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>29
>Never gotten a date in my life, not for lack of trying
>Worked my ass off, bought a home and car, got a massive head start on the suburban white picket fence lifestyle I wanted compared to my millennial peers
>No wife or family to share house with
>Tried to cope with travel, material goods, and "focusing on friendships"
>All feels empty
>Despite financial success, friends and family think I'm a loser because I'm almost 30 and never kissed a girl
What's wrong with me? I thought I did everything right. What did I do wrong?

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>has friends
>thinks he has issues

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>get ripped
>sluts will jump on your cock
Women are repelled by your submissive nature.
I've had the opposite problem. I've had to intentionally stay away from women because they do not deserve me and they will not learn to be women until men stand firm.

Bruh just relax and enjoy the money.. Id literally kill to be on ur spot

Yaaas king. Them hoes don’t deserve you

You did so well you outclassed the modern woman.

>le bullshit
>complete
>for want of trying
You made the whole thing up but in this larp what did you do to try?

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Lol kys loser

I've met a couple that I would have gone for but the last one was actually a professor of mine. So it was the broken system that fucked it up. Whatever faggot.

You have an outlook problem, learn to enjoy the small things in life. If you really want help go see a therapist and just straight up tell them what you wrote here. Ask for help fixing your problems, they can give you insight you may have never considered. Good luck OP

You know how I know this is a liar lying? I fucked a lot of women and I know the single biggest factor in that was money.
It wouldn’t be up to this hypothetical incel it would be up to the women around him and they do not turn down money. If money had tried money would have succeeded, because it always does.

You're gonna make it user. It seems like you have a great work ethic, so just harness some of that to get more fit. Worse men have found love.

it only works on sluts if u spend it like a retard

women are meh user,
fwiw the younger they are the less they care about money

You have a fucking HOUSE faggot how have you not gotten pussy

Literally just go to a bar, you HAVE actually been out to meet women right?

>Despite financial success, friends and family think I'm a loser because I'm almost 30 and never kissed a girl

No, you are projecting your own thoughts and perception into your family. Sure they probably hope you find a girl, but they (in 95% of the cases, unless you have a very toxic family) do not think you're a loser.

Also, I can almost guess that the reason you dont have a girl despite your criterias at this age is most likely cause you havnt "exposed" yourself enough. There are a lot of single moms out there screaming for you if you're that desperate.

/Normie on Pol

Just lie to women and say you have experience unless they turn out to be virgins, too.

Or he’ll just go on Tinder and say you spent your life working to be successful and now you’re looking for your first. Someone will bite as long as you weigh less than 200lbs.

I'm 19 and the closest relationship I ever had with a girl was in literally elementary school. Some people are just destined to be without girlfriends. I know I'm more than capable of getting a girlfriend tho. I've been raised by a single mother and three sisters, and I'd say after seeing them and their dozens of boyfriends I think I know what women want which is attention. I have the "I don't care" attitude and don't go out of my way to chase thots or pussy so I'm just hoping a girl will come along one day and be interested in me.

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You might have aspergers or some shit like that. There is no way you’re almost 30, have a house, car and a job, still haven’t to manage to get a 5/10 girls. Yeez, you never even kissed one.

Why not just buying children sized silicone sex dolls?

lower your standards or find a girl abroad

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Nevermind

Three sisters you say? You ever rummage through one their top drawers and have a tug with one of their thongs draped over your face like a real man?

I think it's just a matter of time, imho. I met my bf on a random imageboard. It just happens really, nothing you can do to force it.

>Never gotten a date in my life, not for lack of trying
Define trying. I can give you some advice. I've had a 4-5 year relationship, dates with many women and many one night stands.

Yeah when I was in college, I thought this lifestyle would rock. It fucking sucks. "Enjoying the money" just feels like an empty distraction.

Variety of social gatherings, dating apps, asking women out for coffee or drinks after having a good chat with them at said social gatherings. Then I tried "not trying" for a few years to see if things would just unfold naturally. Nothing.
It's not like a walk around with T-shirt that has my credit score printed on it and even then, the money doesn't matter if you're not actively spending it on them. I had a friend try to set me up with one of her friends at a party and I was chatting with her and mentioned I owned a house and she was gushing about how impressive my financial situation was for my age. I asked her out for coffee at the end of the night and she gave me the usually "Hmmm I think I'm busy, I'll let you know" runaround.

desu id take your spot anyday
having a gf isnt that amazing like you think.
is he ugly?

It's not a rare occurrence. I am in a very similar situation to OP. I also have my own house and going to the bars to meet women here is not very likely where I am at.

>single mother and three sisters
You’ll make some overweight “sex abuse victim” very happy someday.

But yes, women want attention. Which is why you’re better off chasing success instead of women. If you chase two rabbits, you will lose them both.

And for the love of God, don’t let a woman walk all over you and think that you should let them. Just because you might feel like the girls in your life had it rough doesn’t mean that some spoiled girl outside of your family has had it rough, too.

I haven't had any trouble making friends. I've been to therapy, asperger's never came up.

You have your entire 20s, just wait till you hit 30 and still have never even had a date.

Have sex incel

Our place in the Universe is unknown to us, we might feel alone, we might feel sad, but in the end it is just what God had planned for us all along.
Stay strong user, instead of thinking of the things you dont have, which is infinite, think of the things you do have.

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>Also, I can almost guess that the reason you dont have a girl despite your criterias at this age is most likely cause you havnt "exposed" yourself enough. There are a lot of single moms out there screaming for you if you're that desperate.
does this work if the guy seems independent
from what ive seen they like the needy men

it may or may not have happened. shhhh

Stop busting nuts

testosterone = more confidence, that's just a fact

Benefits vary depending how addicted you are, if you were a daily fapper like me that was on a good diet already u will notice a lot changes. Performance in sports due to more energy, better skin and hair is a fact as you are preserving more nutrients, if you were a fag scared of talking to girls well guess what if you start eating some steak and get on a mediterranean diet by day 7 (which is when test levels peak) if you can keep yourself occupied and not fap for that long, well u will most likely get laid by just going out (especially if u already had potential like me)

tldr; the more addicted u are the more benefits u will experience don't listen to enemies of progress

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Are you uggo? Post a pic of your face.

>single moms
Yeah i guess if he wants used up trash he could probably get his pick. But most men don't want used up women with baggage that isn't their own.

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If you want to be good racing cars should you learn to how to build a car? How to manage a car company? Marketing and finance? Should you learn to weld? Should you learn to use CAD so you can design the perfect race car?

No you just gotta fucking drive.

Drug dealers get pussy. Greasy alcoholics get pussy. Motherfuckers with face tattoos who live with their parents get pussy. Girls don’t really give a shit about your 401k. You just have learn to get girls not all the other shit you’ve focused on.

>It's not like a walk around with T-shirt that has my credit score printed on it and even then, the money doesn't matter if you're not actively spending it on them. I had a friend try to set me up with one of her friends at a party and I was chatting with her and mentioned I owned a house and she was gushing about how impressive my financial situation was for my age.
As an experiment, I would tell you to not mention anything about your success with the next woman you talk to. Lie if you have to. You may be too attached to your success without realizing it. You still have time to meet a woman but you need to lower your standards, but not your standards regarding the women you meet... the standard regarding yourself and what makes you "good enough"

Based Krautbro

I mean have you ever try to approach a girl? Or have some 5/10 girl try to approach you? You probably haven’t noticed...

Are you ugly? Post a selfie or body picture. blur face if it'll make you more comfortable. If ugly or skinnyfat hit the gym.

Solid. As an experiment try being a total asshole for a week. (Not a rapist, just rude and selfish). See if you don’t suddenly find yourself swimming in poon.

just fuck bitches & get money
dont listen to normies you dont need to be in a relationship just because everyone else is in one
you already know they are all still miserable so why do you really want to have a relationship?

What this guy says
sounds like you should be in a great mood, stop busting nuts!

>every girl, and I do mean EVERY girl who is worth a damn already has chad for bf, two brads for friends, and a swarm of orbiters who already have the message they'll send her when she and chad break up saved as a draft

>he still thinks having a good job and having his shit together is enough these days

Money is a great tool if you lack any ability with women. Don’t be too upset if your girl cheats on you with broke ass Tyrone in his flip flops though.

Gotta start somewhere. Just don’t get attached. She made herself a single mother. So, there’s no reason to feel bad when you walk out the door.

As I said here yes, I've asked girls out. Everytime if an iffy indirect no, a "sure, as a friend", or some other excuse. This is almost always in a social situation where we've gotten to chat and know each other first.
I've never had a girl show interest in me. One of my friends told me her friend thought I was cute once, but it turned out she didn't, my friend just lied because she was positive if I asked her out, she'd say yes. She did not.