If you marry someone, traditionally you do that to confirm a bond for life.
Of course you want to have sex and if you want children it would naturally be a prerequisite to get your wife pregnant. The alternative is injecting the sperm from a jack off session you had to a babe, which would be ridiculous.
Beauty fades though and nowadays 90 year old couples (I mean where both are 90+) are not that rare anymore.
At that age you probably haven't had sex for 30 years with your wife.
So the question is: are looks most important in a marriage, or is it more important that you like to be together until the end?
The girl from the pic turns 42 this year and still looks pretty good. I posted it to make the topic less black and white. It's not like it's either ugly but good person or goodlooking but insufferable. One thing is sure though. Even the most beautiful girl will eventually become a wrinkled bag of bones.
P.s. This IS 'reddit spacing', the separated pieces of text are NOT called paragraphs. Discuss!
Personally looks are less important. I'm married to a 6/10 and couldn't be happier.
Adam Martin
6/10 is just above average (5.5), dude. It's not like you married an ogre.
Jace Robinson
What is "ugly"? What porn and TV tell you, or the basic facts of: >Obesity >Poor Hygiene >Drug addiction These are signs of an abuser and a conniver who WILL divorce rape you under threat of arrest/summary execution by the police state via false accusations. Everything else is irrelevant because it is subjective, only a kikel pornographer or a brainwashed coomer would disagree. Attraction is necessary, if you can't be attracted to a woman who isnt "hot" as media defines "hotness" you are likely just a faggot looking for a beard.
Brody Taylor
How's this for a thought experiment: Post some women you see as 6-7/10.
Brandon Powell
Meh. I used to plow straight up 10s so maybe I'm biased. Point is physical appearance is much less important than having someone you can rely on and build a life with
Brandon Anderson
>At that age you probably haven't had sex for 30 years with your wife. Sorry to tell you this but your grandparents are still fucking
Isaiah Flores
>2 seconds on Google Pic related is an average women i.e. a 6/10. A 7/10 would be the point at which they're considered "attractive".
I married an "ugly duckling". A tomboyish, very short (4'11") redheaded australian girl. she is pratically "flat chested", she had braces, a strict roman catholic upbringing (our first few sex sessions were extremely lame and ackward, she was a virgin), she didnt like doing oral (thought it was dirty and gross). She was very shy and very timid. But .... she was very smart, had high IQ, VERY hard working, honest to a fault, loyal, faithful, very kind and gentle.
We now have three children, both in our forties. By her mid-twenties she had started to "come out" ... she was quite pretty if she wanted to be, and was coming to terms with being very sexual when she wanted. She got a nursing diploma (and now makes almost 70k a year!). She doesnt drink,has never done drugs or smoked. She still has her tiny body, and is in great shape.
Now shes a complete horndog. She is way more sexual then me. Shes always buying new lingerie (thats her at her kinkiest). She doesnt mind oral (especially likes receiving obviously). Im starting to get bored with sex, and shes in "full bang" mode. She has a little dog collar she likes occassionally, and a "secret tongue stud" she puts in for oral!
I'm not a "Chad", but have managed to have the sex life of one. (Have fucked over 400 girls, and no, never a prostitute...29 years old)
Truth of the matter is, if you have options have been with lots of women ANY girl you'll eventually stop being that turned on by.
Happens all the time to me. I'll fuck a 8/10, by the third time it's just "eh" and I genuinely rather fuck a NEW 5/10 instead of her again. It's the alpha gene of wanting to spread seed and fuck new girls.
I can't even imagine ever wanting a relationship, but if I did, I'd just want a girl with no obvious flaws I couldn't get over (weird moles, ugly tits, flat ass, etc.) and accept fact that Ill want something new.
Id have to really spice up our sex life and get her to accept having girls for us to both play with since most women are into that
Lucas Bennett
That's a really young Rita Faltoyano.
Gavin Rivera
Built for BWC
Landon Reyes
That is not a 6, lmao. Did you just type ‘average woman’ into google images and think the first result is in any way an accurate representation of women today? Look at her eyes, her fucking cheekbones. 8, maybe 9.
Michael Bailey
Where did you meet her fren and how old were you when you met her?
Jordan Scott
>that mole on tit
Dealbreaker, not being sarcastic
Sebastian Roberts
Eeeeh, don’t you think that 400 is like a bit much... aren’t you afraid of STDs and someone getting pregnant or something???
Never got a girl pregnant, maybe had 10-15 girls max take plan B though
Never had any STDs and I rawdog a lot. As long as I don't get AIDS (which I never will since I'm not gay) or genital warts, everything else is curable.
Landon Sanchez
looks matter to both sexes as its a sign of health and fitness ugly/handsome/beautiful is the societal expectations imprinted on us
physically what matters to me is >voice >face >hips subjectively is >personality >financial self control >long term goals and milestones i dont give a fuck if she's educated but if said education burdened her with overwhelming debt it really conveys a lack of foresight. if she has a sense of humor i can understand and isn't a bitch often its a go.
Looks fade over time but they are pretty fuckin important to make sure your kid comes out handsome.
Grayson Morgan
So you don’t use protection either.... Chances are you already have an STD then.
Eli Bailey
In the terms of relationship it is a strong weapon, if, for example your girlfriend knows just by looking at you that other girls want you easily. Now in the terms of a hookup, If you get like 10-20 matches per day without paying any credit on certain social network then its quite obvious whats the criteria for your matches. So yeah, for initiation of a hookup it is almost everything.
I've been married for twenty years, and enjoying each other's company is definitely most important. As you get older you have sex less frequently (if you have kids at least) because you are tired more often. As far as the looks go, I still find her very attractive even if she's older and has gained a few pounds. My looks have definitely taken the bigger hit. But she seems to still find me attractive. Sex is definitely important, and if we go to long .... You don't notice that you're cranky or anything, but after we've had sex after a long time without, you realize how it just makes everything easier to deal with, you're better able to put stuff in perspective. But definitely I am so glad I actually love being with my wife. I know every couples' story is different, but we are best friends.
Asher Bell
I probably have clhymaidyia by now, but it's often symptomless in men
Noah Nguyen
This. I judge her 6/10 too. If she was a bit asymmetrical with same features I'd give 5/10.
Dominic Bailey
I met her at a starbucks in kelowna bc. I was there working, she was visiting family for the summer (she had just graduated). I was twenty, she was 18. It was 1996. She decided she ws in love. Her aunt and Uncle got her a visitor visa, and eventually gave her a job as a nanny (so work visa) so she could stay and pursue the relationship. They didnt really like me though (I was a young carpenter's apprentice at the time). Thought i was too "rough and tumble" for her. but she kicked and screamed about the whole thing, she was in love and threatened to run away! So her parents relented, and allowed her aunt and uncle to oversee our relationship. They all thought it would just fizzle out, but we married in June 1997.
She went to Ok collage in kelowna to get her nursing degree. Her aunt and Unlce owned a little winery, and when we got married our first house was a little three room "fruit pickers shack" in thier vineyard. I eventually got my ticket punched, and went on to start my own sub-contracting business (mainly doing contracts for my parent company, but got lots of side jobs as well). Now i have six employees. So i did okay by her i think.
I will tell you one thing. you wont might a "nice girl" in a bar!
Adrian Smith
CRINGE and all of my OOFs dude. That's an average woman and you must either have really low standards or low spatial intelligence. Most women look like that if they aren't obese.
I'd hate to see what your personal "6/10" looks like.
Benjamin Rivera
OK boomer
Adrian Walker
You have become too picky. Like most women who feel they are entitled to the best.
Men are starting to become the same. You should just settle with 5-6/10 and forget about infinity fucking like a nigger animal.
Nathaniel Parker
The dealbreaker should be that she's porn whore.
Blake Murphy
That's not a 6 bro. Anyone who thinks that watches way too much porn. Enough of the digital Jew for you today my friend
Julian Harris
That's a 5/10, not a 6/10.
Lucas Williams
I give her an 8. Only 2 unattractive features. her lips and skin tone.
Josiah Williams
Agree. The lower part of the face is a bit weird.
Tits balance out her face and horny chads would consider her higher than that because of boobs.
No, user, that's a 7. If that's just an awkward face pic and she really has a normal face that's an 8.
Henry Young
>As long as I don't get AIDS (which I never will since I'm not gay)
You can get AIDS if you're a hetero.. We have the highest number of AIDS patients in Europe and most of those are heterosexuals..
Liam Thompson
Cope
Matthew Perez
Sick dude. You must be uber desperate. That girl is a 5 at best.
James Perry
Gross. If you’re going to continue sleeping around use a fucking condom.
Liam Collins
>>hips
Are you a nigger?
Europeans have bred for centuries and millennia with women who didn't had wide hips. Which is why most European women today basically are tube-shaped. Wide-hippd ones are rare.
Based, im jealous. Did you know she was a trad and a virgin from the start btw and did you wait till marriage?
Leo Rodriguez
fucks sake nigger you probably have had it all and just thought that rash was normal
Blake Edwards
That's a 9 or 10 here
Cameron Lee
>At that age you probably haven't had sex for 30 years with your wife Sweet summer child. No one wants to imagine old people fucking, but believe me they get more action than 40's or 50's couples.
Kayden Edwards
Less than you think, more than you want to. If you weren't sure about her looks in the beggining you will end up unconsciously hiding her from people whenever possible, which is bad. But you will still be able to love her and think she is fucking hot and she will get you massively hard anyway.
Alexander Bell
Tinder/Bumble/OKCupid, etc.
The funny thing is, I've almost never picked up a girl at a bar, work, social event lel
Leo Hernandez
>How important are looks On a date: important, but not in marriage. In a marriage respect for eachother is much more important.
Wyatt Ortiz
I just want somebody who is not fat. >turns 42 it doesn't matter what she looks like, old is old. I would not start dating a woman who is still single after 30, or maybe early 30s if she's great otherwise. But generally, a woman being single after 30 is a red flag because of how easy it is for women to find a husband in their 20s.
Levi Anderson
>How important are looks in a relationship? : Part 2 Very important because hollywood says so. If you cannot find someone who looks "hot" just don't breed. Become an "incel". Hollywood decides what genes are appropriate. Hollywood knows what is best.
Carson Murphy
Stop being such a fucking extreme fuckboy and start using condoms. I’m actually really surprised that most women even let you not use one....
Kevin Morgan
No oddly and yes. when we were dating she never claimed to have actaully had sex, but she said a variety of things that seemed to hint at it. like "Oh I know how to please a man..." and stuff like that. So i was kinda suprised when i popped her cherry. we talked about that later adn she admitted that she felt ackward about lacking experience, and thought it would turn me off her.
Does she qualify as 'trad" ... idk. She was raised in the outback. She was homeschooled until she was 12. Her family in Oz were sheep farmers, and poor when she was young. She has a big family though, 3 brothers and another sister. things were different 30 years ago. most girls were alot more shy then nowadays.
I'd say it's 50/50 of women who want to use condoms vs those who don't
Jokes on me I guess because I've had so much rawdog sex now that putting on a condom on is fucking awful, to the point I have to fuck fast just to make sure I don't lose my hard on
Liam Russell
Coping femcel detected. Looks are everything. And hot girls stay hot forever. It's over for u.
Cooper Robinson
>No oddly and yes. when we were dating she never claimed to have actaully had sex, but she said a variety of things that seemed to hint at it. like "Oh I know how to please a man..." and stuff like that. So i was kinda suprised when i popped her cherry. we talked about that later adn she admitted that she felt ackward about lacking experience, and thought it would turn me off her. So she didn’t tell you she didn’t have sex and in the weeding night you found out because there was blood or something? Also it’s fucking weird how some women think a lack of experience is a turn off for men. >Does she qualify as 'trad" ... idk. She was raised in the outback. She was homeschooled until she was 12. Her family in Oz were sheep farmers, and poor when she was young. She has a big family though, 3 brothers and another sister. things were different 30 years ago. most girls were alot more shy then nowadays. Sounds comfy af fren
Evan Mitchell
The female incel Reddit board is pretty hillarious
Basically late 20/early 30 used up roasties complaining how they can't find a man
Brandon James
Shit, sorry. Why are you so against having a relationship instead and I hope you aren’t one of those guys who are super pushy about not wanting to use condoms because you claim it’s “uncountable”....
Ryan Harris
Cope faggot. We both know it.
Matthew Wilson
Do you realize that being a nurse she must see a lot of penis on a daily basis? And as an ex patient and a 7/10 6'4 man I can tell you they have 'access' to you, nurses have sex with good looking patients, their is a sexual tension in hospitals. It's impossible statistically speaking that she never found herself in such a situation.
Not that much as long as they aren't disturbing to look out (over 500 lbs, trans and not even close to passing, deformities, etc.) I'd say 90% of women I see are either 8's or 9's
Carson Jenkins
For initial attraction they are a must in my experience, I have never once been able to develop interest romantically in someone if I didn't at least find them mildly cute. However, after being in a relationship I have found the need fades, perhaps after a deeper love develops and it no longer really matters. At least for me that's what has happened.
Jayden Lopez
I'm not pushy at all, if the girl says put on a condom, I will.
I don't want children and meeting, getting to know then fucking new women is my passion honestly. Can't think of anything that gets me more engaged and feels better.
If you could fuck a new girl everyday, wouldn't you? While it's not literally everyday for me, it typically averages to 4-6 new girls a month. I just actually put in the work to make it happen
Adam Jackson
That's kind of ideal especially when she's your type appearance wise.
Josiah Gray
Ok Ching Lang Ping
Brody Perez
>At that age you probably haven't had sex for 30 years with your wife.
He hasn't heard about how rampant STD's are in nursing homes
Elijah Butler
>I'm not pushy at all, if the girl says put on a condom, I will. That’s good I guess a ton of guys are pushy however. >I don't want children and meeting, getting to know then fucking new women is my passion honestly. Can't think of anything that gets me more engaged and feels better. You should probably find a safer hobby I’d say lol. I hope you at least pull out or something....
Jordan Allen
Why are there so many Hungarian girls doing porn?
Gavin Torres
I won't be interested at all if they're ugly, after all I want any kids to not be ugly. But after the beginning they need to have something between their ears and behind their eyes. If not, bye bye, even if they are the most beautiful.
