Is it okay to date a single mother if shes a widow

>tfw 37 and nearly took up with a single mom

Is the child white, OP

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if the kid was white and the father wasn't in the picture I would date her and just claim the kid as my own

Give her a husband and father for her child.

Go for it OP. The worst she can say is “no”

widow is acceptable

NO. You are exposing yourself to unnecessary legal risk. If you fuck her and hang around the kid to facilitate fucking her, there is a very real possibility the state will claim you have formed a de facto relationship with 'the child' and should be liable for child support even after the relationship goes sour.

No she will not be able to pairbond with you like a proper virgin wife would and she will never live you as much as her first husband

only if her husband was your brother or

>at my grad school

What are you all majoring in? Assistantship-funded STEM stuff, or pleb tier shit you're paying out of pocket for?

Are you really serious?

If you parent that child and help raise it especially under your roof, this chick can dump you and youd still be liable for child support. This is true for most states you dumb burger. Google it.

Fuck this. She will ALWAYS prioritize some other dead asshole kid over you. Always, unequivocally. Everythings already a bad bargin at the start. You might as well just toss money to some twitch ethot if you want to be a simp so bad

>No she will not be able to pairbond with you like a proper virgin wife
Is this really true though, she doesn't come across as a whore I mean she was married in her early 20s and has stayed in school most of her adult life.

Hmmm only if you're a single dad or divorcee.

Marriage is until death does apart, so I think it would be acceptable, but consult the scripture to make sure. That said, you cannot neglect the child. You have to be willing to be there for both of them, if dating works out and you eventually decide to marry. It's not being a cuck, but like adoption.

Women will always prioritize a kid over you. Them's the ropes, user.

Yes it’s true. A friend of mine died and his widow remarried and she always posts shit about him and the new hubby looks dead inside bc he knows he can’t compete and will never be loved that way

Shes getting her MBA, I'm in a JD/MBA program, I got a good scholarship.

That's how it should be. Same goes for a father and his kids.

That's the point, its only ideal when it's your own mutual flesh and blood.

Only if the kids are mulattos.

>Is it okay to date a single mother if shes a widow

Yes, in that case it is morally acceptable, but I couldn't do it myself. I just can't raise another man's kid.
Its your life, man. You have to decide.

The kid is 3. I'm sure they'll accept user as dad without too much issue.

Post her tits. We will tell you if she's worth it or not.

Widows with white kids don't count. If you neglect the kid you are nigger tier though.
If you don't breed more kids you are cuck tier. Simple as that

Don't do it. The kid will always be a wedge between the two of you, as you will also be between the two of them. This is what's best for both you and the kid; widows should never get remarried at all.

No.

RIght on, user. Former STEM-grad fag here, but I do respect you business types

only if she would sacrifice her kid for you
other than that never

Children, the next generation, are more important than parents.

Just give it a chance. If it doesn't feel right, you abandon ship.

Fuck off, you virgin prick.

1- Kids need fathers. Girls without dads become whores, and boys without dads become delinquents. This kid got a rough deal in life, and doesn't deserve to go down that road.

2- Raising a kid is the best thing you can do as a man. You'll get there one day if you can work up the courage to even talk to a woman.

While I am not entirely against dating single moms like the one in your situation, I feel like the better play for your situation is to find a younger, childless woman to marry. The other posters are right; she will almost always prioritize the child over you and you may be stuck with having to pay child support for a kid that isn't even yours. Don't fall for her tricks, she is being pleasant to you for a reason. Women are hardwired to get a guy that will provide them with good resources for raising a child.

>asking Yas Forums about dating life

I’m dating one but she isn’t a coalburner.

No, they are not.

Widows are still pure. Unless she killed her husband she has committed no sin.

She will only remember the good parts of her ex, forget all of the bad. Everything you do will get compared to this perfect image of the dead nigger in her imagination. Her resentment will rise and rise until she stabs you to death and gets acquitted by claiming you abused her.

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Cuck

widow is acceptable
anything else is not

>stop pretending to be my father!

Boys without dads become fags

>Would make me a cuck in these circumstances?
no it wouldn't you dumb shit. the fact of the matter is most people aren't going to get a perfect trad woman and unless they settle for something else they aren't going to have kids and white people are going to die out.

unless you are actually gigachad you need to be willing to marry a roastie because, let's face it, you aren't getting anything else, and we need more white babies pronto. get over yourself.

Cope

nothing wrong with widows its the divorcees or single moms that never married you have to look out for

Yes, but don’t diddle her children.

>we

A true white man would marry her and have a masculine son with her.
The kid gets a dad and a brother, the passing of his dad isn't his fault

why the fuck would you come here, of all places, for dating advice? If she's nice and you like each other then why the fuck would you not?

Perks I’ve found of dating a single mom:

>can cook
>keeps house clean
>you have time to yourself because she’s busing taking care of another

of course it's OK

Perhaps cause he knows he's thinking with his dick and us as anons can provide unbiased suggestions. OP would be making a mistake and he knows it deep down

If she's White and has a White kid, then it would be alright. If the kid is anything other than White, just leave her the fuck alone and dodge that bullet.

>huenigger questioning whether first world courts are chocked full of pussy worshipping whiteknights that wouldn't hesitate to destroy the entire lives of ten men if it kept one of their precious princesses out of the dirt
They do.

Do it user.
Just try it. Nobody's saying you have to fully commit yet. Give the relationship time and if she's worth it you'll know.
Cucking is when she's got nigger babies or the husband is alive/you killed him/etc.
But liking a woman despite her life being turned upside down, and being a good man to her, is entirely, 100% fine, regardless of whether you have kids yourself or not.
Just remember
>never compete with the kids. It's retarded to do so. They're family.
>never try to replace her last husband, it's a separate relationship. Just be you, and what you are to her
>Remember to meet her needs and let her know what your needs are. Can't fail from there.
t. divorcee with second wife for 30 years and 8 kids
I also give solid financial NOT LEGALLY ADVICE.

Not same user, but yes. Depends on the specific state, but the state will do nearly anything to avoid having to pay for the child, and will go to great lengths to get a man even tangentially connected to the kid to pony up.

Yes, this is the ONLY acceptable time you could date a single mother.

I personally wouldn't do it no matter what, though, simply because I hate the fuck out of children

Checked, thanks user