At what point do I propose to my GF. It's been about 6 months we are madly in love, everything is perfect. Our parents like us, and they like each other. She cooks and she cleans, supports my career, is a christian, wants kids, a husband and a traditional family. If we eventually have a son, she doesnt want to circumsize him.
Shes absolutely perfect, but I've been told 6 months isnt enough time. I know enough about her to where if she told me her deepest darkest secrets I could look past them (outside of a very few things). I dont see myself marrying another girl, I dont see myself having sex with anyone else. I'm ready to make that jump.
do NOT marry a woman until youve dated for at least a year and a half.
Jayden Peterson
Wait 2 years at least people change
Juan Richardson
Do you really think Yas Forums is the best place to ask for advice surrounding actual interpersonal relationships with females?
Jayden Hughes
circumcise your heart cuckboy woops I mean breed and consume
Jose Ward
>Shes absolutely perfect For cuck you with BBC
Mason Sanders
Three years at the very least. Most relationships begin to fall apart after about two years. Three is enough time to get a decent idea of what you'd be dealing with the rest of your life.
Jacob Fisher
Did she have sex with another man?
Luke Stewart
>do NOT marry a woman FTFY. Why marry when you can bang her for free? Why are people still advising young men to marry? It's insanity
just get her pregnant. fuck all your cuck shit and worrying about the right time to ask. get her pregnant. pregnancy is forever
Nicholas Garcia
6 months... she's still trying to please you... give it enough time she will get lazy and then you will see the real her.
Juan Taylor
I'd say take her, but considering the lock down... Show her some Ring's and find the right size/and the best thing she like. buy it. Then propose after an entire day with her only.
Michael Gutierrez
I want more than sex from her, I want a family, kids, a wife.
See that's the response I usually get. If we are in love why not go for it? Why do I need to wait some arbitrary amount of years for something i know is meant to be?
Jacob Peterson
Dude look up PUPPY DOG PHASE and then just stop and wait You’re probably
Angel Gonzalez
How does it feel guys like me come over when you’re at work and fuck your wife
T. Fucking a Brazilian girl I met on tinder who is married
The surprise proposal shit is a jew meme. You should have an open and honest discussion retard
Owen Reed
>ask a woman what to do next Don't listen to this faggot. You don't ask a woman if she will marry you. You already know the answer is yes, because you skip this bullshit and tell her to have your kids. Then when she has them and is done you marry her. Don't be retarded about it though. Fluff it up and be romantic, but make sure the focus is to have kids. Marriage was long dead before fags started getting married. Kids are the glue now, society/marriage will do nothing to make the relationship last.
Adam Watson
Also don't let her know you bought the ring!
Ethan Sanchez
>why not go for it ?
Ya , go make an impulsive decision based on 6 months of being with some thot
Ayden Phillips
What are her deep dark secrets, user?
Charles Wilson
OP, no. Just no. I was in a relationship for 8 years - I was just about to propose when it ended. The years following, I have realized what a bullet I dodged. Everybody is giving you time periods, 1/2/3 years. NEVER is the time period. NEVER.
If you do it anyway which lets face it, you're OP and a fucking idiot so you're gonna do it. Come to terms with the fact that you will get divorced, she will take half of your shit. At that point, just hope you don't have kids or make more money than she does or you're going to continue to live in poverty so she doesn't have to.
Tyler Long
For the commitment you goddamn degenerate
Evan Ortiz
Live together for two years and after those two years if you still get up off the couch to meet her at the door when she gets home, your marriage has a small chance of success
Landon Cruz
this FUCKING THISISSISISISISISISIISSISISS
Ayden Rogers
Yeah I was madly in love after 6 months too, turns out after another 6 months I hit the yikes button and I'm glad I dodged that bullet.
Way too soon OP. 2 years is probably around the right time to start seriously discussing it.
6 months is plenty of time if you've hit the main milestones
The people who disagree are those who fuck around and see each other 1 day a week and put their career ahead of their partner. Then they move in, grow complacent, and decide "fuck it" and get married after a couple years.
Time in a relationship means shit if you didn't put in the work. If you put in the work, 6 months is fine. And stop caring what other fags think
Aaron Peterson
You sound like an insufferable faggot. Just propose so she can laugh at you and run off with jerome already
Cameron Nguyen
Married? that is NOTHING, MAKE A FUCKING BABY WITH HER.
MAKE HER A MOTHER TO YOUR CHILD.
THAT is what you do IF you love her. Marriage is bitch tier nigger. its NOTHING until you are a FAMILY.
Ah yes. My wife expects me to greet her and carry in all her shit when she gets home yet when I get home she doesn’t fucking move a god damned bit to get out of her chair to help me with anything I may be carrying nor does she even greet me most days. FUCK.
Eli Perry
>Why? promise me you kill yourself when you get divorce raped.
Sebastian Bennett
what are her secrets?
Jordan Stewart
>See that's the response I usually get. If we are in love why not go for it? Why do I need to wait some arbitrary amount of years for something i know is meant to be? Because life is complicated and you need to go through some milestones to make sure she changes and grows for the better. It's not hard for people to be together for 6 months. It is hard to be together for 10 years...40 years even harder. What hardship have you two been through? Probably nothing
Hudson Collins
Enjoy getting shot along with the whore lol
Nicholas Jenkins
Ask her already retard. Otherwise youre going to have Shitskings and other niggers demoralizing you about how she fucks blacks. Quit asking for advice here and marry her already.
Nolan Martin
>propose If you live in a common-law state, congratulations! The choice was already made for you.
Easton Price
>dont make impulsive decision, be wise, go atleast with 25 women until you can decide who is hoe and who is a wife literally thot tire advice. you know, all those thots that sleep with 50 guys give themselves exactly the same advice
Gabriel Cruz
Everything is going great, why change that by asking her to get married?
if you marry her and do empregnate her within 6 months you risk losing her. dont but a fucking puppy or child replacement shit. if you marry her, that means nothing until you make her a mother. she will leave if you dont, or you are just wasting both your time.
marriage is NOT a big step, parenthood is, the natural step, the joyful step. marriage is meaningless without being a FAMILY
Josiah Martinez
most states don't have common law you can have a commitment without a legal marriage. I'm not saying it's wrong in every case but a lot of guys are stupidly entering marriage Everyone wants that but it just doesn't work anymore. Think about it logically
Ayden Anderson
The feels, user.
My relationship lasted 3 years. The marriage was 3 months. Both got complacent and lazy and stopped putting in effort and grew apart. Biggest regret of my life was not picking up on the signs earlier when I could've made a difference.
Brandon Bennett
how does a marriage license enhance the commitment? All I see is the colossal opportunity for a woman to ruin your life in a spectacular way.
Brandon Reyes
>outside of a very few things What are dealbreakers to you in your book?
Tyler Walker
In 10 years time when you're paying half of your wages into alimony and she's fucking your boss - I hope you remember you came to Yas Forums for advice and didn't take it.
James Gutierrez
user, women are strange creatures. They think differently, act differently, and are different from us. Most women in western countries usually have relationships that last a year by themselves, this can vary wildly once you take other variables such as kids and marriage into account though. Other anons will probably have varying answers, but I say to let it stew, not for too long though, give it 1-2 months while taking her behaviors and etcetera into account. She may be a hyper based trad aryan waifu that Yas Forums would faun over, but try to steady yourself if anything goes wrong. Just wait and see user.
Jacob Richardson
Bruh 8 years is a fucking long time for a women with short reproductive window. You need to undestand that if you don't knock her up within the first year, subconsiously she will think you're infertile and move away from you. Even if she's taking the pill and she's the one that doesn't want kids. Women are hard wired that way, in their subconscious you're infertile and wasting their time
William Harris
Don't worry about that faggy deepest darkest secret shit. Figure out finances. Seriously. That's the answer. When things get tough how are you going to handle it? Figure it out now. And do some pre-marriage counseling. Not from some marxist licensed fag. Go through a church but only do 2-3 sessions so you're not dependent. Recognize that love is a commitment and choice, not a feeling. If she's good with that you're set. That's what I did. Going on 13 years. 2 kids. Building our second home.
Daniel Jones
1 year anniversary. Hint you're going to do it then to her.
Joshua Williams
>It's been about 6 months we are madly in love okay. take the "love" and feelings out of the relationship for a bit. Get the fuck serious about things. Say and do whatever the fuck you need to say and do to screen this woman i.e. shit test her. I've known couples who get married and stay married after dating for less than a year because they treated it like a diplomatic treaty rather than a bounty of love, affection and good butterfly feelings. Start drilling her with probing questions to get a feel for how she could handle you, marriage and a family. Since commitment is a man's thing, take ownership of it and make her put in the effort for you to get down on one knee. >if she told me her deepest darkest secrets I could look past them lmao everyone says this at first. Then the girl springs some shit on you and it's a sledgehammer to the gut.
You are on par with the niggist of niggers. Enjoy your hpv
Josiah Phillips
If you live with her and everything is fine , do it ... never ask before living about a year with her ...
Carter Morales
I'm a little older than 21, and I understand what the honeymoon, puppy dog phase is. I still feel comfortable proposing even if we stop being that annoying lovey couple all the time
How would I even start that conversation? I'm basically asking her when I want to propose to her. She already told me she wants to get married with enough innuendo to imply she is ok with me proposing
She is a good Christian girls, she helps with the church kids, she sings in the choir, she prays more than I do
Why would you be in a relationship for 8 years without being married? Doesnt the novelty of a bf/gf relationship get old?
We havent lived together because our parents both dont agree with non married couples living together, but she has spent weekends and we are compatible.
How did it fall apart?
Thanks that's what I thought too
Fuck theres too many responses. I think I'm just going to go for it. Buy a ring and propose and get her to move in together. We wont actually get married until some time living together, but at least I proposed
Actually it is. Despite 95% of responses being trolls or shills the dudes who are here have big hearts. Shills need to jump in a river.
David Morales
Give her a talk then user or try to treat her the same way she treats you.
John Clark
nigga nobody fucking cares shut the fuck up you faggot
John Evans
Shitsking here, she did fuck blacks
Jackson Gray
>I don’t see myself fucking someone else
Lol I’ll be she does, you sound like such a simp
Elijah Williams
More like kikeking.
Adrian Thompson
What does your father have to say?
Jaxon Jones
A mediocre looking woman with the confidence of a bombshell. Those dudes shouldn't be so intimidated she's worth half them
Brandon Robinson
"We havent lived together because our parents both dont agree with non married couples living together, but she has spent weekends and we are compatible."
Living with someone will reveal who and how they really are. You will both fight. A LOT. If you can make it through that and then make it through a couple years and still feel that attraction, then it's enough time.
Marrying and then moving in together in today's day and age is how a bitter divorce happens and she takes half of your shit. If you are even thinking about that route, hire a lawyer to draft a prenup.
Elijah Bailey
You algerians have a thing with blacks don't you. We all know about Algerian women fucking Blacks in France
French Teenagers Hate Each Other Because Arab Girls Are Dating Black Boys Some Arab girls in suburban France are dating black boys, and the modern-day West Side Story tale doesn't sit well with certain Arab boys.
>6 months Just a little longer. Bonne chance, user!
Christopher Gray
>Everybody changes. Hell I'm not the same guy I was 2 years ago. But i want her, no matter who she becomes Don’t believe a sap, man. Also you should try living with her for a year or so. You don’t know someone completely until you live with them.
Andrew Long
Only dealbreakers are if she had degenerate sex, like a bathroom hookup or threesome but she isnt that type of girl. I wasnt her first, nor was she mine but I know she didnt sleep around like that
Christian White
Doi doi simp doi simp. How retarded are you to to distort what a word means ? A simp is a guy that drags himself through mud in order to get a girl’s attention. If you're in a relationship you're not a simp.
William Gomez
WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT LOOK LOOOK LOOOK LOOK ANSWER You missed my previous 2 requests. What are her deep dark secrets you mentioned within the OP? I work in psychology and I can give you additional information if you spill the beans
Kevin Cook
In it for the long haul. Married for 6 years. 2 kids. Don’t want to get raped by the courts over child support.
Xavier Taylor
Tbh I waited 3 1/2 years before me and my gf actually got married. Its up to you man. If you believe she feels the same way as you what have you got to lose by trying?
John Russell
Women fake who they really are user, you might think you know her, but you don't. Don't marry her for at least 2 years minimum. She can act like she "loves" you until you find her tinder profile, fucking every Chad in a 50 mile radius.
Michael Brooks
Try to hit one year just to be safe, make sure you guys are compatible living together too, take a note of her habits, etc.
