I want to ask a cute girl at my work to come to a concert with me.
I know she likes the band, because I’ve worn their shirts to work & she’s complimented me on them saying she loves their music.
I’m a super shy guy. How do I build up confidence and ask her to come to their concert with me?
This is unironically potentially the biggest investment I’ve made in my life.
Just bought 2 concert tickets
James Roberts
Jack Cruz
certainly not by coming to a japanese cartoon image autism day care
Jordan Robinson
Its too late for that. Now is my chance to finally be in a relationship after getting over my ex of 5 years for 2 years.
Blake Sullivan
The advice is don’t
Cooper Sanders
Just be yourself haha
Cameron Howard
It’s too late. I’m all in.
Angel Hughes
what band?
Tyler Davis
Oh boy, HR will love this. user you sound autistic enough to look at prison and/or homelessness
Ayden Howard
Sleeping with sirens
Yes I was an emo faggot when I was a kid, don’t judge me
Gavin Moore
just do it ...or don't. there's no secret that's going to make it easier, except maybe realizing that it's not a big deal.
Christian Carter
Just go by yourself or with friends user. You’ll enjoy yourself way more
>t. Going to roadtrip to see Hatsune Miku with the boys in October
Joshua Smith
don't go for girls that are into them, man
bad news
Zachary Diaz
>Concert
>in current times
Where?
Blake Myers
You like her too much. Youve already lost the game. Take her off the pedestal. Shes just a girl. On a long enough time line youll enrich her life much more than her hole will enrich yours.
Ask her. If she says yea, cool. If not shes a dumb bitch unworthy of your time anyway. Then ask another girl in front of her.
Also, jerk off before you go so you dont get cumbrain and say or do something stupid.
Jose Adams
>you like her too much
I noticed this too. I can have normal conversations & friendships with girls, but the moment I get a slight crush on a girl I become a complete retard at social interaction
Logan Cruz
I've been working from home and haven't left my house for a month. Where the hell are they allowing concerts?
Jace Robinson
Technically it’s been postponed, but they are still sticking with having the concert as soon as legally possible. They’re even still selling tickets
Jace Young
DO NOT WANK BEFORE ASKING HER.
Michael Perry
the duality of man
Brody Green
LISTEN
DO NOT TELL HER YOU BOUGHT THE TICKET FOR HER, TELL HER YOU HAVE AN EXTRA TICKET AND WOULD LOVE IF SHE CAME.
Jaxon Thompson
Jesus man, just fucking as her and if she says no literally doesn’t matter and isn’t. A big deal. With women, it is 100% a numbers game the more opportunity you give yourself the better chance.
Benjamin Fisher
Why
Brayden Hernandez
well you're trying to figure out how to even ask her to the show but what the fuck are you going to do when she says yes and you're with her for a few hours???
Julian Green
I mean do you have a rapport with this bitch? If not, you can't really start one with 'I bought you a concert ticket!' especially with a co-worker this has trainwreck written all over it, so go for it OP, like you said this could be the biggest investment of your life, which should always be a woman.
Noah Wilson
Just tell her the band is playing a show and ask if she wants to go with you. Just don't fucking tell her that you bought two tickets for it already.
Isaiah Price
>girl at my work
You are already fucking this up, user.
Ethan Lewis
this, OP follow this mans advice and don't fucking do anything else. Ask her, if she says no say ok. If your lucky you can get her back to your place.
Nathaniel Sullivan
Cameron Edwards
>I want to ask a cute girl at my work to come to a concert with me.
During a world-wide pandemic when all concerts are cancelled. Sure, incel.
Kayden Howard
>the biggest investment of your life, which should always be a woman
Charles Morgan
Scramble, incel! Save your larp! Scramble, motherfucker!
Tyler Scott
Fake it til you make it bro
I’ve had a few small conversations with her but it’s pretty obvious she’s an introvert too & isn’t a very social person, so idk.
Hudson Kelly
Bad idea bro.
If you must ask her out, ask her for coffee or to go to lunch together on your break, something low stakes.
Asking her to go to a concert with you and paying for her ticket is going 0-100 too quickly. The fact that you paid for her ticket will make her feel beholden to you, which she won’t like. Women don’t ever want to feel like they owe you something.
If you really want her to go to the concert with you, and you refuse to ask her out in a more chill way first, just tell her that the band you both like is coming to town and you’d like to go see them with someone rather than alone, but don’t offer to pay for her.
Cameron Edwards
Nicholas Flores
I’m honestly just trying to start a normal relationship & see where it goes from there, so I will probably take the ‘invite her to the concert but casually’ route
Owen Ortiz
I think that picture just turned me gay
Isaiah Lewis
Time to go all in on chainlink
Austin Lewis
if you're asking on a finance she's going to say no sorry user
Zachary Brooks
Oh... ok..
Jaxon Hall
Just ask her, its better to do it by being shy then by being over confident douchbag, but you need to do a move