Life: How does one start over at 30?
i spent my 20s fucking tight college teens but i majored in polisci, so i never got a real career and i survive off the fumes of my past. i honestly don't care. i still live with my parents and im turning 29. fuck society
I met my current wife when I was 28. We have 2 kids now. I'm 37. You got time left. It's easier for men.
I wouldn't worry too much about that now considering we're all going to die
You can't
You should have bought a house fully paid off at 24
Had kids at 25
Should be making 150k at 27
You are a fuck up OP
Motherfucker, are you serious? As a man at 30, it’s not too hard. What are you trying to get out of and where are you trying to head to
The first step is to start living; don't think hard about it.
Bizarre shill threads tonight
Two year trade school or HVAC cert or something, get Yas Forums, live on your own. It’s not too late.
Join a cult
Oh, and don’t adopt the mindset of
Honey please. 30? You are in your prime. While we have this respite be thinking about what you want to do, what lifestyle, what goals, where you want to be in 2, 5, 10 years. Starting over at 30 is perfect. It's the perfect time for you.
29 is great, you are still very young.
you have plenty of time, if you stop wasting it now.
would kill to be 29 again.
What do you want in life? Maybe going back to college is an option.
Personnally, I'm back in on university benches for a second bachelor's degree, this time in Computer Engineering (first one was in Cell & Molecular Biology) Hopefully, it will be good money once I'm done.
Depends. If you’re a man, you’ve got time to sort your life out and still make something of it. If you’re a woman, consider becoming a nun or settling for literally anyone who will have you.
apply for a job, that is how
PS: you're fucked
this but unironically
The global economy is crashing, many many many people will be starting over soon. Many with violence.
Today is your day user.
It's not perfect, but what in life ever is. Even those with everything still complain and can't appreciate the simple things. Get yours, have a family, fuck what everyone else thinks and does.
You don't.
You don't get second chances at the mistakes you've made just try and grow something from then.
But unless you've litterally just spent the last 10 years doing fuck all with nothing to show for it there's still a chance for a meaningful life to be had.
You need to internalize that you can start.
If you accept that there is no redo, than you are fucked.
Memes maketh man.
Get the good ones. You can start over. First you must believe.
>start over
I'm almost 30 and I didn't even start yet
Serious answer: learn a trade, it will pay a decent amount and let you live an average live and it will get you through it
Other option: boog with us, make a couple pipe bombs and plant them in crowded areas (hard to do now just wait it out) stores are good but aisles will block some of the blast, large events are good though planting the bomb near some bleachers would be best because then the people right next to it won’t just stop the shrapnel
OP as someone whose had a bunch of fuck ups in their life.
It's just one decision as a time. Day by day.
When you look back you'll see that changed directions led you to somewhere you never could have gone before.
First your tribe must be assassinated by drone strikes, then you need to recover from soul sucking subhumans and try yet again after lots of exhausting failures
I started over in my late thirties. OP, not only can you start over at 30, but it might be the optimal age for it. All the best to you.
Same boat kind of but i own some property and a mobile home outright. Not amazing but its something. The problem is I have to take care of family members. The rest of my family won't do it so I am the one stuck. I have re invented myself many times but the only options left involve travel and leaving them.
I have little need for comfort, I would gladly work the oil field from a camper, following work where i find it and spending little but i can't. It looks like a life of mediocrity, the job market is weak here, always has been. Least its cheap though. More acreage would please me. Kids and a wife as well but i don't see any path i take doing that.
I swear those idiots complaining about not going to uni because its too liberal. You guy are just lazy and dumb and seek comfort in each others ignorance. Keep doing that please, the less tax lawyers in the world, the more money i'll make once i've finished my master.
And there's no point in trying while your tribe is micromanaging my life either. All it takes is one of you throwing a homosexual temper tantrum for any minor reason for it to go to the toilet again.
In 4-5 years you can still be a loser. Or...if you go for it, you can be somebody. Either way, you will still be 4-5 years older. Point is, you're not too old to do anything you still want to do.
fucking based
Soon a lot of us will be starting over pal
>falling for the rat race meme
>not taking advantage of the great reset
are you aware of what is going on outside? neets will have their time
Based
Terrible career choice.
t. 29yo tax consultant
Gold
I just turned 20 how the fuck do I avoid being in a situation like this. I dont fear death as much as I fear fucking the next 10 years of my life up to the point where I have to essentially start from square one.
It gets less depressing at 30 but you gotta make it to 35
no but you have to get your shit together. figure out a way to make money with a scalable skill if money is your issue
how come?
Sorry bros, 30 year olds dont find "soul mates" or "true love" or even "a b*tch maybe worth wifing." the single girl of your dreams does not exist at your age. theres no female peer waiting to be your devoted true love. shes already loved and lost or was never capable of loving in the first place and in the "best case" scenario where she agrees to marry youll only ever be her husband accessory and sperm donor. youll never matter more to her than her granite countertops or exposed brick or shoe collection. and youll never truly know her or share a life of intimacy with her. just a checking account and and a netflix password.
that kind of marriage is for other people. like your grandfather. you remember him, right? the man who didnt meet a broken 30 year old shrew on tinder when he decided to start a family?
sorry. its just not how people are built and its definitely not how our society works. ljl at finding a pure of heart 29 year girlfriend you will love, honor and cherish for the rest of your life. ljl at knowing you want some b*tch from jdate to be the mother of your children.
this is just as dumb (and sad) as posters asking how to make new friends moving to a new city at age 34. oh wow what a difficult and confusing question! jk its actually really f**king simple because the answer is you cant make friends in a new city at age 32. people dont make friends--real friends who truly enrich their lives--at 32. they already have those friends and youre just a guy theyre being nice to or hanging out with to pass the time.
You still have at least 5 years to get something done. Do what every unmarried guy does at 35. Fly to the Philippines go to a ball and find a wife. I used to be an electrician and seriously 65% of them had based, hott, young, trad Philippino wives that would cook for them and fuck em at least three times a day.
there are no solutions. you done f**ked up if youre romantically/socially isolated at 30. its called life and it already happened for everyone else and youre just the dumbass who decided to start trying with a new job/city/okcupid profile like youre going to still maek it with a loving woman who is 31 and single but totally not broken or slvtty.
and youre going to find a community of chill, loyal friends and neighbors who genuinely care about you and your family and it will finally be morning in america!
but then again no.
it wont be morning in america in your 30s. youre aleady slipping down the slope of a life wasted and in your heart you know that. its not a question of what will happen. it happened. you missed your chance and its only getting worse. time only moves in one direction, f*ggot.
heres the only advice that can help you: hit the motherf**king reset button and hope your next life isnt the dumpster fire your current one is.
Life is about to start over for all of us
first time i'ver every posted this but
have sex
Easily.
Single 30 yr old male is the prime human. You have the failures of the past to learn from. Plenty of time to change. No commitments. You are free desu
Focus on your finances and physical health. If you have debts, get rid of them. If you are a fat piece of shit, get in shape. Look out for you, society is retarded.
If you lack the skill for higher trades or most likely the connections and existing finances for high end jobs like lawyer/doctor etc be ready to suffer. Pinch pennies like a jew. I mean count every receipt, run that budget and keep to it. Find somewhere you like living that you can afford and make sure you can afford it even in the worst of times and pay it off. Don't go for the 30 year mortgage, pay it off within a year.
Consider the oil industry for work but keep in mind its temporary (also in the shitter right now, I just got laid off). Go to school. Find a cheap community college. I got PAID to go to college. You can get a 4 year with the pell grant and if its a degree thats a demand trade you can get extra from the unemployment office. Get a CDL if you are going to do any kind of trade. Its a license to print money and guarantees work. You might not like the work but it will pay well above average and you can work ANYWHERE. I wouldn't want to be a young man in this day. I would love to be 18 again back in 2006 but not today. I would also prepare for the worst. I doubt this heap of shit has to many miles left.
Just be confident bro!
Read Mastery by Robert Greene, might spark some ideas
Don't listen to this copypasta bullshit.
-get fit
-get a good job
-pick up a 25 year old, marry her and start a family
Happens all the time. Men have the power in their 30's as long as they take care of themselves. Also, don't be short or bald.
You stop thinking about your age. Plus, 30 is prime for a male anyways.
Cpa here. Youll be a depressed alcoholic in that career. Just you wait. Big 4 cpa and did exactly that. Absolutely horrific
you're only 30 for 1 year, you continue to get older and older
This is painfully true, I don't think the love and type of marriage my grandparents had is possible at any age anymore.
Jesus, man, my best years didn't happen until I hit 30.
Sure, the teenage years and 20s were fun doing shit that should have killed me, but my 30s and now, first half of my 40s, shit's WAY better except for the occasional aches and pains from all the dumb shit I did when I was younger.
Coronavirus is leveling the playing field for all of us. Use this as an opportunity start fresh and realize your potential
>tfw already balding at 19.
Fuck
no he shouldn't.
>30
I'm pushing my my 70's and I gotta tell ya
lel, you have it easy you old fuck. We won't have boomer bucks when we get old. social security will be gone but we will certainly pay in for the rest of our lives.
I'm a 36 ninja (no income no job or assets), still with my mom, and I have to agree with this gentleman unfortunately.