What do my fellow Yas Forumsios?
Loneliness is
>Killing people early
>A survival mechanism
>Equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day
>Activates the same part of the brain as physical pain
I can feel it Yas Forums. Loneliness I hurting me. I have nobody for my own except you guys who I've never met and would probably hate me for being brown. I still support you guys though.
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Please save me Yas Forums. Give me solutions to fix this problem.
>inb4 kys
No thanks
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How do you make friends at your job? Any good book recommendations beside that Dale Carnegie book?
the world is a dark and fucked up place. all you can do is to just accept it and that evil people will get away with anything and that good people will suffer
Your gif reminded me that I can't take care of myself but I would like to take care of someone. I don't know why that js
How many NPC's do you really have the patience to deal with in a given day?
Stop with the pity party, you miserable faggot
Once you stop staying home and jerking off and decide to be a real man you’ll get rid of this problem
>but please feel sorry for me!
Just be a man and talk to people, OP.
Fatherly instinct
Whom should I talk to? I got nobody!
Become a woman.
At this point, I'd be even happy to speak to a complete lunatic leftist
how you think you are gonna do when you get Corona combined with loneliness? GG ITS FUCKING OVER FOR YOU
Go places and approach people. Gym, classes, store, parks, etc
You’re not gonna meet people by sitting around inside and feeling sorry for yourself
I'm a high functioning autist, so I suspect these emotions aren't hitting me as strongly as a normal person would be in my situation. I work, exercise, and play video games. That's all. It's my routine and I need it and it's hurting me, I think.
can't do shit unless you put yourself out there somehow
corona is double edged sword for me, I'm asian so people will think the obvious regardless of how hard normie programming controls them, at the same time I work in a place that will be busy as fuck if things go south and it's not that hard to make friends when you're shoulder to shoulder in a hard situation
as for you, at least you now have a reason to stay in all the time, why not try out finding other places online to talk to people, everyone's gonna be on the internet soon
>At this point, I'd be even happy to speak to a complete lunatic leftist
you know exactly where that road leads.
why is no one comfortable being alone with who they are with when they are alone?
what do you do for money? do you have a skill?
I've been extremely lonely and isolated for my entire life and it sucks indeed. But I have to say that I'm not happy that I've made friends and became socially adequate. When I go out all I see is kikes(obviously), leftists, faggots, niggers, arabs, whores, simps, junkies. I'm sure that the situation in Europe and North America is even worse. Although I like my friends each of them has such a tendency - some opinion or habit I find so disgusting that I can't stand being around them for too long. Is there a normal person out there, or are they all Weimar-style, proud degenerates? Even when careful about who I associate with I end up surrounded by people who as far as I'm concerned are scum. I feel that the disdain I feel for the people around me is tenfold more painful and maddening than what I now think of as the serene quiet of social isolation. You didn't lose anything.
Amen it sucks. No one really wants to talk only superficial stuff, even family.
Your post with your flag is confusing me.
Also, checked.
First thing you need to do is stop using meme flags
Damn. Never thought I'd have so much in common with a Jew. Lol
I'm a plumber
But how? I tried dating sites and no girl ever replies to me and how do you ask a guy to hang out or something? Everyone seems to think it's gay.
Feels like it man
I know how that goes man. A few years ago I moved to a new city for work, and wasn't able to make friends there because I was the site manager and couldn't fraternize. Meetup.com was a lifesaver, I ended up joining a hiking group, a tabletop game group, and a young professionals group and was able to build a network from there.
If you are here, then you are not alone fren.
Ironically hanging out with normalfags can make you feel even more lonely.
>killing yourself over lonelyness
You guys dont know how good you have it, wanna feel truly alone go to a party and try to connect to normies, you would not feel better no matter how many automatons you surround yourself with.
>tfw autistic as fuck
>tfw never get lonely
>tfw happy to go weeks without talking to anyone in person
Suck it normal cunts.
Hmm I would love to play a tabletop game with someone in person. I'm going to search that on Meetup.com here
Thanks a lot for the advice man! City Life sucks balls though. Whenever I'm in smaller cities or towns I feel as if time passes slower there and people actually talk to each other.
Doing normie shit is the only way to have friends these days man. It's a fight you can't win
It's a great way to make friends, just be aware that lots of the people who go to these things are generally 4channers
That's a plus for me
Same autist bro, I don't give a fuck about anything I don't experience this faggy emotion my normal fag friends would talk about when I had friends. They would say oh man my fomo is so bad right now, and all I could think is that all mg friends are emasculated faggots. I prefer my to be on my lonesome
This. They actually make shit worse just because of how superficial they are down to the core. Now I have a wageslave job where I have to work with normalcattle all day every day. I have never been more miserable in my life.
>Doing normie shit is the only way to have friends these days man. It's a fight you can't win
Really if you have any hobbies you should just go out and do them with the community. Even if the community is absolute cancer you can still do your best to find whats good there and filter it out.
Good. I hope you find a decent group, user. Loneliness can be crushing, and once you leave school it's tough to make friends with people as an adult, because it's a new experience and is sort of a 'figure-it-out-yourself' thing.
You have to become the guy that stops other people being lonely or sad. Gotta take the [messiah complex] pill and be a beacon of hope n shit. Swallow the blackpill deep, then become the antithesis, if you survive.
Based take.
How do we get rid of kikes like OP?
This sorta works, but you become emotionally dependant on other people for "project materiel", and you end up concentrating on the neediest people you know, rather than the ones you like left.
I know because I did something similar.
Decided to become the alpha-bum of my bum-clique when I was in hostel.
Tried to keep the weaker homeless dudes in my posse fed, make sure they weren't blowing all their money on speed or smack.
Got a flat now, still a social parasite on bennies, but I've managed to drag some of my fellow bums up with me.
We're still pretty tight.
>Never thought I'd have so much in common with a Jew. Lol
Ba-dum Tssss !
> finally managed to get the drive to join random meetup groups and finally start to socialize
> corona virus
> Mama Merkel says "no socializing for you!"
Tried socializing since autumn 2018 but never found a vector or thing to do that I am comfortable with until now. I mean, fuck I am going out anyway since others do the same but I am expecting the italy style 2-3 month quarantine any moment now. Had this shit happened at any other point in the past 10 years I would have had no problem NEETing through it as I always do with my stash of food and mindless entertainment but all of that depresses me more than ever and I just want a human in front of me to talk about something without being judgmental and when I finally think I know how to manage that something happens to take it away from me, too. Life is just unfair and I don't even feel good sharing this stuff on here anymore, I just do it out of habit.
>inb4 "boohoo nigger"
Would be just too easy to show some compassion to make the world better, would it?
No faggot. Learn to be self reliant. Take yourself serious. Ditch that fucking meme flag and become a man. Take responsibility for your shitty attitudes and feelings and make a change in yourself instead of blaming the world around you.
That goes for the rest of you lonely tards too
What is that supposed to mean? I'm not a jew nor do I support most of their policies
Same here. I am missing a self-preservation instinct. Others feelings are more important. Maybe look into INFJ and Hypersensitivity (it sounds gay, especially when you are a man, but it is basically a heightened state of awareness with inadequate ability to process).
Go back to college, or get a job
Bond a bit with people, they dont have to be close friends
its a start
My flag ain't got the same respect as yours cause I'm not white. And it's easy for you to say "Stop being lonely!" to a lonely guy because you probably have a strong network of good friends
later that night
Im serious user. It's a cold world, you can only trust yourself. Friends, gfs, acquaintances, collegues, family. They all come and go, some last decades, some last weeks. Fleeting moments in your life, interactions that are essentially meaningless. But within yourself there is much to be found.
Quiye frankly I don't trust anyone who cannot be self sufficient. Loneliness is a meme. Start working on yourself and you will learn there isn't enough hours in the day.
This
I did this too.
Feels fucking amasing at this point.
We don’t hate you for being brown we hate you for shitting in our back yard race has little to do with why your people are despised.
I hope I get to that realisation ASAP. Cuz without human contact for long periods of time, it's all I think about. Just talking to someone
Get a pet.
You smoke or hang around the people who do smoke (you can make up a story like you used to smoke and you like the smell or some bullshit). Smokers are constantly around each other for smoke breaks, you always end up talking to people and after a few days or weeks you have some new people you can hang out with. Great trick for when you're new to a job too because you get close constant contact with middle and upper management who smoke.
Online dating is a scam unless you have the personality or looks for it.
Don't know your country but I look up the site Meetup.com (it's international) and there might even be smaller groups on Facebook. the key is one-on-one is uncomfortable for most if you aren't a lively person and huge gatherings like a party or club don't work for serious conversations if you have no confidence. Something in the style of a self-help group might be good to get into contact with people. But that way will also take time. Went to two such events and while I have nothing to show for I feel my conversation skills and confidence increase. There are some groups for (mental) health and education that aren't full of ideologues here in Germany.
> tells a german Yas Forums poster to fly his countries flag
You will never understand this pain.
Are you full time neet? Talk to people at work / school. Ask the lady at the cashier how she is. Get a haircut and make conversation. Join a sports team or club. Join a gaming discord and talk on mic.
I feel you worry to much about what other people thing and are afraid of interactions. If you were more comfortable with yourself, you wouldnt be.
If you want to be a leader like that other user posted you will have to be someone people are willing to be lead by. Who they respect. Who respects themself. Work on becoming that person. Frens will come.
You can attack this problem from multiple angles. First, you should take it easy. Don't bring desperate energy into your interactions, don't feel you have to impress or win over anybody. Believe it or not, most people cannot add anything to your life, they just suck up your time, attention and these are your most precious resources. Think of socializing as a wetting process, you give everybody a chance, approach them with genuine curiosity, but only invest more in those people you actually like and connect with. If you have anxiety or an overactive mind, I recommend daily meditation (a simple breathing technique will do). Experiment with how often and for how long you do it, you will gradually find your sweet spot, when things are light and peaceful. This is the kind of mind you want to bring into your social interactions, loose, open, friendly, the rest will happen on its own for the most part.
Perhaps it's a perfect moment for goverments to actually get their damn sorry asses together and create international program to create fully functional robotic waifus for all lonely men to actually fight loneliness epidemic.
A solution is by geting a genuine in people like reading a chapter from different books. Depending on where you are from there are social rules/queues. Like knowing when to shut your hole and listen when someone speaks and tone of voice. Here is what communication is.
>Mostly tone of voice and body language
>Words take up a little factor in the over all message unless you become good at point no.1
What most retards don't consider is the voice box is a muscle. You need to warm it up everymorning by singing or reading out loud or whatever. Warm it up so talking doesn't feel like a 9-5 job
Also your looks. Less you look like a rapist the better even if you are dog ugly. Heres why.
>taking care of yourself boosts confidence even if you have nowhere to go
Staving off loneliness is what hobbies are for. Find one. Anything. Sense of humor is key too.
how do I get around the problem of never kissing a girl at 25?
wot
Some people turn to degeneracy out of desperation, because they themselves think there is no one like them around and they have to act this way to be seen as or become sociable.
You can't really hold everything a person does against them, society and media brainwashing does more to change or rather hide the inherent goodness within people.
Try to get to know them, even if you don't like everything about them there can be at least some things to bond over.
Change your game plan because the current one clearly isnt working
Testosterone replacement therapy.
just watch comfy videos of muslims being shot up