My family is destroying itself Yas Forums. My mom is a bipolar schizo who disappears for hours...

Dude you're 35 years old. Move out already.

It doesn't matter what I do. He hates everyone. He has no friends. He lives away for months at a time and doesn't take care of himself. And he takes it out on us whenever he's around, especially when he starts drinking.

All I want more than anything is to get a farm somewhere and live quietly. I don't want to fight Iranians .
>Learn as much as you can about absolutely fucking everything,
All I do day in day out is research history. I wish I majored in it but I don't want to needle through holocaust crap.
>You have to move on man.
I know...
>Controlling how?
Just in general. The smallest things he'll get upset over like if I'm not hungry and he makes a sandwich with stale bread and old salami. He'll get mad if I try planting onions in a pot. He'll get mad if I ask him to stop drinking.

son, clean your room and stop jerking off to faggot trap anime shit.
t.dad

So my dad died yesterday. Here's my opinion.

Tell your dad your family loves him but he's being a shitbag, and that life is short and you'll love him either way but if he cools it he might be happier.

Hug your mom and tell her that you love her, and you hope that she's at least happy when she does whatever she does when she disappears.

Tell your siblings it would maybe be fun to play Jackbox with mom and dad and you remotely, buy it on Steam and you can host the game.

I love you buddy, sorry if any of this advice is off-base or unhelpful. Above all, if they blow you off, know that you tried and start a family and create all of the love you wish you had

The first fren on Yas Forums I feel a connection too. What’s your age and home state, I’ll tell mine first
25
Illinois

You're an adult, grow up, move out.

it's a leaf thing bro, they all have anxiety disorder or bipolar

You need to man up and take control of your family.

I had a fucked up childhood too. Get the fuck out and start living your own life, and DO NOT look back. Create the future you want instead of letting the past control you. Takes a bit of practice, but it's far from impossible.

t. Boomer

Time to move out and work towards getting happy and secure so you can make your own family. Treat this time in your life as learning experience so you do not repeat your father's mistakes.

We've had every conversation imaginable. There's a good side in all of them but they just become so toxic. I've asked him to see his siblings but he hates them, yet he's happy when he's there.
>Hug your mom
I look after my mom basically. But she'll punt me away a lot. She's really lonely too.
> Jackbox with mom and dad
My siblings want nothing to do with them, but they'll still suck up and call once in a while. I try skyping them sometimes and they just told me today that they're depressed that out parents are bickering again.
> all of the love you wish you had
We all love each other. But there's just some evil that's making everyone into monsters.
I'm in California. I don't even think about my age anymore. I graduated college last year.
She has to take meds. We can't afford a hospital.

Shitty luck bro. You'll never be a normalfag. Reeeeee

What is the national heritages of your mother and father? Or racial heritages if not White.

Even though your dad may seem like an asshole, he still loves you, and more than your mother in a real way.
Women at the stage that you describe your mother are often just bitter husks of what they once were, they are like paper cutouts.
Try to be nice to your dad, he will eventually come around, and even flawed men are better than bipolar schizo women.

I disagree with you.

Deal with it.

Dad is asian, mom is white, both immigrants of strict families who fell in love in the 80s, both mentally unstable and stuck with each other.
He says I'm his only friend...

Is this an allegory for America?

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Not surprised that it's a mutt family

Don't KYS
Do your best
Go to church
Pray
Watch Benny Hinn videos on youtube

I know I'm Italian/German and have the same issues with my family.

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I wish I lived in the sunshine state. Being that close to the ocean must be cathartic. Maybe I'm just romanticizing california too much I know its got alot of problems. I'm sorry to hear about your family I had a rough time growing up too. School life was horrible home life was equally as miserable. I used to think,when I was a kid. I wish I could have been born literally anywhere else in any other time period. I don't have any advice for you Im still reeling from all that stuff I went through. I wish I could find people who experienced and we could be bros and just kick it being room mates in an apartment maybe some weed to take the edge off. I think I might have BPD or manaic depression not sure which one and have mood swings of high and low points and it wears you out really bad. Sorry about the essay I just get kind of happy finding people who are sort of like me.

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Why?
Well just be his friend user, damn its not that hard.
I learned alot of things from my father and his before that but once you grow to a certain age your relationship should become less kid-adult with your father, and more man-man.
Try drinking a bit with him and then just casually shooting past him that this is strong stuff maybe he should cut back a bit?
Idk just shit like that.

Get out of your house however possible, and do your best to get off of Yas Forums.
I'm terribly sorry, and you'll be in my prayers. Good luck.

Pray to God

He’s the only one that has the power to change minds AND hearts. And he listens.

Well California is the Golden State but anyway

California is dry and desolate but it has a certain beauty to it. Unfortunately the people changed dramatically in the mid 2000s. It wasn't racial, it was like some sort of personality lobotomy. People stopped wanting to hang out outside. People stopped being descent to each other. Some people are still descent but there's something sour about everything. I wouldn't change the first years of my life for anything. There are a lot of people like us, I just want to know why.
youtube.com/watch?v=R0t9ogfCI3E
It's the case of teaching an old dog new tricks. It's like dragging a dead horse at the head of a wagon.

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do you think if you had been white user there would be no problem? like if your mother wasn't a racetraitor and wasted her eggs on a gook

Your mother should’ve been put down years ago and your dad is a cunt. Has nothing to do with family and everything to do with their mental instabilities. Move out.

I’m sorry you had a rough upbringing user

I hope this is the start of a new chapter of happiness and contentment in your life

I just burned through all my highspeed so I don't mind watching this 35 minute video. Watching it now its amazing how life seems so comfy only a few decades ago. Im not sure why we had to have bad lives but I guess that someone had to and it just happened to be us

My brother in law cheated on my youngest older sister with my oldest older sister. They divorced and my oldest sister is still in a relationship with him while my other sister went off the deep end after the fact and now had two kids with some physically abusive moron. My family was blown apart by all this. I don’t really see anyone anymore.

I guess I’m saying this to demonstrate that unfortunately for a lot of people in this word the concept of “family” is just an illusion. Sorry user, it’s not real. I’m sorry you’re dealing with all that stuff alone man. Just hang tough and take care of yourself as best you can. Focus on your dreams and pursuing your passions.

Oh and vote Trump 2020. Fuck Chinks & Leafposters.

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