How do you go on?
You have to understand that fact and that they won't care unless you care.
You have to understand yourself, how you think, how you feel, and what you want. When you understand those things, you can convey it to others when your not getting what you want or what you need.
Cause people don't care about men, they won't notice unless you notice and convey it to them. Go ahead, reach for what you want.
what the fuck are you trying to tell me?
You feel unappreciated?
Okay?
I think its easy to notice how people don't care about men when it comes to the relationships between men and women. It's easy to see how men are competing in this context. And how it isn't built into us to care about each other in the way some people may need. But hone you understand your needs, you can call people out on things when they aren't meeting them.
No. Im creating a thread in response to another thread that had this question.
You can't expect people to notice what you need because of the dynamics between men and men, and the dynamics between men and women. You have to know what you need and enforce your boundaries with punitive measures.
People don't care about noone user, be it men or women, all are toys,all are objects, for most the only thing in the world is themselves....
You can have all you said but not care, first and most important of all you must want to care about the other,if you don't its useless
Funny enough though, it is hard to care about relationships after this fact. Character checks are a real thing and maybe you may think that people aren't worth it in the end, if this is how it must be done to have a "group."
Fair enough, do you think I was getting to that part with this post
But networking will get men ahead in life. Once you figure ut what you want and need, how you think and feel, and then reach for it, maybe networks really matter.
People need other people to open doors for them, no man is an island.
But again, It does depend on what you've figured out you need.
So what do you want for you, user? Because status, wealth, fame, attention etc. can all be taken away, and if you let the things define you, then you can be destroyed in an instance of foolishness
where'd you go?
Kinda,but we all need each other, if we want to grow we need others alone we are no different than...something irrelevant
Think as the people like cells and our species is the body,if a single cell try working alone it wont amount to nothing... this is not a fictional work for you to be able to do this
Maybe you are scared of getting hurt,scared of dealing with problems with the hardship but thats part of life, you cant get what you want just because you want to! No matter how many times you fail you should try again even if it means crawling as long you truly desire it, go for it
Agreed! But most men I've met don't know what they want. And how are they going to make other people care for what they want if they can't convey it to others when others aren't "caring"?
Thats the best advice I can give on the matter.
Know who you are, know what you want, and when others aren't caring etc. You convey it to them and if they still don't care, then keep moving.
Thats because our society is one that throw away such things user, we are pushed into the need that we will grow up for jobs and society, it doesnt teach us to discover,seek and pursue our desires
The first person taht needs to care its yourself, others are important but if you dont care enough it wont go anywere,i leaned something in my life, even if you desire for something impossible that noone will care for it... it still matters into making you move, as long you desire,as long strive,as long you have the heart to seek things you will keep moving
Things like existencial crisis,or the "empty feeling" are nothing more than you lacking such desires, lacking such care for yourself, it exist because you have been molded and not being who you truly are, you are chained by the idea of others
I view all other men as my enemy, especially other white men.
>you are chained by the idea of others
Exactly. If this is going on, then our understanding of our own value is based on the judgement and respect of others. What a miserable state indeed!
But if you know who you are, then your value will be based on your own judgements, and will depend on acheiveing what you want. And then you know who to avoid and who to move towards.
Sadly though, Ive known this and yet find it rather difficult being with other people. But I think I've found a way...
What do you seek, user?
Why?
Well i have problems that cant be solved user, i had disease whe ni was kid two times and it probably fucked how my nervous system work as a sequel it was a really agressive disease
But i got through life and was able to get out of pure depression and keep going by seeking the beyond,i desire to do all that i'm uanblet odo,find some sort of godhood,and fix myself including the things in my personality that i believe as failure... its impossible but... i would have fallen in despair long ago without it
I care about good men not traitors.
I see. It sounds like you've figured out what you have control over, and what you don't. It seems like we seek the same things. I haven't found anyone in the real world who has respected that search. Though I just want to be one-with-God.
Its much easier for people to derive positive emotion from other pursuits, regardless of how childish they are.
Sad thing about working on the personality that I have found is that it requires a lot of failure to notice the things about it that is failing or causing the failure. Its not an easy road, but it is worth it in the end.
Respectable. But when it comes to such strict lines, there is no conveying that to the traitor. There are no words to communicate. You don't point at a traitor and say "Stop being a traitor."
Are there less intensive boundaries that would allow you to talk and convey your needs to another? With a traitor I suppose you leave them to their fates, or you get rid of them.
Definetly, i'm not a god believer or anything i'm just a seeker for the things i desire,i might in the end of the road not get anything that i ever wanted... but thats fine, i already accepted my mortality, accepted even if i wish to die i will jsut do what i want,the moment you give up on yourself is the moment you will fall from the "road" that is life
Right. All you can be is yourself, the rest is up to fate. Have you read Evola? Or the Bhagavad Gita?
Nah,not really, you think its a good read? i might give it a try
I actually did all by myself when finding such kind of answers so i didnt read much about this kind of thing all i did was wonder by mysellf about the cosmos and life, i like to read fictional novels and i will always wonder the differet worlds and seek the answers in different situations
Well.... What I wanted to point out in them is that they talk about this concept of "Pure Action." And Evola posits its usefulness in his book "Ride the Tiger".... But if you read the Gita it should be proficient. Its basally declaring the difference between action that is based on your authentic being and action based on external experiences. "action without regards for the fruit of the action." is what they call it. I found it quite an important thing to integrate into my life. When one is acting purely, then whatever life appears for it, will be the exact life that was meant for it. It is a life that cannot be hated or regretted etc. because it is the life meant for your being and no other.
But yeah if youre interested in the cosmos and life then they might be interesting to you. Though it is different from fiction.
Why should anyone care about men? A man has to prove his value
A woman IS value itself
While I see what you're saying, if we aren't careful, well teach men that they have no value and then they'll act it out. "You think I'm a miscreant? Fine. Ill show you a miscreant."
i will give it a try then, was a nice talk i will go to sleep over here, keep going strong user!
What the fuck do you expect? The kikes have made it so we have no unifying identity. People would care about other people if they 1) share common things such as race, heritage, religion, and culture and 2) are instilled from a young age to do so.
The fucking Jews have made it so we are no longer unified. This makes it easy for us to be mongrelized and marginalized within our own countries.
It was. You too!
Idk, I'm just trying to give an answer to an old thread since its true and a serious thing men will have to come to terms with. The things you've pointed out are correct, its hard to know what we are and what we want with these things undermined. And its hard to be concerned for others with them gone as well.