160lbs at 6’0) for 25 years of my life and took shit what seemed like all the time. Then I started lifting and bulking, then I got to 185lbs and joined Jiu Jitsu, did some tournaments, one competition (that I won) dude fucking “accidentally” punched me in the nose (because he was losing I was in top mount) when he was going to grab my gi collar and made my noise bleed, so I went to for a collar choke on top mount and “accidentally” elbowed him on the way down and then told him “no more punches okay?”. Felt good to win, we hugged it out after but damn that was a tense battle. Gave me so much confidence made me feel like I was doing a mma match. Then I got into boxing. Now if ever tries to pull massive aggressive shit on me I call them out, you can make fun of me and think it’s all a game but I’ll push you around to show everyone you’re my bitch and if u lay a finger on me I’ll take u to the ground and beat ur face in.
Landon Richardson
Pretend to commit fellatio
Jordan Moore
I’m in my mid 20s and I’m so angry by all the shit I’ve taken. But every little bit has hardened me, one day I will go werewolf and go wild.
Parker Edwards
I used to have assholes trying to fight me when I went out to bars and shit (I don't really go out anymore)
Like I would literally be at the bar talking to friends/girlfriends and people would come up trying to start shit
Ended up getting kicked out of the military for beating a guy who suckerpunched me (honorable discharge so it's whatever)
Now I just hang out with my doggy and carry a glock when I go out
Fuck people
Kayden Diaz
>joined Jiu Jitsu
>you’re my bitch and if u lay a finger on me I’ll take u to the ground and beat ur face in
Jacob Moore
That’s shitty bro but take it as a compliment. They picked you to fight cuz they felt threatened by you. I went to school with a guy who’s 6’5 300lb steroid monster who worked as a bouncer at one of the shady local night clubs and he had these 185lb skid rats trying to pick fightswith him
Isaiah Jenkins
>mocks that user to his face irl
>get taken to the ground and have ur face smashed in
>cry and call the cops “I-I-I was t-t-talking s-shit and I g-got h-hit!, arrest h-him pls!”
>try to press charges, realize how costly it’ll be to pursue such minor charges
>drop the charges, be forever known as the pussy that talked shit, got beat up and tried to the police