marriage is on the word, and then the blood. if the word is corrupt, blood has corrupt foundations.
tell her the true word that you contain, and make sure she tells you hers. then if you can accept each other, give her your word of marriage. also, don't marry unless the girl is a virgin. that's all my advice, you can choose to follow it, or you can choose to live a double life with a sexually liberated stacy, never being able to raise your children right