Yas Forums, i‘ve had it with my husband. How do i bring out the man in him again? His servile behavior has been an issue since years, but this whole situation with the idiot virus has really brought to light how incompetent he is as a father and as the supposed head of the family. I‘m sick and tired of having to tell him what to do so our family can keep existing. I tried hard to let him be in charge but whenever i let down my grip, he doesn‘t take over. I‘ve led myself to see something in him that wasn‘t there when we met. Now i‘m shit out of luck because i don‘t know what else i could do to get him to man up and become a responsible and competent adult. I‘ve also put in a lot of energy to keep our sex life alive, but his boot licker behavior is such a turn off that i have to force myself to sleep with him. This is no way to live. I suppose i need help from some people who know how men and women today get brainwashed into not acting the way nature intended and i hope some of you might be able to give me some insight on how he can access his potential again.
>inb4 not political Yes it is. Because this isn‘t an isolated case. We all know how society has been manipulated to make people unable to lead functional relationships. I‘m not only asking for advice, i‘m asking how we as a society could prevent this from happening in the future. I have two sons, so this is very relevant.
maybe if you looked like that picture he would bother being alpha
Blake Baker
Get some thigh-high boots and stomp on his dick.
John King
post tits then gtfo
Chase Allen
Shut up. listen to him and follow his lead. Stop subverting your family by undermining him. You have the capacity of a teenager and your opinion doesn’t matter.
Matthew Powell
Sorry hypothetical mountain jewess. You most assuredly came to the wrong board for relationship advice.
Jonathan Foster
Maybe if you weren't a dumb bitch playing games when you were dating, you'd have a man that was worth half a shit.
Charles Bennett
Feed him more black pepper. Table grind. Every savory meal. Remove all forms of onions from your diet. Get him to take some basic supplements b12, green tea, zinc, vitamin C. Limit dairy as well until he starts acting like less a puss then milk can be phased back in.
Modern western men are literally mentally and chemically castrated.
Matthew Clark
I have a serious question. How did you not see this servant-like behavior when you guys first met? Surely you could have had some signal before, maybe on a date or something.
Anyways, try making fun of him. If you question his manhood, and force him to step up to the plate. He most likely will. If he doesn't, then we need to seriously consider your choice in men
Christian Ramirez
S O Y not onions though you should know by now what that means
Tyler Richardson
I think that would not change anything
That‘s actually me
That would only worse then problem
Get lost redditmigrant
I tried that the first few years we were together but he‘s fucking incompetent. He would ruin us.
serious question, how exactly does his servile behaviour manifest in every day life?
Hudson Martinez
This. This. This. Get them tiddies out you slut.
Daniel Harris
Try keeping your stupid whore mouth shut. I guarantee you things will improve.
Jason Ramirez
Cease all control you have over anything in the house and start praying. Don't nag or say anything. In some time he will take over.
Cameron Phillips
read fascinating womanhood and man of steel and velvet
Dylan Long
post your feet
Daniel Smith
what is his father like? Should be very telling.
Xavier Thomas
Go to b or adv you stupid bitch report this post for non political its more advice fagging
Carter Jones
>mutt >zero reading comprehension Yeah, not surprised. If i wanted lame ass incel and leftist advice, i would have posted on /adv/. I know why i posted here. Thanks for your concern.
Carson Butler
Very sophisticated Jewry afoot here m8s.
Michael Nguyen
>that's me teehee you know the rules
Henry Collins
if he is so submissive just order him to get a grip. reward him with cock and ball torture. Instrumental Conditioning in Psychology
Ryan Moore
I didn‘t play any games. Idk what you‘re implying.
Zachary Sullivan
>My husband is beta Find another. Why is that so hard?
What exactly is he doing wrong? You've been quite vague about his so-called failures. Hard to give advice if we don't know what we're giving advice about.
Luke Ramirez
Sounds like you're controlling and he's beat down. You know learned helplessness with tied up baby elephants and adult elephants that learn they can't break weak ropes? That's what happened to him. You aren't actually letting him lead, you're trying to get him to do what you want without telling him. If you want him to be in charge that would mean your willingness to do stuff you don't agree with. You aren't there, and he knows it, so he's not stepping up to "lead" like you want. Probably isn't best to take the training wheels off during a pandemic. Eat your own cooking for now.
Christopher Reed
encourage him to get testosterone shots
Thomas Gomez
Lmao he probably stopped giving a fuck altogether cos you're a controlling Hitleress and he chose the way of least resistance. Good luck with that, I hope for his sake he at least bangs some slags on the side cos if not you have completely ruined a man with your roastie ways. Shit is as shit does.
Isaac James
also for the propaganda, pic related explains it well op
Because it’s something that women create by being cunts during the dating phase. Anyway, the fix is trenbolone, a 10 weeks cycle, and six months to a year of testosterone with plenty of hCG when getting off.
His sex drive will go up, he’ll fucking own you in the bedroom, and he won’t listen to you at all. Be prepared for him to cheat a couple times whilst his brain adjusts though, although I don’t think you’d mind.
Elijah Carter
you wanted a cuck husband and you got one shut the fuck up and accept it I fucking hate women who change their mind like socks holy shit just ride the cock carousel instead of beating around the fucking bush be a whore then who cares
Ethan Rodriguez
This situation has definitely led to me questioning my ability to evaluate someone‘s character. Idk, i thought he ticked all the boxes that might indicate that he‘s in fact not a sissy soi boi. Guess i suck at assessing people.
I‘m not sure belittling him would help. Wouldn‘t that just feed into his servile crap? Besides, i love him. I do not want to be mean to him...
Jaxon Cox
When he does make a decision of any kind, praise him and tell him what a good idea it is. Then give him opportunities to make decisions. Never criticise them, always praise them. This works ONLY IF you actually trust him to make decisions on behalf of you and your family. If he’s an idiot and makes idiot decisions then find other areas he is strong in like practical handyman stuff etc and focus on that instead
Jeremiah Garcia
>larping as a woman on the internet to rile up the bee's nest You're fucking gay as fuck you tranny piece of slime.
Jaxon Ross
Nobody gives a fuck. Not your army. Post tits or gtfo.
Jason Morris
make him read Adam and Eve
Easton Perez
Trannies tend to imitate the way women write in odd ways. This tranny thinks women don't capitalize the letter "i," probably because that seems more nonchalant and KEWL (like sexy womenz are).
Leo Scott
Are you just building all this up so you have a justifiable reason to step outside your marriage?
Chase Moore
>bloodhound wife husband: hey, I don't need to pick up these duties since my other half is taking care of them >bloodhound wife goes REEEEEEEEE
Many such cases. Many (many!) such unloveable women that do not comprehend why people respond negatively to their bossiness.
Hard to say. He‘s someone who doesn‘t talk a lot but thinks he‘s always right despite having some very idiotic ideas. He‘s from the boomer section that thinks the government is always right, the highest goal of a human is to keep his reputation spotless and never let your mask slip.
Adrian Miller
You fucking women don't know jack shit about men anyway women used to know about plants and chemicals, hormones and shit. Why you think perfume is so popular, women are natural chemists. You could get your man some creatine and protein powder and a weightbench to build his T without being a dick about it. You're such a bitch Karen, being a judgemental cunt instead of rolling up your goddamn sleeves and putting some work into your man, you just watch him wither away so you can excuse yourself to new cock without shame. What a fucking roastie whore.
Gabriel Moore
Read “I want sex, he wants fries”. Will solve your problems
Lucas Moore
lol I meant but whatever
Colton Young
>That would only worse then problem
Your husband is a sub, treat him as such, and deal with it, you stupid cunt.
Also tits or gtfo.
John Lopez
no games no tactics no manipulations no hints no vague comments no careful maneuvering
just fucking tell him exactly what you need from him. what is with all these elaborate plans and techniques etc etc.
just fucking tell him what you want of him. in simple plain honest terms. and do not beat around the bush.
i know this goes against all your instincts as a white woman but for once just be straightforward and direct.
Cameron Cruz
show tits or gtfo
Mason Myers
>my husband ok >opens thread >no tit pics SHOW BOBS OR GTFO
Jason Richardson
The thing is, he would win that. He‘s been a MMA champion when we met. Never thought there‘s so much faggotry hiding under the mask of masculinity.
Charles Morgan
This only works if he holds no anger in his heart. If he holds anger, his control will not be over the house but you and he will move on to the next Dom to get cucked.
Prayer is the best outlet for your woes, stand by your man even in this time of weakness. Let go of the control, it's turning into controlling you... You are no longer yourself and he perhaps noticed this and is not invested into mess you are/control.
Christian Allen
Are you an overbearing harpie cunt?
Brayden Lopez
Post feet
Cooper Fisher
Your answers here show that you don't want a man to follow; you want to boss him into being the man you want, which can't work. Your domineering, know-it-all attitude is making him worse, and is probably why you found a submissive man in the first place.
Brody Brooks
Daily reminder that there are no women on this website. And thats a good thing.
Christian Campbell
OP, you're going to have to choose what you want. You love him? Great. GTFO and stop complaining.
You want him to be more assertive? Ight, tell him. Be as brutally honest as possible. And maybe he will start to reassess his situation.
Luis Foster
Can you respond to what I said? You broke him down with your excessive whining and cultish behavior and inability to follow, now get him medicated so he can break you down.
Charles Myers
One other thing as well, you’re probably way too old for him. Men should be with a girl at least five years their junior.
Nolan Campbell
why are you all eagerly participating in OP's cuck larping fantasy? shame on you
yes she is i have been reading her replies and it seems she is all about some grand master plan of intricate tactics and manipulations instead of just telling him what she wants.
likely the dude is so fed up with the passive aggressive mindfuckery that he just figures he will give in. much to his dismay that just makes her even worse.
Joseph Sullivan
>I didn‘t play any games. >married a man she's not happy with >didn't play games You're just like my dumbass sister. Dates her would be husband for years and now complains he's an asshole and doesn't help her. You get what you fucking deserve.
Isaac Martinez
You pretty much described my situation but the other way around. I have the same problem you have but with my girl. I'm really starting to think she is actually dumb and not a smart idea to breed with her.
No kids yet. And it doesn't help that she is a 9.5/10 azn cutie
What is his diet? How much does he excersise? How much do you to go out? Together or with kids What's his politics? What are his hobbies/what is he wasting his life on? Did he PREP for corona-chan or did you have to push him around?
Nathaniel Sullivan
he has chronically low testosterone.. maybe from abusing it during his MMA career? I would have him change his diet, sleep patterns, and watch about 10 hours of niggers hitting white people on worldstar till he remembers that there is something in him called 'dignity'. if that doesn't help, go to a doctor and consider him getting TRT. not that you're a real poster anyway.
Josiah Parker
You know the rules.
Josiah Jackson
Listen, if you want serious advice you’re gonna have to post a pic with timestamp. Nobody is going to believe you until you do that, this sounds exactly like a really shitty LARP
