Why do women always say we should be more open and emotionally vulnerable to our partners?Isn't that just a one way ticket to getting dumped i mean women are neuortic themselves they wouldn't tolerate the existence of a weak husband naturally they seek dominant ones.I don't get the double standard really.
Men shouldn't be vulnerable
If women are more emotionally intelligent, expect them to be liars.
Women see emotions as children to be acknowledged and fed. Abort emotions.
Don't listen to wahmen.
Women don't know what they want and its your job to give it to them That's your answer
It's a female shit test, don't believe it.
The only people you can be vulnerable too are your close bros and maybe your parents and close family.
Always do the opposite of what a woman says
Shit test, don't fall. Never show vulnerability to a woman, it completely turns them off.
I guess that makes sense there's nothing wrong with your expressing your emotions a little bit but you don't have to be a weakling you can still be masculine the image of masculinity being this anti thesis to human feelings is wrong
Especially when it comes to dating or love advice.
>Why do women always say we should be more open and emotionally vulnerable
That's one of the oldest shit tests in the book, brother. Any man who has ever held a relationship knows that is the polar opposite of what she wants.
Based
Women don't understand emotions. If you show her real emotions then she will get scared and confused.
This is now a Dolph Lundgren appreciation thread
Absolute truth right here. I learned this one the hard way with one of my exes.
>user you should open up to me
The second I finally did, it was over. I was her bitch.
correct. If a women says a man should be more emotionally vulnerable, become more closed off. In her mind she will be satisfied with influencing her environment, regardless if it makes sense with her request not.
She says that to make herself feel better by being inclusive and caring. The last thing she wants is an incompetent basedboy that cant even defend her without crying about their own feelings. Its a good bait, dont fall for it.
basedboy*
Theres a difference between being a little bitch and talking about your own struggles. Through hardship, you can build a great relationship with a woman by opening up to them about whats on your mind and allow them to comfort you. As long as you have the mindset of "im going through some real shit, but this is what im going to do to fix it" then you will be seen as strong. Women like to have a man who shares shit with them so they can help you with your own accomplishments. Women see you as a cuck if you get into the mindset of "WHY ME? I FUCKING HATE THIS. AAAAAAAAAAA" because then it shows that you have no clear plan in mind and you're nothing but a pushover.
Learn the difference faggots. Yas Forums always preaches about having a tradwifebasedandredpilledaryanstacey gf as what the ideal woman is. But it has to come from both sides. If you're a limp wristed faggot then have fun with your 350lb hambeast of a woman who will push you around and make your life hell.
Wish I knew this sooner.
It's a reason my long distance "relationship" failed. I got all emotional and told her how sad I was when she didn't message me for a day, looking back I was a bitch and retard. Call it a meme all you want, I was crazy about this girl and she about me. Things ended and after a few months she's messaging me back asking to be friends again and "see what happens".
Idk what to do, I really remember the good times. Bitch even followed me on Instagram (she just made one).
Imagine taking a female at her word.
It's a shit-test. They may say they want a man who "expresses his emotions" or some other retarded shit like that, but what they're really doing is weeding out prospective suitors who do not make their goo-holes tingle.
If a woman senses weakness or sees you cry even once, she'll be looking for a new sperm-donor within a week.
They're fickle, shallow, disloyal, selfish creatures.
They are shit testing you.
If you break, they replace you.
>If a woman senses weakness or sees you cry even once
Ok, surely there must be exceptions? When a loved one dies? I can't think of anything else that would warrant a cry though.
Dolph was peak European aesthetics.
This is now a old norse=northern italian viking appreciation thread.
Gonna go ahead and tell you m8, don't do it. My last ex did the same thing, sans the instagram and long distance thing. Sprung back in to my life after a terrible relationship/breakup only to just want to be friends so she could continue to use me. She's wanting to friendzone you bro, so she can keep the emotional validation you give her, but not give you anything in return.
This is peak European aesthetics.
The norseitalian.
Long distance relationships usually fail. Unless you both are completely devoted to each other then it may as well not be a relationship at all. Humans require close contact to keep the fire burning and for 99% of relationships they are completely reliant on this flame because the moment it snuffs out you're strangers again.
another angle of the same NorseItalian.
We've only been talking a little so far. I'm still being distant with her and I am 99% sure she's waiting on me to make a move. She just told me her mom was asking how I was.
Let's say it's not a friendzone, idk if I should say yes to her. She wasn't willing to move 5,000 miles to be with me but what if she changed her mind?
What happened with you homie? Y'all didn't remain friends?
I wouldn't have believed you about a year ago, we messaged multiple times every day for over a year. Talked about the future until she totally shut down, nearing graduation of school.
The way I see it, I've nothing to lose. I'm on lockdown and applying for jobs at the moment. Won't hurt talking a little....riiiight?
Now a Sworded NorseItalian.
The same reason the woman wanted to know the secret to Samson's strength.
Dad or dog
Got it, if my sister dies I won't shed a tear.
>niggerfucker
The answer is no
>we
>memeflag
jews are not men
Got to be strong for the family
wrong, mother and dog.
What is being vulnerable anyway?
I have friends, we talk about shit that's bothering us sometimes. I thought that's what being vulnerable was, I was told that's not it.
If admitting you have problems and seeking outside advice/help to deal with them isn't being vulnerable then WTF is?