Who was in the wrong here?

who was in the wrong here?

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she cute

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JGL

Tom.
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Both of them.

Summer was clear about not wanting a serious relationship from the start. Tom was projecting his own hang-ups about love and desire for a relationship onto a girl who clearly wasn't having any of it.

After a certain point though, she has to have seen that he was head-over-heels for her and should have backed off. Instead she kept pursuing him for a while. It was especially bad to briefly rekindle with him at the wedding.

Summer was vocal about not wanting a relationship but still strung Tom along, knowing full well that's what he wanted.

Summer was clearly and inironically in the right the entire time.

>It was especially bad to briefly rekindle with him at the wedding.

the expectation/reality scene hits too close to home. when i go out for social stuff now and i don't end up with a girl, i always wonder if i didnt have a chance from the beginning or if i said/did something.

Only reason people say Tom was wrong is because they’ve accepted roastie behavior. Summer was flippant and promiscuous, Tom really liked her and wanted to have a normal romantic relationship.

>Only reason people say Tom was wrong is because they’ve accepted roastie behavior. Summer was flippant and promiscuous, Tom really liked her and wanted to have a normal romantic relationship.

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Because you've never wanted to just pump'n'dump a girl?

good post
its a shame Justin Glove-Levitt keeps going on twitter to talk about how shit Tom is. we get it, youre woke. he thinks his own movie is so 1 dimensional

Good bait

Bros, why are women so emotionally complex in the head? I can shoot the shit and crack jokes with my male friends all I want, and we all know it's just in good fun.

But when I talk to my gf, she will be genuinely mean and dismissive of me, and I just brush it off because it doesn't really bother me. But if I ever try to make a joke to her, y'know, light playful banter, she takes it 100% serious and gets really withdrawn and upset with me, making me feel like shit. She tells me I need to pick my words more carefully. But I've literally never had to do that when speaking with any other human being ever. I love her to death, but she makes me feel like I'm this horrible person sometimes.

cucks

i went through that for 3 and a half years. This is how women are. Always remember that they are like children, and you kind of have to half treat them like children. Just do whats right by you, but at the same time dont shut her out emotionally and always be the person she can trust and rely on. If you can be that then things will be fine. Never go down to her level and always be you.

the simp, always

They just did classical mistakes: she didn't care at all and he cared too much.

women should be property

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I'm guessing that after 3.5 years it didn't work out?

She's gotten really into Jordan Peterson this year and whenever I try to talk with her about these issues, she just makes me watch another video of his about the brain differences between men and women. I guess I was just brought up to think that men and women are equal, their brains work the same, and that I shouldn't have to change my entire demeanor and personality for her.

how did my post let you know? i spent so much time keeping it secret, and you fucking caught me. i need to know how

it didnt work out because i called it quits. But we are in the process of trying to work it out. I had a few months to come to grips with a lot of things about myself doing a hardcore introspection. reflecting on the things i did wrong. Now she is doing the same but we are not back together.

It can get hard but dont ever forget this dude... you are a man, she is a woman. They are not equal at all and they never will be. Women are emotional beings while men are logical. Thats not to say one or the other can be an exception, but they are not the rule. Never lose sight that you are a man who lets nothing stand in his way and goes for what he wants, also never lose sight that she is a woman who does need protecting. Maybe not from knife wielders or some attacker, but mostly from themselves and their feelings and emotions. Jordan Peterson is pretty logical, I like his stuff. It could be worse, she could be listening to some liberal SJW filling her head with shit that is completely wrong.

Be a strong guy, again, dont go to her level. Bring her up to yours and be her Rock.

Thanks user. She's definitely a keeper. My favorite version of myself is the one that comes out when we're together, and I'm willing to work so hard to make sure things work out between us. And yeah, lol, she seems to like a lot of Yas Forums and "redpilled" type things without ever actually coming here. And you and her are probably right: there are fundamental differences between men and women that I need to be aware of if I'm to have a successful relationship with her.

Best of luck to you and your girl. We're all gonna make it.

we're all gonna make it, brother

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The fucking whore as always

why did people find JGL ever attractive? he looks like a dickhead

Joseph Gordon-Levitt is relentlessly handsome.

Tom was naive and expected her to be something she wasn't. He needed to date her to realize that this girl he had put in a pedestal was just another defective human and love is not like a fairy tale. It was an experience meant to make him mature, hence the whole concept of summer love or young love. He was not horrible, but neither was she, they wefe just not meant to be together.

Nobody likes The Smiths.

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Plenty of gay boys on this site do unfortunately

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