Any oldfags here who care to summarize their experience with married life?
Who to look for/ what to look for/ what to look forward to/ how to manage married life/ frenzies / follies/ ...
Householding
become a trad catholics and find a nice trad catholic girl, and live the faith.
The outside world may sound tempting, but it's really hell: divorce, kids corrupted, etc.
My wife is Thai
I don’t have any close friends and all her friends live overseas so we are each other’s best friend.
It’s good. She cooks and takes care of me quite well. We play video game’s together and have sex whenever I want it. She’s frugal and asks me before she buys anything.
I imagine my life would be a living hell if I married an American woman.
yeah..it's pretty easy.. oldfag here. Look for somone who is first and foremost your friend. If she needs you to be some dominant man while she is the hopeless weak wife.. fuck that. you need an equal partner and not some stupid 'i am the man..you are the woman.. i dominate you' bullshit. aslo.. let her talk... if she can talk to you she usually will not leave unless you totally suck at sex. Also eat her ass from time to time.
Oh and before we get a visit by the janitorials, it is politically relevant - at least more than a lot of other shit threads here.
lel catholic girls are the biggest sluts in their teens and 20's it's not even a meme
im in my 30's and married with 2 kids.
some pointers:
1) Find a girl who is sane and no emotional baggage, women become 1000x crazier once they have kids. So if she's crazy when she's childless and single she's going to fucking ruin your life later on
2) be prepared for her to fall out of love with you once she has kids. Honeymoon period ends hard once she has kids and it's a tough one to move past on
3) Relationship therapists have said the biggest dramas stemming from the female side is that women dont like men who are shorter than them, less educated than them, or earn less money than them. If she beats you in any of these things it can upset the balance, just a general warning.
>If she needs you to be some dominant man while she is the hopeless weak wife.. fuck that.
>Also eat her ass from time to time.
Thanks.. I guess?
that's what all women are like until you have kids
No sex
wife gets fatter
relation ship becomes worse if a friend in her group gets divorced ("if she can do it why can't I?")
wait till a kid comes along, your bottom of the rung in importance.
All your toys are now twice as expensive, want to buy a $1k gun? she wants a $1K what-the-fuck-ever
dont
fucking
do
it
>t. 33yo married 5 years, 1 kid, together 8 years
>trad catholic girl
don't exist anymore you stupid boomer
what decade do you think it is?
Don't get fat or be a weak willed faggot and women will never be a problem again. Don't define yourself by whether or not she's angry or happy with you. You be the center. Let her orbit you. As long as she hasn't had too many dicks run through her before you met her and she's not a literal psycho things will be fine.
Pussies here on the internet over complicate this shit. Just go lift weights, don't think too much about women and chase women till you find one you like. She'll change to satisfy you accordingly if you are a man.
Bruh come on I'm catholic and I've seen more chaste atheist girls than catholics.
Yes it does. You just have to look
mid 40s, married almost 20 years. Married a female who was as autistic as I am, and it worked out. She hates women as much as I do, therefore, we have a lot in common.
Laws need to change user. Women need to have their rights removed.
heh your wife sounds a lot worse than mine!
>32
>2 kids
>married 3 years
does your mrs work? Mine doesn't so the dependence on me might have something to do with it keeping together. My wife became a different person the day the first was born.
I love challenge. I would hate that, hate an easy life and a woman who makes everything too easy. There is no reward without feeling a challenge first. Otherwise you never know what your potential is
No doubt brother. But for now we have to play the hand we are dealt. If the bitch isn't making you happy get rid of her. It'll be expensive...but that's the burden we bear.
One day things will change. Hopefully before it becomes our sons' problem.
hahahaha check out this guy
yeah "admin role" i mean atleast its money coming in.
Bro i flat out told her no more kids. if she wants more she can do it with someone else
>But for now we have to play the hand we are dealt.
I refuse. MGTOW.
> Hopefully before it becomes our sons' problem.
Our sons if we have any will be busy fighting for their survival against spic and nigger gangs.
Be tolerable to each other. Fights end immediately. Pair up young.
yea, be the best possible person you can be. No excuse, just be better than you are RIGHT NOW. A quality woman will come along, and your higer standards for self, will pay off.
Additionally, consider culture. Are you a retarded catholic idiot like ? No? Then dont waste your time pretending to be. There are billions of people on the planet, race is a social construct, good luck (you dont have to be lucky its super fucking easy).
That's fucking hilarious man I told my wife I wanted a third and she said to have it with someone else. I wanted 3. I got 2 boys and want to try for a girl. But a 3rd boy would be awesome too. Mrs is over it.
Your wife is actually trans is she's Thai, she just hides it well
Not an oldfag by any measure, only 22, but I've been married for 3 years already.
Not enjoyable. She literally begun ruining my life when we we living together and it did some serious mental damage. Earlier in the month I finally got her to leave, sorting out the divorce-type papers now while she still thinks she's going to be allowed to come back at some point.
You married at 19 you retard of course shit was going to fall apart. I hope everything stabilizes for you.
That's why it's on you to have sons. White people need to reproduce. We need to genocide the non-whites too. But we need soldiers for that. Sons need mothers and fathers. MGTOW is a hedonistic dead end. We need strong white families. Are you mentally stronger than a woman? If so you can control one. It's not hard. I have a wife and two strong white sons. If I can do it you can too.
>Catholic
>trad Catholic
not the same things.
My uncle just had his seventh kid
Completely serious, found a Catholic wait-until-marriage tradwife. I hate everything about her. I never get a moment alone, she always wants me to change something, fights with everyone over everything, except if it's me. Total basketcase numbskull with no hope in the world without some man to make excuses for her.
you sound like you're going to die a virgin
Not based
>White people need to reproduce.
White people need to reproduce in safe environments. The United States is an anti-white hellhole. No way in hell would I bring white souls into this filth.
>Are you mentally stronger than a woman? If so you can control one. It's not hard.
The LAWS are the problem NOT women.
Look for someone who has a decent family and gets along with their siblings and parents. Someone who isn't self absorbed. Ideally someone who shares the same values as you.
...this means nothing. I have no doubt there are actual catholic men. I have never met an actual catholic female in the 18-25 range.
Been married for a bit over 6 months. Usually it’s pretty ok, but sometimes it’s really shitty if she’s being a nag.
Rarely is it “great”
kek. I used to date a wait-until-marriage catholic girl. She used to give me blowjobs and I'd play with her tits, but no sex. I broke up with her because she had the intelligence of a potato and she was fully into her church shit. She was hot af though. I didn't want to risk having dumb kids and seeing them brainwashed through her retarded church so I broke up with her.
Absolutely no regrets. My wife isn't a stunner like her but she's smart and she's a 10/10 mum. Shame we aren't as close together now that we had kids
Fuck off retard
Then just give up. We've already lost. Why not kill youself now if this is your attitude?
seriously you're a fucking virgin dude nobody gives a fuck about your opinion
look at this fucking retard lmao
Well they are in their mid 30s now. I know two girls that would make pretty good wives that are Catholic. One just turned 25 and she is a "virgin" although she has given a few blow jobs. She is kind of nuts though. The other one is 19-20 and she is more than likely a virgin although she MAY have hooked up with one person, I don't know for sure. She is super chill but not necessarily trad in the sense that she would be a good stay at home mother. The problem is they are both part Mexican Indian though
I know a white girl from high school that is saving herself for marriage too but she is probably out of my league. She was a couple years younger than me and I never really talked to her
>Why not kill youself now if this is your attitude?
Because I'm hoping beyond hope to live to be part of the Revolution or Resistance or whatever. If I get out of my prime and still nothing then I probably will kill myself.
>wants you to change something
>fights with everyone over everything
Have you talked with her about this? A lot of people lighten up a few years into adulthood, but only if they're self-aware of this kind of stuff.
If she's the numbskull you say she is, she may not even realize she's being petty, and she might need your help to sort that out. A simple approach is, "Why does this bother you so much?" Make her think about it.
This. Whiteoids should be happy their women fuck BBC because it's just another challenge.
>The problem is they are both part Mexican Indian though
Yeah I'm not a race traitor. Also I guarantee you neither are virgins.
hahahahahahah those aren't trad girls
you are a faggot lol shut up
based, I would totaly go for a little bit of a less looker if i broke up with my wife as long as she actually had a fucking sex drive.
Oh please, I knew girls like that in high school too. None of them ever did two of them got pregnant. Virtue is a male quality.
Get the fuck off my board faggot. Some people have good lives. I know it's hard for you to imagine. Stop disgracing that flag too.