Since I broke up with my gf my life went to shit

>letting a woman deny you sex

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kek

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this

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How old are you, OP? I'm betting you're still quite young. Are the things in your life that are getting worse pertinent to your relationship or women in general? I'm betting not. You may be depressed because you're alone and it feels worse for that reason. What are your current issues? You can open up to me, user.

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I am not t-talking to a woman psychotherapist

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> I 'll assume she didn't go psycho after you broke up with her
She didn't and we don't have any contact. Which is funny because before break up she was pushing for us to move together (I didn't want), talking about marriage, how she loves me wants to be forever with me etc.

I think the same. In the beginning she never denied, cuz she knew I wasn't exclusive with her. After commitment she slowly but surely started changing, so I ended things.

It's actually true, but I feel really weird and it's uncommon for me

25, that was my first real relationship, 1 year together. Yes I think the biggest problem is I feel lonely, I work from home, live alone, sure I have few friends I go out etc, but I miss it when she was coming every other day cuddling/sleeping with me, we had connection etc. even if it sounds beta that is just how I feel right now

Unironically dodged a bulletproof, although it doesn’t feel like that now. Lift and contact your friends you haven’t hung out with as much since you got a roastie. godspeed

>I miss it when she was coming every other day cuddling/sleeping with me, we had connection etc
It's not beta to want those things. I would take what other anons are saying to heart and start lifting. Go monk mode. Focus on you and what your goals are. If you dont have any, than start to think about what you want out of your life. You'll find someone better fit for you. In the meantime just deal with the pain and emotions as they come up. Feel them, but dont be them. Don't let them consume you.

Todays culture doesn't value age or experience but I'll give it anyway, maybe the OP or someone will listen.

I'm old. I'm happily married with a good Christian woman..I look back on.my 20s and 30s and realized I wasted most of my time and energy worrying about my ex girlfriends who now are just some dumb old fucking idiots on FB I will never see or care about ever again. Before you actually get married woman are not to take up your energy. That's not to say dont get married young cause that can be good too. But casual gf which I assume the op is talking about...do not waste a single ounce of energy on. Work on your life, your career, your wealth, your interests and friends and family. Until you marry women are worthless.

Based and redpilled! Thanks user. I imagine having the experience of getting married and creating a family puts everything into perspective

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She has hexed you. Research protection spells

You're depressed because you were an asshole who prematurely broke up with her. She probably had a valid reason for not wanting to fuck as often as you wanted , or her libido was just low. Either way, it's a stupid fucking reason to break up that should have been resolved. You are just now reaping the infected oats you sowed with your poor life decisions. This is what the ramifications of bad judgment feel like.

Money is the root of all evil, OP. I will take the burden off your shoulders if you want.

At which point it's premature if I tried everything I can think of. It was very slowly but surely going downhill. Also it of course wasn't the only reason for a break up, although a big one

What?

I go to gym but very irregularly. Packed my bag and leaving as I'm typing this. Thanks user, I need to get my shit together, will check this thread again when Im back, I always feel better when I train

> Focus on you and what your goals are. If you dont have any, than start to think about what you want out of your life

I actually feel like I'm thinking too much about this. And it's overwhelming for me that I have no bigger goal, or whatever I can think of seems pointless in a bigger picture

I appreciate oldfag knowledge. What do you think makes a good woman these days? I've been with my girl for two years, shes 7 years younger than me. We live together now and are pretty serious about having a future together. Sometimes I worry that modernity will get the best of her. Redpilling her is probably not likely although she knows a bit of my power level/views and realizes I am not about to raise kids through the scope of clown world. Any relationship advice for a 30 year old boomer?

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Pour everything into self-improvement. Learn to genuinely love yourself. Remember, you are connected to those around you so you doing well is good for everyone. See how high you can go. You’re not pinned down anymore so what the hell, right? Might as well go for it.

As someone that's been depressed for about 20 years now I just want to say welcome to the club, faggot.

I wouldn’t be depressed if I were you, from what I’m reading you did the right thing. Do you know how many guys will just put up with a bitch like that for months/years of sexual deprivation? Or wait until their gf has had enough of their pathetic demeanor and cuts them loose after god knows how long.
You basically walked up in there and said, “I want more sex, if we’re not having it then I’m out” and you did just that. Life sucks now but it would be a living hell if you stayed in that relationship.
You don’t get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate. Never settle for less.

you're pathetic

I actually asked myself - am I willing to be sexually frustrated like that for the rest of my life? And answer was obviously no

> Life sucks now but it would be a living hell if you stayed in that relationship.

Thanks, I need to remind myself that

>It's been 2 months

That is absolutely nothing dude

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Seems than when you broke up you realize there were more important things than sex in a relationship. Listen OP when a woman start to have low libido usually means there are problems that range from merely hormonal, anxiety, cheating, to even pregnancy. My advice is that next time you have a relationship you tell her to see a doctor / psychologist etc. Or else you end up in this exact same situating all over again

>At which point it's premature
Clearly your body reaction think it was premature, if you start to get into real depression you will understand how our own mind just like to fuck with us and our lives sometimes, mind can be an asshole

>Lost motivation, happiness, money. Nothing excites me anymore. Feel like life is pointless. My libido went from very high to absolute shit.
>Part of the reason we broke up is she started denying sex more and more, my libido was very high.
Such is the life of a monogamist.

>even if it sounds beta
the biggest lie Yas Forums will tell you is that being in a loving relationship with a woman is beta

At some point you are going to slow down and lose your sex drive without medication. You should have just bought her flowers and wrote I want to fuck more and explained yourself. If she wasnt that bad, was "in love" with you, but wasnt giving up the pussy enough.. figuring out how to get her horny should have been your route. Chances arent good that you will find another good girl that loves you. Every one of them you shit on, lowers your chances of having someone like that in the future. Might sound stupid now, but wait until it's been 4 years being single and you start getting close to 30 and wondering if you ever will find someone who will love you.

Yeah thats a shitty reason to break up wth someone,shoulda talked about it and told her how important it is to a healthy relationship

Dodged a bulletproof..what does that even mean?

I hope I won't get into real depression, next thing is I'm getting flu left and right when before I never caught anything and was healthy, clearly my body feels bad

I tried talking to her about it A LOT, we did other things apart from normal penetration. But there is so much you can do when she is completely fine with sex once a week and I want everyday. Either she is forcing herself or I'm frustrated and have negative associations with her. What will happen after we move in together? When we get married? Have kids? I would probably end up in almost sexless marriage, I have yet to hear about guy who said his sexlife improved after living together/marriage/kids. I found out later that her mom for most of the time doesnt even sleep in same bed as her father, so maybe I would end up the same.

phone autocorrected bullet to bulletproof or I accidentally hit something wrong lel

If you tried to talk to her about it and it didnt work, not much else you could do.

I truly know that feel, brah. I broke up with my oneitis ex girlfriend almost 13 months ago now because she annoyed the ever living fuck out of me, and I regret it every single day. Yeah, afterward I was able to sleep around using dating apps and whatnot, but fucking tinderthots isn't the same as passionate love with a woman you love. The worst part is, my ex was wealthy as fuck and went on to medical school. I could've been set for life, but I ended it to chase other women. In a word, you're probably going to regret that decision for the rest of your life, faggot.

>I 'll assume she didn't go psycho after you broke up with her (which a madly in love girl would definitely do)

Can you expound on this, bro?

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all women are whores

stfu cuck, be a man, you sound lika a cuck

How old are you? Yeah I can get some tinder thots but for now don't even have motivation to do that and I'm sure it would feel so empty. At least my ex wasn't wealthy at all, quite the opposite and I am

I'm 25 years old, bro. If I could go back, I would try to work out the relationship, even if it ended up becoming a long distance one when she left for med school. But I suppose the only way to learn is through mistakes. It's too bad, though. My ex was very intelligent and had a low body count, which is unlike the vast majority of whores in my fucking city. But I digress. Anyhow, as some of the other fags in the this thread have already said, the best way to get over a breakup is to allow for time to heal and to just work on improving yourself.

At least you fags had a gf , imagine being decent looking and coming off semi normal to people but not being able to flirt comfortably or keep a conversation going. So just drifting through life missing every opportunity that presents itself, that is me....
Do you guys just walk up to girls you don't know and talk to them then try to take them out? I almost feel like i'm being a nuisance if i try to talk to girls i don't know because i know there is a thousand other faggots chasing them down every time they step out.

So we are same age bro. I hope I won't get oneitis as you and will be able to move on. Did your ex try to get back with you? Are you friends or sth? A week ago I asked her casually if she wants to meet and talk, she declined and said she doesn't want any contact with me. So I'm not bothering her and other than that we have no contact whatsoever. She probably hates me right now

I was the same, then I travelled solo for a month. It changed my life, because I was forced to talk to everybody, living in hostels etc. Next year I did the same. Since that time I gained ton of confidence in normal daily interactions. I actually plan on doing sth similar this year since I'm single again

She probably hates me right now

Yeah, she probably hates you. Throughout my entire relationship I hid the fact that I voted for Trump, because she was raging libtard. So after I broke up with her I finally told her my true political views. Needless to say, she was fucking livid. I tried reaching out to her post break up, but she called me a "coward, in every sense of the word." Dating her kind of ruined dating for me in general, as I dated my oneits and probably will never do better than her again. Feels bad, mane.

women are demons, curse them

call her and tell her that she is a whore and ruined your life. then tell her you will kill yourself. then actually kill yourself. She will admire you for delivering and not being a faggot OP

quit larping jimmy

>implying

Nice cope, fag. Not all of us can be basement dwelling NEETards.

fucking kill her already , you will feel better. make her beg for her life and then laugh at her , rape her asshole and then choke her to death while you see the life fade from her eyes

The bitch in medical school would have ended up cheating on you with some doctors and other strange old men, don't kid yourself.

You're only supposed to poast this gay shit when the market closes OP

>every other day cuddling/sleeping with me
>every other day
>cuddling
first off, cuddling is pussy shit
second, why only every other day? how low is your testosterone that you can handle that?
be glad she aint with you, shes probably with a better man now

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Yeah, probably. I factored that in when I decided to break up with her. She didn't take my breaking up with her well. All this time has passed, yet I can't help but regret my decision. I just want the pain to go away... She's probably already moved on, anyway.

faggot
That's kinda fucked up bro, why do you think you will never do better than her. We have at least 10 years of our prime left. Although I miss my ex, I don't have this mindset that I will never find someone else.

Stupid. I almost killed myself for some cunt that I thought was the best this world had to offer about 4 years ago. I thought of her today, how she wasn't ever worth the pain and emotional suffering, and how I would grin if I happened to see her gravestone. Sage for not biz related.

it's okay romano, it's okay.