We all know how important marriage is for the future and stability of western society. Family is our most basic social unit, and marriage is the institution we use to keep it together.
In spite of this, divorces are a part of our modern reality, and some might say they are more and more common. One thing you always hear about divorces, is how unbalanced the legislation is against men, who many times are forced to split their savings or properties with their ex wife - even if there are no kids in between. There's also the fact that family courts favor the mother in most of the cases.
This of course has important implications for our society, mainly: why is the system built that way, and why would men want to take part in a rigged game?
I'm very interested in hearing first person accounts of people who went through divorces and how they feel they were treated by the system. This is a political board, so please try to keep the conversation on those terms so the thread doesn't get deleted.
I didn't go through a divorce myself but I was disillusioned as a child seeing my parents almost go through theirs. (They called it off last minute.) My Mother threatened to kill me, pushed my sister through a window, almost got fired from her job because she showed up drunk to work every day or not at all - and then got us 10k into credit card debt for hard liquor and smokes. My Dad who while wasn't the greatest father pretty much did nothing but work to keep the family afloat financially and never physically or emotionally abused us once and who did the courts try to give custody to... DRUM ROLL.. MY MOTHER!
Women have basically destroyed our civilization to live out their alcoholic pedophilic fantasies.
Elijah Smith
>techlead ?
Adrian King
Sure, I'll tell you about my divorce. >be me >be 18 >get married day after christmas to girl I knew for 4 years >move away from her friends and family >be codependent and functional >marriage was awesome >move back because she didn't like where I live >her friends and family dislike me cause I took her away >she had a weakness for peer pressure and I stopped fulfilling her darker needs for degenerate pleasure (via sex, was working 80 hrs/week running own business) >she was lonely but supportive >tried getting new friends at college >couldn't find any she liked >talked to old friends again >convinced her to get piercings, tattoos >uhhh.jpg >"oh honey I'm just trying it out cause I like this stuff, I'm not gonna go do drugs or anything" >"oh hun it's just weed" >2 years in >"hey hun I'm over at [jackass friend]'s, and I'm totally high on ACID!!!!!" >freak out on her >she doesn't take it well >her friends use that as on opportunity to call me abusive >literally am an abuse victim, but okay >her friends keep giving her alcohol, weed, and acid behind my back >tries coke and shrooms >keeps getting higher and higher behind my back >I can see it all >can't involve her family, they'll just use it to hurt our marriage further >one night her friends roofie me with 15 tabs of acid >went sunday to sunday high as fuck, loved and hated it, but had a good trip because "fuck it, I'm already here." >her friends got me 0 medical attention, she was too high to understand what was going on >lost some business that week but whatever we'll get to move soon and fix things >find out her friends are telling her to take a trip to europe >fight about it >eventually one night she leaves >I tell her family everything >I make a shitty facebook post like a bitch I still regret that, deleted facebook afterward though so I guess it's worth it. >she said she wanted to separate, couldn't see us fixing things >still came over while separated to fuck 1/?
Justin Lee
Cream pie Asian Pussy
Jordan Lee
>1/? Yeah may as well finish the story before this thread gets pruned
Jonathan Johnson
Why would it? Is it not political enough? Are we only allowed to talk about corona?
Nathaniel Garcia
Because this board is fucking cancer. Are you new?
Oliver Gray
checked. literally my divorce was like any other >wife wanted to be a kewl single mom and whore around >i got fucked over and now i'm hard blackpilled and a drain on the system that encouraged her to do that
Michael Diaz
I forgot to talk about when she left. >liquidated my business and handed off my clients to other guys (IT stuff) >cry all day because she was literally my motivation in life >realize how much of her needs I hadn't fulfilled, blamed myself >couldn't stand that I was alone >blamed a lot of her friends and family too, and her for being awful to me >but blamed myself for not having her back and helping her avoid her shitty friends >her homewrecking best friend who lived with us for a few months brings her white trash family to my house >takes almost all my shit down to the silverware and spices >takes my car, my just about everything except a computer, a chair, and a bed they broke while moving her things and much of my things out >drown in alcohol for a month >hate myself for being weak >hate myself for being fat >hate myself for being complacent >hate myself for being what a woman like my wife would kill herself with drugs for >blame myself for where I am >"I gave up MIT for this woman" >"I gave up a free ride to a couple colleges for this woman" >"I gave up college life for this woman" >keep being miserable. >girl I knew since I was 9 reads my facebook post >my former best friend who hates me out of jealousy and touched his cousin showed it to her >instead of laughing at me she texts me >comes over >"I'm not here to cheat on my boyfriend, user" >2 weeks later >we're fuckin before you start giving me shit she was in a similar boat, her boyfriend for a the same years I was married left her and we were in equal denial over our broken relationships. >helps me pick some things up >"user, I'll marry you RIGHT NOW if you propose to me" I made the mistake of saying "I want to make sure my feelings for you aren't just gratitude >go into military afterward, decide "fuck it, I'll just do things I want to do." 2/?
Jaxon Reyes
God I wish my wife would cheat on me so I could get out guilt free. You're all weak faggots.
William Ross
>divorce rape laws >alimony >gibsmedats for single mothers >right for wahmyn to vote also >acceptance of single mothers or divorced women, they need to be shamed and ostracized like before. >Also make divorce a life or death decision, like it used to be, the majority of divorces are started by women
Leo Harris
>Reply none of this is true and your a faggot
Gavin Anderson
u white trash breh
Samuel Young
>My divorce Well, I walked in and caught her with Jamal. I asked if we could share the BBC but she refused. The next day I filed for divorce. She got the house and one car and moved Jamal in. I owe her $2k/month alimony. And last week I found out that she has 2 more Jamal's there. >I'm not bitter, tho. It's God's plan, I suppose.
Andrew Parker
Got forced into marriage as a young doomsayer 22 year old because i’d have killed myself if I hadn’t had children and she wouldn’t talk about anything else but marriage.
Ten years later we hate each other, she’s gone from a busty feisty qt to a fattening butterface, we split up she’s fucking her boss within minutes to gain a promotion and i end up being able to get the occasional fuck off of hot university aged girls. We divorce, the kids get great grades because i’ve instilled a work ethic in them that mathematics is the only thing that matters (but they get a A in English etc etc) and everyone is fine. No hard feelings i just limit contact with my ex to the utmost minimal and see my kids often. Life’s good but it’ll take a few years for you to re-adjust to being alone again and modern dating.
Connor Brooks
>start lifting despite always being weak >separated wife half delusional and half still my wife, still loves me I think >complicated on/off fucking while separated I couldn't bear to fuck both girls at once (though it was nice). So I called it off with the cool girl cause I thought loyalty was everything. I was right but wrong. >her friends complain and she's obviously closer to them >she's obviously just using me for sex >I cut her off and she stops coming over and talking about moving in >she has another guy >I'm moving on half way >finally make it to boot camp >nobody respects me because I'm still weak I still am kinda weak, but much better now, if you're wondering. Joined the Marines. >finish boot camp, did pretty well >ex wife didn't come, girl offered to >me and girl talk on and off >I'm still mentally broken and have battered husband syndrome (diagnosed after boot camp) >she's distant for a while so I can fix myself >distract myself with MCT and the school house >finally get out, chose reservist >start working IT job (way different from my MOS) >keep lifting >keep drinking myself into depression >smoke weed occasionally >finally get over things with some alone time >start talking to girl again >she worked on herself too >she and I talk over text and occasionally see each other (I live in a new state now) We're now best friends and once we finish our degrees we'll probably get married. But I want to give it another couple years and so does she. The ex wife was decent, she did blank bank statements and I didn't contest the divorce. She's remarried, and probably already re-divorced and a drug addict. Her friends are where you expect them. I made decent money till coronavirus, and am working on getting another IT job. I love what I do, I'll keep lifting. What political questions do you want to know from this? I'm hapa, my best friend's my flavor of asian, my ex wife was my flavor of white, 100% in each, and both are at the time of dating them easy 8+
Grayson Diaz
believe what you will. my girlfriend said the same thing. I really was reduced to white trash from the ex.
Christian Morales
Gotta love those high leg black thongs that all asian gogo sluts seem to wear.
Never been married but my mom has been married 4 times, my father was her last husband. He cheated on her for over 15 years and was a terrible father. I really wish my mother had made better choices. Even though marriage was displayed as a terrible thing in my family, I still want to get married. I need to just find someone with the same morals as me.
Nicholas Howard
Yeah, marriage is a good thing. I don't regret getting married or even who I married. I regret being a bad husband and not timing things better. She could have been cooler, or I could have given it more time instead of getting married right out the gate. If you take your time and do it right, you'll be fine. And even in the case of divorce, if you married the right girl in the first place, she'll still not rape you in divorce court, no matter how broken she is. I still thank my ex for that.
Jaxson Nguyen
>We're now best friends and once we finish our degrees we'll probably get married. you jumped from one whore into another. if she fucked you while she was with another guy then expect her to do the same to you... cuck
John Peterson
Yeah exactly. This girl probably is no good either.
Mason Adams
Flag checks out
Ian Butler
i wish i was the guy in op`s image. hes ugly but prob rich so he gets cute girls. i just get 1 fat mexican every 5 years or so. i hate my life.
Gabriel Garcia
You're stupid
Elijah Brooks
If he's stupid enough to go through all that there's no advice you can give him Pablo lmao
Ayden Lewis
>fat Mexican Are you a nigger?
John Evans
People divorce because their primitive instincts want them to spread their genes elsewhere. In the end sexuality is a thread to society.
Dude I couldn't make heads or tails from your story. Seems you didn't get legally screwed though.
Colton Foster
user, i got bad news for you.... a good girl doesnt exist, thats just a romanticized version of females. your gf/wife can fuck chad at a moments notice if she thinks she wont be found out.... harsh but true, aka hypergamy
Wyatt Young
See, if I hadn't known her for over a decade at that point and she had a partner other than her ex boyfriend and myself, I'd agree. And yes, that concern is always there in my mind. But she's staying loyal for now, and it's been a couple years already, and it'll be another couple years before I even propose. So I don't know man. I'm taking it slow, and giving her all the opportunities in the world to show me red flags. I've seen yellow flags and worked those all out. She's also fully redpilled on the JQ, has been on Yas Forums as long as I have (since we were 12), and hates niggers and China with a passion. We share political beliefs down to some of the smallest details. But I'll take my time. Yeah, I am. I did things, and unlike you I have the balls to admit how I was stupid and fix my mistakes. How about you, what's your impressive life's story/LARP?
Samuel Jackson
No u
Ethan Martin
On my second marriage, best piece of advice is to not let women have friends who aren’t married and don’t have kids. Single childless women are gags who spread their poison and bitterness unto others. Also do not let them have male friends, women are weak and all men thirst for others women.
Wait you fixed your mistakes? Nigga you joined the marine corps and cried to a therapist Sorry I like the guys who didn't get cucked lmao Have fun in the desert XD
No I didn't, my ex became a drug addict because her friends are garbage, and I made a really good friend because of the divorce. The main takeaways you probably want are >I dated exclusively within my races (white and a specific flavor of asian) >the white girl was a poor partner due to cultural issues in the United States >the only reason she didn't divorce rape me is cause her mom did to her dad and she resents it >the asian girl is super loyal (doesn't matter imo) >divorce is high because marriages are formed quickly >picking a partner and taking it very slow is ideal >doing something with your life is the only way to recover from divorce oh shit user, you got me! I am cringe cope dilating! From being got so hard!
Alexander Perez
It isn't about letting or not letting her have guy friends, if she wants guy friends she doesn't need a boyfriend/husband plain and simple
Michael Diaz
Men will fuck anything, no pussy is safe
Nathan Robinson
>if I hadn't known her for over a decade at that point and she had a partner other than her ex boyfriend and myself, I'd agree yeah whatever, you do you... not like you're gonna listen to advice just so you can stuff your meat on some unfaithful bitch's hole. the denial is real, open your fucking eyes... or at least dont let the little head decide your life again.
Benjamin Ortiz
He won't, if he has to be told something like that he's not smart enough to do it, he's gonna knock one of those sluts up and be forced to pay child support for a kid that probably isn't even his and that he won't see for 18 years, and he'll cry to us about it then too
Evan Russell
Lmfaoooo literal cuck
Joshua Brooks
>Wait you fixed your mistakes? Well yeah. I make decent money, have a career half together >Nigga you joined the marine corps and cried to a therapist yeah and it's been a lot of fun. I got help for my problems and worked them out, and got to fix my weaknesses. I also have 0 injuries so I'm way better off than most. >Sorry I like the guys who didn't get cucked lmao Aw shucks I better go kill myself lol, what ever will I do without your approval online? >Have fun in the desert XD No more sand niggers to bomb lately. Kinda sad about that actually. But got lots of training exercises coming up once this corona thing blows over. Also thanks for your tax dollars, it's been wonderful maxing my TSP to dump it into my IRA later. Again, what's the big dick like yourself up to? Fags like you are all the same. You love to take the piss out of others but when's the last time you actually made an affirmative argument or did something besides condescension? I have a qt gf. I have money. I have friends comrades and family and a life.
What do you have, user? An edgy take? Resentment? Who cares? Again, that's fine you feel that way. I have to actually live with what I do, so I'll try my way. The girl's cool, and I'll take my time, lower head notwithstanding. what's it like having an early summer vacation?
Oliver Morgan
Lol fucking cuckold
Jacob Young
Damn. Sorry to hear that leaf. Good luck. Mollymeme would have a fieldday with you.
Men who have gotten married over the last 10+ years knew all too well about no-fault divorce and have divorce-raped friends and/or family members. They knew what they were getting into. On theory is that men fear freedom and see marriage as a safe prison. And when they get divorce-raped they rationalize that they just didn't choose the right woman, and that the right woman is still out there. So they do it again and again until they're homeless or dead.
Marriage and divorce is an industry that transfers wealth from men to women and to the system that supports this legal theft.
You were born a slave, Neo.
Nolan Edwards
>Implying we focus on lowly 5d chess
#infectbillgates
Nolan Sanders
Cancer
Ethan Cox
That’s your sister in law? Jesus man, I’d fill her burrito with my beans.
