I'm a 27 year old divorcee, was with the same girl for 8 years, married to her for 5 of those years. Since she was one of those people that had to "grow up fast" and never experienced a proper childhood, she left me because she valued traveling the world and living like a drifter than being married to me.
Now that I'm redpilled I want to find a proper trad white woman. The problem is, every single redpilled woman I come across that aren't complete degenerates are already taken, and are happy in their relationships. The redpilled women that aren't taken are either degenerates with lots of really corny tattoos and tend to be single mothers and are generally not the brightest people (judging by their life choices).
I'm physically fit & active (I go to the gym and do lots of archery and firearms training) and have been told that I'm good looking. I'm pretty introverted and generally don't smile unless I have a reason to. Yet, I still feel that there's no hope for me to find a decent healthy woman (physically and mentally/spiritually). Maybe I'm looking in the wrong places...idk man...
>buzzword buzzword buzzword buzzword buzzword Have you ever had an original thought in your life? I defy you to post something that isn't some washed up, stale phrase plucked from the mouth of someone else.
Stop relying on other people so much, it's transparent and pathetic.
Elijah Mitchell
You unironically need to look for trad or at least unbrainwashed 19 year olds. 8 years isn't that big of a gap. So many women are turned into marxist zombies by college and uni. Or find ones who never went, in smaller towns who started farming or something. Not everyone goes to uni.
Cameron James
Yes you will user. Keep your head up. Keep lifting and getting out there
Luis Garcia
>I'm redpilled >redpilled women Choose one and only one, purple pill.
Evan White
you want a homebody shy woman it seems like. why shouldn't you engage in degeneracy anyway? Society has already moved past trad relationships.
Josiah Clark
You don't need a redpilled woman, just find one who isn't a whore, doesn't have tats or anything degenerate like that, and then redpill her if you so desire. Women can't into politics anyway.
Nolan Baker
> she left me because she valued traveling the world and living like a drifter than being married to me.
Your brain is malfunctional to the point of inability to see what is right in front of you. That reason isn't the reason, which is why you can't let this go, your subconscious isn't letting you get away with that kind of non resonance.
What do you want? Do You Want To Have A Life and kids? Or Be Exceptional At One Thing and make an impact on what goes on to occupy the entire galaxy?
Why did your wife leave you exactly? Couldn’t you just travel with her a bit?
Gabriel Ward
this. only way ur gonna get a trad relationship with an actual QT is if she worships you otherwise your choices are: >be a simp/cuck to roasties >do your thing and let the roasties flock to you only way to not feel blackpilled is to become the blackpill. in my experience pretending they don't exist/u don't give a shit works best. so many simps lately than if you join the club ur just another fucking assmonkey looking for some beat down, over used, fish taco
Christian Barnes
I was black pilled then I took the honk pill now everything’s a comedy
most "trad women" are used up single moms Also at 28, you're on your way to being more attractive than women the same age as you.
Jaxson Bennett
I don't mind what JP is peddling, but Jesus, how can you listen to his weasely voice? It's annoying to my ears.
Isaiah Adams
Sage not quality not politics
Zachary Kelly
I did travel with her...quite a lot actually. We went to Italy, Norway, Denmark, all over the UK and the US. It's a really long and complicated story, but she basically cites that she's not mentally tough enough to be in a relationship with me since she has so many demons and traumas from her time growing up. She couldn't hold down a job or learn to drive because of her anxiety and she felt there was too much pressure on her to she called it quits with me. I have a job but live in Commiefornia so cost of living is perversely expensive. We were gonna move to the UK (since she's form there) but the onerous visa requirements put too much pressure on her and decided to leave me.
That's basically the TL:DR version
That's basically the TL;DR
Aaron Harris
What did she like to do?
Henry Stewart
>trying to find a redpilled woman Either find a full on wignat wife, or go for a tradition christian girl. You can redpill her yourself. Any girl that's already redpilled has either had a bad childhood or had a based father (in the case of the wignat girl)
Are you me? I'm pretty much in the same boat, but was with her for 9 total years. She gave the bullshit excuse of needing to find herself and is now mooching off her mom in Oregon getting fat and doing nothing. Doesn't even really bathe often anymore apparently. I've learned to accept the fact that I'm a nomad now, and being in the military helps that. I'd recommend traveling and just meeting people, and women, for the sake of meeting them. At least you no longer put pussy on a pedestal and can't be manipulated by them. Good luck on finding a trad girl. I've been doing the same in hopes of starting a family. At 29, it's difficult finding decent women.
Owen Cooper
>I did travel with her...quite a lot actually.
And he paid for everything.
And eventually he quit paying for everything.
Ahh mother nature and evolution, ye heartless bitch. Did you know there's a verse in the bible that's written directly about you? I forget where it is, but it was written some 12 thousand years ago, and it was a poem on no matter how hard the civilization tries, nor what the civilization can do, invalid males like you continue to exist in greater number than the men who can correct it.
It was cited as such an insolvable problem, that God must be standing in the way of its solution.
Day late and dollar short, but this is what you needed before.
im convinced you have to aim younger to find the perfect wife these days. the whole premise of a women whoring herself around until she has "found her self" is utter kikery. as is all the leftist feminist propoganda she will be indoctrinated with as she gets older and goes to uni.
The strongest bond a women will ever make is with her first lover. And as a young woman she will learn from you and effectively mold to you. creating a very strong bond (provided you take care of her) unfortunately a guy in his 20's wanting commitment, is forbiden from dating a 16yo thanks to feminism. but it's perfectly "ok" for guys her age to pump and dump her according to society. fucking clown world.
Lincoln Jones
She claimed that I was the only one she truly loved and she was gonna spend the rest of her life with me. Fast forward 5 years later and that's all bullshit...I'm still not over her...there are times in which I see something (even something insignificant) that reminds me of her and my whole day turns to shit with depression and loneliness
Juan Murphy
Don't worry faggot, she'll come crawling back in 3 years after she's racked up 100 random cocks in every hole.
But they’ll still tell yourself you could or should
Ryan Powell
Just come out of the closet, bro
Christian Evans
I feel for you bro. You're gonna have days like that. But a new day will come, and there will be more in store for you.
I suck at this, but trust me - life goes on
Jaxon Sullivan
Meh he could at least get some closure that she was nothing but a slut from her then OP can move on
Cameron Campbell
>Maybe I'm looking in the wrong places... You're looking for something that doesn't exist, user. Either compromise your pride and self-respect (not worth it), or find something better.
If you need a woman, you're gonna have to bow down. They won't respect you, and will probably treat you.
There are very few possibilities apart from this, but sometimes you might get a better outcome.
Just get a hobby and a decent internet connetion.
Ian Brown
That sucks, dude. I was in the same boat and still kind of am. All those years and I wonder if anything I felt from her was as genuine as what I felt for her. Icing on the cake was when I got back from deployment and said I want to work on improving our relationship and she said she just wanted a divorce. Has similar problems to your ex with trauma and pretty much can't survive on her own. I've come to realize she's parasitic and not a very good person but I still love that girl I met ten years ago because that really did feel honest.
Ian Howard
Why didnt u have kids with her all these years?
Benjamin Myers
This. I started courting my wife when she was 16 and I was 29.
Xavier Hall
>27 stfu demi-boomer
Carter Sanders
>She claimed that I was the only one she truly loved Not only was this a lie and it's on you for falling for it, you're going to fall for this a second time when a woman says it because you're not listening to or responding to anything anyone on this thread is saying.
>and my whole day turns to shit with depression and loneliness The problem won't go away because it's a systemic problem that is caused by you. You're blaming the environment, but the environment isn't the origin of the problem.
She told me she never wanted kids...and I kind of played along with it thinking (and hoping) she would change her mind but as the years went on she was increasingly against the idea of having children...which also led me to a crossroads since I got redpilled around this time and knew that in order to save the white race from certain extinction, we need to have big families like niggers and muzzies. I was still clinging to hope that she would change her mind. Then she turned 30 and got insanely depressed, then left me...
>she never wanted kids massive RED FLAG. any women that feels this way is biologically broken, or mind is kiked. Sorry your learning these lessons the hard way. I guess that's life though, always learning things the hard way...
Zachary Carter
You're like a mirror of my situation. Feelsbadman. I hope things get better for you. You're in the military so you have some advantages.
Asher Adams
You’re good at your age I was able to pull the younger chicks who aren’t taken. I had all types of luck around your age but chose the wrong one too and ended up in the same boat as you, but I’m 32 and I swear the bitch has my hairs graying early. The situation I’m in now judging by tinder then/now is much more dire than even when I was 29. After 30 i think it’s harder to find what you’re looking for unless you’re willing to compromise (don’t) or pull a sexy trad foreign girl.
Camden Lee
That’s the biggest problem young people these days make. They get a mediocre girlfriend, stick around for a few years and decide to get married cause why not.
If you wanna find a wife then you need to search for wife material from the start.
Dylan Wright
Are you sure you're not a woman with all this emotion controlling the steering wheel in your head?
She was acting coy but I knew she wanted me to talk to her. She was trying to get my attention by throwing rocks (sounds kind of retarded) then she just stood in my path and gave me a weird smirk. So I just said hi and asked her what her name was. The rest is history.
William Cooper
Almost a mirror. My situation is that she originally wanted kids while I didn't. Then eventually I got redpilled while living in Japan and changed my mind on having kids while she changed her mind to not wanting kids. She even gave away the cat she apparently loved so much because she couldn't take care of him anymore. Just goes that she's a quitter and has no desire to fight for anything, instead making it valueless to cope in order to not have to fight. And military does have its perks, but I see so many divorces in it it's really difficult to have a positive outlook on it anymore. Especially after how much she emotionally hurt me. Kind of feel like I can't trust or really love a woman anymore and the only thing I really can love is my family, pets, and hopefully future kids.
Caleb Baker
Nigga all women want kids. This one just didnt want them from you. Big red flag from day 1
Parker Bennett
>That’s the biggest problem young people these days make. They get a mediocre girlfriend, stick around for a few years and decide to get married cause why not. This is what produces MGTOW fags
Angel Torres
bluepilled cuck
Dominic Peterson
Get a gook woman
Cooper Garcia
If your values don’t match from the start, drop it
Henry Roberts
Ukraine and Belarus are looking like pretty good places right now...ngl
Tyler Robinson
>Growing up too fast >Got married at an age that was considered normal for centuries >Decided to throw comfy based life away to be a whore Whores should be stoned to death
Girls often learn this is bad from media and college. One of my mistakes was allowing her to go to a community college in Portland
Angel Miller
Nigga shut the fuck up and eat a cinnamon roll
Jeremiah Turner
You aren't redpilled on women at all you pathetic simp. The fact you got married at all is proof you are retarded. The fact it was at 23 years old with a girl you had been with since 19 really demonstrates you are a naive child. Also retarded. Everything about your post is miserable and pathetic. Your way of thinking. Your "muh trad white woman" screams of autism. Stop taking everything you see on 4chin as unironic fact. How fucking stupid are you? You deserve the misery you get. You brought it on yourself. The solution is to be a fucking man and stop exuding this pathetic energy. It's a turn off to women and it repels men of quality who you should be building friendships with in real life so you don't rely on retarded virgin neets on 4chin. Grow a pair, stop being a simp. Date women, fuck them. Learn. Don't worry about having a relationship just yet. Otherwise you'll end up settling for a whore like your ex because you are so desperate and have no hope of attracting someone better. I hope you cut all contact with her. It's over. Don't try and rekindle things later. Take the red pill on women. Here's a good place to start.
user, even trad women have similar things to set their attraction on as the average woman. Instead of being the moth to the flame, be the flame to the moth. In today's world, unless you're the top 2% of men that almost all women say they want if you are the chaser it's not attractive to them.
Jackson Ortiz
Travel to the Phillipines and cream pie asian pussy.
Don't pull out,don't wear a condom Cream pie asian pussy
Christopher Gonzalez
soon as i see a women with a tatoo, i an HIGHLY SUSPICIOUS of her mental judgement.
Aside from being classless and distasteful. she's likely so much of an attention whore she will undergo PAIN to be "cool" & "trendy". If she will let her beautiful natural body be vandalized for these reasons, what other low acts will she commit. If she's trying to be a "rebel" then that's also NOT wife material. Honestly i wouldnt waste my energy on a women if i noticed she had tats. But plenty of low IQ degenerate guys will think its "cool"
