I really need an explanation on this. I don’t understand how this causes Male arousal. Like...

I really need an explanation on this. I don’t understand how this causes Male arousal. Like ... my gf has explained to me she’s a sub and wants a man to treat her like a slave. She said some guys don’t actually cum or have physical sex. I said what does he get out of it? She said I dont know. I told her the guys must be all fucked up and weird cunts, and I stopped talking to her.

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>I stopped talking to her
so is she your gf or not?
as for the question, bbdsm is like a foot fetish, except much harder to understand because instead of foot, it's a notion of power, an abstract concept. A fetish in which the person gets aroused by being in the position of total control or total lack of control

Women need to be dominated, they love the feeling of being roughed up and owned.
It makes them feel wanted.

She is. I was just irritated tonight

the memeflagger is right. this is the essential woman, "being conquered"

See this I do understand. But I see bdsm as a hobby. It’s very narrowly connected to the primal urge of sex. So I can’t relate to it at all

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It's a trap, if you beat her ass she's going to get you arrested and ruin the rest of your life

Send her round to my place, I'll sort her out

Bdsm is unironically redpilled but the community is full of degenerates of the most vile sort.

>nice pic fagget

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What? Just smack your bitch around during sex and see how she like it. Alternatively, tie her up and do whatever you want, sexually or otherwise.

there is something WRONG with the image

it doesn't enlarge on my computer

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OP all women are like this, i’ve been with some innocent lookin females, dorks/nerds etc and they all love being slapped and choked, hair pulled and called dirty names as you take them doggy style.

Honestly it really puzzled me at first and didn’t know how to feel about it. Now its just another thing i do when fuckin bitches.

Try it out OP

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looks like asphyxia noir and skin diamond

It's a man thing. You wouldn't understand.

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How can you NOT get aroused by hurting women?

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>wants a man to treat her like a slave
She doesnt want you obviously you cuck.

This is a consequence of desensitization.

For a Puritan in 17 century, if you showed him your legs, he would get all hard.

In 21 century, where sex is reigning supreme, you need stronger stimulus.

Some men are the descendants of a long legacy or rape babies.

They're genetically aberrations. Other men, come from a long line of being SELECTED by females. This makes their offspring intelligent, cool-headed, and beneficial.

Which one are you?

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Kek

>Like ... my gf has explained to me she’s a sub and wants a man to treat her like a slave. She said some guys don’t actually cum or have physical sex. I said what does he get out of it? She said I dont know. I told her the guys must be all fucked up and weird cunts, and I stopped talking to her.

Send her on a one-way trip to America. You can sit there and watch my dick get rock hard as I treat your girlfriend like the cum loving little whore fucking slut that she is (provided she's legal age).

The question is what is wrong with you that this does not arouse you?

In serious: Some people (mostly women) like to feel powerless. Its a call back to the feeling of "the great big ones" aka parents watching over you. No power also brings the great feeling of no responsibility back to them.
Some other people (mostly males) want the opposite feeling of control and power. what makes it supremely sexy to the is "I know she is free to do anything she wants but she still does anything I ask her to do, she gives me total power over her decisionmaking."

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Closet gays. Vio-gay. Angry and gay, not meant to reproduce.

That big red ring in the left pic...hrm...

>this
The ideology is based but it's full of beta faggots and creeps

Bob cut looks like a slightly less sexy Kata.
Would clothespin.

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source of the cartoon

Long time lifestyle and semi professional Dom here

Sometimes dominating a woman, making her submit and do what the fuck you say can be sexy as fuck, degrading her until she really sees herself the same way she sees an animal feels amazing

Doesn't mean there's no sex either, but it does mean she doesn't get to cum, and she is there for your pleasure, completely, selflessly, doing anything you want

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It's Asphyxia Noir. Fuck, I need to sort my life out.

It's because women inherently cannot feel love like men do; being "owned" reminds them of parental care, which is the closest they'll ever get to the actual feeling of love for another human. Even a child only sparks that instinct in them for so long, usually up to age 5,when a child becomes self-sufficient. BDSM is just taking theybwau their brains work to extreme and degenerative levels.

Never noticed, good catch

> doesn't understand why being a man causes male arousal

The fuck?

>I need to sort my life out.
And I need a few minutes of me time. Brb.

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This

Please pol I want a FetLife without the kink police and tumblrisms, and preferably without the female superiority cringe

One on the left Asphyxia Noir
I recognize the tattoos

That’s a pretty broad brush you’re painting with. BDSM includes a very wide range of practices and activities.

>Honestly it really puzzled me at first and didn’t know how to feel about it.

Any red blodded alpha male will never feel puzzled about this behavior as its natural. You are just beta.

After a decade or so of adult life, one realizes that to be male in a Western society is pure cuckoldry. Most men are too cowardly to shuck off the system and do as they please, so they resort to fetishes and power fantasies to medicate their humiliating pain.

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Dom here.

Agreed. For me, it's mainly the fact that they willingly give you power over them-- not that you take it forcefully. They full allow what you do to them, whether it be painful or cruel, and that's hot af.

cunts love getting beaten up and dominated, that's why women overwhelmingly go for "bad men"

did you seriously walk out on a bitch because she wanted you to get rough? maybe men are more up your alley

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And I'm back with post coom regret. Doesn't take long when i find a gangbang scene.

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sex nerds

Is that Justin Bieber on the right?

This guy understands. Some women like being man handled which we called it back in the day. Power exchange is the ultimate but a word of warning to both sides. You take a liking to it and there’s no going back. It’s the most erotic thing. Importantly, domination isn’t about being a sadistic piece of shit. And don’t kid yourself, the subs really are the ones in control and who call the shots if one looks beyond the veneer of the obvious.

wow are you fucking gay

Good job. Sounds like she's a whore

Haha if you don't dom her she'll find someone who will. Even if you don't think you'll like it (you will), you had better do it anyway. Maybe you'll purge your inner cuck and have a long healthy relationship from then on.

I would dump her. Don't breed with these women, they could pass their submissive traits to your sons. Do you really want half of your son's genetics coming from somebody that enjoys being tied up and pissed on?

>tfw no gf who wants hot wax over her tits
>tfw no gf who wants spanks
>tfw no gf who screams when she's in pain
Why the fuck even live ?

Question for pol

Is there a non pozzed version of FetLife? I'm tired of the blue pilled cancer and communists running and ruining all the events, if not could we make one?

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>Dom
Shut the fuck up, fagboy. Do you want to get raped? Sounds like you want to get raped. Am I hearing that right?

Consider that most people are NPCs, ask yourself do all systems always operate perfectly? No. These are simply malfunctioning NPCs. Their programming is corrupted causing abnormal behavior.

>I told her the guys must be all fucked up and weird cunts, and I stopped talking to her.
youre not wrong, shes fucked up too for wanting abuse like that.
A lot of it is from the porn industry. they use fetish escalation to make people degenerates.

>porn thread still up
THANKS JANNIES REALLY COOL

think of dennis reynolds from its alwasy sunny in philly. he can get off simply by manipulating a situation. obviously he's an exaggeration, but thats the concept

Doms that go to events trying to Dom doms with their """big dick energy"''" are the cringiest shit on Earth

Kinky fun is all well and good in private but people into the extreme life-style variants have underlying mental issues / trauma.

can confirm

Supposedly, pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin

>met a super naive wholes virgin a few years ago
>literally didnt know how to give a bj, afraid of how painful the cherry pop might be, would only let me finger her for a few min before she got worried and wanted to stop
>ff a year, shes wearing lingerie, wants to be tired down, sucks me of with a vibrator in, gets fucked into a coma half the time, and does shit like walks into the kitchen naked and always jumps in the shower with me


Women scare me sometimes in the sense the can flip on a dime