When and what made you realize that you would never be completely normal because of child neglect...

I personally think that the internet made it so all the mentally ill/abormal/neglected kids get to gather together making an even worst shit show. If there was only one furry in town it would notice that that just inst what society's morals align with and therefore will make it so no one else will engage with them, unless they try to act normal and then normalize over time "fake it till you make it"

I don’t think it’s unreasonable that the Internet has allowed antisocials to form niche communities rather than learn to integrate, say, the way one migrant in a group becomes a member of a group but ten become a separate entity

>normal
aka middling intelligence NPC that lives the life of a sheep, I prefer keeping my 134 IQ and above eye view of the petri dish.

is letting a kid be babysat/raised by a screen considered neglect?

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I also killed a kitten when I was 12. It didn't make me feel good like I thought to finally have this power in my life, being what I thought I would get out of it. I was little, getting beat and by and psychologically abused by my mom and step dad while molested by a neighbour.
I have nightmare about the kitten all the time. There is nothing I feel more remorse for in my life. At least this way I know im not that fucked up. I cry about it a lot. I don't know I guess I was just really messed up.Most of you wont understand. 23F

yes, especially if you let the kid watch murder docs all day.

Hi, woman raised in an abusive household here.

I managed to fit in well enough and I finally have a good group around me now but I completely understand what you're talking about.
Luckily I met my husband, and he was as broken as I was, but we've both taken the time to try and work on ourselves.

I found Facing Codependence to be a great read for me dealing with my childhood issues.

Don't give up, and maybe try to deal with the hurt of a shitty childhood. It sucks, but your life will be better after.

thoughtcatalog.com/janet-bloomfield/2014/05/heres-why-men-should-have-the-reproductive-rights-that-women-have/

That's why we need to give men and women equal laws.
When men receive reproductive choices like women, women will stop making immature choices like having sex without protection with randoms, fishing condoms out of trash cans or lying to their partners/hook ups about being on birth control.

Currently, they know that the child support system will help them.

Giving only women reproductive choices (abortion, adoption, safe haven laws) while men don't have any has led to the destruction of the nuclear family.

But when women know, that men have a choice too they will be more careful with whom they have children with and so we can reduce the numbers of divorces.

Say no to single motherhood.

In the meantime, warn your fellow men to use protection and don't leave the condom in the trash can.

This is how we can restore the nuclear family.

youtube.com/watch?v=9Nku82jvdNo

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Obviously. There'll be no bonding between parents. And the kids would prefer their phones to hanging out with mom and dad.

>you're a fucking sociopath
>get help
you've never been through any real conflict.

When my parents hated that I had mental problems so much, they favored my high school dropout brother over me because he was born without any. I was the one with the job, but they didn't care. I was the one who got his diploma, but they didn't care. I was the one who didn't steal hundreds from them to feed his gaming addiction, but they didn't care. My own father once asked me why I couldn't just be normal, my mother hates that she got married at all, let alone had kids, and wishes we would all just die, that she would die, and so on. My parents basically never saw me as anything other than ammunition in their arguments. I was the only kid I knew who wanted his parents to divorce, even if that'd only be a vain attempt to stop the persistent arguing, but they didn't, of course, not even after my mother got pumped and dumped by a cliche manwhore (my father pretty much took her back though). To this day, I have pretty much no relationship with either of them or my brother.

>The most vital lesson is one so many of us were denied, and that’s learning to lose. You can do everything right and still fail, and there’s no shame in it. You pick yourself back up, that’s all. I feel like I’d have been alright if someone had taught me that.

Same here, user. I wish my parents had taught me anything at all, but instead they were taking turns kissing my spoiled rotten brother's ass. Fun fact: my mother would always ask my brother or father to help with chores, never me, even when I was perfectly capable of helping. I had to teach myself so much because my parents basically ignored me. I read at a university reading level at a rather young age, but my parents were like fuck it, who cares?

I felt all of that, that's exactly how I'd raise my kid too

yes

I am a woman and still think that to a certain extent. its really fucked up how women will lie to get themselves pregnant. I thought about it once but decided against it because my logical brain took over my hormones. I think what needs to be underlined here is how the system helps them pull such trickery.

>And the kids would prefer their phones

There was a story out of Brooklyn where this led to a girl getting raped, and everyone lashed out at the parents for basically just leaving her to the elements, although IIRC they apparently were working more than one job or something.

I miss entertaining sarcasm like yours.

You're a good person. I think you should look for a therapist who won't try to shove pills down your throat.

You're exactly right. Normies can sense very quickly that something is wrong with you. Funny enough I used to also have this ability and probably still do.

I used to be so disgusted at the wierd kids but as an adult I am the weird kid.

I am proud of you.

A friend of mine did this because she didn't want to work anymore and chose someone she met on a phone chat app 2 weeks before. I stopped talking to her.

Men should act responsible too of course. But what is unjust is that only one gender has choices and the other doesn't have at least one.
Even male rape victims are forced to pay support to their female rapists. I recently found out that it is in the law, at least in the US.

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>anybody who does not conform is a psychopath

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i think i would just go and kill her

Some kids will always suffer neglect. It is simply evolution where the worst genes get filtered out. Hell, even as babies good looking babies will be given more attention by nurses and such. Mother Nature herself is telling us she wants us gone and that the future belongs to better people.

nice neighbors maybe
but then you run the risk of pedophiles making it worse like in my hentai mangos

That's all they do down here. They dont really seem to help otherwise. My boyfriend help. I don't know if Im fixable but at least he lets me forget about all that a while. He takes care of me. Honestly have too many ptsd triggers it sucks I cant work, random words set off panic attackts, someone simply walking behind me will set deep anxiety and shivers. I wanted to kill myself because I knew I couldnt take care of myself for a long time, but he just takes care of me now. Im fine with staying home and taking care of things there.

Its unfortunately a cycle too and a hard to break one because a lot of people dont even know they were neglected in the first place.

to give perspective, that kitten isn’t suffering anymore. some unfortunate ones have to live with a disability or non stop pain.
yes it’s wrong to hurt animals like that, but your are older, wiser, and the fact it effected you so deeply reveals a depth of goodness inside you.

Not me. I cannot understand how anyone would want to neglect their precious children.
When I get children I will give them my everything

I'm guilty of killing some amphibians, indirectly.

I left some frogs in a container and forgot about them, came back and they had died but the tadpoles were still alive. I think killing a mammal would be worse though because they are more like us.

I also used to kill ants for fun when I was very little.

I just realized you are OP. I thought you were a troll because of the "23F".

Yeah, being neglected by my mom emotionally has led me to become a really messed up person. I still can't form friendships because of her.

I just want this to all be over. I might just decide to respawn and try my luck again a few years down. This post is satire.

I do not support your message. I don't think it is wise to go to jail for murder while you have actually been the one who has been treated unfairly. (Now you know better anyway and you should flush your condom down the toilet next time (and buy your own!)) youtube.com/watch?v=GQHzAjPZzQE

The funny thing however is, that women can actually legally kill their potential children via abortion.

A lot of conservatives even make the argument, that a woman that has been the victim of rape should be allowed to have an abortion.

Yet, when it is a boy who has been raped, he doesn't have such a choice and when he can't pay up the child support money, he will land in jail.

The same happens to men who have lost their job and can't pay up because they have never been given a chance to surrender fatherhood directly after birth.
Women however can, depending on the sate, abandon motherhood up to 1 year after birth. No questions asked.

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Strange because all my family loves me but yet I still feel bad as if deep down I know something is missing.

I can form friendships with guys but I just can't seem to do it with girls, even just in a friendly way.

Like sure I can say hello and say a few things but that's it I can never go anywhere with them like I do with the boys.

My brain can only tolerate a certain level of bullshit before it goes into war-mode.

Women hate me now. I got really ugly as I grew older. Plus I stutter like a bitch and trip over my words and get brain freeze.

There was one woman who I see sort of as a replacement for my mother. She is barely a year older than me. I realized when I met her that I've been searching for a mother this entire time. My insane Christcuck mother amd her Abrahamic insanity affected me a lot more than I thought.

This particular woman is a sort of paychologist and onviously getting paid to pretend to care about me, but for the past few weeks I've been having dreams where I am her son and happy spending time with her.

same friend, fucking stupid cunt mom. traded my life so she can go on fucking vacations without me and work and keep me from my dad.
fuck

Therapy doesn’t work. I’ve been to several therapists and it all seems like semantics and pedantry. Nothing is being resolved and nothing new is ever being brought to light. I see through that shit instantly. I know everything he is saying before he says it. Any ideas he comes up with I’ve already ran through my mind 1000 times. Therapy only works for braindeads. You either forget or change your reaction to certain memories, but sometimes they’re too dark. Therapists and psychiatrists never resolve anything and whatever they have to say is common sense. You’re paying 100s of dollars on the hour for some pampered douchebag to tell you not to think about how your dad beat you with a horse dildo for 3 years. It’s fucking retarded. Never met a psychiatrist that’s had a hard life either. Obviously they haven’t, they’re successful, and successful people are usually pampered with both their parents and a nurturing environment.

They tried psychologists on me but it didn't work.

Because I know they are just pretending and reading out their scripted responses.

It's like watching a magic show but you already know all the tricks. Doesn't have the same effect.

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I am like that, I can almost tell what somebody is going to say or do before they even say it.

from this point take ownership of what it is now, and find some aspect that you can control however small or large and grow it from there.
It takes work to heal from shit, anyone who tells you it "takes time" and not effort is a liar.

Get over it. Been having panic attacks everyday since I was a teenager. The only times I have coherent linear thoughts is when I’m on Xanax or I’m drunk, but luckily I’m stone cold sober most of the time. So I live life feeling like I almost fell off a cliff or just got into a brawl. There’s a plus side though. Having anxiety and panic disorder trains your mind for when shit gets real. I clutch up 99% of the time I almost get into a wreck or when I’m playing CSGO. Don’t think of it as a disability and more like special training. I’m much more adaptable to hardship because I live everyday in pain. It has made me strong. Stop being a little bitch and accept the fact you have mental illness and rise above it. Adversity, Pain, and failure are the best teachers you will ever have. Quit being a slave

WOAH MR BRAINIAC GOT HIS BIG BOY PANTS ON NOW WATCH OUT WORLD WE GOT A BIG IQ GENIUS GUY HERE

love is the cure. No matter how bad things are, having a loving partner to hug and hold at night makes it bearable. All I can think about is finding love and I can't focus on anything else until I do. Mazlows hierarchy of needs

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>My insane Christcuck mother amd her Abrahamic insanity affected me a lot more than I thought.

What form of Christcuck was she? Mine was Catholic, but with a whole lot of Zionism to the point you couldn't even say the word Israel without her ranting about how you must've been an anti-Semite. No, I'm not saying this as some sort of generic Yas Forums parody about libtards - my mother could literally go off on the most paranoid, delusional rants if someone even said anything remotely bad about Jewish people or Israel. She claimed she was Jewish in a past life or some shit, but she's not even Jewish whatsoever. She also demonized my grandmother (her mother) as evil incarnate, then wondered why I didn't bother keeping in touch with her lol. My mother was also the sort of paranoid bitch who'd talk about recording people because every time we went out, she swore she was being stared at. She also literally couldn't admit to doing ANYTHING wrong. She ALWAYS has to be right, or else she would NEVER let you hear the end of it. Even the most trivial things! It was either her way or the FUCK YOU I WISH I NEVER MARRIED YOU DROP DEAD FAGGOT ranting way. Surprisingly, she was lowkey racist - she hated Native Americans and once told me that the missing Native American girls/women deserved what they got - and I heard on the grapevine she HATES the Me Too women, claiming they're all liars, although she also defends Polanski, saying that he did NOTHING wrong.

Apologies for the ramble, but I feel she really did a number on me.

I wish I had a loving partner to put my arm around at night, I think of it a lot but I know I can't get it yet.

Well, I knew I wasn't "right" since I was young, mom and dad divorced when I was little (somewhere between kindergarten/1st grade) so having two split parents was "normal" but what wasn't was the constant alcoholism on both sides of my family. I have a very distinct memory as a child, with my mom holding me sobbing, our backs against the front door as the landlord banged on it and hollered cause my mom broke up with the landlords best friend and he was a pyscho. Then I eventually found out my parents divorced cause my dad married a stripper who (imagine my shock) cheated on him with a guy from jail who she was a penpal with. Now they're both in shambles and my dad found comfort in becoming a land lord tycoon and my mom is currently poor living with her second husband.

Overall I know I'm fucked, I have some form of split personality disorder where under extreme stress or sadness I "fade out" and something else takes the reins. People told me when I get really angry I become extremely suave and manipulative (I know this sounds like faggy bullshit but I'm just wearing my heart of my sleeve for you guys.) And I was told by my gf that after I found out my best friend died in a car accident that I dissociated and was essentially coo'ing myself into a state of comfort. This probably all stems from my abusive childhood where I had to rely on myself 24/7 even for things such as comfort and vengeance. Either way I sort of embrace it at this point because these "other me's" have never been self harming and only exist as sort of a imaginary guardian angel here to help me and me alone.

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My type of thread
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And what would I tell the next generation? Well fuck, I'd tell them to pick themselves up by their bootstraps and resist every day of their lives.

Dad beats you?
Work out and break his jaw next time he fucks with you.

Substance abuse?
Smoke weed (Ik it's degenerate) and try to ween yourself off shit that gives a physical dependency. Then slowly quit pot/use it as celebratory substance.

Haunted by past events? Cut all ties that remind you of that dark past and try to move on. I know it's hard, I know you'll constantly have mini (vietnam) flashbacks where you're reminded of that horrible event but eventually you grow numb to it, and not long after that, you see it like a bad movie in the deep recesses of your memory. Just try to let it go guys

Either way user's, just live, live for yourself, live to be happy and fuck anyone who tells you differently.

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You're the sociopath. Get help.

hopefully one day man. I keep hope for the future

I just want someone to love me, nothing else will help. I don't even know how to form friendships because my parents hated me so much, they even fucked with my education and made sure I never graduated high school.

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user, look into CPTSD and self-parenting. Sounds like your brain is trying to re-pattern using your psychologist friend. Setting re-parenting as a conscious goal will help expedite the process without necessarily creating a dependency on your friend.

I wish I had a dad who would have done sports, and camping, and outdoorsman stuff with me. I wish there had been someone to explain life and not have to learn the hard way.

I just wanted Calvin’s dad telling me the world used to be black and white until the 1960’s.

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>What do you think can be done for them and future kids in North-America to suffer less neglect?
Asking the important questions