What's the secret to fixing a shitty NEET life, Yas Forums? On the brink of an hero desu
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Lincoln Adams
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Mason Collins
Find a job first no matter how shitty it is. Then try to learn new skills and gradually improve yourself.
Aaron Harris
Good diet and excersise really, if you have none then embrace the chronic depression
Easton Martin
start lifting. 1x a week.
Bentley Ward
You won't be a hero you'll be a monster to man and a failure to the creator. I'll drop you some /sig/ material and I urge you to search the archive for more.
Cameron Collins
dispense with the ideal of authenticity, take an acting course and learn to entertain people who don't deserve it.
Landon Lewis
Camden Long
Colton Phillips
Camden Nguyen
You have to lift. If you don't exert yourself you will be very sad. You might still be sad if you worked out, but you will be less sad. There is no "cure" for depression, it affects everyone differently. But for you? Stop browsing Yas Forums, redpills and blackpills don't transform you into gigachad. Working out, reading books, finishing your education, getting a job and a wife and eating correctly do.
Logan Perry
You have crippling anxiety and depression.
You’re fucked without any kind of motivation.
Find that first
Ryan Peterson
>embrace the chronic depression
Unironically this. You'll find that your depression is like a tunnel. There is only one way out and it is forward. You cannot leave the same way you entered.
Jace Long
The secret is to make everyone else be a neet that way you're king neet
Adam Price
pick up an instrument to play
Isaac Brown
Lift some weights you fucking pussy!!!!!!!!!!!!
You should be lifting like 900 KGs YOU PUSSSY
Oliver Ross
teach yourself a skill that you can improve on everyday and be proud of. can be something simple like drawing or making matchstick sculptures or building legos or learning how to make electronics... anything. once you start building a base of knowledge you will start creating things that you never thought you had the capabilities to and that will make you feel good for yourself.
Aaron Long
My situation is the following:
>shitty abusive and overprotective parents
>no other family or siblings
>public schooling in US ruined my mind
>25 yo, still reliant on parents, living with them
>parents chose my uni degree for me and forced me to happily attend
>drop out because fucking hate studying something I didn't choose
>literally don't know how do do anything (drive, cook, etc.)
>addicted to porn
>had a shitty job but parents have been taking my salary so I quit
>fucked my health up by living like a NEET
>no social contacts at all
>no motivation to live
Sebastian Smith
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get a job, any job
Isaac Cooper
Bump to keep the thread alive while I formulate a reply.
Thomas Thomas
When I was depressed Teenager I accidentally a whole cognitive behavioral therapy before I knew what it was.
Probably did some lasting damage, I’m not really capable of sadness/grieving now without extreme concentration focusing on empathetic response; but that’s better than being depressed.
Makes consoling people having a hard time pretty difficult, which makes relationships short-lasting. Women don’t like hearing “so what?” When they are complaining.
Michael Young
Not being afraid of death. I don't know any other way. Only the face of death frees you from caring.
It's what turned me around when I was living with my mother, after I dropped out of uni and lost my old shitty developer job and went into NEETdom for ~6 months. That was ~5 years ago. Now I own my apartment and have a good job with good savings. I never even went back to finish that university degree. Sure, the world is still shit, but at least I can do what I want on my own now.
Just stop being afraid and send your CV to banks, large companies and government jobs. You know, the places "you don't belong". And never work for free, even if they criticize you.
Also, don't lie. If you lie about something, it means you care.
Jonathan Collins
You've already taken the first step by wanting to change.
Robert Young
Working out.
Colton Myers
go fishing. fun as fuck, gets u outdoors.
Gabriel Lee
>set boundaries or make discussion with parents about the reality of independence
>this is irrelevant because you're still interacting with people
>it takes one semester off to learn about relevant topics to undo public schooling
>you're reliant by choice, anyone can walk out the door and apply for a job
>your inaction contributed to your degree
>dropping out was probably the first thing you did on your own
>YouTube videos on how-to basic shit, frugal practices, adulthood, etc.
>cure for porn is literally expending your energy on hobbies, since porn is done out of idling
>this is your own fault
>you could literally undo shitty hygiene and health within a month of keto, hiit, or running in place
>everyone's social circle is limited to 3 to 5 people by age 35, you could fucking make this many friends just by proximity via job
> motivation to live comes from very aggressive scheduling
kys if you can't even follow one of these
Joseph Walker
when i was nihilistic, depressed and unmotivated i took some lsd and did a 180. it was a thing that i took once and the psychological impact lasted months or years after. beyond that find anything that gets you even a little bit excited and pursue that, and give up things like vidya and internet. also exercise.
Lincoln Lee
Find the work again, lad. It's better to be a wagie than a neey.
Nathaniel Thomas
Should have deceived them about the money (and everything), had a manager stagger the payments into two different accounts. Work lads would help you if you told them.
first order of business is health and skills, cook something difficult every chance you get, perfect a recipe of something you like, even if it just your daily coffee. Defiance is empowering but spite is corrosive. I would literally sell their prized possessions if they wronged me monetarily.
dead authors are the only friends that matter.
Christopher Russell
Clean your room.
Josiah Sullivan
>abusive
>overprotective
Which one?
Kevin Robinson
start lifting weights
Noah Kelly
this this this this this
It is not impossible to dig yourself out
Easton Perry
Lift, proper hygiene everyday, leave the house once a day. Doesn't matter what you do, go for a walk , etc. Just be around people. Start a part time job and go from there.
Blake Taylor
lifting weights and eating healthy, supplementing vitamins etc... cured my depression.
Once that is taken care of, you can start tackling the bigger issues. one day at a time.
Thomas Lee
Following Christ is the key to self discipline and growing potential. I highly recommend reading the King James Bible along with lifting and eating healthful
Parker Parker
There is no fix, you will never be normal. Do you think normal people struggle to be normal? Answer is no, enjoy your lonely existence fellow NEET.
William Cooper
>tunnel.
funnel lol
Nicholas Garcia
Wake up early.
Adam Young
Stop being a faggot and get out of your comfy zone. Set your life goals and set small goals to get to them. Yes, it will be hard and yes you need to stop sucking cock.
Jaxson Reed
I have one simple answer for you OP and it will change your life forever, provided you heed it's advice. Read Think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill.
This book isn't just how the rich become rich, it's how to be successful at life in general, how you will find happiness and contentment. How you will WIN LIFE. The book is about $7 but you can find it in a library no doubt also. Read it, apply it. Become who you're meant to be, make sure your ancestors didn't life, fight, suffer and die for nothing. You are their legacy, realize this!
The book especially goes into detail about NoFap (a 1930s version of course)
Also stop coming here lol.
Carter Cooper
your comfort zone doesnt matter
you have to earn everything
be gratreful your parents keep you from being a homeless person
fuck your feelings
do what you are told
get a job and earn your living then you can cut your baby cord yourself
its your choice
you and ONLY YOU can do it
only you can STOP watchjing porn and START doing things
you know already what you should not do and what you should be doing instead
realize you are the only one that has control over your mind and body
others can only mean good based on their experiences but i bet your parents who raised you dont mean harm to you. maybe they just dont know better because they have been raised and lvied through different times .
but they are trying THEIR best FOR you.
confronting them and hitting them to the head with blame over the troubles you only can solve yourself is unfair.
motivation to life comes with purpose that comes with keepoing yourself busy and experiencing things, good AND bad ones
only makes you stronger what does not kill you.
no social contacts will go away as well as you do stuff.
your health can regenerate by a good amount but ONLY YOU can change your behavior, that is what you actually DO and what you (better) NOT DO.
25 and living at home is no big deal user, especially in these times
you really need to stand up and DO SOMETHING with your life
either you go the path your parents have set for you, alleviate their lives by helping in the household doing their chores for them and repaying them as best as you can, which is the good path where you can live with them and learn for your education and THEN get a cool job there after graduation and THEN become totally selfdetermined ...
OR ... you can be a cunt and spit on your own parents , work at McBurgerBro's for Mr Goldstein together with Tyreewse and Shqauanda until you are 35 and have enough money to do your faggot arts degree .
mos timportant is to stay positive even in negative situations
Lincoln Morales
Based helper spitting facts
Evan Barnes
take some action you fucking piece of shit. that's what your testicles are for
Connor Anderson
This.
The "iron pill" is real. Go to the gym, put those 25 lbs (or less) on the barbell and start squatting, benching, and deadlifting. Google 5x5 Starting Strength. It is a great noobie program. If you are stuck inside because of corona, start with daily push-ups even if that means starting with 1.
Following Christ is always good, but it's quite a jump for a onions-brained neet to make. If possible, I would start with attending events/hanging out with Christian people and maybe even volunteering for a Christian or Christian-approved association.
Jose Walker
>fixing
Persistence.
Make a list of things that you would like to Stop doing, and likewise a list of things that you would like to Start.
Begin with the easiest things first, it might be something like better Posture, or Stopping Soda.. Do it , or Refrain from doing it EVERY DAY. Once you have added a new habit, or removed one.. Move on to the next thing on the list.
While you are modifying your habits, you should also Add new Productive Purpose in your life. Make the Dedication to Code for at least 2 hours every day, or if not into coding, Read, or Study... Do something to improve your opportunity for Meaningful work. DO what you enjoy, but also do what is productive and profitable.
Also, consider becoming more active in your local community - Join a Church - Volunteer - Make a new Club - Run for local office.. Something to meet people, and also become someone that is known by people in the community.
All of this will gradually improve your confidence, and outlook in life. Gradually you will become the person that you are capable of being.
Lastly, but not Least. Trust in the High God, and his Designs for you, your folk, and the world. Don't allow Fear, or Doubt, or Dread to hold you back from your daily and persistent PROGRESS. Faith, and Belief in GOOD is essential for your success.
It is not Skill,Intelligence,Wealth,Luck that leads to Success in Life, there is only one Ingredient. Choose something that you enjoy, and DO IT EVERY DAY.
Dylan Kelly
Looks like you really take your own advice
James Wood
dont listen to gymfaggots. pick up martial arts, anything that suits you.
Bentley Harris
Don't do it ancapanon. There is no secret; but These.
Landon Williams
I like traditional Christians and their morals and have read the bible and researched the teachings of Christ. However, the religion itself is absolutely Jewed beyond belief to the point where it is basically Jewish stoicism. Can't convince myself to believe in semitic fairytales.
Chase Wood
Jesus our Lord and Saviour
Xavier Johnson
> Find a job first no matter how shitty it is
OY VEY
Seriously OP do not listen to thisI was fooled and depressed for 2 whole years jumping between crappy jobs. I finally found a job that isn’t crappy, and am much happier.
Don’t fall for the join a crappy job meme. It reinforces the slave labor agenda.
You won’t get anywhere in life, I was living in a status quo bubble before my current delivery job.
Join something like delivery, seriously you can pretty much be your own boss, listen to your music, check your phone if you need to, work less hours but get payed the same as you would in a regular job.
Isaiah Kelly
Like I said, it's a big jump. But Christianity is a cornerstone of White/Western civilization. It's in our DNA. I understand your points. All I ask is for you to hang around Christian people and see if you meet anyone that is living the kind of life you would want for your self.
Ethan Hernandez
Anyways. Christ isn't your starting point. Basic self-improvement is.
As others have said: stop eating garbage, stop dopamine injecting yourself with porn (go ahead and keep masturbating, but only in the shower/bed--no porn allowed, and try to cut back), and start taking the iron pill.
Here is a link for 5x5 StrongLifts: stronglifts.com
Also, if you are into programming (or want to get into it), I highly recommend following these C++ tutorials: youtube.com
Jack Butler
Find a job but keep yourself to yourself, dont make friends with the staff, dont get involved in office politics, just keep your head down and do your work. Master this and youll be fine.
Bentley Sanchez
Jesus.
Nathan Wright
Hey cool guy, you’ve been watching the news? A little for the self-improvement.
Anthony Lee
open a bank account, preferably one that won't charge you for having a low or no balance. Find a work, one place that is almost always hiring, especially this time of year is agriculture. Set up direct deposit to your account that you made in your name. Your Parents can't access account so you keep the money. do not activate your card when they email you the code or when you get the card, that way your parents can't take your money.
Also you need to strengthen your willpower before you try to tackle some of this stuff. FORCE yourself to do something you don't want to do that's beneficial at least once a day for now. Even things as simple as reading a classic book (even a couple pages at a time is fine), taking a cold shower, or even brushing your teeth. After you do one consistently for a bit add another one. or add something more demanding, but don't stop the first one either.
I was a depressed, sickly, feeble neet at one point in my life too user, if I could dig myself out I'm sure you can too. The thing that helped me the most was faith, it gave me something to strive for. Also you've gotten some good advice from the other anons too.
Ryan Roberts
get a job. it really does help to start making your own money. Save if possible. If you don't need to pay your parents rent then save up as much as possible quick. Maybe even get two jobs. You'll end up with like 25k in the bank after a year as long as you don't spend like a nigger.
Ian Martinez
>What's the secret to fixing a shitty NEET life, Yas Forums? On the brink of an hero desu
stop fapping
unironically is the best big step
also tons of sun and vitc
when you become a neet and you don't get enough vitcc and vitd you start to get depressed and your body starts shutting down
Jordan Jenkins
this is also good advice. I'm a longer by nature anyway so keeping from politics of the workplace is easy. I don't bother people and I don't waste time talking. I show up, do my work and do it well, and I've gained a pretty good reputation these past 3 years or so.
Liam Carter
Ok bro
1) Fix your food intake
- Take all the vitamins and minerals, especially Iodine
- Quit simple carbs and sugar of any sort
- Eat 1-2 times within a 6-8 hour window
- Use blue light filtering glasses between 8-10 PM to regulate circadian rhythm
- Have a routine for things you need to do daily, weekly, monthly etc., just repeat what works over and over again
- Start reading scientific stuff, not garbage you can find on Amazon
Parker Collins
I used to be a teenage shut in (back in the early 2000's) and the way I got out of it was basically baby steps;
First thing is just to get outside more. Just go for daily walks and get used to being outside. From there, move it up to going to public places like stores and such.
Try going around people more. Start with family and friends (if you have any) and escalate. Don't worry about approaching strangers and talking to them. Just get used to being around them.
Once you get comfortable being out and being around people, try going out places with friends or family, if you can. Observe how they interact with people and try it yourself.
Now is when you go after a job. Whatever you can get, really. The job interview will be awkward, but most places will hire absolute retards. So don't worry about that
Now that you're working, interact with coworkers and customers. Customers are a great way to get used to small talk. Co workers are a great way to get used ti conversation. Just "hey. What's up?" And "how's it goin?" And simple shit at first, until you get the hang of it.
Key things to remember is not to bring up really weird habits, don't mention being a NEET and don't be creepy towards women. In fact, just treat women like they're the same as men. Some may be annoyed, but they won't find you creepy.
Once you get to the point where you're functional in public and making your own money, you should be able to handle it from there yourself.
Landon Nguyen
Get the fuck away from your parents. That's Step 1
Daniel Wright
overprotective mother and abusive/neglectful father
Henry King
Do EMDR, this might make the biggest difference
Gavin Williams
get off of Yas Forums...
?????
Jose Lewis
get off of Yas Forums and go to Yas Forums
Jaxson Moore
>I highly recommend following these C++ tutorials: youtube.com
and C++ primer book
Noah Wood
Get a job any job.
Get up early.
Stop eating shit.
Stop watching hours of TV and Vidya...
That is all you need.
Leo Rodriguez
Yas Forums is more of a fucking quagmire then Yas Forums
Parker Campbell
I did self improvement. I got a job, I work out, yadda yadda. The only thing missing is (free, regular) sex.
The problem is I'm a manlet in the tallest country in the world.
I visit whores sometimes. But what I really want is to forget about sex completely. Any tips? Please one that doesn't involve harming myself.