Question for the people successful with women (18-26 especially))

don't be a pajeet

Get a good haircut and practice good hygiene. All you gotta do is act natural. Ask someone out to drink coffee sometime. Even if they're ugly or fat, you're at least gaining experience, which help gains confidence. Also don't listen to most of the cucks here. They've probably never touched a girl before.

Shitskins fuck off

I've never touched a female my age, because I am ugly and all women avoid me.

Your bullshit redpill / bluepill advice doesn't help anyone. ONLY LOOKS MATTER.

I'm a nordcuck, and I consider everything south of Denmark brown eyed black haired neger wastesland.

Here's my two cents.
Aproach anxiety is as natural as it gets. Back in tribal times, men only had 1 choice usually. Mess that one up, you die a virgin.
Things changed, but out instincts barely.
Start by making small talk with girls. See how they react and learn from this experience.
You won't be a smooth talker at first, cause that takes practice.
God bless.

You gave great advice and I wouldn't know you speak english as a second language from the way you type fellow white fren.

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There is on/off.
Any girl ever liked you? Yes? They all like you.

No girl ever liked you? No? You are ugly, get into making train models.

Funnily enough that is precisely the description of anything north of germany

dont be clingy
dont be fat
dont be serious
literally make fun of her yourself and everything she says
its literally that ez

You need to be a happy and confident person who people want to be around. Practice making friends with guys first if you're scared of girls. That will improve your social skills. Looks matter but unless you're deformed people will look past them

Acquire confidence. Confidence is aquired by acomplishing something meaningful in your life.
They won't like you anyway because you're an ugly neet from Yas Forums.

>is on Yas Forums
>not blackpilled

shut your fucking mouth

Women are just really pretty children so treat her like a cute little 12 year old that you can fuck and you're golden
t. lost count of vagina I've slain

>just be confident, bro
>they won't like you anyway because you're UGLY

Looks are everything.

It just more sweaty confusion, luckiness jerk off in some ones body, if you have a lots of women you are not lucky .
Vehicle of happiness is to find the one faithful to you and have a family children in sweet wedlock.
The highest possible value in women is faithfulness.

>You guys are the smartest board
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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>it isn't.
Reddit alert. Go back

you save pictures of low test girls like that youre not going make it senpai. go get drunk and have sex with fat girls

I am blackpilled I was just being nice about it. If you're ugly and want girls you need to work harder, offer something the pretty boys can't

> low test girls

It's natural man. I'd say don't worry about it too much, but don't shy away from what you like. If you see an opportunity to make some small talk with a qt, take it. You'll learn as you go if you get out there and try.
I used to have the same problem when I was younger. Cute girls would make me short of breath and awkward.
The only advice I can really give you is to get out of your shell and keep giving it a shot. Try where you are usually to scared to.
I can't guarantee you it won't be a little awkward, but girls are nothing to fear user. They're just as weird and as dirty as men, if not much moreso in some regards.

If this makes any sense - don't make your mission getting a gf or friends, make your mission enjoying life and doing the things you want to do.

For all you know, the qt is too nervous to talk to you for reasons not all too different.

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Heheheheh

What do you mean? I have had a girl like me, but not an attractive one.

From personal experience, i have never had any success with consciously desiring a woman and then "win" her.
All my previous gfs, and one night stands, have all been unconscious desires, were we just hang out at a party or in a friend circle etc. But in hindsight it was obvious something was going on, it was just not apparent for me at that time that i wanted them.

So in short, try not to think about it, i don't think "formulated thoughts" is your friend. Don't know how you get to a state of indifference or avoid thinking in terms of potential sexual partners.

does 7th grade count?
;_;

Get to the point that you are too tired and frustrated by your life that you can't be bothered to give a shit about failure.

It also helps to interact with unattractive/old women in a business or hobby setting so that you can figure out how women think and how to tease them without the apparent risk of missing out on expectated sex if you say something stupid.

"I don't even care about rejection"

if you didn't nothing would stop u

ur ego doesn't let it get hurt, that's literally the reason, do things to be higher sexual market value and u will do better, also meditate to take back some control from your ego

you are welcome pajeet fren

About 2 years after my gf dumped me I just stopped giving a fuck about women. Started doing sports, got masters degree and a comfy job and suddenly women look like shallow copies of each other to me. Invest your time in yourself user, you are the only person who is guaranteed to stay with you for the rest of your life.

I'm not from India but I do hate the word pajeet. Anyways, so you think I'm lying to myself? You think it's basically my ego. That my ego is rooting me down? I never thought or even considered this possibility. I thought it was just some instinct from before, or that it was because it felt unnatural, but I think you're right. The reason it feels unnatural is that it feels fucking pathetic and beta to have to approach people and not have people approach you. Ideally, I want women to approach me, and the only way that is possible is to increase sexual market value to an extreme point. But until then, I'm guessing I have no choice but to let go of my ego, correct?

Also, why do you think it is just the ego holding me back and not anything else? Because the thing is I really don't care about rejection overall. Like I won't think about rejection after it happens. But in that moment, maybe I do?

is that guy ok?

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>How do I get rid of this?

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Based. Work on yourself and stop worrying about it.

If you really want pergyna, you have to cooming to horse porn, go out, get rejected and keep trying. The soulmate thing is bullshit, it’s a numbers game.

i used to feel like this until i went it did it, even if you get rejected you get over it.

just
be
yourself

Also, go to the robot board for this shit .R9K is in the other side of the pond.

women like guys who go for what they want
first you show off what a good life you have. this should be a mode of living though, you should genuinely enjoy yourself at all times, they can tell if you're faking.
then when you've gotten the slightest sign they like you, contrive to get them alone and kiss them. after the kiss they will get starry eyed and follow you (if they did like you)
if you wait too long to kiss them they will subject you to a confidence test at some point, if you pass that test they will give you a stronger sign they like you, move to kiss again.
if you fail the test it's over, move on.

DO NOT fall for pick up artistry and similar bullshit.
Your problem is a lack of self respect, combined with lack of experience communicating with women. Probably high standards, too.
>lack of self respect
Just make sure you're making bank, you have a side hustle, you're in shape and you have a creative hobby.
>lack of experience
Start attending some social activity, your pick. Then just talk to women who you don't necessarily want to bang.
>high standards
Stop fapping. Standards only come into play when you want to have kids. Until then, fuck fatties like a nigger if you have to. I had a low kill count before I found a good looking/smart mother for my children, but not everyone can get lucky.

Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Make sure you read from the first book (it is a trilogy.

>How do I get rid of this?
approach thousands of women and fuck a few dozens. it's the only way. you'll always be scared until you've encountered every possible situation, which happens after maybe 10000 approaches (for the initial approach) and about 50 relationships (for actually closing the deal)

Don't want to put in the work to do that? Then die a beta male.

Those girls from your “kill count” went on to be someone’s wife/cum dumpster. Don’t feed a broken system, faggot.

it feels unnatural and pathetic because you think that they are giving you a favor by responding to you

are you a good person? probably

realize that you are bringing value too, if you can't then there is no way that you will be able to act naturally

do you like dogs? nice you are kind to an animal that would risk its life for others, you don't take advantage of that, you can be sure that you bring value, so be proud of that

there is literally nothing else than fear of rejection holding you back, its all in your head, unless you are some fucking multibillionaire CEO and you can't waste 10 minutes of your life because some family will starve for not paying attention to your business

go to a girl, what can you lose?

time? no
money? no
ego destruction? yes (so destroy it yourself so you got nothing to lose)

read power of now by eckhart tolle

if you hate dogs kys btw

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that will be 700k linkies sergey

Best advice is to not give a fuck.

I know a genuine hob goblin who married a 9.8/10 who has rejected multiple chads. Just be yourself, don't take things too seriously and have fun.

Fuck off bluepilled cucks.

Learn about looksmaxing OP
Looks>everything
Deep down everyone knows it
Don't fall for the PUA scammers and other types of "redpillers"

>"muh confidence, muh cold approach, muh game"

JFL.

Same as how you get good at anything else.
But it's hard to just do that. Most people don't act on advice given to them by stranger especially if it means leaving comfort zone a thousand times over and even more if it means experiencing rejection which you will repeatedly. Also, when you are actually doing this you will have different mindset anyway, you will give a fuck less and be infinitely more relaxed without trying after a few times of it working out. Something about pussy it unironically is like women can smell it on you then women are nicer to you then you get small boost from that then you're more relaxed then women are nicer to you... probably because you are more relaxed and they know you are not desperate since you fuck other women. You could take advice and try it (doubt) or you could just fuck whore until you don't care anymore too but then you could fall into whore trap and keep taking path of least resistance instead of potentially facing rejection from real non-whore woman. So I say just go for it. Most ""normies"" struggle too and use beer as social lubricant anyway. Not sure your situation but it's easier to go from 1 girl to 10 than it is 0 to 1. Gl

I had low self esteem and only crazies went for me anyway.
One now moved to Berlin, became a lesbo with armpit hair, srs.
The other one found a beta cuck and lives in a village in France. He probably doesn't know she was into gangbangs.
I wouldn't have missed anything of value had I just remained a virgin until 23-24, (when I found the wife) but OP doesn't know that, he never will, and this would crush his self esteem for his other endeavors.

But it goes without saying that if a girl has some decently left in her, you SHOULD NOT ruin her. If you want to experience sex so you're not insecure about the topic anymore, go for some hopeless trash.

just be chad, nothing else matters except looks.

Not tall? Not at least 7/10 facially? Its over.

just b urself

be yourself

Special interest activities like school club type things, pottery, whatever you're into really will h\elp you break the ice.

I've been in a really nice relationhip for a little over a year now.

total bullshit. You're almost certainly about 6 feet tall and at least 7/10 facially.

you're insecure. find your confidence. start eating healthy and working out. it's that simple

Stupid ass. There are a million and one reasons you could fuck up or find success with any number of women, none of which have to do with appearance of looks.

This is Yas Forums ! -offer her money.end of story

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Also get therapy if you have clinical anxiety or legitimate depression.

>t. 17 years of lifting and dieting for the last 5 to look like a Greek god, but untreated depression and neuroses that make it hard to get off the couch some days, fantasizing about dying, not getting pussy.

Unless you are attractive by modern standards, you probably won't have much success. The more attractive you are, the more success you have. This isn't the days of rome where you marry girls at 15, these women have slept around with at least 2 guys before having met you.

looks are the most important thing. They can compensate for every other factor.

I hate introverts physically, I despise those kinds of people. I can hardly bear to talk to them. They have the Chaplin disease. That particular combination of arrogance and timidity sets my teeth on edge. They are arrogant. Like all people with timid personalities, their arrogance is unlimited. And that makes me almost nauseous with anger and disgust. Anybody who speaks quietly and shrivels up in company is unbelievably arrogant. He acts shy, but he’s not. He’s afraid. He hates himself, and he loves himself, a very tense situation. To me, it’s the most embarrassing thing in the world—a man who presents himself at his worst to get laughs, in order to free himself from his hang-ups.

Introverts are ridiculously arrogant. Their "humbleness" is arrogance. Their "shyness" is arrogance. They are as arrogant as anyone else. But you won't know that because they are afraid. They don't talk much not because they are shy or quiet, but because they are afraid. Afraid of being made fun of, afraid of being humiliated. Afraid of other people. This is where the arrogance, and the contradiction comes in. Introverts crave validation; they crave it more than any extrovert. They want to be praised, they want to be glorified. But the fear of humiliation prevents them from striving for it. It makes them paranoid. That fear drives them to hate everyone else, to antagonize everyone else, to sit in a corner and spit on everyone who passes by.

Now, what will our poor little introvert do now that he can't get his validation from other people? He will be put on a pedestal, by himself; he will rub the nose of others in the dirt, by himself, all in his own mind. This is why they are so passive aggressive: they don't need to bring you down physically, you are already humiliated in their own minds.

Too many gray areas in real life to qualify things like that. Yes, looking good always helps. And, for an outlier, sometimes you hate yourself so much that good looking women approach you and do all the leg work, going do far as to get visibly annoyed when you don’t reciprocate.

Go away normalnigger.

>then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.
If it's a boy, just be playful. Not too complicated.
You sound really spiteful, probably an asshole who is surprised that timid guys aren't faggots.

Cope

Pasta from some self help manual of a guy that wears eye liner.

basado

If looks are so important in your eyes, why don't you try to strive for perfection in your bodily aesthetic? Complaining leads no where and that kind of attitude is never going to attract a woman, even if you are 9/10.

>Cope
How's that extroversion doing for you?

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Nice trips, fag.